₦airaland Forum

Auxtan:
➜How effective is pretending to be poor or uneducated help people bag true love. The world is crazy these days. Finding true love seems to be so difficult now.

Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

First, try to carefully define this true love you refer to. So long as it reads no different from a dysfunctional relationship setup, you can pretty much find it anywhere. You only need to be open to being the one holding the short end of the stick sometimes.

RealityKings1:
➜ In all my posts there was never at any point I mentioned "religion or religious". So you are drawing inference.
➜That aside I will like to ask, how did you know there are over 5,000,000,000 ,000 people on earth just like you claimed?

Excuse you? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Do you actually think one has to explicitly say the word religion before one can be identified as pushing a religious agenda?😩😩😩😩😩

2. As of January 2025, the number of people on the planet is put at over 8 billion —8,000,000,000.

Obaaderemi2:
You always talk like someone without a brain. United Nations is now a Nigerian agency

Did The UN do an independent census of Nigerians? So, you never figure out at this point in time that many of the numbers we obtain from the UN and other organizations incorporate the erroneous figure fed them by your government which has not conducted a census since 2006? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

RealityKings1:
➜Cc .. is this possible? Looks like a scene in the matrix where Neo is summoned through the cellphone

Matrix was not this sloppy abeg! This is a very terrible video-clipping job.

Either that or NEPA take light while the man was standing there and by the time the light came back, the man don waka commot for there.🤣🤣🤣

mysticwarrior:
➜Shuo, see me see wahala o. I ask you about the police man and you dey explain film trick dey give me. Wetin dey happen today na kobo?

What policeman? 😩

I mean why choose to deceive yourself? One moment there is a shadow and the next the shadow is cut by about 6 inches on that back wall. And it did not occur to you in this video editing world that someone must have cut portions of the video?😩 😩 😩

mysticwarrior:
Chai kobo but you no be violent person na, why you wan slap me? Calm down abeg this na morning. So in other words you dey tell me say the police man dey lie?

This is 2025! I have every right to be pissed off by the fact that there still exist individuals in this day and age who would fall for the same film trick of the quality that was used as far back as the 60s/70s in that same Nigeria. Anyone who has ever seen any Nigerian movie from as far back as even the 80s would have immediately realized that this video for a hoax it is given that this is the same quality disappearing trick used back during those years in major productions in the country.

mysticwarrior:
➜After them go say African juju no dey work, oya kobojunkie come and explain how the mopol and CCTV camera suffered from "DELUSION" because na your favourite word be that.

To slap you dey hungry me! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Did the man disappear, along with the shadow on the wall in the video? If you pay attention to the video, you realize that the video had been clipped to remove what may be at least 15 minutes -30 minutes worth of video(see the black marking indicating the height of shadow that had been taken out in the process) from it when it is claimed that the man disappeared. 😩😩😩😩😩

Bola4boy:
➜You call Nigeria shit hole, yet you still plan to gather funds from that shit hole to travel out. What I observed about most Nigerians is our herd mentality. Once one person do something like this, every one go wan do the same.
You wey no fit use your brain and be productive in Nigeria suddenly see abroad as where you go succeed. Dey play.
➜An ant in Nigeria can't become a giant in abroad.

Nigeria is a shit-hole not because of the OP but because the data on Nigeria points to exactly that.
➜Decayed infrastructure,
➜lack of even the most basic of amenities for the over 200 million people who live there
➜a population of over 1 million having escaped in the last 18 months some braving dangerous seas and deserts to make that happen
➜over 160 million Nigerians living in multidimensional poverty with the situation projected to get worse over 2025
➜corrupt criminals occupying almost 99.9% of government offices
➜law enforcement agencies that constitute a danger to the law and the very people they are expected to protect...🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Are you referring to the same abroad where your Nigerian giants are revealed nobodies when they travel to? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Divaan:
➜Sir, be real to yourself, have you ever cheated on your wife during these 2 years period and been caught and forgiven?
Did your wife have any complications during pregnancy? for example, a woman who has had cervical cerclage done during pregnancy probably realises that her life is worth more than 10 mins round of sex with someone who probably will marry someone else when she's gone. Same with many pregnancy complications.
What is the foundation of your marriage? You have just told us this little stuff, we do not know the nitty gritties that may have hardened your wife to make such resolve. For example, a divorcee kept cheating with his ex wife under the disguise of seeing/ supporting his ex children. The wife being a lover of peace didn't bother to stop him. She was even glad to have someone out there helping her out in that department. Their sex life suffered just like yours as the wife completely lost sex interest in her own husband...

Women dey marry things! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Xisnin:
➜The stats are against you.
➜The highest divorce rate in Nigeria is in the core North and there are very few pastor marriages over there.
➜So where did you get your false blanket statement from?

What stats would those be?

2. While the South leads with marriage abandonment rates since many still consider divorce a taboo! To most in the South, a man abandoning his wife and children is better than him filling legal divorce papers. Many of your churches are filled to overflow with women who spend their days praying for the men who abandoned them to return; these crowds are cash cows for pastors looking to fill seat in their churches, abi no be so? 😩😩😩😩😩😩

3. The numbers prove these things. Look around at the number of abandoned children on the streets of Nigeria, to begin with, the number of single-mother situations in the south and you get a good picture of how equally damaged the family situation has become down in the South as it is in the North.

eniolorunfe:
➜Just wondering if it was the same challenges that the previous relative experienced while she was staying with them too. Hence, the reason she had to leave.

That is ridiculous! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

OP is a married man and the onus is on him to keep his marriage vows no matter what. Nobody else is responsible for upholding your marriage vows on your behalf. You go engage someone you are not married to, the fault is completely yours no matter who it was we are talking of. 😩😩😩

RealityKings1:
1. Just like I have told you, if you do it right you will get the right results.

Stop telling this religious lie already! There are over 5 billion individuals on the planet today who claim either one religion or the other, with absolutely none of them currently outwardly exuding most any of the ideas put forth in any of your religious texts in terms of miraculous performances, etc.

Think carefully about that before you respond. We are talking of a population of over 5,000,000,000 religious individuals and zilch! Are you trying to have us believe that they all failed and that is the reason why absolutely none of them have been able to accomplish any of the feats documented in their religious texts?

RealityKings1:
➜There is a difference between "reading about" and "practicing what you read". You clearly aren't experienced in such areas.
➜ Thats because you failed.
➜If you practice the invocation right with the rituals. They will honour you with their presence.
➜Often times people run mad

1. I read through various religious writings, and then put them to practice. Why are you desperate to diminish what I said in order to cause it to suit your particular narrative?

2. That is the convenient religious copout, isn't it?

3. Nonsense! I practiced what was written in most of the texts I religious texts I read — I approached the religious doctrines in all of the religious texts in a scientific manner. But I came up with nothing in the end.

4. Nobody I have ever met in an asylum ran mad merely from practicing religious rituals. There is no proof that that ever happens. Only Africans with their religious minds conveniently subscribe to such idiocy. And yes, I have experienced madness(or have come very close to it) and my experience was in no way linked to religion or connected rituals.

RealityKings1:
➜You are funny. You said you have read extensively on many of the deities. That's half way education. Have you participated in any of the practicals?
➜Have you taking part in summoning or invoking any spirits?
➜So that you can see the building blocks of existence.

1. That also means I have put into practice much of what I read as far as invocation/incantation as well.

2. Sure!

3. No building blocks of existence are identified through all of those religion rituals I engaged in!

RealityKings1:
➜Invocation / incantation wise, all these gods can be summoned to be effective. Just because you can't do it doesn't mean it's impossible.
➜My point it there is a supreme being, he doesn't want to be aknowledged because he exists outside the action frame called "power".
➜But humans want to do "eye-service". So they create religion and some of these gods to express their their understanding of an ideal creator

1. There is no proof of any of this, and I have read extensively on many of the deities in question

2. A supreme being who is? 😩😩😩

RealityKings1:
➜fairness or justice? fairness or justice are ideas fashioned by man and his understanding of a "moral compass". God is a supreme creator not limited to human expression or expectations.

Also a good point given all 4000 identified known deities are described as being unanswerable to those who follow them so it really makes no sense asking questions such as these.

SAMKHAY:
➜You are right. I feel so bad right now.

She is 21, so you should have seriously known better. So, like someone already suggested, your best bet is to own up before it balloons into something bigger than it already is.

Celestialsword:
➜please quote the scriptures to support your claims

Matthew 15 vs 21-22 & Matthew 7 vs 6 & Matthew 10 vs 1 - 6; Deuteronomy 32 vs 7 - 9... There are so many texts where this is made clear in most every book contained in that compendium.

SAMKHAY:
➜I actually sincere with every word I wrote there. We never had sex, it did not happen.

I am sure you are but it does not change the fact that what you described is literally you cheating on your wife with her sister.

Obaaderemi2:
➜So did your own parents and family members produce children anyhow? because I know mine didn't
➜You can see that people are actually having fewer children. Is there room for improvement? Sure, we seriously need to do more

1. Nigerians ehn!

2. You are quoting data conjured up by your government at me, right? This is data from a country that has refused to conduct a census since 2006 ooo, almost 20 years ago. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

SAMKHAY:
➜ However, I have noticed a shift in her attitude towards me. Recently, she has become disrespectful, and despite multiple discussions with her, her behavior persists. This evening, after reporting one of her actions to my wife over the phone, I later tried to have a conversation with her. During our conversation, she became defensive, disrespectful, and expressed her desire to leave the house. She confronted me about our past actions, insisting that while I reported her wrong this evening, I should have also disclosed our actions to my wife, even though we never engaged in sex.
I pleaded with her to keep this issue dead, as my wife does not deserve to know about this betrayal, she deserves better from both of us. She has calmed down for now, but I am deeply troubled. My wife is returning tomorrow morning, and I want to ensure this matter remains resolved and private for the sake of my marriage and trust. I would appreciate sincere advice on how to handle this situation and prevent any further harm.

You cheated on your wife with her sister and you are here asking us how to avoid facing the consequences? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

ardeks:
➜What's Fairness and Justice; and what's the difference?
Fairness typically implies a sense of equality, impartiality, and evenhandedness. It's about treating everyone the same, without bias or prejudice.
Justice, on the other hand, involves upholding what is right and moral, often taking into account the specific circumstances and context. Justice seeks to address wrongs, protect the vulnerable, and promote righteousness.
Does God work on the basis of fairness or justice?
In the biblical tradition, God is often described as a God of justice (Isaiah 61:8, Psalm 11:7). God's justice is not limited to punishment, but also involves restoration, redemption, and mercy.
While God's ways may not always seem "fair" to us, they are rooted in His justice and righteousness. God's justice takes into account the complexities of human situations, the consequences of sin, and the need for redemption.
In other words, God's justice is not about treating everyone the same, but about treating each person according to their unique circumstances, needs, and actions.
Examples from Scripture:
1. The parable of the workers in the vineyard (Matthew 20:1-16) illustrates God's justice, where those who worked longer hours received the same pay as those who worked shorter hours. While this may seem "unfair," it highlights God's gracious and merciful nature.
2. The story of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32) demonstrates God's justice, where the father welcomes back his wayward son with open arms, despite the son's past mistakes.
In conclusion, while God's ways may not always seem "fair" to us, they are rooted in His justice, righteousness, and mercy. God's justice takes into account the complexities of human situations, and His ways are always motivated by love and a desire to restore and redeem.What are your thoughts on this topic?

There are over 4000 different identified deities out there. So your write-up is not balanced, to begin with. You are on a forum filled with Nigerians yet your focus is on a God that is written to have no connections whatsoever with Nigerians or the nation of Nigeria; the God of Israel and His Son, Jesus Christ of Israel, clearly revealed in Israelite scripture that they are both only concerned with descendants of the man Jacob. So how we go take answer your question?

Obaaderemi2:
➜You don't understand. We're not talking about producing children . We're talking about sex. ➜What happened to family planning? Couples can still have a lot of sex without producing kids from it.
➜Families are even getting smaller in Africa too.
➜And don't gaslight us with that common idea that black people only think about sex. People all over the world are all doing it maybe even more than black people. Martin Luther King jr was once caught on tape saying: "Fucking is an anxiety reductor."

No be sex dem they use produce children? Are you attempting to suggest here that Nigerians only have kids when they plan to have them? 🙄🙄🙄

2. Family planning in a country with over 5 million homeless children roaming the streets every night and with at least 20 million out-of-school children. How many couples in Nigeria have sex without producing children? 🙄🙄🙄

3. Recently, I watched a video of a man who had 33 children but 20 of them eventually died. Is that what you mean by families getting smaller in Africa? 🙄🙄🙄

4. But there is no gaslighting necessary since the data exists to show this to anyone with open eyes. 🙄🙄
https://lifeissues.org/world-population-status-by-country-map/

CodeTemplarr:
➜Lol. Only in a zoo. That will give a false sense of productivity level. They are not economic output but somewhere between consumption and an unproductive means of money exchanging hands.

Prostitutions make a substantial contribution to the economy as is. And they deserve better treatment for all of the contributions they make to sanity in a society where sex is held by so many above so much else.

nedu666:
➜Since its about making money and contributing to the economy. Yahoo boys should be included. Make govt no joke with those guys, them dey bring in forex steady. After that govt should include those stealing our oil and selling it illegally. Those people are contributing to the economy. Then piracy should be included. Imagine the forex those guys have saved us by faking gucci, versace, balenciaga, Louis Victor abi vutton

Stealing is a crime primarily because there are victims. Prostitution is a victimless crime hence the reason why it makes more sense to decriminalize it.

magoo10:
➜The APC government will soon start building infrastructures for prostitutes

Probably the many prostitutes will drive development for themselves the moment they are legalized.

omowolewa:
NBS wanna legalise Prostitution.

Legalization is long overdue. In a country where prostitution has become a sort of lifeblood of millions; even the marriage industry is propped up to a great extent by prostitutes in that country, it is high time they are accorded a legal status and also the respect they deserve.

mrvitalis:
➜All in a bid to artificially increase or GDP tinubu government crushed

Well, at least prostitutes will now get the chance to be treated like human beings in that country.

iwaeda:
➜Deuteronomy 23:18 You must not bring the wages of a prostitute, whether female or male, into the house of the LORD your God to fulfill any vow, because both are detestable to the LORD your God.

The National treasury is not your Christian deity's house or whatever it is you think there. 🙄🙄🙄

EmeeNaka:
➜How can you include illegal activities in GDP computation? So they have to include Internet fraud, Armed robbery, banditry, and all sort of things, provided they bring earnings.

...

Yankee101:
lol Are you all that desperate? Illegal economy dose not pay taxes

This instead means that prostitution is to become or has already been made legal in Nigeria.

kettykin:
➜The APC-led government hasn’t just killed Nigeria—it has gutted its soul, stripped it of any remaining moral fiber, and left it as a husk of corruption and lawlessness. Under this disastrous leadership, Nigeria has descended into a cesspool where kidnapping, ransom-taking, and ritual killings have become industries of their own, thriving in the vacuum of accountability.
➜The truth is stark: Nigeria, once the giant of Africa, is now barely clinging to relevance, ranked as the 5th largest economy on the continent.

1. Where was this supposed moral fiber before this particular decision? If your moral fiber has not been able to institute and maintain sanity in any of the 774 LGAs that make up Nigeria, what value is there in keeping or holding on to it? 🙄🙄🙄

2. Giant of Africa my arse! It was all a case of luck and nothing more. Nigeria's luck has finally run out revealing that from the beginning corruption had always been in the blood iron of those who ruled it since independence; corruption has finally eaten through the facade revealing that the country — and its people —were never really plotting a path forward for themselves from the beginning. Pretty much everyone has been waiting for their turn to loot even till now. 🙄🙄🙄