₦airaland Forum

Sirkingsnado:
➜Good day everyone I hope to hear your opinion on this matter cause it eating me up The deal and mistake has already been done. One day I want to patronize brothel around my area meet one new girl there collected her number we started chatting on normal Later on we started nacking without protection normally after sex she will take pills. Along the line this girl come dey fall in love with me. While me also come dey like her cause apart from being a sex worker she also has conscious and always says the truth
➜During Christmas she is from benue while we know each other from rano Kano state. She travel for Xmas after one week she called me that she hasn't seen her period. After three days she tested positive for pregnancy. She wanted to abort the baby which I sent her money. But to my surprise she called me today saying she won't abort the baby again that she will give birth to the baby. I didn't say no to her request but I told her she will say at her papa house and give the birth which she declined. Saying that she will join me at Kano. And here every one knows she is a prostitute both old and young she is very beautiful every nigga around had have one or two with her. I have told her that I can't accommodate her here with me and she too says she can't give birth in her father's house. House please any advice on how I will go about this
Remember if she will stay In her father's house I will be the provider of her needs. Thanks

In 2024/2025, a human being chose to have unprotected sex with someone he was not married to but now chooses to ask what to do to escape responsibility for the result of his careless action. What exactly do you want us to tell you to do? Kill the gal or kill the baby? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Well, even though you paid her to abort it only for her to change her mind, you are not absolved of responsibility for the child. You can ask her to refund you the money she did not use for the abortion but you still have to pay for child support. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Chemlite:
➜Can you reason well to disappoint people for once, just for once plsss. Instead of her to get a job ?

I know most of you love to live in denial of reality; the desire to choose ignorance over reality is in the blood of many of you. You are programmed to do so. So, I will leave you to it!

guobe:
My secondary school mate got married to his secondary school girlfriend and they were classmates. They both proceeded to the same University and got married after NYSC . It's quite rare for such occurrence but it does happen. I think this is a definition of real ❤️ love. Happy for them.

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easytig:
➜Last last she go dump am,water must always find it's level,I don't like guys that are not smart at all

People need to learn to date responsibly. It is 2025 and there is no reason not to do so. OP is clearly in over his head and does not want to accept it. Rather, he would rather think to blame the gal for being honest with him about her needs. 🙄🙄🙄

Chemlite:
➜Op said she is demanding money too much, and he can't meet her demand.
➜That means, op is supportive but she has chosen to be a liability, always demanding for more money.
➜Money doesn't grow on a tree, she can also was work to earn, that is the point!
➜Relationship shouldn't be parasitic or predatory but mutual, that is my belief.

1. How much money is enough for a person in a relationship to demand from the other?

2. Does she not support him sexually, emotionally, and otherwise? Did you OP tell you what you claim or are you comfortably inserting yourself as a voice in the relationship? Why is financial aid the only sort of support you recognize in the relationship?

3. Money does not need to grow on trees for it to be used as a form of support in relationships. A person in a relationship can work to earn his/her own or depend on the other in the relationship for his/her monetary needs. Relationships provide such benefits too.

4. If OP feels the relationship has become parasitic then OP is free to quit the relationship. Making her out as the enemy here makes no sense since OP clearly admits that he himself is to blame for why they are still together. He has not made any concerted effort to let go of the relationship. So, why do you fault her?

OP knows he cannot afford her. Yet, OP holds onto her. Why? If he lets her go, she can easily go out and find herself who can afford her and has no problem supporting her financially. That is what should happen next. But as OP says, he has yet to grow the balls to let her go.

Chemlite:
➜She that will not work, let her not eat! She should work to meet her financial needs or is she handicap?
➜Can you see the young man is distracting God with nonsense prayer point?

So, OP should date her but she should not eat?

She is to blame for OP's choosing to date a supposedly unemployed woman? Are you people OK at all?

Maxtipulation:
➜Only patriotic when it's not one of their own. One Nigeria indeed

What has the reporting of crime to do with patriotism though? In any meaningful society, isn't it meant to be the duty of every citizen to ensure that crime is reported to ensure it is curbed, and this is for the individual good of all within the society? If 14 years from now, that traumatized boy grows up into a tout/agbero as a result of the devastation experienced, no be you and everyone else wey dey live within that very community him go go after, possibly your own children too? If he were to become a teacher in one of the schools wey your children or grandchildren dey go, no be dem him go use as punching bag for his own frustration? Why una no dey reason these simple things?

Jega2000:
➜ I be lastborn and I never marry ooo

Jega2000:
... I dey spend 45k-60k to fuel my car weekly... feeding 5-6k daily,

If you don't want your situation to get significantly worse, do not think to get married to a woman who does not make at least Naira 400K each month in this 2025(that amount is not guaranteed to be enough after this year).

D00msDay:
➜Hahahahahah U understood the mindset of an average Nigerian. Those praying for change are doing it for their own selfish reasons. Those complaining of corruption by our politicians are only doing it cos they are not the ones in the position to do it.
[b]Can't believe some people see nothing wrong in the issue at hand? It shows that majority of Nigerians are damaged goods. It baffles me seeing a comment from a moniker condemning the arrest of the said teacher. Can u imagine that? How can Nigeria get better wit these kind of citizens? [/b]OMG!!

This is why I keep saying — I have said this severally over the years —that Nigerians are the way it is today, not because of the 0.001% criminals in government but because the vast majority of Nigerians would rather it remain this way so they too can maybe get a piece of the action at some point in time. The people generally don't mind at all!

komzy589:
➜Ok I’ve been following your post from the beginning and YES, the woman is wrong to hit that little boy for not grabbing the lessons she was giving and all. But is this the most vicious thing you’ve ever seen.
➜People’s intentions could be mixed up with their approach, and she’s been reprimanded for it.
➜After this, she’ll know better but you need to pipe down with the judgy attitude.

Does it need to be the most vicious crime before I can call it out for the crime that it is?

2. The only reprimand necessary when a crime is committed is for the law to handle it accordingly. Why do you not want the Law enforced in this case?🤔

Let me put it another way for you. If a policeman came up to your mother or son and beat him up, would you equally frown against having legal action in that case? 😩😩😩

3. So, asserting that the Law should be allowed to take precedence is considered being Judgy? Would you equally consider the case if you or your mother were assaulted for free by a policeman tomorrow? 😩😩😩

D00msDay:
➜Ur absolutely correct @Kobojunkie. Nigerians wants a better society but they are not ready to work for it. An average Nigerian takes delight in supporting evil. They support anything bad, and u begin to wonder if it's the same set of people that are praying for change. Honestly, Nigeria is gone.

I don't really believe that the desire for a better society is shared by a substantial number of Nigerians. When Nigerians pray for change, they usually pray that the change only happens for them even if at the expense of those around them. That is a country full mostly of people who don't want a better society.

D00msDay:
...give it up already. Do u know that child abuse is a crime anywhere in the world? And anyone caught risks spending some years in jail?
Most states in the US will blacklist u after serving ur jail time and u will never b employed as a teacher ever again.

Ever! Even her own kids will have to be monitored whenever they are around her for many years to come. Unfortunately, even in 2025 and Nigeria the way it remains, Nigerians refuse to borrow commonsense en masse! They would rather continue to churn out damaged individuals and then turn around to keep wondering why the vast majority of the citizenry remains no better than zombies or violent barbarians.

recklesslove:
➜When the universe is ready for you brother you will understand. We ain't fighting but I wish you the best.
➜Not everyone will be among the " Tribe of the Awakened". The kingdom of God is outside us but within us.
➜The devil isn't our enemy just the way a strict maths teacher or principal isn't our enemy.

Stop spewing religion gobbledegook at people for Pete's sake! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Tribe of the awakened? In one of the worst countries on the planet today and a population that has proven incapable of ruling its society?🙄🙄🙄🙄

3. The only devil I see are you folks who deny reality to assert religious nonsense whenever want to pretend to have intelligence.

donself9:
➜ thought you knew "priviledges" beta... i was born in local Nigeria cant relate

I currently use cake, sweets, candy, garri and ekpa, hot cocoa, noodles, and even fried eggs to bribe a 6-& half-year-old boy into doing his homework, chores, and being a good boy at home and at school. Those are just some of the privileges he enjoys when he does well and he works really hard to keep the goodies coming his way.

nini007:
She doesn't love you. She's using you ni

She does not love him because she requires money to take care of her financial needs? My gosh! The way you folks reason ehn... 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Yadaddy:
➜I guess the school authority would have hid this whole issue hence why she sent the video to her pastor first. Because I don't see any reason why she will have to send it to her pastor first. Can't she confront the teacher herself since they are even colleagues?
➜Or maybe the son's teacher is a bully?
➜If you try this nonsense with my child, even if I cannot beat you, I will hire men to beat shege comot your body. But normally I trust myself, I will tap strength from my child's tears and pains and beat the demon out of you.
➜I can go to jail cos of my child, atleast I will be satisfied that I didn't fail to protect him/her.

Confront the teacher for what exactly? She has video proof of the crime so what would she need to have gotten from the teacher after that? An excuse to make the crime less of the criminal offense that it is?

2. The teacher assaulted the boy. Of course, that is bullying behavior!

3. You commit a crime in retaliation to a crime? And then you will wonder why crime has come to be a mainstay in the daily life of Nigerians. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

4. So you teach your child that violence is OK, like many other Nigerians continue to, and then you wonder why even your police think it OK to violently assault all of una, against the very Law they are meant to instead enforce. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

aieromon:
➜I had power during the period. From your link, there was a drop in supply from 3831MW to 2100MW which aligns with the TCN statement. Fell free to go ahead with the narrative though.

A drop — particularly a significant one at that —amounts to a crash!

ebenholer2:
➜The truth remains...this child has been suffering this abuse for long due to the mother giving the teacher free hands to discipline her child for being a slow learner while the teachet now took such parental permission to the extreme.
➜The fact of the matter is parents often compare their children with other children and thereby always bitter to see their children not catching up like other children. They thereby ask teachers to beat them till they catch up.

All the more reason why this mother should be called out for her actions. She works at the school and must have seen violence instigated against other students at the same school before this. Why did it take another stranger recording the video for her to suddenly realize what was wrong?

2. Did this mother say she was OK with her child getting hit or something?

aieromon:
➜Check carefully between 1pm and 2pm and scroll down to the bottom.

I did that is why I posted the link. If several Gencos crashed, isn't that evidence of a crash?

donself9:
➜I am open to sensitization, use yourself as a case study

Use myself as a case study how?

But the following link reveals that many of the Genco's crashed today. https://www.niggrid.org/GenerationProfile2

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recklesslove:
➜African spirituality not religion. We don't have a religion we have spirituality these are two ends that don't meet.
➜I'm our African spirituality there's metaphysics, there's science, there's ethics , there justice system, there's medicine, there's psychology etc. ➜How can you find yourself if you don't know your heritage?

Do you have religious leaders/Spiritual leaders or whatever else you call them whom you consult to obtain information on how to contact your gods, what items to use, and so on? If yes, then you are a religion.

2. Science? What science?

3. My heritage refers to my DNA and inheritance/property passed down to me by my bloodline, right?

donself9:
➜Timeout ... from parent that are hardly home, inside these economic, even parent no get time out
➜Priviledges ... Maybe for the otedola, davido kids, on a reality what priviledges does an average naija pikin has ... smh
➜Grounding ... where is the money, its so bad children are the ones raising parent now doing yahoo how old is peller, naa that one parent go ground

Nigerian parents are busier than parents in foreign countries where the suggested ideas are the norm?

2. Do you understand the meaning of the word privileges?

3. Huh?

donself9:
➜after sacking the teacher, detaining her, someone is still asking for justice If thats not over reaction then death sentence must be a benchmark hypocrite how ! i will beat my child if he errs and my position on these matter gives me out, i support discipline lol ! there is no one in my age group or born 80's backward that dont share a similar experience as mine, shout to our Naija mothers "
➜Abàrá" naa factory reset if i beat my children 20% of the beating i recieve as an hyperactive kid, dem go disown me for life ... time have change nd thats my believe "Moderation" is best we can do. spare the rod n spoil the child, therapy is not for naija breeds

1. You are right. Pretty much most Nigerians born before the year 2005 likely experienced discipline of the kind you described. But what has been the outcome of all of that disciple we all had to endure? We were told it would make us all better human beings. Is that the case? Are the vast majority of Nigerians many of whom are 30 upwards model citizens and better human beings as a result of being subject to corporal punishment, particularly in the school system?

Or are you insinuating we are to simply continue this practice that has not benefitted any of the generations since 1960 simply because it was what we were subjected to as youngins?

2. Reports even from most organizations working in Nigeria today reveal that over 70% of Nigerians walk around with one form of mental illness or another. At every level of society, this dysfunction is clearly revealed. The average policeman in Nigeria is no different from an agbero or a maniac. Violence has become the order of the day and is mostly a result of our being exposed to violence as children. So, how did you resolve that mental health treatment is not for Nigerians?

codemaniacs:
➜Again.. you think overlooking racist attacks against Yoruba children while in Yorubaland is okay then you have a mental problem... it makes me know you are the real racist..

Again, And you think your clearly racist retort makes you a lot better than those you denigrate? What the f0ck is wrong with you people?

codemaniacs:
➜nothing racist about the truth... An i:gbo teacher violently slapping a 3 year old Yoruba boy is not racist to you then there is something wrong with you and you would rather ignore tribal attacks than take note of it...
either you have a long a way to go or you were born to parents from two different ethnic nations..

Again, And you think your clearly racist retort makes you a lot better than those you denigrate? What the f0ck is wrong with you people?

codemaniacs:
➜Most of the people you are replying are i:gbos and they usually have more sympathy and empathy for their fellow i:gbos no matter the offence the i:gbo person committed.

And you think your clearly racist retort makes you a lot better than those you denigrate? What the f0ck is wrong with you people?

iwaeda:
➜They are denying now. We still don't have light yet under banditry A.

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People should record and post pictures of the blackout from various locations as confirmation then.

Umuinyioku:
➜Petting are some of the seasons your children turn Agbero and societal miscreants.
➜During our days, we received more punishment than this. And that our generation are very successful today.
➜Spare The rod. You spoil the child!

1. Yet with all of the beatings endured by many Nigerians in the many schools, the vast majority of Nigerians in Nigeria, including your leaders today are basically agberos and societal miscreants. Were they not beaten/slapped around enough in your schools and in their homes?

2. But what you see of Nigeria today is the report card on all of those punishments you claim your generation endured back in the days. What do you think of the results? Is Nigeria of today better as a result of all of those beatings your generation and the ones before that were subjected to?

3. Nigeria is 65 on this day. All the generations before at least 2005 were subjected to the rod... yes, we were all told that it was for our own good. Yet Nigeria turned out the way it is today even that... a nation of miscreants and agberos... even the Nigerian police is now fully a criminal gangster organization headed by people who were born when Nigeria was barely 1 year old. Is this the future that was promised by all that using of the rod?

iwaeda:
KINDLY IGNORE RUMOUR OF A GRID COLLAPSE TODAY.

Check for yourself to find out when the Grid in fact collapsed. Something seems to have happened around 2pm today in Nigeria.

https://www.niggrid.org/GenerationProfile2

AK481:
➜Anyway, I heard the school have been closed, all the student are being withdrawn and all the teachers sacked ,including the one that recorded the video.. all are now looking for another work this hard time

This is 2025, if need be, schools which teach that violence is OK behavior should be appropriately shut down until future abeg! We have bred way too many violent beings in that country! 🤐🤐🤐🤐

Zackattack:
➜Didn’t you read the part were I said it is wrong.
➜I think the correct word is ‘ignorant’, not ‘wrong’. More that 60% of the Nigerian population is uneducated and would disagree with you.
➜They do it, doesn’t mean they love their children any less. That was what I meant by ’doing it from a place of love’.
Why am I even explaining this to you 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️ Come back when you’re matured abeg.

1. It is not simply wrong but, in fact, a crime that should be reported; a case should be instituted to ensure it is not repeated.

2. Ignorance is not reason enough for anyone to think it OK to violently assault another person; you would know this from the fact that nobody would sit back and accept being assaulted by any third party. Yes, even the ignorant man balks at being assaulted by someone else. So, ignorance is not the problem.

3. You pretend to be more mature yet you have not been able to figure out that one's man's idea of love is not necessarily another man's idea of love. The reason why we have the Law is to help define what should be acceptable behavior/rights for everyone regardless of our individual notions about such things as love. Please borrow commonsense this 2025!