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ferhyntorlah:
✓ I find you and everything about you ODD!
EOD!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 What?? Are you disappointed that I am not programmed like you would instead expect? 😂😂😂😂😂

WantsandMore:
ok. Now run along.

Let's all be for dispelling myths than propagating them abeg! This is 2025.

ferhyntorlah:
✓ I find this explanation odd.

Odd because?

WantsandMore:
ok

Let's use opportunities such as this to educate ourselves on the facts as opposed to the meaningless fables that only make things worse for those suffering and confused about their suffering abeg! We are in 2025 and have enough information at our disposal to be able to load ourselves up with only that which is of value as opposed to all the yeye claims of our ignorant folks from back in that country abeg!

WantsandMore:
Fatigue is a question of diet, unhealthy gut and a poor lifestyle choices perhaps in the past or present. My recommendation is that you start internmitent fasting 18/6, prioritize 40% carbs 60% protein in your diets and for Gods sake ditch processed foods and carbo drinks do very little sugar. Be patient as you go through this transformation. Godspeed

Please stop telling this lie to people! I know for a fact that illnesses such as Chronic fatigue syndrome(CFS) have absolutely nothing to do with your diet. And fasting — whether intermittent or not — will not help everyone with this problem. So, please stop telling people these tales by moonlight.

Eating healthy is always not a bad idea but it comes with no guarantees; that much has been more than scientifically proven at this point in time.

DaddyCoool:
➜So you prove Kiyosaki right. Everything you listed is transmissible from parent to child even if not purely genetically.
➜Hence, for our purposes on this thread, if u marry into a rich family you increase chances of your kids being rich!
➜ Also in the Bible, each of the twelve tribes acquired traits of their founder. Example, Judah was about money - and it turned out, so was his tribe!

1. Nothing of what I wrote is transmissible via genetics as it all instead points clearly to the environment.

2. What you described is purely environmental.

3. There is no truth to that claim. Jesus Christ of Israel was born of the tribe of Judah. Was He equally all about money?🙄🙄🙄🙄

DaddyCoool:
➜Here's what I wrote earlier:
if you consider that IQ or how one thinks is highly inheritable (see below), and consider that genetics and habits are inextricably linked, you'd have to conclude that genetics play a major role in poverty transmission.
➜ Other things that can be "genetically" transmitted include limited access to education due to family poverty, lack of "social capital", potential genetic predispositions to health issues including mental health issues, lack of financial literacy and career guidance within the family unit, and the cycle of low expectations and limited opportunities passed down through generations.
➜Also, inadequate nutrition in childhood and early life stress associated with poverty, can impact cognitive development and therefore future economic opportunities!

The phrase "highly genetic" does not imply 100% genetic though. A portion of intelligence is still admittedly learned/environment.

Intelligence is challenging to study, in part because it can be defined and measured in different ways. Most definitions of intelligence include the ability to learn from experiences and adapt to changing environments. Elements of intelligence include the ability to reason, plan, solve problems, think abstractly, and understand complex ideas. Many studies rely on a measure of intelligence called the intelligence quotient (IQ).

Researchers have conducted many studies to look for genes that influence intelligence. Since it is difficult to separate the genetic and environmental influences of a trait like intelligence, these studies can be complicated. Many of these studies have focused on similarities and differences in IQ within families, particularly looking at adopted children and twins. Other studies have examined variations across the entire genomes of many people (an approach called genome-wide association studies or GWAS) to determine whether any specific areas of the genome are associated with IQ. Studies have shown that intelligence has a genetic component, but they have not conclusively identified any single genes that have major roles in differences in intelligence. It is likely that intelligence involves many genes that each make only a small contribution to a person’s intelligence. Other areas that contribute to intelligence, such as memory and verbal ability, involve additional genetic factors. The genetic influences on intelligence is an ongoing area of research.

Intelligence is also strongly influenced by the environment. During a child's development, factors that contribute to intelligence include their home environment and parenting, education and availability of learning resources, and healthcare and nutrition. A person’s environment and genes influence each other, and it can be challenging to tease apart the effects of the environment from those of genetics. For example, if a person's level of intelligence is similar to that of their parents, is that similarity due to genetic factors passed down from parent to child, to shared environmental factors, or (most likely) to a combination of both? It is clear that both environmental and genetic factors play a part in determining intelligence. https://medlineplus.gov/genetics/understanding/traits/intelligence/

2. I don't see the how of this abeg!

3. Well, this is environmental and not genetic!

Religion is most definitely a f-king useless bitch! 😩😩😩😩😩😩

Daniel7543:
Wat is the meaning of love? Make person explain am give me Abeg.

That is a very good question!

Wizzy13:
I have been hearing of love at first sight but i have no experience of it. share your experience if you have ever encountered it and if it do ends well.

How can it be considered real when it is fueled by hormones and chemicals slushing around in your brain?

How many times will this same thing happen?

Mcslize:
➜Saying Amen means you have said yes to it. Even if you don't say amen to it, if one wants to cause you evil, it's gonna be a walk over cuz you have nothing backing you. Not even the spirit of your father. You don't even believe in God Yaweh. Thus, you are walk over empty baboon. I can bless you with my mouth and I can also curse you and it will happen. It shock you! It's natural. Thank God that I don't curse people. It's a gift. I only stand for good. Run to God now and be saved. You might not be that lucky when you jam the wicked ones.

Religion has really messed up the wiring of your brain. Imagine a human being continuously churning out bullsheet, page after page. No be brain damage dem they call this? 🙄🙄🙄

Mcslize:
➜Yes of course. But you can use your own foólishness to hasten yours to come fast, do you know that?
➜So, I want to help you to hasten it. So that the numbers of days you are supposed to live will reduce and you will see your Waterloo on time. How about that?
➜I want to ask you, will you like to die young? If you can say yes to this, then we can proceed. I don't want us to wait further. Let's prove your foolishness to the world.

If everyone's days are numbered and there are no dates set for anyone meaning anyone can die at any time, don't you think that concluding it is possible to hasten one's demise can only amount to a foolish delusion?

2. Religion is nothing but a scam and you are proof of that fact!

3. So, all the 10s of millions who died young last year did so because they all cursed your god? Odeku! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Mcslize:
➜I said your days are number. Say amen to it if you get mind.

So, if I don't say Amen, I won't die? You are clearly an eejit! 😏

Mcslize:
➜I said your days are number. Claim it na.
➜You no even get mind. You dey fear to die? You no wan die
➜but you dey doubt spirituality. What a foolish man!

The days of every living being are numbered so you are not making any particular sense telling me that.

2. I don't fear that which is guaranteed from the day I was conceived.

3. I don't buy into your spirituality because it is bullsheet and just that.

Mcslize:
➜Wake up from your spiritual foólishness. If you don't change your ways, you might not live long from the outlooks of things. I am telling you now. I no put water for mouth talk am. Only God Almighty can save you if you run to him. Don't end up dieing young cus of your spiritual foolishness. Embrace HIM now that you still have the time. He is ready to receive and protect you from all evils. If not, you will be a walk over for the evil ones. Cuz after all, nothing dey your head. Just an empty mortal man who is banking on his man made wokeness.

Again, stop spewing religious gobbledegook aka foolish retarded nonsense at me thinking you are saying something meaningful. That delusion you are stewing in is not shared by me at all.

Fireoflife:
just by asking this question. You've shown that you don't love yourself. How can you love others when you don't even love yourself?

This amount to gobbledegook abeg! 😑😑😑

Mcslize:
➜Your days are number foolish man. Say no more. Your battery is already running low.
➜Run to God Almighty whose name is Yaweh and be saved.

Eejit! Your own days are equally numbered since Death is guaranteed to all who live, even plants and animals.

2. See this moronicus claiming the name of a God who made clear that He is God only of Israel. Your particular issue is beyond help. Imagine this tweedle dee proclaiming that he has hold of a God who literally swore that His only people are those of the bloodline of Jacob. Nonsense!

Mcslize:
➜You bloody mortal man! Your days are number. Keep doubting the Almighty God. Every other gods bow to his power. If you get mind, challenge his power. Place curses on his name and watch. A stubborn fly follow the corpse to the grave. Even as I am here, I won't be that foolish to doubt the existence of the Almighty God let alone challenge him.
➜But I want you to use your man made foólishness to try and curse God first. Just experiment it, sit and watch. If you can boldly do it with your full chest and live pass this year, I will stop believing in God Almighty whom every other powers bow to. The things of the spirits truly look foolish to the foolish ones. And .... is not excluded.

1. As expected, more religious gobbledegook! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Use your brain! If the only time or way to get your deity to act is to curse at him while he hides behind Death— a sort of deity that guarantees all beings an encounter at some undetermined time—, doesn't that tell you how very useless your god is to yu and all? Think! think!! Think!!! 😐😐😐😐

Mcslize:
➜I will still say it again, you are spiritually foolish and blind. Don't use your man made believe to talk down on the spiritual aspect of life. I just gave you a simple assignment. Go outside in the mid night and place curses on the name of the Almighty God that I know, if you live pass this year and celebrate 2026 new year, I will stop believing in God.
➜I just want you to boldly challenge God if your life don't become mistrable overnight, then change my name.

See how you are still unable to correctly identify this Almighty of yours. Zeus is considered Almighty by the Greeks.

2. So, the power— if we can even call it that— of your particular deity is that only if he/she/it is cursed is he able to do something, is that what you are insinuating by all of this? Isn't that the most pathetic excuse of a deity that is?

Emmanuel900:
➜She will try to isolate and ostracize you from your friends and family so that she can easily be able to manipulate and control you without any hindrances, once she succeed she will then come for your jugular.It is their type that will just hate your friends and family for no reasons, but it is not like there's no reason, the reason is because she won't be able to manipulate and control you as long as they are still heavily involve in your life, so her number one mission will be to desperately try to ostracize and isolate you from them so that you can become an easy prey.

I always never understand why you lot think that by complaining of these women, you somehow absolve yourselves of responsibility.

ebubeson:
➜Have you given your life to Jesus Christ. Please do that tonight. Tell Jesus Christ to forgive all your sins. Jesus Christ is the only Lord.

You mean the Jesus Christ of your Daddy GOs aka scammers-in-the-lords? No thanks! I have seen what that delusion has wrought on an entire nation like Nigeria.

Mcslize:
➜Shut up and learn dummy. How stupid can a mortal man like you be?
➜I want to give you a simple assignment. If it sure for you, come outside in the night and curse God, if you pass this year come back and quote this post. . Do it if it sure for you. If you can boldly curse God and you still leave pass this year, then I will raise hands for you. I want to tell you that there is power that your little mind and disbelief.

Learn from someone who spews only religious gobbledegook? No be brain damage be that?

2. Stop wriggling like a worm abeg! Which of the 4000 different noted deities are you on about? Zeus? Ogun? Ifa? Sango? Amadioha? Obatala?... which one?

ebubeson:
Marriage is a beautiful thing designed by God to make you fulfilled, happy etc, but humans have messed it up.
Marriage should enhance someone's life, but if you check, you may notice that some people's life went down or started going down after they married.
If a lady has been sleeping with a diabolic yahoo boy or ritualist, do you think marrying such ladies will open doors for you? It may close the open doors you probably had before marriage. Or if you marry a man whose destiny has been badly affected based on his bad lifestyle, it may affect you. Other factors may cause this too which a partner may not be the direct cause.
It is not a good thing to be a shadow of yourself in marriage, while you were elegant, vibrant, successful etc in your singlehood

Immediately make an appointment with a professional mental health therapist as soon as you can and get your head checked. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

If after these many years on Nairaland, this gobbledegook is what your head remains filled with, then you need some serious help fast!

Mcslize:
➜Brother you're too empty. Pray that you don't jam evil people. Na once they will use you count score. There is still a tiny grace you are having right now. It might not last that long due to your spiritual foólishness. Do you know why I said you are empty, because you are spiritually naive. And when you are spiritually naive, you are nothing but a fly for the strong ones.
➜Nothing will save you if your time comes cuz
➜you don't even believe in God whose grace still remains your saving power at this moment. But don't say I didn't warn you. Run to God now and believe in his power if not, they will use you count score when luck runout of you and no one will save you cuz you don't believe even in the power of God. I am so sorry for you.

1. First off, I am not your brother. Second, you do realize that all of this amounts to religious gobbledegook to me, right?

2. Save me from what? Religious gobbledegook?

3. Which God? There are over 4000 documented deities out there. Which one of them am I being saved from or saved by in this case?

Also, don't think too much about how or when to make the changes. Merely begin each by adopting the Nike logo, JUST DO IT!

missjekyll:
➜Listen to .... You may need to switch antidepressants before you find one that suits you.
➜Look up when you become eligible for FMLA and book a flight back home for the day after. It ll give you something to look forward to.
You are right in the middle of existential crisis,it seems. Journalling and Therapy can help too. Try 1 hour everyweek to do something for people you do not know. Volunteer in your city. Keep us posted ,you hear?
NB: don't mind that francha whatever,he has no clue.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Existential_crisis

OP, the point in bold is very very important. There are so many antidepressants and many of them may not be of best fit for you. You need to work together with your psychiatrist to find the best antidepressant cocktail for you. When I was on antidepressants myself, I had to go through several psychiatrists to find one that would work for me. After that, we then worked through different antidepressant combinations to find the best coupling and dosage for me. It took me years but it was one of the best decisions I made for my life given that I had struggled with major depression since I was about 3.5 years of age — I recall a traumatic event from as far back as that in my life. I vividly remember that emotion too.

2. OP, this is important too. Also, consider seriously adding exercise to your routine no matter how small please. Even if it is a short walk down the street with your wife— or without her is OK too— every other day/night, or a hike up a trail or ride on a bicycle on the weekends... do something different from what you have become used to doing.

Reconnect with your old friends if you are really that friend-starved but I would rather recommend you go hang out with strangers instead. Volunteer at the local foodbank for example. (Yes, they are typically held in churches but volunteering there wouldn't make you one of them.) Find new people and listen to them talk about their lives and interests. I myself joined a local cycling club back when I was struggling and I would just sit around and listen to people while waiting for the race to start. It helped me broaden my horizons and my views about myself and my life as well. (Improving upon your social and emotional intelligence is a good way to gain back control over your mind from that thing called depression.)

Work towards opening up your mind and letting go of old biases that have kept you closed to the point of thinking home is in Nigeria and not where you are right now. That mindset is NOT a good/healthy one at all given, again, even Nigerians equally claim that home is meant to be where the heart is which is essentially right wherever you find yourself. Think a bit about it. If you had a child, are you going to tell that child that where you live right now is not home and that home is 1000s of miles away? What kind of depressing existence would that not be?

Mcslize:
➜Which lie? Most of you that doubt spirituality are just walking empty corpses.
➜You sleep and wake up every day and you think it's because you are human being that's why you wake up.
➜I see some of you and shake my head. No wonder most of you look empty in the spirit. Empty bucket.

1. Do you mean your millions of religious zombies —spiritually-deluded beings most of them —who fill up churches, mosques, and even shrines across all of Nigeria are not confirmed corpses by the state of the nation? 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

2. Human beings aren't the only ones who wake up every day though. Animals—insects, worms, tadpoles, etc.— also do. 😂😂😂

3. As far as emptiness, it is more than proven that no one can take that from those of you who claim to be spiritual beings though. I mean look at Nigeria alone for all the proof you require.

Mom007:
Your question should be, is poverty generational? And the answer to that is yes, except God intervenes.

Can we please stop telling this lie? Only opportunity coupled with the making of good consecutive decisions can help a person formally living in poverty to escape it.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
➜ my dear it is because of this kind thinking that we embrace hopelessly excruciating wretched extreme poverty in Nigeria
➜Note mind you there are different levels of poverty. there are some countries where affordability of 3 quality square meals a day, shelter, clothing conveniently and comfortably is the basic, a commonplace and one can still be regarded as poor, what do you say about these? but here federal civil servants (level 8, 9. 10) are struggling to feed

Thank you for trying to lecture that poster. Imagine someone still insisting that because poverty exists elsewhere therefore it becomes OK. No be brain damage be that?

2. Just imagine the daftness of insinuating that poverty in Nigeria is the same as poverty in places like America.

DaddyCoool:
Is Poverty Genetic?
In this short video Robert Kiyosaki, best-selling author of "Rich Dad, Poor Dad", says poverty is genetic, that it's passed on from parents to children. He said, quote, "It is passed on genetically". Do you agree? Would you marry someone from a generationally poor family?

Poverty is instead learned behavior!

Fireoflife:
lol. I'm the God of yoruba people. Go and ask their priests to tell you what's up

The God of the Yoruba loves non-Yorubas too. Why then does he go by the name God of the Yorubas? 😶😶😶