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Christianity EtcRe: God Doesn't Love Humanity One Bit! by Kobojunkie:
Fireoflife:
lol. I'm the God of yoruba people. Go and ask their priests to tell you what's up
The God of the Yoruba loves non-Yorubas too. huh Why then does he go by the name God of the Yorubas? 😶😶😶
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Know The Signs Of The False Servants Of God? by Kobojunkie: 4:59pm On Jan 29, 2025
PEACE2023:
➜My Village Pastor is not fake
He is not fake because....? undecided
Christianity EtcRe: The Acceptable Form Of Sexual Pleasure by Kobojunkie: 4:59pm On Jan 29, 2025
Augustine2244:
Lol! The same ninny is foaming at the mouth.Pathetic slimy maggot, please go get a life and stop displaying your mental derangement for the world to see. You see how senseless, demented and stupid you are. You are so daft! Goodness Lord!😂
If your brain is actually functioning like that of a normal human being, you should have known that I was talking about anal sex.
ANAL SEX,OOO!
THIS COMPOUND Idiot who lacks sense of comprehension, intellectual analysis and discretion.
A goat has a thousand times more sense of reasoning than you.Dumb animal.
This, from the same ninny who was only moments ago foaming at the mount of how sex alone, an act that even worms and frogs engage with abandon, is the end of him and his world. 🙄🙄🙄

Religion is scum! 😑😑😑😑
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 4:58pm On Jan 29, 2025
PeachtreeReside:
➜I didn't write that there is anything wrong with seeing a therapist. For some, those antidepressants are not good for them in the long run.
For some? You forgot to reason that with any drug out there— even your basic Panadol that ended up harming some too — the same there are equally many others who have greatly benefited from the use of antidepressants. So why attack OP's use of the medication when you have absolyely no way of knowing whether OP would benefit more from it in the long run or not? undecided
FamilyRe: My Husband's Impregnated His Baby Mama Again After Catching Her With Another Man by Kobojunkie: 4:54pm On Jan 29, 2025
Cocolatti:
So what's your own advice
My advice for? huh
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 4:54pm On Jan 29, 2025
Tohsynetita1:
➜I did not asked him not to, I want to know the reason ni alaye
Antidepressants are typically used for managing depression. OP stated that he is currently struggling with depression and anxiety. huh
Christianity EtcRe: If God is love, why did He harden Pharaoh's heart in Exodus 9:12?" by Kobojunkie:
AbuTwins:
So what does Proverbs 19:21 below mean?
Many plans are in a man’s heart, but the purpose of the LORD will prevail.
And there are more below!
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you a future and a hope.
Isaiah 46:10
I declare the end from the beginning, and from ancient times what is still to come. I say, ‘My purpose will stand, and all My good pleasure I will accomplish.’
Ephesians 1:11
In Him we were also chosen as God’s own, having been predestined according to the plan of Him who works out everything by the counsel of His will,
Job 42:2
“I know that You can do all things and that no plan of Yours can be thwarted.
Psalm 33:10-11
The LORD frustrates the plans of the nations; He thwarts the devices of the peoples. / The counsel of the LORD stands forever, the purposes of His heart to all generations.
Isaiah 14:24
The LORD of Hosts has sworn: “Surely, as I have planned, so will it be; as I have purposed, so will it stand.
James 4:13-15
Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business, and make a profit.” / You do not even know what will happen tomorrow! What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. / Instead, you ought to say, “If the Lord is willing, we will live and do this or that.”
Psalm 115:3
Our God is in heaven; He does as He pleases.
Acts 5:38-39
So in the present case I advise you: Leave these men alone. Let them go! For if their purpose or endeavor is of human origin, it will fail. / But if it is from God, you will not be able to stop them. You may even find yourselves fighting against God.”
Lamentations 3:37
Who has spoken and it came to pass, unless the Lord has ordained it?
Every single one of these verses when considered in the original context is directed back at the same people of Israel whose God— YHWH— raised a standard — Law— over them stipulating they can only reap what they sow meaning that nothing happens by chance to them as it will all be according to their deeds —choices and actions —as individuals as judged by the Law. This contravenes the ideas put forth by those who believe in destiny/fate. undecided
Christianity EtcRe: What Is The 'unpardonable Sin' Mentioned In Matthew 12:31-32 by Kobojunkie:
gohf:
my head is very okay, but what the heck are you typing 🙄, I asked you a question how does this nonsense you wrote make any sense or answer the question
You asked a dumb question not a reasonable question. This nonsense...
Kobojunkie:
... You are told in the book that the God of Israel Himself, by His own Will, scattered His Israel to the four winds of the Earth — every language, every tribe, and every nation. ...undecided
... is what is stated in the book of what the God of Israel—YHWH— declared he would do and is believed to have done. If you do not understand it or even know it at all then it means you have never been following the God of Israel but your own whims. undecided
Christianity EtcRe: What Is The 'unpardonable Sin' Mentioned In Matthew 12:31-32 by Kobojunkie: 4:41pm On Jan 29, 2025
gohf:
➜kobojunkie answer this question and stop typing rubbish
Read the book and you will see it for yourself! undecided
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie:
12inchess:
➜... My problem is that I long for the simpler days which I believe are long gone now. I think I need some growing up to do but it's just so hard for me given my loneliness and depression. I really need a way out before things even get worse. I can conveninetly survive unpaid at my job for a few months but since I just started less than a year ago I think they will take me as unserious if I suggest leaving the job for a break. The process of getting my Greencard also took quite a while and I feel I should make the best use of it by making as much money as I can since I now have it but I also don't want to harm myself mentally in the course of doing that.
➜I go to a Nigerian church before but it was all about pay tithe donate money this and that so I lost interest.
I'm really at my wits end so please keep the advises coming and reading everyone of them and will make a decision based on what I receive here.
Thanks!
1. Does your wife know of all of this you are going through at this point in time though? Given that you are married, it would not be right of you to decide independently. You two should sit back together and figure out the best way forward instead of making that plan all by yourself. undecided

Having your wife as your support partner in this is a great idea. If you have yet to sign up for mental health therapy sessions to at least help you better understand what you are dealing with, I suggest you do so. And if possible, have your wife also educate herself on the struggles involved with depression so she can help you get in any way she can afford. undecided

2. Discard religion for your own mental health's sake abeg! You are more likely to gain more— social intelligence at least— from walking into a bar somewhere and watching people relate with themselves than you are from those churches, or churches for that matter. undecided

3. Seek out professional health therapy and also join online mental health forums where you can discuss with others what you are going through. That kind of support equally helps you resolve the underlying reasons for your particular problem —your particular fears and worries. undecided

Keep a journal of your thoughts and ruminations— guilt, shame, worries, fears, etc. This could lead you to the reasons for your depression and also help you tackle it at its very root. undecided
Christianity EtcRe: What Is The 'unpardonable Sin' Mentioned In Matthew 12:31-32 by Kobojunkie: 4:30pm On Jan 29, 2025
gohf:
you sound like those black supremacists who believe they are Israelites and are the only ones to be saved?
Are you OK in the head at all? You are told in the book that the God of Israel Himself, by His own Will, scattered His Israel to the four winds of the Earth — every language, every tribe, and every nation. Yet, in your head, the connection you see fit to make to that is a black supremacist movement whose stories and tales mirror instead that which is spewed by the 3 major religions? undecided
Christianity EtcRe: What Is The 'unpardonable Sin' Mentioned In Matthew 12:31-32 by Kobojunkie: 4:24pm On Jan 29, 2025
AbuTwins:
✓ What diplomatic mission was Jonah sent to do?
Are you certain you have ever read the book of Jonah for yourself before? 🤔
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 2:36pm On Jan 29, 2025
Zzyco:
✓ Those people you stated are poor. A rich Nigerian man would rather sacrifice another person's life than kill himself. This man is Rich and comfortable yet depressed. Can't you see the bigger picture? This is abnormal for a typical Nigerian!
Stated where poor? Where did I state such absurdity? 🙄🙄🙄🙄
FamilyRe: Just Coming Back From Women Afair by Kobojunkie: 2:35pm On Jan 29, 2025
Valwezzy:
✓ So they should seek the advice of a marriage counselor and listen to him/her and then ignore that of women affairs because their opinion holds no water? Is the marriage counselor not an outsider too?

Ain’t you a third party too? What makes you think your opinion counts and the OP would listen to you and follow your advice?
You have a knack for being smart by half; firing and yapping from all your holes without thinking properly🤦‍♂️
A professional marriage counselor works as a mediator to help mediate between the two parties involved in deciding the path forward for their marriage. They are not your stewpid church/imam/family marriage counselor who think themselves as powers to decide for the partners in the marriage at what is to happen next. undecided

Please make Google your friend in these things! undecided
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 2:55am On Jan 29, 2025
Helpout12345:
➜ I am not lieing to him. I just dropped my observation. And you further buttress my observation in your reply.
➜He needs more outdoors, sun and gratefulness.
LOL... I didn't buttress your silly idea. A person is sick and rather than encourage him to stick to treatment that can help him — the only treatment available to most people struggling with the condition— your suggestion is instead that he forgo the treatment and do what? Live sick and miserable?

➜ WOW.... this comment reminds me of the useless comments I got from other Nigerians including the people very close to me when I told him I was depressed as a child. I even saw one silly pastor tell me outright that depression is an Oyinbo sickness. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

So, in your mind, depression and anxiety cannot happen to people who spend most of their time or even work outdoors, people who spend so much time in the sun, and people who are always grateful? 🙄🙄🙄🙄
FamilyRe: My Husband's Impregnated His Baby Mama Again After Catching Her With Another Man by Kobojunkie: 2:25am On Jan 29, 2025
delugadou:
➜ You have limited time. Use it to obtain all you can from your husband. Set up your own business in your name, acquire your own land & house in your name. Establish yourself financially because you are in a sinking ship. Take what you can before everything scatters. Learn from Annie idibia ( Mrs 2face)
When she comes back to announce she is on the third baby while the baby mama is working on the fourth or fifth, you go talk say this na good advice you give her then? huh
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 2:16am On Jan 29, 2025
12inchess:
➜ I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression.
Better take your medication with your head held high abeg! You have what 10s of millions of people in Nigeria who are struggling with similar will probably never get access to and many of them will eventually become crippled by their condition too. undecided
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 2:14am On Jan 29, 2025
Helpout12345:
➜ Exactly. Those American antidepressants hardly solve the problem. They are just there to manage it for the rest of your life, if they don't even make your situation more worse. I am not a doctor but this is my observation in the US.
Stop lying to him. I took anti-depressants for many years and I can swear by them any day that they were the best things that ever happened to me as the depressed soul I was before it all. undecided

By the way, antidepressants are not meant to "solve the problem". Rather, they are to help people with mental illness manage their condition so that they can live a life that at least comes close to the one they prefer. Give them more control over an otherwise uncontrollable situation that is mental illness. If the mental illness is there for all of your life, what would you rather the mentally ill do? Refuse to use what is at least available to help them live a more comfortable life. undecided
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 2:04am On Jan 29, 2025
Tohsynetita1:
➜ Why are you taking antidepressants?
Why shouldn't he take antidepressants? huh
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 2:03am On Jan 29, 2025
12inchess:
➜ Most of the advanced treatments have failed but the fertility issues is not the reason I'm sad and lonely. In fact I fear taking additional responsibility in the name of kids given my physical and mental state. And to those who are asking why are turned irreligious. It's simple. I found out I wasn't gaining much from church.
smiley
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 2:02am On Jan 29, 2025
PeachtreeReside:
➜ Seen a therapist?Those antidepressants though.... Sending you loads of strength and healing. You can still talk to God or journal your feelings. It does help.
What is wrong with seeing a therapist? I used to be on antidepressants and will swear by them too. The key is to work with your doctor(s) to find the right antidepressants and co-drugs for your own particular case. undecided
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 1:50am On Jan 29, 2025
Zzyco:
➜ Discuss with your GP, Lithium antidepressants may have a slight role in fertility. I guess this is where the underlying issue emanates from. Nigeria man no dey get depression, even if he goes to prison we are not wired that way man. ➜ Find an African church first, connect with them, work for charity and you will realise you have a lot of energy within you to do more things. Secondly, leave this oyibo food, find Eba, eat Nigeria meals only for one month. Go for walks in the evening with your partner, confess positive words into your day when you wake up every morning. Profess strength, happiness and joy. Say words like today I have every reason to be happy, I am a strong Nigerian man, nothing stops me. Lastly, the Bible has everything you need, God has not given you the spirit of fear(depression) but of power, love and sound mind! (2 Timothy 1:7)
Nigerians no dey get depression yet growing up in Nigeria, I not only grew up a depressed mind but I also knew of at least 10 cases of possible suicide where I lived in Ikorodu. Most of them were written off as evil spirit cases and all the other religious nonsense Nigerians are notorious for. Come on naw! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Na so una dey always use lies to deceive and delude people. Are you referring to many of the same African churches here were most of their members struggle from one issue or another? Make OP go join the queue to fill seats, abi? undecided
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 1:46am On Jan 29, 2025
12inchess:
➜Part of the health issues I am having is fertility issues.
When did you find out about this fertility issue? Was it around the same time that the depression started? undecided
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie:
12inchess:
➜I know that. I was in Nigeria in 2023. But I virtually miss home. I am homesick AGAIN. You wouldn't understand if you've not lived abroad for long. I am the one wearing the shoe and I know where it's pinching me.
I have lived abroad longer than you have. I also dealt with the same afflictions you listed and a lot more. I went through a long period where I longed for this fabled home as you do now. But I eventually realized it was my mind busy playing tricks on me all of that time. My entire family is here by the way yet I kept struggling with this longing to go back to Nigeria as though I was meant to be there and not here. grin

You need to get to a place where you see that it is the depression in your brain that is making you think you are lonely — you have a wife for Pete's sake — and alone, you have colleagues at work and you can easily meet people anywhere you go here but somehow you have entered this tunnel where your mind insists they are not right or will judge you wrong or whatever else that, for lack of a better phrase, the demon of depression is telling you there. You need to want to step out of your depressed self to get out of the tunnel you have been stuck in for as long as you have. undecided

They say home is where the heart is and even with your wife right next to you, your heart refuses to consider where she is home. That ought to serve as evidence that something is surely not right and needs dealing with. undecided

As for chronic fatigue, you should consider exercising more at least to give yourself the feeling of having some life even with that. I became a cyclist for that very reason to push my body as much as I could. For many years, I rode my back to school, work, and every place else — my bike remained my main means of transportation. The thing about cycling is you can imagine your tired self sitting and just needing to move your legs one at a time powered by adrenaline and it works wonders on the mind. grin
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 12:38am On Jan 29, 2025
Plus10:
Genuinely surrender your life to Christ if you had not , trust me He would come to your aid!
Stip trying to deceive him abeg! Like the millions of Nigeria living in Nigeria, many of them in his same afflicted shoes have been helped by your religious delusions in any way. At least OP dey country wey he still get access to decent Healthcare, something most of those millions trapped in your delusions can never get, no thanks to your scammers-in-the-lords and their scheming. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 12:36am On Jan 29, 2025
12inchess:
➜I'm no longer very religious.
Do not even attempt religion, even if it is the last thing that presents itself to you abeg! undecided
TravelRe: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by Kobojunkie: 12:35am On Jan 29, 2025
DrDoc:
Try attending churches nau. After that support groups and the likes and before you know it, you have company. Don't do life alone
You should please not try this at all @OP. Religion will only add a whole other level of delusion on top of what your mind is currently cloaked with. undecided
Christianity EtcRe: God Doesn't Love Humanity One Bit! by Kobojunkie: 11:30pm On Jan 28, 2025
Fireoflife:
It's the other way around bro. Humanity does not love God one bit. He says if you love me keep my commandments. Je even sent his son to us
Who is this God that claimed to love humanity though? Is He the God of Nigeria or something? undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Anxious For Nothing : Max Lucado by Kobojunkie: 11:28pm On Jan 28, 2025
Discountsempai:
➜Thank you for watching the video. I'm glad you found it stimulating.
We are talking here of Max Lucado. It was religiously loaded with bullsheet as all other religious content are. undecided
TravelRe: Immigrants & Nigerians In America, Do This Before Feb 19th; 22 States Sue To Sto by Kobojunkie: 10:21pm On Jan 28, 2025
Na there dem go come easily pack all of una go back where you come from. Detention center straight and back to your home countries after you give birth. undecided
FamilyRe: My Husband's Impregnated His Baby Mama Again After Catching Her With Another Man by Kobojunkie: 10:15pm On Jan 28, 2025
Born20win:
✓ Let me clarify after the first reconciliation I didn't have sex with him immediately he went for check up for stds and after everything was clear we started having sex but the second reconciliation I wasn't even aware he was back with her because after catching her with another man while the teins were 3 months old he had vowed to not sleep with her again. The second time he didn't do any stds test because he swore that he didn't sleep with his baby mama or any other women , I was very stupid to easily belived him that's why I am regretting sleeping with him unprotected risking my life not knowing that he was back with his baby mama and they even had a child.
The man literally explained to you that you and your daughter occupied a place of least importance both by his response to you over the phone, the beaten that followed that which was in front of your daughter and then by fact that he has a place rented for the baby mama to boot. You dey here dey talk of first and second reconciliation. Come on! 2+ 2 can never equal 5 so what are you trying to say to us. That you were not already loudly aware of the risk and you place before the first so-called reconciliation? 😩

We need to begin taken responsibility for what is our own foolishness abeg. No be all the time we go dey think to blame me jo! 😩😩😩😩

Just pick up the pieces, learn from fully from this so you can at least help prevent your kids from falling victims to the very same. The gal is what now, 14? She witnessed it all and is probably not aware of how it is her mother's fault as well for making bad decisions. Teach her better abeg! undecided
EducationRe: You Want Me To Teach Maths, Physics, Computer For ₦35k – Nigerian Teacher Cries by Kobojunkie: 10:00pm On Jan 28, 2025
24hrPrayer:
A Nigerian Teacher cry out on social media saying
Teacher suffer alot in this country amid economy depression and high cost of living, yet salaries remain the same.
Netizens resonate with the user that some of them too pass through such hardship.
Govt should look into private school teacher’s renumeration and try to improve it
.
Sadly, this is the Nigeria you all fought to keep ---- or didn't even bother at all. And so you would need to live with. lipsrsealed

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