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oshyno:
Dude one thing that always work for me is putting ur girl on an edge. Any day ur girl is not afraid of loosing u, kiss d relationship goodbye. She will begin to pick hole in virtually everything u do. U great her gud morning she wud ask u what is gud about d morning. I'm not saying u shud treat ur next girl like trash but always try to be in control of the relationship.

Ur over gentleness cost u ur relationship. Date with a possibility of a brake up insight. This will make u less vulnerable. Always have a place for that "what if" soo that u won't come crashing wen it happens. Moreover success attract even d devil himsef. Work hard, make more money and u will be d one to seive them wen they flock. And believe me even that ur girl will be competing for a space in ur life.

Wow...u just rejuvenated me!

Moi

jamesbridget13:
well i guess she is really tired of u. only her knws y op. please be calm k, dats how it can be sometimes. am a lady n i ll tell u dat for her to block u means she is done. she doesnt want any connection what so ever. so now op, accept she has left u n move on. be strong n let d hope of getting a very nice lady keep u going. i personally cant do without hearing from my huzy. even y we were courting n we had issues, i no fit block em. lialia. i always check to see if he is online n all dat. even waiting for a call from him too. so op, accept it,face ur future, u ll surely get a good lady dat ll value u. n op if u two re meant to be, she ll come back probably after regretting

Thnx mom for the hope you gave....am grateful

Olami90:
Sir, you can't tell me d level @ whch ur life/suxes matters to u is d same level @ whch dis babe matters to u, more of d reason y u av to move on irreversibly. I wunt rily blame u wit all u said, I do giv my all too in relationship. Try to b wit frnds nd gist so as to forget her asap. I am bgining to bliv most of dis ladies dnt worth d effort som nice guys put into relatnship, I av xperienced wot u are goin thru.Bliv me dat ladies can b xtremely defensive for wot they are guilty of $ argumentative dat I wonder d correlation btw d tenderness they are termd to b nd dis selfish egoistic attitude.They are bunch of confused higher animals, dt doesn't knw wot they want. Give ur absence where ur presence is not needed(d head wey go chop knocks, even if e dey akwa ibom e go reach dat syd where d knock dey and if him want mak hin use metal crown, hin go comot am to reciv d dirty knock). Bliv in ursef, see urself as essential commodity, wit dat quality whch evry reasonable lady wld wanna b wit.D savin grace is dt they are many out there(buh wit more idiots $ non wife materials) buh this is wia u use ur intelligence to sieve. Ur strength now shld b ur success whch u are lukin @ $ will speak for u at d end.Cheers

Tnx..,youre truly a brother from afar!

See how they are teaching their children electoral fraud at that stage in their life....

Forget sentiment for a while and let's try and be objective. That do you make of the picture below? Which geopolitical zone do you think this took place?

Dykecosby:
Take heart bro, shit happens, I have been in that situation before, was the first time I tried being in very serious relationship, gave in all for it to work, closed gap with all ma other female friends,in fact I was a perfect example of that nice guy.

Lessons learnt: Most ladies do not appreciate the nice guys, they prefer you rough, play and they come begging and crying for you than the reverse. Right now I am the badt innocent guy with no real emotions, I can feign it. Even to my wife such that once she behaves it I can kick her out without losing a better part of me.... My heart!

Wise up!

I can feel the echoe of pains in your heart....its a cruel world!

samtol4:
@Op work on your self .why are u always attracted to wrong gals?You have dated many gals yet they all left .for now Focus on your dreams and thesis .

Thnx sir...I gathered my pieces today...have been working on my thesis...guess what the energy is so great...am working like never before

T3Amo:
What was the misunderstanding about first before I give my final opinion. You say this is not the first time such happens

This is it...she called me in the morning, was having a meeting with dad..asked her to call back explaining what was going on. Before I could finish explaining, she dropped the call on me.I tried calling after the meeting but she wouldn't pickup, I assumed maybe she wasn't around her phone. I waited first 1st day, 2nd day and 3rd day...no flash ping nor return my calls. I was lucky on one of the occasions when she replied my ping. She replied with "yea'' then am like, why have not been returning my calls..she went 'I was having a meeting with my mom', I sensed she was pissed and so sued for peace but to no avail...there are sveral instance she would bave this way without concrete reasons for pickingup a fight...when I insisted to know why she has been acting strange and worst wouldn't pick my calls...she said I ask too many question. I told her then I givup that I am wrong...that she won!..since I didn't wanna drag issue..before I knew it she dropped again and sent me a text she is tired of me that she wants out, that I should muv on coz she has...that she has always suspected that am a cheat and finally I said to her that am giving up. I took it as a joke but to my ought most surprise she went to her wall and updated what I earlier wrote....this is just a summary.....copy?

VANYCUTIE:
y is everyone blaming d girl in question? do u know her side of d story? d guy might have been domineering,probing and controlling which everyoda girl won't give in to.I belive she didn't just go. there must be a problem BTW dem which d guy does not wanna spill out.

This is it...she called me in the morning, was having a meeting with dad..asked her to call back explaining what was going on. Before I could finish explaining, she dropped the call on me.I tried calling after the meeting but she wouldn't pickup, I assumed maybe she wasn't around her phone. I waited first 1st day, 2nd day and 3rd day...no flash ping nor return my calls. I was lucky on one of the occasions when she replied my ping. She replied with "yea'' then am like, why have not been returning my calls..she went 'I was having a meeting with my mom', I sensed she was pissed and so sued for peace but to no avail...there are sveral instance she would bave this way without concrete reasons for pickingup a fight...when I insisted to know why she has been acting strange and worst wouldn't pick my calls...she said I ask too many question. I told her then I givup that I am wrong...that she won!..since I didn't wanna drag issue..before I knew it she dropped again and sent me a text she is tired of me that she wants out, that I should muv on coz she has...that she has always suspected that am a cheat and finally I said to her that am giving up. I took it as a joke but to my ought most surprise she went to her wall and updated what I earlier wrote....this is just a summary.....copy?

Sanguine:
The more attention you give her, the more she'd keep misbehaving. Just ignore her totally henceforth and pretend she doesn't exist. It's not gonna be easy. But with time, you'd get over her. And then by the time she realises how unreasonable she's been, you'd have moved on...

Fighting to stay focused....its indeed a trying time for me. Your prayers would help a great deal!

[quote author=Sanguine post=32628902]The more attention you give her, the more she'd keep misbehaving. Just ignore her totally henceforth and pretend she doesn't exist. It's not gonna be easy. But with time, you'd get over her. And then by the time she realises how unreasonable she's been, you'd have moved on...[/qu

Do u guys usually joke over everything?@mrpresident@goofyone

Uniquexty:
Then she's simply wasting your time. I heard somewhere that sometimes when a door closes, we look so hard at the closed door that we can't see the one that has been opened. Its easier said than done, but try moving on. She finally left because someone better is dropping at your feet. Don't be too down mourning the past and you won't recognize your better half.... Goodluck dear

Thnx dear!

My visions don't come empty....lets pray for all the airliners around the world and Nigeria in particular. Am confident it will be averted!

Uniquexty:
You sound really nice and responsible. And i heard girls find such guys boring. We are happy with those who treat us like Banana peels. Can you ignore her for some time?

Trust me it wouldn't change anything...I've tried ignoring her for close to a month, she took it as a Lee way....I really considering a new start.

I kinda find this hilarious and thought of sharing it with you guys just for laughs.

Tabh:
@25,she shouldn't be that silly. Why display your contact on a public forum later she would claim dogs and cats are asking her out.

We just had a fight now online...she is still justifying her actions

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
Baba, i feel your pain. These are the kind of things that turns a genuinely nice guy to a "lion". Baba, move on that gal ain't meant for you. The "right one" is on her way.

I really appreciate you sir....God bless

etoroh:
Guy, free d gal. She's made up her mind, and its worse with the long distance ish. Been a victim before, I know how it feels. Man up and start over again

Its not as easy as that....I have invested a lot of resource...I lost touch with ladies I would've possibly start over again with all coz I felt I had to stay responsible...it hurts...but why is it that when a lady jilts a guy they consider it as bravado and when a guy does it ...heavens must fall..sometimes authorities have the guy give the lady monetary compensation for wastd years...who then will compensate the guy. I foot this girls bill right from God knows when....I proposed to her..she went for service, camabck and stayed long without a job, I supported her emotionally and otherwise. Just last week she got a job and now breakup. Why are humans this wicked...am really loading it now. I need to talk to someone plsssssss

olu77:
Hmmm...then do whatsapp or call her and ignore the desperado. I mean that lousy idiot attacking you

She has blocked me from all SM

Thanks y'all ...I really appreciate...NL is really like fam

olu77:
She is acting immature but you need to show maturity. Take your quarell off social media, schedule a meeting with her physically and find out what she is up to

We are about 800km apart

Richy4:
Bro. You have a lot of time responding to matters that are not worth it.

your girl "fiancee" wanted her freedom. She was just with you because no other person has showed up.

I will not accept her back if I were you. Look for some one more suitable for yourself. And please learn how to ignore some remarks in future. It was not a sign of weakness. it is classy and mature.

Thank you sir....noted

Babzilla:
Sounds like you put the guy in his place.
Dont mind these quixotic niggas ( they are everywhere)
They are a minor nuisance but could be major if U let them

At first I was trying to play nice....but I I got unjegared....when the dude fell for orubebesity

Nursecaleb:
Dont drag anything wit im again,ur fiancee is capable of killing you,maybe she s been seeing d guy

Just what I was thinkimg

olu77:
How old is your girl?

25

MRLANNISTER:
Maybe she actually needs the freedom after all. Let her be. If she is yours she would find her way back. Just stick around, somewhere in the periphery so she knows you still love her. If she doesn't come back then move on. CHANGE

As I speak...am on my thesis...its weighing me down

Tallesty1:
Finally Free?



Seems like your girl has been missing something.

Maybe she likes double dating and could not double while with you.


Or maybe you don't give her any freedom at all?


Which one is it?

I don't know what else to give to her....to the best of my knowledge my friends tell me am too gentoe

gneisss:
very funny...uv had sex a total of 2190 time!!! oga u try...the only thing i can say is the sex probably fvcked up ur brains....i think u probably made her a more priority in ur life and dat can be seen from what u just listed out....take a break from her and get ur life together

...and this can pass for world record....dude you just won yourself a life time record

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

Op I had exactly same experience...mine was worst....left high paying job onboard LNG vessel and cam back to become a broke ass....thank God God found me...I am gradually moving up but not yet where I used to be. You need Gods face ASAP.

My fiancee and i had a misunderstanding that made her call quit! It wasn't a big deal coz she has done same many times over and coming back to apologise. What surprised me this time was that after calling it a quit with me, she decided to broadcast her pin on her status 'with finally am free'. Struggling to believe her motive for doing such since she has never done it before....I was forced to comment with..'am sure you know you can't undo this!'...meaning that once people get her pin then she should be ready for the worst...some dickhead sick Buffalo came along with silly attack at me and it began to change the trajectory of my believe.
Him: undo what? Her pin?, I guess she has the the right to post her pin anywhere or give it to who her she chooses.
Me: I trust she understand my point.
Him: sure she does and so should you. And wait why would it bother you so much
Me: dude..I don't think you have the right to question me here...it was directed to the owner of this I'd n not u....excuse you...do you have any vendetta to this...it will do u a lot gud if you spill it!
I really want to get quick answers so as to get it over with!
Him: but you have the right to question her?....as her dad?
Me: wow how convenient...I can see you just loaded a truck full of guts...dude have you noticed you're drolling?!
Him: you're sick
Me: let me break it down to you....I usually don't come this nice with guys with skewed view to issues...ama cut you a slack for the stray bullet but any more click from your toy gun will activate my NUKE...be warned
...Observation....dude came back deleting all his comment
Pls no insults,
Mature comments only