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lawani:
➜He in a way accepted Christ because he acknowledged him as a prophet. He however did not acknowledge him as God. It was in the convention at Nice that early Christian leaders decided to accept the divinity of Christ. In the beginning there were many Christian sects that did not accept Jesus Christ as God. It must have been a sect that did not accept Christ as God that preached to him in Arabia

. I get your argument. There remain over 46,000 different Christian sects even to this day. 🥱🥱

Also, Mohammed did set himself as a replacement for Jesus Christ in his Quran, though.
➜Mohammedians literally pray to Mohammed 5 times every day during their Salats(Shahadas) — he is dead, but they still call on him to provide for them intercession so Allah will hear their prayers. He literally presented himself as a go-between for all muslims to reach Allah. (Muslims cannot be heard by Allah unless they first pray to Mohammed.)
➜ Mohammed is expected to sit on a throne next to Allah, in some way taking the place of Jesus in the Christian myths.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7RrBMugcvKQ?si=OV1ivqX3OcfhdU2w

The Islamic Golden Age...there are kind of two. The Umayyads' golden age happened around 750AD period. Whereas the golden age of the Abbasids in Baghdad happened around 900AD.

Hārūn ibn al-Mahdī (famously known as Hārūn al-Rashīd ) was the fifth Abbasid caliph of the Abbasid Caliphate, reigning from September 786 until his death in March 809. He was allied with or on friendly terms with Charlemagne. Charlemagne(2 April 748 – 28 January 814) was King of the Franks from 768, King of the Lombards from 774, and Emperor of what is now known as the Carolingian Empire from 800. Charlemagne spread Christianity to his new conquests (often by force), as seen at the Massacre of Verden against the Saxons. He also sent envoys and initiated diplomatic contact with Harun al-Rashid, the Abbasid caliph in the 790s, due to their mutual interest in Iberian affairs.

There's also a supposed golden age in Spain, the Umayyad, in Cordoba. The Umayyad Caliphate of Córdoba (929–1031) marked the golden age of Muslim Spain, transforming it into a center of intellectual, cultural, and economic prosperity. Under leaders like Abd al-Rahman III and al-Hakam II, Córdoba became one of Europe's largest, most advanced cities, famous for its libraries, scientific advancements, and the architectural masterpiece, Madinat al-Zahra.

And what needs to be understood about the golden age is this. Let me try to start off by giving you an analogy. Imagine, many, many decades or centuries from now, those buildings are still standing. Everything's changed, and Islam may be gone or whatever. And people look at it and go, "Wow, that was a golden age, that country, that civilization, because look what it led to. "Now, we would say, well, no, I mean, they had their Islam, sure, but this is actually money, and Westerners built it ...western technology, western workers... and it just so happened that these Arabs had the money to spend on it. That, I submit to you, is the best way to understand the golden age that happened historically. It didn't happen due to Islam. Quite the contrary, it happened despite Islam.

The Abbasid Empire was more Persianized, and it's in it's in, Baghdad. Keep in mind when these Arab Muslim conquests happened, most of so let's say Egypt and Syria, were highly Christian. Let's say in the 8th to 10th century, the majority were still Christian. And there are Jews also as well, especially in Alexandria and various cities. And you have a lot of Zoroastrians and Persians. You have all these different groups who are living under the Islamic rule. They're the ones who are doing all the stuff that we call the golden age. It's Christians, it's Jews, and especially it's Persians in the Abbasid era. And it's not because of anything special about Islam. I mean, they are literally not Muslims, and a few of them who are are literally like they just converted. They're first-generation converts, which means they're still primarily whatever their former religion was. Sure, it could be said that Muslims sponsored much of the work done during that era, maybe paid for it. But there was nothing intrinsic to Islam about any of the work of those periods.

But once Islam started to harden, because even at this time, the Abbasid caliphate in the golden age, there were still debates between the various schools of Islamic law. And some were actually considered liberal, if we can use that term. Sometime in the 10th-11th century, what's known as uh the doors of Ishtahed... The doors of Ijtihad (independent legal reasoning in Islam) refer to the ongoing, scholarly effort to derive and interpret Islamic law from the Quran and Sunnah. While some historical perspectives suggested the "gates" closed around the 10th century to prevent unqualified interpretation, many scholars maintain that the doors remain open for qualified experts to address modern, evolving issues. Ijtihadwas a way for the liberals to get around draconian Islam. However, history suggests the doors were closed beginning around the 10th century, giving power over to the hardliners who won the Islamic debate, leading to the decline in the embrace of the sciences and the last golden age.

So it was never because of Islam, but there was a time when Islam, in its early national period, was liberal enough to allow this sort of advancement to happen. And the people who were doing the achievements were actually not Muslims. And if they were, they were like literally just converted to join the winning crowd, as a lot of people did over the years; their mind and the way they thought, and their heritage was still non-Muslim. So that's why I give you that analogy about Saudi Arabia and these places, if you look at their worldview, their culture, which is based on Islam, well, yeah, it's draconian Sharia law, living in a desert, polygamy, etc, but they have wealth, and look at what they can have. They can build skyscrapers, they can have the greatest stuff that westerners can't have, but that doesn't mean it's actually part and parcel of Islam.

lawani:
➜So it was from Allah that he first heard the name of Jesus Christ, Mary, Abraham and etc?

The idea to use those stories came instead from the fact that he had chosen to associate the experience he had in the caves with what he believed a demon was with an angel called Gabriel from Christian mythology, as suggested to him by his wife's cousin.

AntiChristian:
[size=8pt]➜ The Quran explicitly states that it confirms and corrects previous scriptures but is a new, independent revelation (Quran 5:48).

I have heard this so many times repeated by your Mohammedians, but I doubt you truly understand the meaning behind this claim. If your Allah's (Mohammed's) Quran confirms the Scriptures before it, shouldn't your Allah's stories at least line up with the Stories and accounts in those Scriptures? 🤔

The last time I responded to a comment of yours, you claimed the Torah and Injeel were corrupted after the fall of Jerusalem in 70AD. I had mentioned in response that the Torah which existed before that particular point in time —the Dead Sea Scrolls — we have with us today. And even that Allah's(Mohammed's) Quran does not seem to agree with. So, how can Allah make such a very big blunder? 🤔

lawani:
➜Islam was originally a sect of Christianity. All the stories in the Quran did not exist anywhere except in the custody of Jews and Christians before Mohammed.
➜ There was no way Mohammed could have gotten them except from Jews and Christians
➜ Mohammed also believed in the Prophethood of Jesus Christ and also in his immaculate conception or virgin birth.
➜ Jews do not believe that and the only people who believed that prior to Mohammed's birth were sects of Christianity. There is no where else he could have gotten the story if not from one of these sects that were present in Arabia back then. It is therefore academically sound to say he was originally converted by one of these sects. There is no other way. He was converted by Christians because they were the only ones who revered Jesus and believed in the virgin birth back then
➜ Mohammed like many who came after him accepted Christianity and added his own to it for it to become Islam. He added in the main the practices of his own people. He is no different from the founders of Mormon church, Jehovah witness, Celestial church, cherubim and Seraphim and etc

1. Mohammed's tales are fables he cobbled together about the Jewish and Injeel traditions that existed around his time. 🥱🥱

2. Mohammed believed in someone whose teachings he never once attempted to emulate. Mohammed believed so much that he confused the mother of Jesus with the sister of Aaron? Well, yeah, Mohammed could indeed have been part of a Christian sect. 😏11

3. Glad you didn't say he accepted Jesus Christ of Israel, as the Christians love to mouth on about doing. 🤔

Yeah, Mohammed is indeed no different from those you listed there. Sadly, he was able to capture the Arabs in the way he did with his many co-opted tales that prove nothing about him other than that he was good at the fraud that is religion.

Diamond098454:
✓ You would have tried sorting thing out with her. Women are so soft and very understandable

Women have never been a monolith. 🥱🥱🥱

Diamond098454:
Kobo✓ What's your plans now in terms of marriage?
Are you in a relationship now? Are you planning to give marriage a chance again?

a) Marriage is not an achievement.
b) Leaving a marriage is not the end of a life. You had life, dreams and desires -- longings-- while you were single. Those dreams ,desires and longings never disappear whether you are married or divorced
c) your dreams and desires are part of who you are. Never sacrifice or compromise them for the desires and dreams of another individual, not even someone you claim to be married to. That longing will always be there telling you of how much you should be doing with the time you have. . They should be part of your non-negotiable in life.
d) Center and love yourself first regardless of where you are in life. 🥱🥱🥱

capetownboyz:
➜I keep thinking , how I wish I was still alone and how needed to be by myself and plan my life well but at the end of the day I’m reminded have started a journey which I ought not to have cause it feels just too early for me ..Though I’m 31 by age this year but I don’t think age should be a determining factor as regards when you choose to settle down ..Due to this difference,I’m thinking of just leaving or asking her to leave and take the child away but I’m worried cause my daughter is too beautiful and loving to be left alone with her mum ,which to me I don’t really trust her and her back ground cause she grew up from a seperated household but I don’t think that should affect her as regards her household but to be honest it feels heavy to me and I feel like giving up but at the same I want to fight it out and believe I can defeat this phase of my life and channel a good purpose through my family but my lingering worries are : if she is really worth it, I mean doing life with her and creating a good foundation and purpose for ourselves.. Our insecurities are clashing and we find ourselves arguing over this and it starting to feel like we will be heading out different ways soon but still I can’t leave my child cause I don’t trust her well being with her mom cause she herself is not financially stable and likewise her family but I can handover the child to my parents cause they are doing well for themselves and capable of keeping a good eye on my child but she is adamant and swearing she won’t leave her daughter alone and I’m quite worried..
Pls advice me ,how do I create a balance and purge any negativity from my family ..I’m still looking for a job or thinking of getting a enough capital to start a business ..have really exhausted myself financially starting from when she got pregnant, till now and a never ending cycle of commitment and responsibility which is eroding my sense of freedom ..

The options available are straightforward in this case. You have a child, and that child needs to be raised by the parents, preferably both of them. From your story, seems the mother of the child does not have her feet on the ground still. One thing you can do is become the primary parent for your baby while the mother, after moving on, begins working to at least pay child support for the child. ( She can, of course, visit with the child often to ensure the child has the mother in their life through the period.) After the woman has adequately situated herself — gotten her own apartment and is financially stable enough to host her child for at least a couple of days each week — you can both decide on a co-parenting schedule that allows the child spend 50/50 time with each parent.

Either that, or you can always take the woman to court and get 100% custody of your child based on the fact that the woman is not able to handle the responsibility at all at this time. 🥱🥱🥱

Rightpathtogo:
➜He hoped they would stop but their actions after his reports appears asil if their actions are intentional.
I feel bad for him though.

If you already know this, why then did you advise him to continue pouring water into a basket? 🥱🥱

Eniitankorede:
➜All the mumbo jumbo you concocted here is very shameful attempt at re-writing history.
➜ Have you heard of the crusades?
➜ Do you know how many massive mosques were converted to churches in Spain? Do you know how many Muslims were massacred during the crusades? I say go and read proper history.

WOW... Neil DeGrasse Tyson is spitting mumbo jumbo? 😮😮😮

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zy5iwkzgtXA?si=KUPvKTa68PQ5lKk3
As expected, you, Mohammedians, don't like trading facts but religious gobbledegook! 🥱🥱

2. Of course, I have read so much about the crusades and the devastation caused by Christianity. I have already read up on the pillaging and destruction caused by many other religions in history. Religion has more than proven itself to be more political than spiritual over the centuries... a tool majorly for the conquering of worlds, more than anything else. But I can tell you for a fact that the devastation... particularly to the minds and lives of the people in the Middle East and much of Africa, as caused by Islam,— civilizations that once existed in Africa...Egypt, Somalia, Sudan, etc.,...destroyed by Islam — remain some of the worst. To this day, most of those regions continue to bleed, all thanks to Islam.

3. Islam destroyed massive churches in Spain, Turkey, Iran, and so many other countries, too. So, what exactly is your point? Does it only hurt you when colonization impacts Islam? All religions are scams and wrought disaster on civilizations, but Islam takes the cake when it comes to the devastation caused in Africa and the Middle East, in my opinion. 😂😂😂😂

Rightpathtogo:
➜My own advice to the elder brother was" If it were me I would continue reporting the issue and avoid any police or lawyer inclusion. That money for police or lawyer can replace the panel and show he is bigger than them without saying it.
Although it is very hard to do but it is my own thought.

If reporting to the police or a lawyer would cost that much money, then maybe he should simply also save himself from reporting the issue. The stress of it all is also not healthy for him. 🥱🥱🥱

Rightpathtogo:
➜The one bringing up the greeting drama is different.

I know. Whatever her reasons for concluding that your friend's brother and mother are not worth her greeting is entirely hers and nothing to do with them. Nothing wrong with that. Tell him not to bother himself about such small-minded individuals. 🥱🥱

Rightpathtogo:
➜Good evening everyone. My friend's younger brother that lives with his mum as the last child trying to figure out things called him last night and was complaining bitterly about the neighbors were they live.
The neighbors are harassing he and his mum but he is trying to be cool as he doesn't want to involve the police or a lawyer. He has reported to the caretaker concerning the neighbors who live above them ; the neighbors wash their clothes and keep it directly under their solar panel and the dirty water begins to drop on the panels which is not good for the panel.
He said he told the caretaker to tell the neighbors that if they wash they can keep it in the "middle" were it can touch their clothes but not the panel .He said he doesn't mind Washing off the stain from the clothes but for the panels, for the water from the rinsed clothes would be causing damage to the solar.
He suggested this after reporting thrice to the caretaker. When they still continued he told the caretaker to inform the Management of the building and the caretaker said he has done so but according to what he said, today would make it one month since the caretaker said he reported to the management and that the Management called them but there is no changes.
He said he endured it for over 6 months before making first complaint.
➜ Secondly, a young lady who might not be older than him harassed him on his way back from work, by saying to his hearing " don't greet him, he doesn't answer greeting" he had answered the boy ( her son( and was about greeting the lady . He had already said good ... Before he could finish she interrupted with that speech. .

1. Damage to private property is a police issue; He has already reported several times, yet the neighbor continues to ignore the problem. If he does not have an audio/video recording of the complaints, what he can do is go back to the neighbor to confirm, while recording the conversation, that, after many complaints, the neighbor refuses to stop damaging the property. He should also record the level of damage the water from the washing has done to the panels on video.

About the caretaker, why not bypass him entirely and go speak to management by yourself? And if management gives you the silent treatment, you bring in the police to let them all know you are not an idiot. The caretaker is obviously not doing anything about the problem, and you are not helping yourself by being silent about it. I know Nigerian police is nothing to write home about, but what other option is here? You want to continue suffering in silence?

2. This is a non-issue. If a person doesn't like you or care to respond to you when you greet 'em, that is not a you problem but them problem. There is no reason why you should feel you need to bend yourself over backwards to appease them or make them like you. That is fake as hell a thing to do.

The woman, sadly, has the right to teach her kids to disrespect others if that is what she wants. You can't do much about that. The only power you have is if it leads the child to violate your right or property. Then you can easily report him and his mother to the police... or sue them for whatever damage they caused by their nonsense.

I am 74. Five years ago, at 69, I left my husband after 42 years of marriage. It was the hardest and best decision I ever made. I know what you are thinking. 69...is that not too late to start over? Why would anyone leave a marriage after more than four decades? She must be unstable. She must be selfish. She must be having some kind of crisis.

Maybe it looks that way from the outside, but inside, I could finally breathe. If you're in an unhappy marriage, worried about wasted time or age, hear me. I believed those lies, too. Before I share why I left, let me explain why I stayed so long, the untold part.

Everyone wants to know what finally made you leave. They never ask about the invisible chains that keep you there year after year. I got married at 27. It was 1979. We were living just outside Cleveland, Ohio. I thought I was doing everything right. My husband Thomas was dependable. He had a steady job. He came from a good family. My parents approved. My friends said I was lucky. I wore a white dress and believed in forever.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hyML8ooRhyQ?si=wR5Ha444meeVWkRj

The problems did not arrive loudly. They arrived quietly. There was no violence, no obvious betrayal, nothing you could easily point to and say, "This is wrong." He simply did not see me. did not really hear me. Did not ask what I wanted or needed. Every major decision was his, where we lived, how money was spent, what our weekends looked like. When I suggested something different, he brushed it aside.
That is impractical. That does not make sense. Why would we do that?

Eventually, I stopped suggesting anything at all. I remember one night, maybe six years into the marriage, I told him I wanted to go back to school. I had always wanted to finish my degree in English literature. He smiled and laughed, not cruelly, just dismissively, like I had said something naive.
"What would you even do with that?" he asked. "We cannot afford that right now."
There was always something more important. His career, the house, the car payments, everything except me.

I told myself this was marriage, compromise, sacrifice, and being realistic. My mother had stayed in a quiet, unhappy marriage. So had my grandmother. This was just what women did. Then we had children, two daughters, and suddenly staying felt noble.
“I am doing this for them,” I told myself. They need stability. They need both parents.
I poured everything into being a mother. If I could not be seen as a woman, at least I could be needed as a mother.

For a while, that was enough. The girls kept me busy. They distracted me from how lonely I felt lying next to someone who felt more like a roommate than a partner. Thomas and I became polite strangers. We attended school events together, went to church, and hosted holiday dinners. From the outside, we looked fine, respectable, stable. But inside the house, we barely spoke. Whole weekends passed, where we moved around each other like ghosts, sharing space, never connecting.

I remember our 25th anniversary. our daughters through a party. Friends raised glasses and spoke about our beautiful marriage and lasting love. I smiled. I thanked everyone. And that night, I went home with a man I no longer loved. Lay on my side of the bed and cried silently into my pillow.

The years kept going. The girls grew up, moved out, and built lives of their own. And suddenly my reason for staying was gone. They did not need me to stay anymore. But by then, I had a new reason. What would people think? I was 56, then 61, then 66. We shared our history, friends, and family. How do you untangle over 40 years? How do you tell your children their childhood was built on quiet unhappiness? And practically, how does a woman in her late 60s start over? I had not worked full-time in decades. I did
not have my own income. So, I stayed year after year, telling myself it was too late, too complicated, too frightening, until the call from my doctor.

I was 68. It was a routine mammogram. I had done dozens before. This one was not routine. He said the word no one is prepared to hear. Cancer, breast cancer, stage two, caught early, but serious surgery, possibly radiation. I sat there listening to treatment plans and statistics, and all I could think was I am going to die having never really lived. Not because the prognosis was bad. It was not. But because I suddenly realized something unbearable. I had been slowly disappearing for decades.

The surgery was scheduled three weeks later. And in those three weeks, something shifted inside me. fear, clarity, and the awareness of time. All the reasons I had stayed, reputation, comfort, and fear, suddenly felt meaningless. Because if I died tomorrow, the last 40 years of my life would have been a performance.

I survived the surgery. The cancer was removed. Recovery was quiet. I remember lying in that hospital bed while my husband sat nearby scrolling through his phone, not holding my hand, not speaking, just present in body. And I knew at 69 years old, I made a decision. If I were lucky, I might have 10 or 15 years left. And I refused to spend them
slowly disappearing.

Two months later, I told Thomas I wanted a divorce. He did not get angry. He looked confused.
We have been married over 40 years, he said.
Exactly, I replied. And I have been lonely for almost all of them.

The divorce took nearly a year. It was painful, expensive, and uncomfortable. Some friends disappeared. My sister told me I was selfish.
"You are throwing everything away," she said.
But I was not throwing anything away. I was finally choosing myself.

Telling my daughters was the hardest part. They were grown by then in their late 30s. They were shocked.
But you and Dad always seemed fine, one of them said.
That broke my heart because it meant I had hidden my unhappiness so well that even my children believed it was normal.
Eventually, they understood. One of them even thanked me. She said watching me choose myself gave her permission to question her own life.

At 70, I moved into my own apartment alonefor the first time in my life. I was terrified. I woke up at night wondering if I had ruined everything. But I did not fall apart. I learned. I adjusted. And slowly I remembered who I was. The woman who loved books, who had opinions, who had dreams. I even went on a date. It did not last, but it reminded me that it is never too late to feel seen.

I am 74 now. My life is not perfect. My apartment is small. My income is modest. Sometimes I am lonely, but I am free. And that freedom is worth more than anything I lost.

Here is the truth. No one tells you the regret is not about leaving. The regret is about not leaving sooner. If you are watching this and quietly unhappy at any age, hear this. You are not too old. It is not too late. And you have not invested too much time. The life you are waiting for is waiting for you to choose it.

If this story touched something in you, I want to ask you one thing. What is one fear that has kept you stuck longer than it should have? You do not have to explain everything. Just one word is enough. Sometimes writing it down is the first step to letting it go.

Eniitankorede:
✓ You are definitely ignorant. Go and dust your history book and read it. Otherwise Google is there for you. Do you know the name of Spain in Islamic era? Go and read about Andalusia and the Muslims of Andalusia and their contribution to science and knowledge.
✓ You should read how Galeleo and the rest were persecuted by the church while Muslims were the source of knowledge. Go back to school.

The major issue you Mohammedians is that you all push a false narrative that has been fed to you without ever doing any work to actually learn for yourselves the facts from the fiction your brains have been force-fed by those attempting to colonize it. 🥱🥱


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJJLvoDg2_E?si=n_J_m26kTQEYRcLv

Islam was not the driving force for what happened during what Islamics claim was the Islamic golden age. Many of the advancements during that time happened despite Islam's colonization of the period around that time. Islam took credit for what were Persian, Babylonian, and Indian advancements during the era because the area was colonized by Islam. The Persians and Babylonians were, for the longest time, known as a people with a great interest in the sciences — astronomy, astrology, etc. The Persian religion of zoroastrianism which dates back 1000s of years before Islam, dealt much with the stars and the celestials(which require much observations and calculations). (Though no longer the dominant religion these days, this connection to the sciences remains to this day.)

Claiming that Islam is responsible for the advancements that came out of regions colonized by Islam at the time referred to by Mohammedians as the Islamic Golden Age is akin to Islam claiming today that what is currently happening in places like Saudi Arabia, UAE(Dubai), is all thanks to Islam. We all know Islam has absolutely nothing to do with any of that.

The decline in the pursuit of science that followed that period, on the other hand, can be traced back to the implementation of Islamic principles. (Yes, the Islamics came down on free thought by way of religious policies, reducing the entire Middle East to what continues to this day.)🥱🥱🥱

2. Oh, I know of that. However, the devastation the Christians caused pales in comparison to what Islam unleashed on the Middle East since that time to this day. 🥱🥱🥱

Boomark:
➜I asked where you got the claim that I am disqualified to accepti him?

Jesus Christ of Israel is recorded to have said He was sent by His Father only to the Lost sheep of Israel — the bloodline of Jacob, son of Isaac; Non-Israelites, like the Egyptians and foreigners who were allowed to live in the land of Israel by Moses, could assess the crumbs that fall from the master's table; they are not, however, the children for whom the promises/covenant are designated. 🥱🥱

Boomark:
➜Where did you get such claim?

You posted this, right?

Boomark:
Delusion of those who have rejected Christ and his teachings.

Meaning you pretend you can accept him, is that not so?🥱

Eniitankorede:
➜Go and ask you history teacher, Muslims and Islam held the light when Europe was in darkness. The story is on google. Stop being an ignoramus.

Oh, this is an absolute lie! 🥱🥱

At no point in all of history did Islam ever bring light to Europe. To this day, Islam has almost always been associated with impeding the enlightenment in the Middle East for over a thousand years. And that trend continues to stifle development in the Middle East to this day. 🥱🥱

JobuTupaki:
➜This is for those who love good affordable perfumes and body sprays.
Normally I use TRUE RELIGION and F1 but sometimes we just want something affordable.
➜ I went shopping the other day and bought deodorant and roll on worth over 20k but they all turned out to be rubbish because they have zero impact. No lasting smell. Money wasted. I know lots of us have this same dilemma so Please which AFFORDABLE but GOOD & LASTING perfume or body spray you can confidently recommend? Thank you.

Please find yourself a good deodorant first. 😣😣

2. Why not consider making and using a DIY deodorant still? Perfume does not mask stench; it merely sits on top, making the stench even more disgusting.

bloomingpurple:
This verse paints a beautiful picture of a virtuous woman. It doesn’t say she brings her husband good only after marriage; it says she brings him good all the days of her life. That means her habits, character, and choices in singlehood were already aligned with goodness. She didn’t suddenly switch on when she got married. Instead, she had cultivated a lifestyle that naturally overflowed into her home, relationships, and community.
When I reflect on this scripture, I often ask myself: “Am I living in such a way that I bring good, not harm, to my future husband, my family, my friends, and my community even now in my single years?”
The truth is, goodness is not a personality trait; it is an intentional choice. It requires daily discipline, humility, and the fear of the Lord. Let’s explore what it means to live out Proverbs 31:12 in practical, everyday ways. https://thebloomingpurple.com/living-out-proverbs-3112-as-a-single-woman-she-brings-him-good-not-harm/

Stop lying to women!🥱🥱🥱

The Proverbs 31 woman is described as a woman who has been married to a generous multimillionaire/billionaire. The woman is a married woman who can accomplish all that is described by virtue of having a husband who provides abundantly for her to accomplish all of what is described and more by way of having very good project management skills and lots of househelps/laborers in her company. 🥱🥱🥱

The numerous poor household Operating Systems your churches create for these poor men out there are not Proverbs 31 women because they are married to poor men who can't even afford to pay the market cost of having even a cook, let alone a housemaid. 🥱🥱

budaatum:
✓ I wouldn't suggest you bother reading the book. You'd only read your own bigotry into it.

Stop making noise and go read the book ...stop painting my mention with sheer ignorance! 🥱🥱

budaatum:
✓ You are entirely free to believe whatever you want, but Surah 33 is very clear what is referred to and you can't change that with you beliefs.

Go read the book( or at least chapter 33 in full) and come tell us what wonderful attributes make Mohammed this perfect role model for Muslim , or stop with the ramblings! 🥱🥱🥱

Boomark:
✓ Delusion of those who have rejected Christ and his teachings.

Lol... How can you claim to accept someone who made clear that you aren't even qualified to do so by virtue of you being of the wrong bloodline? 🥱🥱🥱

merrymike47:
I think building a good relationship with your daughter as a father and building a good relationship with your son as a mother, helps to lessen the effects of those bad influences on the children. We are in a world that is more spiritual than physical, if the devil is more skilled and coordinated in using the tool (internet), it will outsmart the believers in influencing people. More than monitoring which is actually a characteristic of a witch, why not give proper training with more prayers? We got an advantage of our weapon not being canal as a believer but many times, it looks as though we are not aware of this advantage. Now that the mother failed in building a good relationship with her daughter to tell her everything that’s going on in her life or she feels like she should know everything thinking that she’s the only one who can figure it all out and she took the advice of spying on her daughter, violating every boundaries, I hope she can still have her daughter’s trust ever again, I hope she can fix the said problem, I hope she’s not given the daughter the chance to not listen to anybody again. Trust comes with respecting individual’s boundaries, when it is broken, things can never be thesame again. Yes she is a minor who is supposed to still be under her parent’s tutelage but the mother went far by spying when she can actually have a good conversation with her daughter. If that girl eventually goes wayward and more when she is of age, blame it on her mother’s decision to spy on her. I perceive that she’s lost that girl’s trust which will be hard to gain again.

Devil? Spiritual? Carnal? Believers? Witch? Prayers? You and I are not even close to being on the same page as far as how to raise kids. 🥱🥱

budaatum:
✓ And where in the entire Surah 33, where Mohammed is talking about reacting to enemies who invaded you is Mohammed telling anyone to go kill people who don't believe as he did?
Would you like to argue that Mohammed also killed the unbelievers that he traded with too?
Seriously, I'm very glad you are not a Muslim. If you were you'd more likely be preaching the boko haram version, which is as uninformed as yours is!

Your retort deepens my suspicions, which is you have never, in fact , read that book., let alone the entirety of Surah 33. 🥱🥱

Go read the book or at least the chapter before you go off rambling on the subject. 🥱🥱🥱

Honorableabiodun:
✓ This is why they say marry as if you’re in business and not for love… man has to suffer for every of woman’s convenience,,,, I’m sure they’re an average family so what’s wrong in devising an idea to save cost when there’s always other expenses

Op married for business, not for love; the vast majority of men out there, since the time of your ancestors marry for business and not for love. So, stop with the rambling. 🥱🥱

A man who loves his woman would consider her comfort and her health with every decision he makes. He would put her first. Op clearly loves his GoTv more than he does his wife or cares for her health. That much is realized from his post. 🥱🥱

This is 2026, let's embrace honesty and critical reasoning. 🥱🥱

bigpicture001:
✓ Gotv is just 3500 monthly, monthly sunnis not fixed monthly sub.. it is 5k monthly for everyone...
Life is not all about food

Life is not all about food but you are deadset on using food cooking to destroy your woman's health? Again, you can easily take over cooking duties from her. 🥱🥱

bigpicture001:
I bought it from. Jumia

Return it immediately! And go research pressure cooker and then ask your wife what she thinks of it. 🥱🥱

bigpicture001:
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That is even worse than I imagined. So, you intend for her to slave away inhaling smoke and endangering her health like our mother's and grandmothers did, all so you could tell yourself you are saving money? All that stress to theiir system and you want another man's daughter to enter in to the same suffering so you can be happy? Ogbeni, take over cooking duties abeg. 🥱🥱

REALretep:
➜I know you are hurt and broken. I know. I sincerely hope you find true solace... true healing I can't recommend Jesus to OP in this her situation if I have doubts in the power in the name.
I used to have doubts just like you are saying until my spiritual understanding of scriptures improved.
Putting on the whole Armour of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) which is not a day's job is what makes the difference

Please answer the question asked. 🥱🥱🥱

If you were to find yourself in a similar situation as OP is in now, say 5 years from now, maybe you and your wife become no more than roommates at that point, will you also bite into this "Jesus and the power of his name will make it all magically ok somehow" solution you have the Op? 🥱🥱🥱

Freshandfitpod:
➜I mean if you feel lonely as a man.

OP feels lonely, so OP should get herself a couple of sidedicks too, right? 🥱🥱