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gohf:
➜you took it too literally.
➜So because a place is called Bethel means that place is God's house?

Exactly where in the book are you informed not to take it literally?

2. Bethel is God's House? Where do you get this notion from, to begin with? Or do you simply concoct these ideas out of thing air simply because your brains are programmed to do so?

Godson1379:
➜Where is the biblical evidence for all this trash you posted ?
➜Simply belongs here 🗑️🗑️

It is all stated in Scripture if only you all would open the book and read it for your own selves rather than swallow the useless nonsense fed you by equally ignorant individuals who scam your lives and existence daily with their lies.

2. What belongs in there is the trash you spewed earlier in your OP which has no basis in Scripture.

Godson1379:
So where is the Holy Spirit in all of this?

Where he has always been since Jesus Christ was born, a part of Him.

RealityKings1:
1. The conception of the ultimate reality or ultimate truth revloves around a creator. You can explain that reality as Tetragramton YHWH Baal GOD or Most High.
2. My post was a prayer to the OP. how is that "gaslighting"? Life revolves around luck more than effort. It's important to prayer for luck and exert effort. When your effort isn't putting through a good result, that means you are probably praying for the wrong thing at that moment.
3. The real challenge is knowing what particular thing to pray for.
➜If nothing works, just live your life and don't try to impress people.

Simple question! Which God? Which of the 45,000 Christian deities will do this for OP? Or which of the many local Nigerian deities are you referring to there? Or which of the many versions of the Islamic Allah do you mean will do this for OP? 🙄🙄

2. A payer in addition to the many useless prayers OP has made over the years? Are you for real? Isn't that a clear attempt to convince OP that his ineffective prayers can somehow be resolved by this one prayer of yours meaning OP's prayers may have failed but yours will definitely make the difference? 🙄

3. Oh! Yet more gaslighting! Never mind the fact that OP specifically stated what it was he had been praying for years, you would rather he think he was not praying for the right thing, abi? 🙄

4. So, You finally admit that OP is right that prayer is useless at the end of it all? 🙄

(Yes, there are various versions of the Islamic Allah out there. There are clearly different versions of Allah worshipped right here in Nigeria alone. There is the version worshipped by the Yorubas, the Boko Harams, and then by Northern politicians even Iswap has a different Allah for its own ideologies. And then when we move internationally, we find that a different Saudi Arabia serves an Allah different from that in Afghanistan, in Yemen, and also in Sudan. Every religion seems to have multiple versions of its deity and it becomes a clear question of whether the lies come from those who claim to serve or the deity in question. )

Godson1379:
Following the resurrection of Jesus from the dead and ultimately his Ascension into heaven, did he ascend into Heaven in Flesh, Spirit or both forms combined?

According to the Gospels, Jesus Christ rose from the dead, flesh and blood, and eventually ascended to Heaven while His followers watched, the same.

Godson1379:
The Heavenly Kingdom of God

Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

The Fort of Zion was a forte that was reported to have been conquered by David and then renamed the City of David, the place where the palace in Jerusalem was situated, and David is said to have reigned. The fort sat at the top of a mountain called Zion which existed in the city of Jerusalem alongside other mountains including Mount Moriah where the Temple in Jerusalem was eventually built.

Biznesworld:
➜The Senior Pastor of God’s Deliverance Apostolic Church, located on Rumunduru Farm Road in Port Harcourt, was arrested on January 20, 2025, following a shocking discovery. Police uncovered a live python and a coffin buried beneath the church altar during an investigation.
The arrest has sent shockwaves through the community, as the pastor was widely regarded as a spiritual leader. However, recent allegations suggest he may have been involved in suspicious and questionable activities under the guise of running a church.
According to police reports, the live python and the coffin were hidden directly beneath the altar of the church. The authorities were reportedly acting on a tip-off when they raided the church and made the disturbing find from a member. Community members who witnessed the incident expressed disbelief and outrage. One resident said, “We trusted this man as a prophet of God, we used to attain his prayer and fasting service every Fridays, but this discovery is shocking. We never expected such evil to be happening right under our noses.”

Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

What was the reason for the police raid? Is it illegal for a church to have an altar buried and a live python? Police don catch all the pythons wey dey inside people soup pot finish abi wetin?

Hezzyluv:
A new creation has emerged.

More like a new delusion!

Mysteriousworld:
➜You do not understand your Bible very well, if you're expecting Another General Overseer after Pastor E.A Adeboye.
It is the end of the world people.
You're expecting the next G.O, when you should be expecting Christ's return!
Don't you see the signs around
Wake up Church! Wake up people of the Lord!!
*If there's anything I wish to add here, is that all churches should prepare for the next Pandemic and lockdown....
Get your members psychologically prepared... Remember people felt reluctant going to Church after covid, let's plan ahead.

See this one! The man's empire has to have a CEO/G.O. to keep it running and bringing in profits for his many shareholders/stakeholders. Otherwise, the business will go belly up and maybe his followers might lose their heads.

RealityKings1:
➜Sorry for Your experience. I hope God straightens your path

Which God out of the thousands of religious gods out there will do that for OP? Why try to gaslight OP into believing the fault is his for not receiving this grace he has religiously prayed for?

gammarays:
➜If your problem is unemployment, look for something you can do on your own that'll fetch you money no matter how small it is. Don't fix your mind on Jobs.
➜Sorry for the insults you got but remember people don't welcome dependants. Start from somewhere no matter how small

He boldly states this even as the number of unemployed in their churches today continues to grow by the day. 🙄🙄

2. OP said religion has scammed him. Aren't you conveniently ignoring that aspect of his post?

ChirstFireAltar:
➜You just say he is faithful?
Then something is wrong, with what have seen over the years as a counselor, you must help him to deliver him from strange women...
1. Some ladies goes after married men to scatter their home.
2. Some ladies goes after married men for monetary gain.
➜These ladies are not ordinary, they're diabolical...they have people that do charms and all these evil for them.
My advice:
1. Get him involved to pray and fast together for himself for deliverance from strange women.
2. Study the word of God together.
3. It a battle against your marriage, fight it together.
4. May God give you wisdom to handle it with losing your marriage. It's red outside and they're dangerous.
Peace be unto you.

this is your idea of marriage counseling? Gaslighting women into believing it is their place to carry guilt and save the men in their lives who would rather cheat on them?

2. This wicked tripe you spew here is your idea of counseling. You religious folks are indeed extraordinarily wicked to your core. Imagine making someone else's daughter's life miserable to the point that it becomes focused on trying to save a man who would rather cheat on her with other women. No be diabolical-level wickedness we go rate this one? 😩😩😩

KennycruzIsla:
If you see me you won’t believe I have giving birth to just a child . I take good care of myself. I just can’t help but cry cry every time

Even women like yourself are being cheated on left and right by their men. The same goes for men who keep fit even in relationships too. So, do not feel you are alone or have something wrong with you. Relationships are not built on shallow things such as outward action but on inward resolve from both individuals in the relationship. 🤔

KennycruzIsla:
➜I have come to realized that men are the causes of most happy homes to turn sour. Don’t mind my English
MY EXPERIENCE
I have been married for 6years now, I have never felt like this before my heart so heavy and mental health is affected
I saw a chat on my partner phone ‘ I feel like kissing you when I saw you’ my world almost crumbed when I saw it cos I never believed my hubby would sent something like that to anybody. I nearly run mad. I have trusted him 100%. He apologized that he was just using it to catch cruise that he never meant those words. That he has deleted the number.I cried and forgave him. Not knowing he only re-saved the number to another name.
After some time I saw another message( I have messaged you on your other line). I felt betrayed again which other line is that which I did my findings and it’s still the same person. Name resaved. He always delete the messages. I asked him again what was going on. He said nothing that he loved me and will never hurt me. But deleting and re-saving numbers are issues for me.
➜I woke up my hubby and asked him is there something I’m not doing right? Have I ever neglected my duties as a wife? He said No. He said since he got married he never slept with another woman. It’s just mere messages. I did my findings and I got to know a lot about all this. Yes he’s faithful . I don’t know what I’m not doing right: I’m beautiful even with 3 kids. I dress neatly. I take my bath 2 times morning and night. I have job. I prepared his foods every time. I initiate sex every time( I have never denied him sex). I pray for him every time. I support him. I buy gift him and pamper my him. My money is for us all, I don’t hide my finances
Right now I’m fed up

1. It seems like your husband is done with his relationship with you and is ready to move on to another. Sadly, this is typical with marriage relationships as well so there is no need to think or feel the fault lies with you.

2. This list of yours means nothing if the person you are with no longer considers any of it or its value. I suggest you begin to love yourself more and realize that it may be best you move on before he drags you down any further into the mucks by his actions. A man cheating on you is equally as unacceptable as you cheating on a man. Do not for one moment allow yourself to be gaslighted into reasoning that it is OK for a man to cheat now and then. Shift the focus at this point to you realizing none of this is your fault. Then decide/strategize on how to move forward and continue to win even from all of this.

nolzautoz:
I✓ ’ve been praying for grace all these years, but nothing has changed in my life. It’s the same as always. Now, I haven’t eaten in two days. Religion feels like a complete scam, and I’m starting to give up. I’ve been to countless interviews, yet still no job. I’m exhausted, really exhausted.
✓ I’ve reached out to many of my Christian brothers for help, but most have blocked me, and some have insulted me. I can't help but wonder if this is really the Christianity that preaches love. From today, I’m done going to church. The whole religion thing feels like a big scam.

Nigeria is all the proof you need that religion, whichever one you claim, is nothing but a political scam. You have the Muslim hoard up north who even with their fervent prayers exist mostly like slaves and fodder to gun-wielding terrorists backed by politicians n their so-called religion of peace. Don't forget the Christian sheeples down South who offer countless prayers every year while funnelling resources into what is obviously a pyramid scheme designed by their many scammers-in-the-lords whose"success" can be directly traced back to their scheme and nothing else. Before I forget, all this is while the vast majority of the sheeples wallow in poverty as a result. Then you have the traditionalist, who claim juju works but when traced, you realize that the few who ever partook in juju and eventually recorded some success had to do so throw criminal means...drugs, kidnapping victims for ransom, gun running, gangsterism, etc. The many believers in this idea believe and resort to murdering members of their community in hopes of making it big next-- many killing not just once too. All these are products of religion in Nigeria.

So, tell me, wouldn't one have to be blind at this point to not realize it for what it is?

2. You have the evidence right in front of to yet you wonder if it is? Look, they say action speaks louder than words and no own lies better than men can. If you let yourself continue to get sucked up into the lies, you will have no one but yourself to blame after it all. My advice is that you abandon religion completely and focus your energy on discovering exactly why you have failed many interviews and figuring out what you do to pass the next one. Better still, find an opportunity in your community or state around which you can build a business to provide service and/or goods for.

PP123:
Do juju forget grace

You say that as if the millions who have pursued juju most of their lives have been helped by it any better than the Christians and muslims have been helped by their many prayers. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Smile4mee01:
✓Ever since i moved abroad, I have attempted to date some of our Nigerian sisters abroad purely because of the value and culture we share as a people. However i have noticed how i am being treated with disdain maybe in part due to not having my papers yet. I told a colleague at work who wanted to match make me that i would prefer someone without papers like me. i am on a work visa haven schooled here.
A few of my Nigerian friends who are here have all married interracially, and the issue of being PR/Citizen was not an issue at all. I am on a pathway to PR via my employer and should i get PR today, the legal status of who i marry would not matter at all. The things that matter to me most are the character, respect and regard you give me.
I have thought of going to Nigeria, but that comes with so much risk and challenges. why should i even go that far when there are other Nigerans here.
Alot of Indians and Asians for the most part marry within their community, is there a reason why ours is different ?
Is having PR/Citizen holding us back from having healthy relationships?

From what I have learnt of this, women consider men like you of high risk that is why they do not date men without papers. Why not channel that dating energy you have into developing yourself and getting your papers so you can become less risky for your kind of women to date. I mean this is abroad where the rules regarding what is most important is completely flipped from that which you are used to in Nigeria. 🧐

kestolove95:
Who gave her gala? Abi na bribe from d aunty

Does it matter or warrant the use of torture on a child who also happens to be illegally employed?

ahamonyeka:
➜What are the important of naming ceremony this time things are hard does it have any effect on the child? I have an uncle who is an American citizen before coming back to nigeria to establish his business he never for once do naming ceremony for all his children and I ask him why he said is not important to do that.so I wAnt to know if it have any effect on the child.

There is no importance attached to it except the delusions born of tradition or religion. In Western nations, most kids are officially named as they are born in the hospital and once the name is entered into the Birth register at that point, that is it.

Are the destinies of your Nigerian children better than the destinies of Western children who were never named during your naming ceremonies?

thesicilian:
Ten canes to use on one child alone is too much. No matter what they've done, children should not be beaten with the same level of vexation they have caused you, otherwise you'll find yourself staring at a corpse.

A child is serving as a slave in a home where she is equally tortured and your own problem is instead that ten canes are used instead of just one? 😩😩😩😩😩

Airlord2030:
➜A 35-year-old businesswoman, identified as Edith Nwachukwu, has been arrested by the police in Imo State for battering her 13-year-old house help, Kelechi Ejieke.
The suspect was apprehended on Tuesday evening, January 21, 2025, by operatives of the Owerri Urban Divisional Police Headquarters after the minor was rescued from her at the popular Relief Market in Owerri.
It was gathered that the suspect had accused the minor of stealing her money.
An Imo-based journalist, Chidiebube Okeoma, who is the founder of the Stand for Humanity Foundation, along with some traders, alerted the police when informed about the situation. The police promptly intervened, rescuing the minor and arresting the suspect.
According to Okeoma, some traders forcefully rescued the girl from the businesswoman, who had inflicted injuries on the girl and was reportedly about to procure ten more canes to use on her.
He revealed that operatives of the Owerri Urban Divisional Police Headquarters had taken the girl to a hospital in Owerri for treatment, as her injuries were severe.
“When I was informed, I quickly alerted the DPO. Thanks to some traders who rescued the minor and also involved the police. At the police station, the woman, who later pleaded for mercy, alleged that her house help had stolen her money, an accusation the girl denied,” he said.

Where is the mother and father of the child who put their child out into this position of indentured servitude. They too should be thrown in Jail for such nonsense.

We4all:
➜It depends on the kid sometimes. Any kid above six years who doesn't understand the concept of death is not so smart. Times have change and kids these days should know better.

Imagine!!

guobe:
➜Kids are really differently built humans by God. They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone. While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
➜It's a different world most kids live in.

Are you describing kids who in fact have a clear understanding of what it means to have lost a parent or a group of Chuckys?

2. Stop spreading this nonsense abeg! 🙄🙄🙄

noobaland30:
➜so if im considered barbarian for saying no to sins immoralities paganism lack of faith feminism lgbt leftism-wokeism-liberalism? then im a proud barbarian

Considered a barbarian by whom?

AntiisIam:
➜Even your name was named after an idol, is that all you have to say? So please go and sleep

But this claim of yours is clearly born of a private delusion and a general ignorance of what an idol is as explained in Israelite Scripture. So?

AntiisIam:
➜I don't have time for your blindly argument tonight. Even your name was a pagan word

The term Pagan, as used in Israelite Scripture, was directed both at those who worshipped idols which includes the Jewish people who defined the God of Israel. They were the major enemies of the Israelites who were turned instead to Jesus Christ during that time. The Romans eventually adopted the term as the name of the political tool they created— a religion called Christianity— solidifying the fact that it was all removed from Jesus Christ of Israel from its very beginning.

verminnel:
➜Wondering if there's possibility for one to learn new behavior,
➜like an introverted person changing to be an extrovert through learned habits?
➜How long on average does it take for habit to be ingrained as behavior in an individual?
➜Will the old and new behavior conflict in the individual's disposition?

1. All behaviors are learned. So, first, determine why you became an introvert and what benefits being one affords you. Then consider why you wish to change and if a complete switch is what you really need.

2. Yes, an introvert can work on being less introverted if he chooses to do so. But doing that which is counterintuitive can pose some discomfort.

3. It is typically claimed that it takes an average of 21 days, but when I started working on converting from being introverted to being extroverted, it took me way longer than that ... many months. But after a while, I realized, that there is nothing with being introverted when I need to be and extroverted only when I need to be.

4. That depends on the reason behind the change. For instance, if you do things simply to please others and not yourself, you are likely to find yourself fighting new battles regularly instead of keeping the old piece you may have originally had.

AntiisIam:
➜You have started again ehn

Are you able to dispute, with evidence, any of what is stated on the subject?

Truthseeker10:
➜What's the meaning of the word 'Christian'? Don't beat around the bush.

The meaning comes from that given it by the Pagans who first used it, which is what I explained.

Truthseeker10:
➜What's the meaning of the word 'Christian'?

According to Israelite Scripture, the term "Christian" was a pagan word used to regard those who were followers of Jesus Christ of Israel during their time of Judean captivity under the Roman Empire. The term was not meant as a term of endearment nor was it regarded as a title of pride at the time. However, this term was later adopted as the name of the religion—a political tool— established by the Romans to further rule over the masses, a decision which eventually led to the destruction of the Roman empire.