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KankOfLife:
In other words, if you no want make your business or career fall apart then no ask how pastors dey spend the tithe abi?

Basically, God is against those who would try to hold these gods of men accountable for how they spend money donated to them by their followers. Imagine the nonsense the man dey broadcast against God of Israel here!

Odewaleadesoye:
The tithe that was coming from this family was hefty. All of a sudden a handful of the big men wrote to me and said every month, you must give us an account of how you are spending our tithe. I said okay, ‘what they are asking for is alright, they are simply asking for transparency. Nothing is wrong with that.
“I said, however, I have gone through the Bible, I have not seen anywhere where God spoke to Moses and said every month, you must give an account of the tithe children of Israel to them. So, I said alright, I will do two things.
“Number one, I will prepare a detailed account of how your money is spent, including if we buy a bottle of coke for first timers. I will put it in a file and every month when you people come for the Holy Ghost Service, that file be on the table. I won’t give it to you. I will put it on the table. “Anyone who wants to see it can go and read it. But make sure you wait till I have left the room because everything that we are doing in earth is being recorded in heaven. I don’t want my God to say you are the one who handed it over to them and you are there when they were reading. And I did it.
“Number two, I told the treasurer, from now on, any tithe that came from this family, don’t add it to the rest, put it aside. Let me find out if the God who sent me can run his church without these people’s contributions. So, for two separate years, every kobo that came for this family was kept in a separate account.
“It was when Aboaba came from Ibadan, I sent him there and then after he had been in the church for some months, he came to me. He said the people you asked me to go and join are complaining that things are not going well, and they have found out that they offended me, and that’s why their contracts are being cancelled and all manner of things are happening.

See Wickedness abeg!

I don't blame him! I blame the so-called billionaires who continue to fund his lies.

ProjectsCityNG:
■ My dear go and relax. It's not your turn yet. May it never be. Otherwise you will know, scorpions, snakes, needles and nails can be projected into a person's body to kill them from within. Kid

Shut the fk up! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Techie25:
■ If it was a spiritual attack then what's the way forward, what's the nexy step for me? Funny enough, I do home workout everyday, More of like gym and pullups. But it still doesn't make any difference asides the body changes. I'm not depressed, Neither am I sick. But it's well, I think I'll be going out more often. I'm considering this changing of environment, I live alone but I think I'll have to go back to my parents house. This isn't the life a man should be living.

You are not depressed yet your OP, including this comment here, is riddled with the typical signs of depression? LOok, denial is not going to help you find the solution you need. No matter how many times you go out, you still come back home to face the problem, and reality, abi? So, I suggest you get yourself mentally checked up soonest so your doctor can better diagnose and treat what it is that ails you.

Techie25:
I don't feel alive, I lie in bed all day, I don't feel like myself, I know myself as a man to be agile and strong and having that hustler spirit. I naturally sleep around 10-11 and wake up 3am. But now, I don't even understand I feel so so weak and it hurts me severely, I don't feel alive, I don't feel motivated, I don't feel okay, I have dreams and goals to achieve but I don't feel the vibe anymore. Just on my phone or Whatsapp or Instagram wasting away all my time, but I can assure you that I'm not addicted to any social media.
I want elders in the house to please give me and advise or tips or tricks I can use to eliminate this weakness.
I'm not sick, atleast I know my body when I'm sick. But this is just so weird and makes me feel sad or unhappy, Sometimes I wonder if it's a spiritual attack against me but even if it is so, I badly need a solution because I'm not turning younger anymore, My parents are already looking up to me and here I am lying in bed all day lazying around with a weak and unmotivated body.

Depression is an illness and can be treated. Please make an appointment today with a professional mental health therapist or counselor and get the treatment you need soonest.

Obviouslyblunt:
they said nothing different from more bills and tax’s paid by the people.

Where?

Everfrank:
Zionists are planning to come take over our economy.
God forbid bad thing.

You've obviously not been doing a lot meaningful with it so what are you afraid of?

Haaland21:
∆ Can you pay the real cost without subsidy?

You didn't read the article at all, did you? You jumped to a conclusion based on the headline and not the advice that was in fact given by IMF which contains more than just that one portion that is meant to come after other steps have been verified successful..

bluefilm:
IMF is evil

Open your eyes! Go back and actually read the article. wetin IMF talk makes sense more than wetin your government been dey do.

yemmywesey:
But we didn't vote for imf

Go back and actually read the article. Wetin IMF talk makes sense more than wetin your government been dey do. The moment your government decided to apply for IMF loans, it pretty much gave IMF a say.

tnerro1:
How e take concern IMF nah☹️☹️

Go back and actually read the article. wetin IMF talk makes sense more than wetin your government been dey do.

Ladiesdoctor:
This IMF is useless

The destroyer of Nigeria economy is IMF

Go back and actually read the article. wetin IMF talk makes sense more than wetin your government been dey do.

Ladiesdoctor:
This IMF is useless

Go back and actually read the article. wetin IMF talk makes sense more than wetin your government been dey do.

Obviouslyblunt:
Imagine IMF telling us how to run our country. We brought this to ourselves with Loans.

Go back and actually read the article. wetin IMF talk makes sense more than wetin your government been dey do.

Smooyis:
Unfortunate IMF. NONSENSE SUGGESTION

Go back and actually read the article. wetin IMF talk makes sense more than wetin your government been dey do.

SALIMAN:
We are sick of this IMF advices ooh , na them say make dem comot petrol subsidy , their wahala don Dey too much

wetin IMF talk makes sense more than wetin your government been dey do.

edwardaigb:
Thunder fire IMF

E don fire your government finish?

sslcrypt:
DISINFORMATION AGENTS AT WORK. READ THE REPORTS,IMF CAN NEVER EVER ENFORCE THEY ONLY SUGGEST. NOW THIS THREAD IS MAKING IT LOOK LIKE THEY ARE THE ONES ENFORCING LAWS ONTO A SOVEREIGN STATE. TINIBU IS A FAILURE, SIMPLE STOP TRYING TO ROPE IN IMF AND IMPOSE YOUR FAILURES ON THEM. WORST IMF CAN DO IS REJECT LOANS APPLICATION

No mind Nigerian people!

descartes400:
IMF are world economic saboteurs! and our government are foolishly stupid to be taking any economic advise from them.

Nonsense! Go back through and read the article. ...an ignorant populace always looking to put blame where it does not lie!

zeyt:
IMF dictating for Tunibu again. The situation is our National heritage are being sold to capitalist politicians in the name so called privatization. The poor are the majority in the country and government are everything for them. Now the subsidy on fuel is gone and now they are turning their attention to electricity. The poor are getting poorer and the middle class are teetering on the precipice of poverty.

Balderdash! go back and read the article abeg!

israelmao:
Wicked IMF

The wicked ones here is your government refusing to do mahy of the common sense points put forward by the IMF and the ignorant populace alll too eager to put blame where it does not belong.

verifiablefacts:
∆I agree with you, only that I was expecting IMF,as influential as they are to us, to also advice us on how best to sort out refineries problems.
When you pushed me into insulting the bully, you should also show me how to defend myself.

What refinery problems does Nigeria have? https://www.nairaland.com/8089857/military-uncovers-over-50-illegal

Are you in some way expecting IMF to come into Nigeria, a country of over 200 million brains, to build and manage refineries or something?

verifiablefacts:
∆ Oga,I don taya dey read,my read don dey taya.

wetin IMF talk makes sense more than wetin your government been dey do.

Houseontherock1:
FG constantly hiding behind IMF to test the mic

Hiding ke? If you read through the news article you will find that the headline is merely to get those unwilling to read through unnecessarily riled up. .

B3sty:
IMF seem to be the one running the affairs of the Country right now...

Una dey read at all?

Racoon:
Wait o! It is IMF that is ruling in Nigeria now?

Una dey read at all?

verifiablefacts:
IMF wey no fit help us work our refineries.

Una dey read at all?

Evergreen4:
It's like Tinubu is more answerable to IMF than Nigerians

Una dey read at all?

Oxb90:
Tun....da faya IMF

TheDemola:
What's IMF's problem with Nigeria?

Una dey read at all?

CountinBlessins:
■ The poor are truly their own worst enemies. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Did you see that mugu above telling him that his child sucks his finger and has temper so that's enough evidence the kids are his? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 That mugu is probably raiding my kids 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Kai people can be so stupid 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Do not be shocked if OP comes back to tell us he decided to go with just that advice. He will not be the first or the last. Many poor Nigerians don't know or understand that wisdom is to cut one's coat according to one's size to avoid problems.

Dilijingsly:
I don't have the money for the test. How do i know she is my child, no physical resemblance of any kind

You don't have money for tests but you dream of ideas that belong only to those who do.

Neverlookback:
■ Somehow you've managed to put the blame for the woman's failure in business on the man. Is she a child?
■ So when she started nagging the man about opening a business for her, what would you have expected the man to do? If the same man had asked the wife to try and learn the business first under the tutelage of an established business, ...

1. The man shares the blame here is what. Not everyone out there is business savvy! OP's major complaint stems from her being just that — not business savvy. And her husband is to blame for assuming that she ought to be. If he had instead invested that money, say in a farm or even kept it in a bank somewhere, maybe they would both be better off today.

That said, all hope isn't lost as even the worst person out there when it comes to money skills can still learn a thing or two and if OP works at it, I am certain, she may make some headway, even if she is never able to turn that business of hers into a multi-million dollar venture.

2. Let's assume the man married OP when she had no business of her own, he should have told her right there and then what his intentions were for them in their marriage.

If OP had nagged him into opening a business for her, then he should have made it clear to her right there and then that the money he was giving to her was to cover all of her care and needs from that point onwards. Marriage is after all a contract and even after the contract has been first sealed, amendments could still be made, it should be communicated so both parties are in the know. OP seems to have been mostly in the dark about the man's intentions for 6 years ago and that may have contributed majorly to her frustration. If he had made clear to her six years ago that he would no longer give her money for her upkeep and whatever else, maybe OP would seen no reason to walk around frustrated.