₦airaland Forum

Diligence:
I support this partly. Collabo to get more tools to enhance farming. Secure clearing of acres & empower them more SMARTLY. Measure their performance, get markets for their produce & other derivatives, & repeat this over & over again. Great you are teaching them to FISH DEMSELVES! Despise not this day of little beginning. Just another perspective for me!
This was what Korea or Singapore did a few decades ago when they visited Nigeria & collected some palm seedlings. Today, they're making billions of USD from exporting Palm Oil!

This here is absolutely nothing close to what you described at all.

Justnation:
■ He gave them improved seedlings which have the potential to produce massively,
■ He is also encouraging them to take to farming since. APC has launched operations ::- massive hunger and starvation, no jobs anymore Famine everywhere . Don't forget Malaysia collected Palm seedlings from Nigeria some years back, today they are the largest exporter of palm oil. PETER OBI says Yes to production economy, than consumption economy

1. Bullsheet!

2. So long as this effort isn't meant as a constituency project — money meant for the constituents spent in this way — then it makes sense. Otherwise, this is not acceptable at all.

Inosky:
Shameful. Why displaying this in public as constituency project after collect 30 million monthly salary and allowances and SUV worth 160 million?

Is it really a constituency project or just meant as a celebration of his first year in office? If constituency project, then definitely, the man should be removed from office and asked to pay back all he owes abeg!

CilicMarin:
Hon. Ginger Onwusibe, who was elected on the platform of the Labour Party, distributed these seeda/seedlings to the beneficiaries during a ceremony held at Isialangwa.
The lawmaker gave each beneficiary approximately 10 pieces of cassava cuttings, two yam seedlings in addition to other seeds such as maize seeds contained in small nylon bags.
The empowerment programme by the Labour Party lawmaker has generated debate among Nigerians on social media, with many questioning what would be the impact of giving farmers only 10 cassava cuttings to cultivate on overall agricultural productivity.

He should have added 20 empty sacks filled with planting soil to make the combination all the more self-contained. Many of the people would probably complain that they have no land to plant these things in. Everyone in Nigeria ought to engage in home/backyard/sack gardening at this point. But I hope this isn't all he plans to do for his constituency or has done for them in the one year he has been in office.

lilyheaven:
∆ They can’t throw her out, not even possible in this generation.
The only thing they can do is to keep badmouthing her.

And you would let your loved one live with individuals who would do that to him or her?

MommaD:
Response to a lot of questions asked.
- Yes, hubby is the first child and first soon. There are two boys.
- Hubby has a business but it doesn't bring much.
- He brings some items every week like indomie (5), milk, juice, and a roll of tea.
- He doesn't have a personal building project.
- The house is a personal house, not rented. Hubby has a room there.

Women, una dey really marry things abeg!

OP, if indeed you are truly done with the marriage then before you leave, may I suggest you take time out to consider the economic situation in the country as well as the possible future that awaits your kids if you leave right now. Hope there is no violence in the marriage. I mean from your story you did not indicate any verbal or physical abuse from your hubby. Only that altercations between you and his family tend to get loud which is potentially an issue as well. But I will assume you don't consider that all that damaging since you didn't indicate they were. Are you yourself financially stable enough to get a place of your own. I am not asking if you can borrow from someone else but if you have enough in your bank account right now to get yourself and your kids a place of your own. This economy is hard and so not one someone should think to take a chance on, especially someone with two kids to feed and cater to. Try to make sure you have at least $250 before you make your move because those children don't need to suffer some more abeg!

lilyheaven:
■ That family house is your house, go and take your possession. You are running away because of insults from sister in law and father in law, hmmm. That means President Tinubu and Peter Obi , will run away from Nigeria with the amount of insults they receive every second from Nigerians . You are lucky your mother inlaw dey your side. Money you are supposed to collect from your uncle and start better business, you want to use it for house rent. Please grow mental power. If you leave your husband remember “THE STREET AREN’T SMILING”

If the husband were to unfortunately die before her father-in-law, do you think that that father-in-law and sister-in-law will let her and her kids remain in that home in peace? A nice mother-in-law who is probably powerless will not be able to do much then.

I do agree with your second which is that OP should spend money building herself and/or a business of her own so that when she finally leaves, she does not end up on the street herself.

Dainy1, Isn't packing your own lunch anywhere cheaper than having to eat out? Over here, when pockets are tight, it is always best to pack your own lunch from home that way you are sure it is cheaper than eating out over 90% of the time.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
■ Why?

You twisted the bullsheet out of what is plainly stated there in that text you quoted, completely ignoring what is it that is in fact written and what it was in fact meant for. That is exactly what Christians and other religious brains out there do on a regular basis.😁😁😁😁😁

FatherCHRISTMAS:
■ In Deuteronomy 18, the Bible condemns astrology but mind you, it was not because astrology was false. It's the study of symbols in the skies.
Arithmetics is an expression in SYMBOLS of the ‘deep structure’ of our PERCEPTION.
1+1 =2... You just know it's 2 because your perception has been conditioned to believe that's the truth from childhood. But you can't explain why those symbols
in numerals (1+1 =2...) are right. I know you are going to argue but just read and learn

What I can tell from all of this you typed up above is that you are full of the same sort of bullsheet that Christians and other religious brains are filled with. 😁😁😁😁😁

FatherCHRISTMAS:
■ Why do you think it's a nonsense assertion?

Because there is no real sense or connection to be found between A(spiritual) and B(Mathematics) from your argument...

Verbtips:
■ you didn't get it,a member of the family died and my mum kinsmen accuse my grandfather say he is the cause of the other party death,and they are going to revenge,he then reply them that GOD KNOWS HE KNOWS NOTHING THAT if he IS TRUELY BEHIND THE CAUSE OF THE OTHER PARTY DEATH ANOTHER FAMILY MEMBER WILL BE DOWN. i then told my dad this is an already made story,why didn't he say he should die or isn't he old enough,i then told my dad never to deliver this kind of rusty message to me again,

A death occurred and an unsubstantiated rumor making the rounds reached you, not through the village people but through your own father. If the death was due to a murder or accident then it must be investigated, no matter what. But the village people who reached out to you in this case na your own papa(and maybe mama) wey carry the rumor for head come give you. Try to remove yourself from it all a bit and think to see that it is no the villagers but your parents that brought this to you, and this is from your own account of the story.

By the way, if I be your grandpapa, I no go allow such rumors go uninvestigated because at the end na my name dem dey use so.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
■ There is a Mathematics to everthing there is. Just observation

And this is the excuse you use for these... nonsense assertions you have made here?🤔

FatherCHRISTMAS:
■ I do it because of you. It's part of critical thinking and ideas.

This is what you confuse with critical thinking. Are you for real? Please tell me you are high or something.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
This is more of a philosophical interpretation of the mathematical concepts mean, median, mode, and the basic arithmetic operations (+, -, ×) in relation to LIFE, SPIRIT and SOUL

Why do you waste your time and life with this topic of spirituality?

NothingDoMe:
You've said nothing. Your words are shiny like the Nigerian kobo, but just as worthless.

Again, Stop spewing tripe! Any "privilege" that renders you a parent figure to your own wife is nonsense! Better learn from those before you who did that only to end up disgraced and dismissed as eejits. It will of course not make sense to you because many of you are notoriously incapable of learning even with millions of examples showcasing the major outcome of such decisions all around you.

NothingDoMe:
■ A wife should naturally have more privileges than a girlfriend. That's the gist of what the father is saying. Life has phases. When she becomes a wife, she can then enjoy that phase with all the privileges that come with it. Haven't you heard the phrase: "Walk out and tell him, "If you like it, then you should have put a ring on it."? Meaning there's no commitment, so she can walk out anytime. What's wrong with this generation sef?

Stop spewing tripe! Any "privilege" that renders you a parent-figure to your own wife is nonsense! Better learn from those before you who did that only to end up disgraced and dismissed as eejits.

KGREAT:
Wow this is highly commendable. We love you. ❤️

The responses below are to get you to think.

Truthsandtrusts:
■ Disgusting,why your children are living in abroad studying good curse or doing good jobs, you are hear empowering your slave's with Keke and grains grinder

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Sleekfingers:
🤣🤣🤣🤣 In this 21st century? Like leaders like followers.........

Silentgroper:
how would you say there's nothing like dry seasonz you could have explained that without the aforementioned statement..

When it comes to growing crops, particularly at home, the watering of your crops no longer depends on the seasons but on you. Hence the reason why I said there is no such thing as a "dry" season when it comes to planting crops at home.

eteforlor:
■ Everybody keeps repeating same method of empowerment yet no visible progress. Why can't you people buy mechanized farming equipments or enrol your youths in ICT and other relevant skills. We need to do better.

Progress from empowerment doing the same old things that brought us thus far? How many of those previously "empowered" in similar manner are doing any better today for it? All these practices only go to further impoverish the already poor masses abeg!

Verbtips:
hahaha naso but if you dey near your own village them go the monitor you like,
most of those old idiot no even know me except my grandpapa, make them sha dey freestyle. them no know i don pass their level

But, from your story, there don't seem to be any voodoo phantoms out there somewhere in the village monitoring you, except your own parents who called you to stress you with their situation. They are your "Village people", according to your story!

AmeboFeeds:
Reps Member, Ibrahim Isiaka Empowers Constituents With Tricycles, Bikes, 50 Grinding Machines, Sewing Machines, others
....gives out cash gift for Ileiya celebration
Solanke Ayomideji Taiwo
The house of Representative member, Ifo/Ewekoro Federal Constituency, Rt. Hon. Ibrahim Ayokunle Isiaka in his usual way has empowered hundreds of his constituents with 10 tricycles, 20 motorcycles, 50 Grinding Machines, 50 Sewing machines and Cash to support their respective busineses today 13th of June, 2024.

This is empowerment in 2024? Na wa oo!

Mrexcell:
Zamfara state is still paying #18k.

$18,000 is approximately $12 dollars a month. So, why would the government then choose to further institutionalize such deplorable levels of extreme poverty by way of a federal law? No be brain damage be that?

Adblg0610:
What I think Tinubu intends to do is to decentralize the National minimum wage by transmitting an executive bill to the National Assembly.
When the bill is passed and signed, each state will have the freedom to determine what it can afford to pay .
This would naturally catch organized labour unawares but it would also end the seemingly endless agitation for a single National minimum wage.

So basically, he will make law to empower governors to keep many Nigerians impoverished in the name of States paying what they can afford as minimum wage? Such bullocks!

StPete:
Just rushed to write rubbish all in a bid to claim FTC. You obviously don’t know the big difference between being a gf and being a wife

Whether girlfriend or wife, do not become a parent to her for any reason. You are not her parent and are never meant to become any such.

luminouz:
∆Quote me again and Ogun go kill you this week.
Werey asinwin!!!😡

Whether girlfriend or wife, do not become a parent to her for any reason. You are not her parent and are never meant to become any such.

luminouz:
He said girlfriend, not wife...🙄🙄🙄

Whether girlfriend or wife, do not become a parent to her for any reason. You are not her parent and are never meant to become any such.

gabpaul:
For your mind now you don get sense, that's the problem with blacks you just watched a video of a man advising his son not play the of a father in his girlfriend's life but you are here talking about wife, they are two different things.

Whether girlfriend or wife, do not become a parent to her for any reason. You are not her parent and are never meant to become any such.

Btobigman:
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Nonsense! Why una dey like read false meaning into what is clearly stated by the authors of these passages you quote? Is it all so you can lie to yourselves about how your lives are of great importance to a God whom you care little to nothing of?

Pque:
■ The man is a multimillionaire courtesy of the wealthy people who became his business clients through the wife. The good luck of the wife didn't just start after she got her job; there is a way the woman reciprocates the man, even before she came to limelight that continue to encourage the man to do more. So it's about give and take. I once dated a lady who does not care about your feeling, and do whatever she likes, I later dump.. her. The same woman could have left him after coming to lime light, but she did not, it's because she has been kind, loving and caring right from time. When a woman doesn't care, you see the sign, but you choose to overlook the signs. Marry only someone who cares and loves you just like you care for her and love. her

I don talk am say una no dey learn at all at all!

DaddyGngeess:
■ Sometimes when husband have too much money all this means nothing, alot of our parents no get money those days so forget but we are changing that in this our generation

Parent's no get money so why are they busy raising kids? So they can find a mugu out there to come to do for them the job they were not able to do for their kids? You pay her school fees, pay her rent, etc, and then when you wife you, you expect her to be a slave to you just because? Ha! ha!

Changing in what generation? No be wetin dey happen in this our very koro-koro we dey talk so?

Pque:
■ Why will you get married to someone who can't assist you when the need arises? You must have know her before marrying her that she is someone who cares for you. That is the main problem. Partnership is give and take. We must give and take together. If I am the only one giving, I can't marry you as my wife.

Storyland! Partnership is give and take yet you are the same person who typed up this storm below in your first response!

Pque:
Perhaps before marriage, it wasn't his, but after marriage, the spears belong to him. Every children will leave their parent at sometime, and become one with their spouse. Because he or she is now your better half, she is now yours and can go ahead to sharpen it if we want.
The thing is that sometime, we can't control what others do with the gift we give them. I personally don't really care about what you do with what I give you, as long as it doesn't limit me, inconvenience me or stop my growth. You do evil, you see evil, you do good, you see good. What ever a man sow, he reaps. Even the person you help today, might be of great assistance to you tomorrow.
I know a man who was responsible for his girlfriend's school from Secondary School, they both live together even before marriage. The lady ends up being a first class student in higher institution. Now work in Sheveron, and married to the same man who Schooled her. And do you know the advantages the man enjoy from such woman? The man effortlessly has many millionaires as his client courtesy of the wife.
The fact that many people don't deserve this, doesn't mean that there are still special people Who deserves more. Let your spirit, mind & instinct guide you.

I don talk am say una no dey learn at all!