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24hrPrayer:
✓ A Nigerian Teacher cry out on social media saying
Teacher suffer alot in this country amid economy depression and high cost of living, yet salaries remain the same.
Netizens resonate with the user that some of them too pass through such hardship.
Govt should look into private school teacher’s renumeration and try to improve it.

Sadly, this is the Nigeria you all fought to keep ---- or didn't even bother at all. And so you would need to live with.

Born20win:
➜ Where the problem now started their mother will come at my house anyhow without announcing and she will say she come to meet her girls. I wasn't happy for her to be coming to my house to see her girls although I can never stopped her from seeing her girls but coming to my house was a no. I told my hubby anytime she want to meet her kids he should dropped them at his elder brother house so they can meet over there but she still coming to my house to meet her girl and when I had enough I told my hubby to return the girls back to her but she refused. Me and him started having issue because of his baby mama if she come to my house she will enter my parlour sitting relaxing and I had enough the was a time I had to dragged her and ask her to leave , she slapped me and I slapped her back and thrown her and her girls out of the house. That evening when my hubby returned we had a heated argument which led to him beating me again for the second time since we got married. I left the house and I went to stay with my sister for 3 good months i found out I was pregnant but I refused to tell him and I kept as a secret to him, he never bothered to call. I never called him too meanwhile I was away he was back with his baby mama. To cut the long story short last year I was blessed with a bouncing baby boy after 11 years of waiting to conceive again , my hubby and I got back together before I put to bed and I just discovered that her baby mama third child who is actually a girl belong to him so the reason why he was keeping quiet when his baby maman use to walked into my house anytime she feels like it was because he impregnated her hoping that she would give birth to a boy but god confused her she gave birth to another girl and I gave birth to my boy. This secret is very hard for me to swallow I really hate my hubby for impregnated her once again knowing fully well she was messing around with other men when she had the wins. My heart is really shattered and going back to her he had put our lives in risk of catching diseases. He is begging me but I am finding it very hard to forgive him I don't know what to do please help?

You knew your husband was cheating on you yet you continued to have unprotected sex with him all that while and now have had a baby after it all. So, why the sudden concern about the risk of sexually transmitted diseases and whatnot? 😐😐😐😐

Na the children caught in the middle of all this disgusting foolishness I pity. Apart from them, it seems to be that you all— the adults — deserve each other.

goodman41:
➜Just coming back from women afair my wife also came.
I told them all that happened how they fought me and broke my hand. One women their told my wife that from the way she is talking she is the cause of our marital problem, that she is not even supposed to be in marriage that she is not matured to be into marriage.
They told us to go and reconcile and come back after three weeks. That we don't even have any problem.

Women's Affair does not decide whether a man and woman should stay married or not. The following is the vision and mission statement from the Women's Affairs web front.

VISION
“To help build a Nigerian Society that guarantees equal access to social, economic and wealth creation opportunities to all, irrespective of gender, places premium on protection of the child, the aged and persons with disabilities; focuses attention of key operators in both private and public sectors on mainstreaming the concerns of these groups of people in national development process”.
MISSION
“To serve as the national vehicle to bring about speedy and healthy development of Nigerian Women, Children, the socially disadvantaged and physically challenged, and the main-streaming of their rights and privileges in national development process”. https://womenaffairs.gov.ng/index.php/about-us/about-us

Those people you met at the office and whose comments you quoted are not marriage judges; their opinions hold no meaning where marriage is concerned. If it had been here, the woman who made that statement would have lost her job immediately for taking it upon herself to speak where she has no legal authority to.

The decision as to whether a man and woman should stay together or not is between the man and woman in the marriage. Get this into your head, please. Your marriage seems to be at an impasse and so it is left to the both of you to seek professional marriage counseling to decide once and for all which way forward. I will recommend you not consider what outsiders think as you are the ones in the marriage and so you both know best whether you are able to continue tolerating each other or not.

LoneSoldier:
➜I don't seem to understand how people get to worship and revere a God that doesn't love his creation, you serve and pay allegiance to a wicked God who you ignorantly think is loving...?
➜How do you leave with this kind of pretence, it's an irony to be sincere, let's take this country called Nigeria as an example, The most religious in the world and also the most poor and most corrupted country in the world with failed economy and bad leaders but the God you ignorantly pray to everyday is busy watching how men and women in the country die of starvation and poverty even you so called christians die in persistent sicknesses but you tame it as "He has gone to be with the lord in his heavenly bossom" and "He has made heaven finally" like what da hell, Your God that doesn't care one bit about your fûcking existence, is the same person you are glorifying for leaving you to die tragedily, is really a shame that your God is just a joke....!
➜The other less religious countries in the world are all developed, less crimes and corruption and good leaders, these countries knows that God is a big joke.... They know that he can't help them, so they work on themselves to ease a little bit of the suffering your so called loving God has placed on them, imagine a God that started a punishment on innocent humans, as if that is not enough also created hell for innocent humans to burn and rot in there for eternity....
➜ A loving God indeed Today is Sunday, everybody is in church praising and worshipping a murderer all in the name of serving God, and will also be given shit as a message of how God is good and that mentality goes into there brain day in, day out.... Preached by business men and women in the name of (prophet, prophetess, pastor, bishop, apostle) of God..... Is really a pity that so many people fall for this asshole called a God and his miscreants....!

⇢😣I am trying to imagine these accusations leveled against a potter who has to smash many of his less perfect work as it pleases him all in his bid to arrive and settle for nothing else but perfection. Na murderer im be?
⇢ So, the clay accuses the potter of murder when the potter decides it needs to be "killed off"? I mean the book does state that man was made from clay. 😣
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⇢😣 Religion and those who spew the same tripe give me a headache.

AbuTwins:
God willed him to perish! That's his destiny!

Destiny/Fate is an idea that is wholly of the religious scope and not of Israelite Scripture.

Augustine2244:
➜Lol! Your animal nature is making you drool,bark and foam at the mouth. Please let me call the anti rabies vaccination officers for you, before you start biting people and transmitting the virus. Frustrated rabid Rottweiler.

This, from the same ninny who was only moments ago foaming at the mount of how sex alone, an act that even worms and frogs engage with abandon, is the end of him and his world. 🙄🙄🙄

Religion is scum! 😑😑😑😑

JobZoneNews:
➜Read this classic case of divine intervention of God inside a village. God is indeed the God of all. This is a story of how God saved a new born baby from death in a remote village.

What about the 10s —possibly hundreds — of other babies in that same village who were not saved by this same deity? Should we simply pretend their stories don't matter at all where this deity of yours is concerned since the goal here seems to be to claim at least this one for this deity?

AbuTwins:
➜You admitted that some of the Prophets were sent to other nations apart from Israel but you still retain your premise that the same books that contains the stories of these Prophets are only for Israel.

You act like the Prophets were sent to those other nations for anything other than what amounts to diplomatic missions as is detailed in the book each time. 🙄

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This is one of the many reasons to utterly hate religion and what it has done to the minds of individuals. Ever ready to add, change, or even remove from the plain meaning of what is written in the book.... this very book. Very annoying since the very same folks would not dare try that nonsense with their daily reports at their places of work or anywhere else. 🙄🙄

ibtommy:
yes. His question is okay.

No! It is off since sex is a natural act that even animals —worms, insects, snakes, rats— freely engage in without consequence. A person's bad decisions are born of problems in reasoning.

arkad321:
if Christians will help me I will convert

Convert from one religious delusion to another religious delusion to what end?

AbuTwins:
➜If the Books are by Israelites for Israelites, Abraham and Noah were not Israelites! Also Balaam was not from Israel,
➜ Jonah was sent outside Israel
➜and Nebuchadnezzar was from Babylonian empire!

1. You are still not grasping the meaning behind it all. This battle between peoples and those whom they say are israelites is meaningless because the one who chose them is the one who named them Israelites.

According to the book, YHWH, the creator of all things, had the name "Israel" in mind even before He created the earth and man with it. He had His plan for the descendants of Jacob in hand before everything else He had for men. YHWH recruited Esau, Noah, Shem, Abraham, Balaam, and all the others who came before to further His plan called "Israel". YHWH, for reasons best known to Him, chose to wait to give that name specifically to the bloodline of the man named Jacob. Jacob was not named Israel by his parents. No! It was YHWH who gave Him that name. And once that plan was set into motion by Him, even the descendants of Jacob who mostly turned out to be arseholes as described by YHWH Himself could not change that choice He had made. Go read the Book of Deuteronomy and see for yourself that YHWH made it abundantly clear that it did not matter that the people in question were amongst the most wicked scum on the earth, as all that mattered was His choice of them for His plan.

2. Jonah was not the only Israelite sent to the surrounding nations in the area. Moses was sent to the King of Egypt and also to many other Kings during the journey to Canaan. Elijah, I remember well, he had to take a message to other kings too. The Israelites did not exist in Isolation of other Kingdoms and so the influence of the God of Israel impacted the nations in the area. That does not then mean that YHWH changed His mind regarding them.

3. Nebuchadnezzar?? He was a god worshipped by his own people. Even the dirge by YHWH through Isaiah regarding Nebuchadnezzar pitched him as such - Isaiah 14 vs 1 - 16. (This dirge which predicted the destruction of Nebuchadnezzar was revealed almost 150 years before the Judaeans were captured and taken to Babylon, mind you,) So, wetin give you the notion say Nebuchadnezzar was a man of the God of Israel abeg?

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That book has absolutely nothing to do with any other race on this planet. That much it makes abundantly clear in every book in that compendium.

AbuTwins:
✓ So of what use is the Bible if it is mainly for the Israelites and not for you as Jesus told the Canaanite woman that he wasn't sent except to the lost sheep of Israel?

The Books of the Bible were written by Israelites for other Israelites. Attempts by religions-- Judaism, Christianity, and Islam included ---- to hijack the writings for their own political greed and material delusions of their gods of men won't change that at all. The book and the prophets insist these religions are scams, and plots against those who adhere to them, same as the God of Israel —YHWH— had proclaimed from the very first pages.

Digitmktguru:
✓ "If God is love,
✓ why did He harden Pharaoh's heart in Exodus 9:12?"
i will be glad if you can give me biblical explanation to this?

What exactly is love? I don't mean the generic dictionary definitions we are used to spewing but what are the concrete actions that constitute the God kind or God-accepted Love?

I get that we like to regurgitate what Paul said without much thought but maybe by better understanding Paul's statement, we gain incite into what love really means and how metaphorically or in actual fact, God can be considered love.

LilMissFavvy:
✓ No woman would know that her husband has HIV, yet still plays carelessly around him because everyone knows that HIV has no cure.

She admitted to knowing her husband has been serially cheating on her yet continued having unprotected sex with him. She is not an innocent abeg! 😩😩😩😩

For anyone paying attention, as I already pointed out earlier, this here is another attempt by the so-called religious scholars to impose their own ideas and definitions over that which is in fact contained in Scripture and explained by the God of Israel Himself —YHWH.

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For the umpteenth time, Jesus Christ of Israel declared to His disciples that He was sent ONLY to the Lost sheep of Israel by His Father, YHWH, God of Israel, who is recorded to have declared them His Lost sheep through His Prophets. YHWH even took His time to elaborate in the passage below on why He qualified as Lost sheep.

11 The Lord God says, “I myself will be their Shepherd. I will search for my sheep and take care of them.
12 If a shepherd is with his sheep when they begin to wander away, he will go searching for them. In the same way I will search for my sheep. I will save them and bring them back from all the places where they were scattered on that dark and cloudy day.
13 I will bring them back from those nations. I will gather them from those countries and bring them back to their own land. I will feed them on the mountains of Israel, by the streams, and in all the places where people live.
14 I will lead them to grassy fields. They will go to the place high on the mountains of Israel and lie down on good ground and eat the grass. They will eat in rich grassland on the mountains of Israel.
15 Yes, I will feed my flock, and I will lead them to a place of rest.” This is what the Lord God said.
16 “I will search for the lost sheep. I will bring back the sheep that were scattered and put bandages on the sheep that were hurt. I will make the weak sheep strong, but I will destroy the fat and powerful shepherds. I will feed them the punishment they deserve.” - Ezekiel 34 vs 1....31

A quick read through the chapter of Ezekiel 34 would help enlighten anyone reading that compendium of books called the Bible on what YHWH, who sent His Son, only to those whom He considered Lost Sheep of Israel, meant when He regarded them as Lost Sheep of Isreal and His description of them has nothing to do with them falling off the face of the earth or going missing. YHWH's idea regarding His lost sheep is completely removed from the assertions made by the religious-minded folks who have cooked up stories of 10 tribes of Israel up and vanishing from the face of the earth.

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Ignorance is not bliss!

arkad321:
To be rich is not a goal of humans! It's an artificially created goal.

But poverty is the goal towards aspire?

LilMissFavvy:
There should be stiff laws to punish married persons who infect his/her partner with HIV.

To do that you would first need to prove that the other was not first aware of the danger before getting infected too. I mean her story is that she had known of his cheating right from the beginning yet continued anyway. And even after realizing the devastation, she holds on. At this point, if she gets pregnant again and has another child, do we blame the man alone still?

DaddyCoool:
➜You are now rambling to save face. See below. Back to the original, same way the 10 tribe were considered lost, the other two later met same fate. Meaning ALL the tribes are now lost, so again, does that mean Christ/God has stopped existing?

Do you know one big mistake people like you are prone to making? It is assuming everything on the internet is correct and true. 🤔

You did not do the math that I gave you to do earlier, did you? If you had, you have at least begun to rightly question several of the claims made in that piece you keep brandishing. But I guess I shouldn't expect you to reason at all to that point since, since the beginning of this conversation, you have shown a serious inability to reason independently from that which you have previously been fed on these things by your religious loonies. 😏

As I have tried numerous times explaining, they were not lost but exiled/scattered to all the ends of the earth. That is what is stated in Scripture and historically supported. YHWH Himself said He will go out and gather them back to Himself. They are missing(lost) to Him as He knows exactly where He scattered them to and How to find them.🤔

Afolue:
➜am a sociologist. A sociologist can go as far as to putting himself into a deliberate crime scene (no too grievous though) but just to find himself in prison to know how prisoners feel in order to analyze that aspect of the society without any form of hear say but as direct witness of all that they go through and experience in there. From deprivation, lifestyle to torture etc.
As a sociologist, I picked Islam as a case study, practiced for a couple of while after going through their holy books. Upon that, tis why my views are of a more rational stands than otherwise. When one finds self practicing Islam as a religion, one can take out little or nothing any form of advantage about other religious worship. I am not propagating it. Just saying this on an academic point of view.
If one should say today, i want to follow God most high and his prophets. It will be very easy to. But how determined can one really be.? Tis why I used the word seating on fence! Because religion is not a compulsion by any standards at all... No one is compelled to!. God never uses that to judge mankind. But it only helps to shape how God wants man to be. Blessings falls upon religion faithfuls and none religious faithfuls alike. He is after the heart of mankind instead. Religion is for man’s own good and not for God’s own good!

Follow which God? What prophets?

arkad321:
FASTING. Guys you won't have to worry about food and the intense hunger will not let your dick stand. You will be only worshipping God. Which is our main priority on this Earth

Are you sure you are OK at this point? Worshipping which god? The gods of hunger and starvation that your gods of men regale you lot with stories of while they eat themselves fat off of your sweat?

Go get yourself an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist, please.

Augustine2244:
➜ The day I knew Lucifer's power is overwhelming the world is when I read about an American pastor Mark Driscoll advocating for Anal sex between couple, and giving guidelines on how to better do it.
Those who know him very well knew he is a bloody bisexual.
Pornography was invented with one purpose _ to pervert God's Purpose for Sex, destroy normal heterosexuality and turn humans into animals without control of their sexual urges.
No normal straight man has anal sex with a woman.
It's a stock in trade of gays, and bisexuals.
Anal porn is done by bisexuals and gays with women who have shamelessly submitted themselves to such debasement all because of MONEY.
Even though there are straight men who claim to be sexually adventurous and want to try anal sex with their partners, the spirit behind Anal sex is a powerful one that operates strongly on the mind of the person and begins to infuse gay tendencies in him.
This is often one of the reasons, Western researchers say straight men due to porn can change to gays and bisexuals.
Some straight men who have fetishism for anal sex may claim it to be just that _Fetishism; but it's gone beyond that.
His mind has been clouded and firmly attached to anal sex.
If he doesn't retrace his steps, the fetishism leads to what is called Bicuriousity and this is enabled by viewing porn, because then he would have no qualms viewing even gay porn.
90% of porn industry worldwide is run by bisexuals.
The plague has even invaded the entertainment industry worldwide, Nigeria not exempted.
No matter how many would explain it, any man who has anal sex with a lady is either gay, bisexual or with gay tendencies in the early stages of "becoming".

Lucifer is a mythical creature sort of like Vampires, nymphs and the sort. What you learnt from reading that fictional book are more fictional ideas to add to the repertoire your mind already seems filled and ravaged by.

ebubeson:
It may be pre-marital sex or adultery. Have you ever had any horrible consequence on it that made you scared or worried?

The question is flawed! Horrible consequence of a natural act?

RhodaFa:
➜Reading the full story will give you insight.. don't judge from the top!

Again, I ask, is the woman any less wicked than he is? She remained in a dangerous marriage and refused to use protection only to end up helping infect her child with a deadly disease he may never survive. Na only the man to blame?

Was she forced to remain married to the cheated man until she got infected by him?

And why is she still with the man after learning she has signed the death warrant for both herself and her son by her foolishness? Does she plan to have more kids with him or maybe stay back to take care of him after it all?

RhodaFa:
The husband is wicked

Is the woman any less wicked than he is? She remained in a dangerous marriage, and refused to use protection only to end up helping infect her child with a deadly disease he may never survive. Na only the man to blame?

And why is she still with the man after learning she has literally signed the death warrant for both herself and her son by her foolishness? Does she plan to have more kids with him or maybe stay back to take care of him after it all?

She stayed in a ridiculous marriage only to end up signing the death warrant for one of the very kids she said she stayed for. Why does she remain still in the union? So she can continue exposing her kids to danger?

Digitmktguru:
What is the 'unpardonable sin' mentioned in Matthew 12:31-32, and can someone commit it today?"

The passage you quoted explains it right there to you. And only persons who are of the bloodline of Jacob — Lost sheep of Israel — and at the same time born-again—members of the Covenant that is Jesus Christ— can commit that sin.

DaddyCoool:
➜I know am not chatting with a slowpoke.
➜Were they not among the 10 tribes considered lost. That tells you that lost is more than physical.
➜They were still in same location but were lost because the mixed with Gentiles.
➜By the way you said they lived in Judah, which is false

I am not the slowpoke in this case since you are instead the one who seems slow to catch on to the many mistakes of the claims you continue to make here. 😏

2. You know how to do math, right?😏
⇾ The first article claimed that 10 tribes were lost only to reveal that rather than lost, they were instead exiled from their country of Israel sometime around 700 BC.
⇾ but from Scripture, we know that only 9 tribes occupied the northern nation of Israel while the other 3 occupied the nation of Judah(the second Israelite nation) from the time of their creation.
⇾ Then your third article said that the Samaritans — descendants of Joseph— who formerly lived in the nation of Israel, were found to live in Judah after Israel was destroyed.

Do the math abeg and see how the claim that 10 tribes were lost/disappeared is only fabricated nonsense.

3. What you just declared here makes no sense given the meaning of the term Gentile as documented in Scripture and highlighted in the image you presented earlier. Gentile as used Genesis 10 instead indicates use about members of the same family/clan/nation/bloodline who have been dispersed/scattered/exiled/migrated to different/other nations.

4. I said? You mean where in the Gospels, it is written that Jesus Christ of Israel who was born in the nation of Judah, approached the Samaritans living in Judah, that was all false?

DaddyCoool:
➜See below who were Samaritans durring the time if Christ.
➜You have to start paying me for all these lessons

So, the Samaritans were never in fact lost/disappeared then? Right? This all means that there were never 10 lost/disappeared tribes of Israel after all, right?

2. Ignorance is really not bliss that you would think to revel in it. 😑

DaddyCoool:
➜See below

You are not paying attention at all, are you? Go back through my previous comment again. 😂😂😂😂😂

✹ By the way, there are 12 tribes of Israel. 3 of the 12 tribes make up the Jewish tribes of Israel — Judah, Levi, and Benjamin. (This happens to be the tribes that formed the nation of Judah after the death of Solomon.) As at the time that Jesus Christ of Israel lived in the nation of Judah, we can confirm that lived there in that land members of a fourth tribe — the Samaritans who are descendants of Joseph— Ephraim, and Manasseh. So when did these 10 tribes you speak of go missing? (my guess is by lost, you are not using the Scriptural meaning of the term but rather contemporary meaning here.) That is a total of 4 tribes at least living in Judah as of the 1st century AD.

So, when exactly did the 10 tribes, according to you, disappear? Who disappeared them? How did they disappear? You understand what the word disappear means, right? 😐😐😐😐

Also, the word Disappeared/Lost does not mean the same as Exiled since Exiled simply means you have been booted out of your own land or country, but that does not mean you are missing or lost.

DaddyCoool:
➜Like I said I hope I'm not chatting with someone rather slow. 10 tribes of Israel were described as "lost"
➜How did the lost tribes of Israel get lost ("a nation of people completely vanish off of the face of the earth"} and stay lost till today?

1. Interesting religious tales by moonlight! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

By the way, there are 12 tribes of Israel. 3 of the 12 tribes make up the Jewish tribes of Israel — Judah, Levi, and Benjamin. (This happens to be the tribes that formed the nation of Judah after the death of Solomon.) As at the time that Jesus Christ of Israel lived in the nation of Judah, we can confirm that lived there in that land members of a fourth tribe — the Samaritans who are descendants of Joseph— Ephraim, and Manasseh. So when did these 10 tribes you speak of go missing? (my guess is by lost, you are not using the Scriptural meaning of the term but rather contemporary meaning here.) That is a total of 4 tribes at least living in Judah as of the 1st century AD.

So, when exactly did the 10 tribes, according to you, disappear? Who disappeared them? How did they disappear? 😐😐😐😐

2. You should be the one telling me since you are the one propagating this religious lie in this context. I am interested in learning how you were able to come to believe them to be lost.

DaddyCoool:
✹Which is why your own eyes and senses override anything written in any book. Example, let's say you believe God is deeply involved in human affairs. And from READING the Bible you determine that worship of Christ as God is blasphemy and a great sin against God. But you KNOW he was raised by same God from the dead knowing fully well he'd be worshipped as God. And 2000+ years later you observe all those who worship him have been exploded in numbers, prosperity, and influence for 2000+ years!

This is bullsheet! It makes no sense at all!

Again, Jesus Christ of Israel and His Father together proclaim they are of Israel alone. Meaning that if I am not of the bloodline, I waste my time attempting to worship both Jesus Christ of Israel and His Father, YHWH — God of Israel. All attempts at worshipping them are in vain because they do not receive worship from anyone who is not of the Jacob bloodline; this is non-negotiable and very simple. So, why do you feel you can impose your vanity —useless religion — on him regardless?