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priceaction:
She is just bored as a young married person and find it difficult to cope with your absence there by leading to depression. As long as she is caring your baby, please never cut her salaries and stop listening to negative advises up there , dont just stop communicating. Some women are like that, they cant cope easily. And since she is not fighting you, just keep sending her messages ,when she carry her phone she will see it and if possibe you monitor the time she sees the messages and she is online, place a call through. Alternatively, let her go to her sister's place or call her sister to discuss her temporary staying with her, and always tip her something to her account from time to time. If you want to call her, call her sister instead and communicate well with both of them. If you are around, make sure you give her 100% attention and stay with her as much as possible even by assisting her doing her chores without being asked for. You dont have problem with your house, its just the way some women reacts to bore room.
My wife was like that on several occasions because i travel alot too. Until i came home one day and i noticed her phone is always far from her, and at times under the pillow while i do call. Anytime i wanted to travel, her mood will totally change and she would be acting cold. But, hey, businesses must go on.
Please dont suffer her. It may begin another round of worse problem.

I do most of above stuff. Thnx anyways

Lonelypacifist6:
Don't you know they're some fish -brained women on this forum just looking for any opportunity to lash out at men? Those are the kind of women you'd best avoid they're Rabid dogs.

ahswear

zolajpower:
Yours is better reason is she's pregnant. You don't take it out on her like that , she might be going through a lot . I have a girlfriend who hardly pays attention and wen I noticed that I just pulled out of the relationship gradually by given attention and got from someone who can't stay a day without calling me . Now we are ex . But in the case of your wife it's normal with all pregnant women .

You have a point

HarunaWest:
It's so sickening that most people dont see the problem here,they just busy ranting.
Six months onshore no funny my brother,its too much for her to bear..
Try to seek for another job. Newly married couples should be close...
maybe initially,she thought she could cope,buh she hasn't been finding it easy again.

We are working on getting us a business while I get something else

Liliyann:
Inconsiderate selfish man!
Your wife is heavy with your child yet you stress her with house work, what stopped you from employing house helps that will assist her in house chores and for her to rest and enjoy her marriage?

Most people are really not into chatting!
I have several unopened message on WhatsApp and i reply when i feel like, to me, i prefer calling to chatting!

Besides you don't expect her to reply when you nag her all day and not showing any iota of care and romance?

You are just a selfish man that is looking for the slightest reason to cheat....don't you know pregnancy comes with its own wahala?
Incase you don't know, most pregnant women get irritated by their own husband during that period!
So,you berra enjoy it!!

Okay, let me put it to you that our home is pretty ok. I place my wife on salary even when she has a job of her own. The house chore I mentioned is at her sisters. She got used to the place coz she stayed with her sister before our marriage. She personally prefers it there coz she complaine of boredom back in our home. Issue is she get too involved with her sister home stuff that she forgets about me.....esp as her sister is always on business runs. So you see...try to get factz first before u type gibberish... I love my wife And she is a good woman but lacks in this area.....
So talk about selfness! Next time think before you type
Smh

Officialgarri:
Don't disturb her again, don't send her messages, don't tell anyone to her and most importantly, do not send her money.

When she sees that you do not care anymore, the tables will turn.

Don't mention....

Thnx

Mariangeles:
Why do guys always have to play the "...or else I'm going to cheat " card ?

Cheat on your pregnant wife ? Seriously dude ?

Pls i never mention cheating....dont even have it in mind.

Mafia001:
If you mean she's heavy as been pregnant, then please don't cheat on her, shes going through a lot already but also you could simply drop her a message on WhatsApp, you'll know when she reads it or not from the blue ticks, and you pay attention to the time she replies, give it a time frame of 2 to 7 days and if you feel like you want more, then get another WhatsApp number to message her as someone els...just do better for all your sake. She might just be going through the motions or angry with you..

Thanks...will try

I got married recently, and few weeks in, I Left for my work that takes me away for 6months international lng delivery voyage. My wife is a good woman but I find it had to get her attention online (whatsapp), as it is our only way of staying in touch while onboard. She is heavy n decided to move to her sister's place......my issues is that she get carried away by home chores n work that she creat little or no chat time for me. Ive complained several times but no improvement, so I resort to calling ppl who are in nja n online to place voice call to her for her to come online as I am currently in GMT+9 i find it even more difficult to get her as her sleep time is my day time and vice versa. She recently got angry one of those times I had my friend get her...said its embarrassing. Its hard for me as i constantly practically beg for attention. Worst i . a lot of girls wanting my attention but i want to stay clean but I sometimes feel deeply lonely coz of the nature of my job. My wife hardly pick her call ...u have to send entire community to call her before she picks on the 1000th attempt, I'm considering ordering her return to our house as she tend to seek approval from her ppl on slightest of things Pls advice as im getting worried

biz2get:
The Song.. By RUDEBOY

"Reason With Me, If I no get today; i go get tomorrow"

Is a perfect fit to describe your story.

Most of this girl's out here only see TODAY TODAY AND TODAY ONLY. they don't think of they future but act like they are.

You see a man with vision but left him to a man who allows you call other guys during Se,x.. That kind girl get sense so.?

All bcus why.? The vision man is currently broke.

Believe me after this. She will go round and say "AFTER ALL I DID FOR YOU, YOU BROKE ME"

she is already on that campaign

Dreamz77:
Am really touched by your story.. I have wronged a lady too and I hope she forgives me cause sometimes I think daz the reason I go truw some shits ATM.

Pls find her wherever she is and make peace!!

koife:
I will try and keep my write up simple. I wish to apologize as I am a bad writer than a speaker.
I met this young lady sometime in 2013 via fb. Feelings was mutual as we graduated from messenger to whatsapp. We got so fond of each other, yes, I can say we were in love. Her first visit to my base proved it all. Like every relationship, we had our ups and down and I was committed in making sure we stayed together no matter the odds. If she does something wrong, I would be first to apologize…let say, I wanted to be the perfect guy.
At the time, I was jobless but soon had admission to run MSc in NDA, I proceeded, while she had a job in abj after series of fasting and prayer. I proposed to her and she accepted but my new fiancée suddenly changed, she would break up with me at slightest provocation, block me on all social media, and would go weeks/days until I beg and beg….our relationship continued in more struggling manner. I rounded up my MSc and returned to Calabar. Things got worse, she would not call, would threaten to leave me any time we had misunderstanding. She finally did break up in 2016, and asked that she returned the ring I gave her. I was distressed, hurt and felt betrayed, she told me to move on as she has already moved on. I survived, the guys she left me for jilted her, her mom and the guys mom had misunderstanding on wedding date (her testimony), she marriage plans broke down……long and short, they broke up. She came back begging me and narrating all she went through and her being infected by the guy…..i stood by her and got her treated, we kinda found a way to mend the cracks. She promised not to repeat same mistake again. Being someone, I loved dearly, we continued.
She soon found another guy and this time she didn’t hide it…openly told me she has no more feelings for me that she loved the new guy. One of those days I travelled to benue for best mans duties, she sent me breakup text in church, while sited behind my friend. I cried and my friend (the groom) and other grooms’ men rallied to put me in shape for the occasion. It dawned on me I was like a spare tyre to her. I would call her and she wouldn’t pick, as usual blocked me via all social media. I begged through her mother, sister, brother, my sisters and friends but all to no avail. I was broke, no job, no future, no hope….i was struggling with life, life wasn’t fair!!. One of those days, she told me she can never marry me, that even if she did, she would divorce me anyways. Said she doesn’t want to marry me out of pitty!! I felt stabbed the day she picked my call, just to drive the knife in my heart, she left the phone so I can hear her making out with the guy…her moan and all, heard the guys ask her at the background who it was, she said its (mentioning my name), that she has told me to leave her alone
I threw myself to God….God is real, I soaked myself in his service. I asked he forgive me for I had believed in man. I would go days without N500, at age 34….was still living with my parents, I tried all forms of business and none was coming through. I knew I needed a breakthrough….God found for me a shepherded in a certain church in calabar, the man took me in search of gods face.
I started seeing little improvement. Had marketing job in one of leading banks in Nigeria, completed my audio message and launched it same year and dedicated it to God. Had admission I USA, collected my MSc certificate. My faith was rekindled, I could feel God hands in all I did…..even in the simplest of things. During my faith walk with GOD, I met a lady who was kind, respectful and loving, she was everything I needed during my ebb moment. Would cook inside flask and bring to office for me…bought me undies, this girl was everything good. Few weeks in, I told her ill marry her, she and her friends laughed me to scorn coz they knew I was broke. More so, she was engaged to certain guy In UK, chances were too slim
A friend of mine from NLNG ship mgt who lived in my dads BQ before he had the job, came visiting calabar, he wasn’t happy with my situation. Gave an email and asked I sent my documents, time which I had already introduced the new girl to my father that I wanted to marry her, my brother laughed at me and asked where I intend to get the money from but my dad shut them up before the lady….this lady believed in me, she opened good fortune door. I was called for interview and was successful…though as SSCE holder level, I needed a changed. I accepted the offer in USD, 6 digits Naira eqv. Long and short, God showed up mightily, we got married in less than a year and I was able to foot the bills all by myself, exactly one year after my best mans duties…..a year plus after my ex breakup.
Now the twist;
I returned to sea, few weeks after my return to nja/marriage around January ending. My ex came unblocking me and accusing me of being wicked. That I lied I didn’t have money. Asked where the money came from suddenly, said I had my wife under cover all along. That someone told her about my wedding…..saying all manner of things. I don’t blame her, its hard to imagine how far God had taken me in less than two years. God surprised me…..i cant say how it happened myself. She begged that during those times she left me, I cursed her that she demand I revoke my curses, that the guy she left me for is no more with her that she is in another shaky relationship. Couldn’t help but feel for her. Ladies and men, beware of those you hurt. Watch who you laugh at….no man knows tomorrow. Be careful who you mistreat, maltreat, lookdown on…..never hurt those who love you. You could be fighting Gods chosen
Karma is real, just 3years down the line
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mode please push to fp for people to learn

pix 2hours

I will try and keep my write up simple. I wish to apologize as I am a bad writer than a speaker.
I met this young lady sometime in 2013 via fb. Feelings was mutual as we graduated from messenger to whatsapp. We got so fond of each other, yes, I can say we were in love. Her first visit to my base proved it all. Like every relationship, we had our ups and down and I was committed in making sure we stayed together no matter the odds. If she does something wrong, I would be first to apologize…let say, I wanted to be the perfect guy.
At the time, I was jobless but soon had admission to run MSc in NDA, I proceeded, while she had a job in abj after series of fasting and prayer. I proposed to her and she accepted but my new fiancée suddenly changed, she would break up with me at slightest provocation, block me on all social media, and would go weeks/days until I beg and beg….our relationship continued in more struggling manner. I rounded up my MSc and returned to Calabar. Things got worse, she would not call, would threaten to leave me any time we had misunderstanding. She finally did break up in 2016, and asked that she returned the ring I gave her. I was distressed, hurt and felt betrayed, she told me to move on as she has already moved on. I survived, the guys she left me for jilted her, her mom and the guys mom had misunderstanding on wedding date (her testimony), she marriage plans broke down……long and short, they broke up. She came back begging me and narrating all she went through and her being infected by the guy…..i stood by her and got her treated, we kinda found a way to mend the cracks. She promised not to repeat same mistake again. Being someone, I loved dearly, we continued.
She soon found another guy and this time she didn’t hide it…openly told me she has no more feelings for me that she loved the new guy. One of those days I travelled to benue for best mans duties, she sent me breakup text in church, while sited behind my friend. I cried and my friend (the groom) and other grooms’ men rallied to put me in shape for the occasion. It dawned on me I was like a spare tyre to her. I would call her and she wouldn’t pick, as usual blocked me via all social media. I begged through her mother, sister, brother, my sisters and friends but all to no avail. I was broke, no job, no future, no hope….i was struggling with life, life wasn’t fair!!. One of those days, she told me she can never marry me, that even if she did, she would divorce me anyways. Said she doesn’t want to marry me out of pitty!! I felt stabbed the day she picked my call, just to drive the knife in my heart, she left the phone so I can hear her making out with the guy…her moan and all, heard the guys ask her at the background who it was, she said its (mentioning my name), that she has told me to leave her alone
I threw myself to God….God is real, I soaked myself in his service. I asked he forgive me for I had believed in man. I would go days without N500, at age 34….was still living with my parents, I tried all forms of business and none was coming through. I knew I needed a breakthrough….God found for me a shepherded in a certain church in calabar, the man took me in search of gods face.
I started seeing little improvement. Had marketing job in one of leading banks in Nigeria, completed my audio message and launched it same year and dedicated it to God. Had admission I USA, collected my MSc certificate. My faith was rekindled, I could feel God hands in all I did…..even in the simplest of things. During my faith walk with GOD, I met a lady who was kind, respectful and loving, she was everything I needed during my ebb moment. Would cook inside flask and bring to office for me…bought me undies, this girl was everything good. Few weeks in, I told her ill marry her, she and her friends laughed me to scorn coz they knew I was broke. More so, she was engaged to certain guy In UK, chances were too slim
A friend of mine from NLNG ship mgt who lived in my dads BQ before he had the job, came visiting calabar, he wasn’t happy with my situation. Gave an email and asked I sent my documents, time which I had already introduced the new girl to my father that I wanted to marry her, my brother laughed at me and asked where I intend to get the money from but my dad shut them up before the lady….this lady believed in me, she opened good fortune door. I was called for interview and was successful…though as SSCE holder level, I needed a changed. I accepted the offer in USD, 6 digits Naira eqv. Long and short, God showed up mightily, we got married in less than a year and I was able to foot the bills all by myself, exactly one year after my best mans duties…..a year plus after my ex breakup.
Now the twist;
I returned to sea, few weeks after my return to nja/marriage around January ending. My ex came unblocking me and accusing me of being wicked. That I lied I didn’t have money. Asked where the money came from suddenly, said I had my wife under cover all along. That someone told her about my wedding…..saying all manner of things. I don’t blame her, its hard to imagine how far God had taken me in less than two years. God surprised me…..i cant say how it happened myself. She begged that during those times she left me, I cursed her that she demand I revoke my curses, that the guy she left me for is no more with her that she is in another shaky relationship. Couldn’t help but feel for her. Ladies and men, beware of those you hurt. Watch who you laugh at….no man knows tomorrow. Be careful who you mistreat, maltreat, look down on…..never hurt those who love you. You could be fighting Gods chosen
Karma is real, just 3years down the line

I will try and keep my write up simple. I wish to apologize as I am a bad writer than a speaker.
I met this young lady sometime in 2013 via fb. Feelings was mutual as we graduated from messenger to whatsapp. We got so fond of each other, yes, I can say we were in love. Her first visit to my base proved it all. Like every relationship, we had our ups and down and I was committed in making sure we stayed together no matter the odds. If she does something wrong, I would be first to apologize…let say, I wanted to be the perfect guy.
At the time, I was jobless but soon had admission to run MSc in NDA, I proceeded, while she had a job in abj after series of fasting and prayer. I proposed to her and she accepted but my new fiancée suddenly changed, she would break up with me at slightest provocation, block me on all social media, and would go weeks/days until I beg and beg….our relationship continued in more struggling manner. I rounded up my MSc and returned to Calabar. Things got worse, she would not call, would threaten to leave me any time we had misunderstanding. She finally did break up in 2016, and asked that she returned the ring I gave her. I was distressed, hurt and felt betrayed, she told me to move on as she has already moved on. I survived, the guys she left me for jilted her, her mom and the guys mom had misunderstanding on wedding date (her testimony), the marriage plans broke down……long and short, they broke up. She came back begging me and narrating all she went through and her being infected by the guy…..i stood by her and got her treated, we kinda found a way to mend the cracks. She promised not to repeat same mistake again. Being someone I loved dearly, we continued.
She soon found another guy and this time she didn’t hide it…openly told me she has no more feelings for me that she loved the new guy. One of those days I travelled to benue for best mans duties, she sent me breakup text in church, while sited behind my friend. I cried and my friend (the groom) and other grooms’ men rallied to put me in shape for the occasion. It dawned on me I was like a spare tyre to her. I would call her and she wouldn’t pick, as usual blocked me via all social media. I begged through her mother, sister, brother, my sisters and friends but all to no avail. I was broke, no job, no future, no hope….i was struggling with life, life wasn’t fair!!. One of those days, she told me she can never marry me, that even if she did, she would divorce me anyways. Said she doesn’t want to marry me out of pitty!! I felt stabbed the day she picked my call, just to drive the knife in my heart, she left the phone so I can hear her making out with the guy…her moan and all, heard the guys ask her at the background who it was, she said its (mentioning my name), that she has told me to leave her alone
I threw myself to God….God is real, I soaked myself in his service. I asked he forgive me for I had believed in man. I would go days without N500, at age 34….was still living with my parents, I tried all forms of business and none was coming through. I knew I needed a breakthrough….God found for me a shepherded in a certain church in calabar, the man took me in search of gods face.
I started seeing little improvement. Had marketing job in one of leading banks in Nigeria, completed my audio message and launched it same year and dedicated it to God. Had admission I USA, collected my MSc certificate. My faith was rekindled, I could feel God hands in all I did…..even in the simplest of things. During my faith walk with GOD, I met a lady who was kind, respectful and loving, she was everything I needed during my ebb moment. Would cook inside flask and bring to office for me…bought me undies, this girl was everything good. Few weeks in, I told her ill marry her, she and her friends laughed me to scorn coz they knew I was broke. More so, she was engaged to certain guy In UK, chances were too slim
A friend of mine from NLNG ship mgt who lived in my dads BQ before he had the job, came visiting calabar, he wasn’t happy with my situation. Gave an email and asked I sent my documents, time which I had already introduced the new girl to my father that I wanted to marry her, my brother laughed at me and asked where I intend to get the money from but my dad shut them up before the lady….this lady believed in me, she opened good fortune door. I was called for interview and was successful…though as SSCE holder level, I needed a changed. I accepted the offer in USD, 6 digits Naira eqv. Long and short, God showed up mightily, we got married in less than a year and I was able to foot the bills all by myself, exactly one year after my best mans duties…..a year plus after my ex breakup.
Now the twist;
I returned to sea, few weeks after my return to nja/marriage around January ending. My ex came unblocking me and accusing me of being wicked. That I lied I didn’t have money. Asked where the money came from suddenly, said I had my wife under cover all along. That someone told her about my wedding…..saying all manner of things. I don’t blame her, its hard to imagine how far God had taken me in less than two years. God surprised me…..i cant say how it happened myself. She begged that during those times she left me, I cursed her that she demand I revoke my curses, that the guy she left me for is no more with her that she is in another shaky relationship. Couldn’t help but feel for her. Ladies and men, beware of those you hurt. Watch who you laugh at….no man knows tomorrow. Be careful who you mistreat, maltreat, lookdown on…..never hurt those who love you. You could be fighting Gods chosen
Karma is real, just 3years down the line
chat screen shuts in a bit
mode please push to fp for people to learn

The Lord is perpetual in his blessing

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I will try and keep it simple. I'm 35 single with loads of aspirations on my mind. I hold a diploma, bachelors degree and masters degree, my main passion has always been to be in academic or research related career path. I feel out of this world fulfillment each time I teach or explains things to people. But of recent I have had an increasing desire that makes me question my present situation. I have admission in US to continue another masters that leads to PhD as well... I also desire to start a fresh PhD here in Nigeria. I recently got a job onboard an international going gas vessel that pay as high as 350k dollar equivalent but I find myself doing menial jobs like moping, cleaning, greasing, painting and running errands.... simply put, I feel underused and it freaks me out because it feels like my wealth of knowledge is wasted and everybody treats you as per your rank here onboard. My family members are pushing I keep the job but I feel I'm starting a new career and worst more like being on an illiterate rank. I spend six month on ship and two months home..It's freaks me out and I find it hard to explain to ppl because they feel it's all about money and all. I sometimes feel like screaming hence,this short article just to seek your advise here as a family. Only few will understand the situation I'm in right now. Bashing is welcomed. Thnx

I will try and keep it simple. I'm 35 single with loads of aspirations on my mind. I hold a diploma, bachelors degree and masters degree, my main passion has always been to be in academic or research related career path. I feel out of this world fulfillment each time I teach or explains things to people. But of recent I have had an increasing desire that makes me question my present situation. I have admission in US to continue another masters that leads to PhD as well... I also desire to start a fresh PhD here in Nigeria. I recently got a job onboard an international going gas vessel that pay as high as 350k dollar equivalent but I find myself doing menial jobs like moping, cleaning, greasing, painting and running errands.... simply put, I feel underused and it freaks me out because it feels like my wealth of knowledge is wasted and everybody treats you as per your rank here onboard. My family members are pushing I keep the job but I feel I'm starting a new career and worst more like being on an illiterate rank. I spend six month on ship and two months home..It's freaks me out and I find it hard to explain to ppl because they feel it's all about money and all. I sometimes feel like screaming hence,this short article just to seek your advise here as a family. Only few will understand the situation I'm in right now. Bashing is welcomed. Thnx

HeWrites:
If I'm in this kind of situation


I will just CUT the marriage the way Igbo people do use to CUT a film of 10 seasons into 1 Season

Not time to be with a lady who can't decide by herself without her Family

OP, God will help you with your relationship

I do really care for her and don't think taking such rash decisions would help her in any way

Preshy561:
have you asked her why she doesn't want to sleep over?

All she said was it doesn't seem right since in not married to her and that her mom didn't approve of it

kus4fame:
Don't even know what to type here as usual

My take:
The OP is guilty of the same crime his Would Be allegedly committed.
It was even his family that came up with the idea of the girl going to spend sometime with his dad
She's only a friend and not yet a wife
For now, her family's opinion should not be disregarded by her
I've not even heard the girl's side of the story self

ok noted

Preshy561:
why is she avoiding your family members?
in my village,it's a norm the lady in question spends some days with her father/mother inlaw.


have you asked her the reasons behind the disagreements?

I really can't tell, but from what i gathered my dad likes her so much and she too likes my dad. She actually agreed to go visit him but not sleep over.

Neiy:
Please remind her your the man and you both initial agreement needs to stand.
Your about tying the knot with this kind of attitude from your suppose finance isn't a good one remembering it's marriage and not relationship.
The early you correct errors the better for you both personality ND your marriage.
This kind of attitude brings discord and control.
She needs to be self reliant.

Thanks man, I've made concerted efforts in this direction. It hurts me real bad. I think I'll take heave on the slack. Thnx bro

Cutehector:
I don't see any wrong in her telling her family people about her where abouts. The only thing she did wrong was to go against the decisions you two have already agreed upon.

So what do you advise?

Well, I'm about to get married in matter of months. Though not in the country, I make effort to make her have smooth relationship with my dad and siblings who are in Nigeria and my mom who is in Usa suggested I have her go sleep over at dads, dad even concurred apparently aimed at making their bond better and also observe her. We spoke about it few weeks ago, she agreed... even reminded her today( Sunday) but I was shocked when she went ahead to seek permission from her family ppl after we had agreed. Now declining to do as we agreed. Now this is not first instance of such happening. My work makes me touch bonny port atleast once in two months just for few hours. In bid to raise funds and Drop some stuff we agreed she come to bonny to pick them up, we agreed and all. I was Surprised she told me she spoke with her brother who told her not to and she stood by it. I'm not very good in making decisions but I think it's a red flag for me. I think she will be the kinda of woman that will allow her family influence and decisions overrides what we both agree as couples.. It hurts me she spills every little stuff we talk about as couples to be. I think at this point we need some level of independence and discreetness from her.... I may be wrong, so correct me if I am wrong. I am seeking advise from those who are experienced in the game of marriage to give me nature advise pls!

This was in NLNG RA bonny, i was LIve in the concert. Patoranking killed it Friday Night

My dad is getting old and I make bold to say he was a good financial manager and investor in his hay days. He invested and now gets dividends and other benefit from most financial houses except one (First registrars a subsidiary of FBN Holdings) which he is seriously worried his investments maybe jeopardized or out rightly compromised. We have written on several occasions for them to correct/ address some of our concerns but nothing is forth coming. In view of the afore said, I write to ask for contacts of any experienced known stock broker in calabar or who we can approach in order to address some issue or maybe outrighy sale out his shares/ and or equities.Please excuse my typos. I anticipate your usual assistance.
Regards
Eja

I'm one of the BEA, scholarship candidate who went for the south south Examination. Before I begin let me state categorically that I've always been a patriot in all my dealings, but for the first time in my Life as a Nigerian I had a disappointing experience. The BEA scholarship is supposed to be a National Program for Nigerians seeking financial support to study in various schools outside the shores of Nigeria and I can't phantom why anyone would make such a huge disaster to title the quantitative section "ARABIC". I'm trying not to let my mind drift to what I've always denied is on going but with this I'm forced to have a rethink. Is the subtle jihad movement real?Are there any undertones we are all not aware? A particular candidate on seeing the captioned flipped through the questions without attempting it with the mind it's Arabic just to come out and realize it was quantitative. I've taken this up as part of my social responsibility to demand an explanation for such disaster and whoever found culpable be be made to face the law. We can't be silenced. MOD pls push to front page

Elparaiso:
Thanks.
Nairaland needs age restriction abeg.

seriously!!

Elparaiso:
You're obviously stupid.


To the OP,
It's not a gender's job to propose, dude or dudette, it doesn't matter. As long as we're in the right stage of the relationship and we're both financially and mentally stable, I'll accept. In fact, at such a stage, I might already have a ring in my pocket, she proposes, I propose instantly.

You speak like a real man. Leave this boys were dey yearn dust

The trend of ladies proposing to their guys is fast becoming a norm albeit with mix feelings and reaction. What I found disturbing is the fact that ladies are the ones crying the most and evening casting their fellow ladies. Well,I saw this funny answer from a Facebook user and thought to share, romantic I guess. Guys, what's your take... would you accept?

When act like a zombie defending and hoping to vote PMB # ask sarki on NL how far