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The turns of life can get to anyone. When I read stories here on nairaland i use to shudder and pinch myself. Until it happened to me.
Here it is;
Early last year a certain girl sent me Facebook request which I accepted without knowing. Unkown to me that she has been my married brother gf seeking information and seeking a payback. At a point she opened up telling me the truth that she is seeing my brother and at the time got pregnant for my brother who is married with three kids in abj. She told me how heart broken she was that she never knew my brother was married. I took couple of months to tell her the whole truth and helped her get over it while managing the information bw my brother except letting the wife know until she got abortion at her insistence without my knowing. At this point my brother ain't helping as I got to find out that she has been with him in his work station for months now abandoning the family in abj. I'm heart broken, hurt, confused and in cross roads. My aged parents believed so much in my brother and I don't want them die early should I spill this to them, but the situation is getting messier and almost out of my control as the wife is already talking divorce and each time I look at her I feel guilty albeit trying my best to ward off the strange lady and also talk sense into my brother as I hate cheating in of any guise. In heat of all of my exchanges with her today ( see chat below) I want to ask for your candid advise in this regard as a family.
Thnx much

Please .

Rorachy:
Lolzzzz.
Its not that hard just that those caring ones have been taken.

Not all dear. I'm one of em

anadi01:
Seriously, the crowd no be here oooh... God save Nigeria!!

Just for one slot

anadi01:
We are all standing like hungry people, no sit. Na waooo. Still interviewing the forth person.

Lol mehn how come I no see yu? Wetin u wear?

martinsfm:
very real... dnt knw anything abt it tho got invited mnths ago bt dint go .. u cn chk I oopened a thread for it

Ok I'm on my way

just recieved an SMS for interview from daudeen freight and forwarding company. Can somebody check if its genuine?

rossyc:
It is

How do you know them

Andy2274:
Did you apply for any job there? If yes then go. It's real

Yes I did

I just recieved an SMS for interview from daudeen freight and forwarding company. Can somebody check if its genuine?

blessed are those with power socket beside their bed on a rainy day for theirs is the ease to power their gadget and read news from lalastica and the rest of the snake kingdom

I stumbled on this somewhere and I thought to share. Indeed anything is possible in our country. Nja I hail thee!

The number one problem plaguing Nigeria is not corruption or even the absence of regular power. The number one problem militating against the progress of Nigeria is her lack of unity.

If we can fix this problem, Nigeria will herself be fixed.


In The Old Testament of The Bible, which Christians accept as the Divine scripture, God spoke about mankind in Genesis 11:6 thus: “If as one people speaking the same language they have begun to do this, then nothing they plan to do will be impossible for them.”

Similarly, The Holy Quran, the Divine scripture of Muslims also states: “Do not quarrel among yourselves lest you lose heart and your momentum disappear.” -Quran 8:46.


From the above, it is clear that we can never have a Nigeria that fulfills her full potential when we have a divided Nigeria. Not only will we lose momentum as The Quran shows us, but we will also lose our possibilities as The Bible teaches us.


An objective look at history will show that without exception, all nations or regions that have expelled people from their landmass on the basis of race, religion or political affiliation have been the poorer for it, whether you are talking of the Alhambra Decree which purged Jews from Spain in 1492, or of more recent events like the purge of Asians from Uganda in 1972.


Nigerians may recall the ‘Ghana Must Go’ purge of 1983 which led to the forced departure of over a million Ghanaians from Nigeria. Nigeria lost many skilled workers and small businesses when the Ghanaians left. But they went home and developed their country and today Ghana is the top destination for Nigerians wishing to study abroad.


Because of how these immigrants helped develop and organise their country, there are over a quarter of a million Nigerians in Ghana today, and the Ghanaians have coined the phrase ‘Nigerians Are Coming’ to identify this phenomenon.


We must learn from history. We do not have to repeat history. We must learn from the mistakes of other people. As Albert Einstein famously said: the definition of insanity is to do the same thing and expect a different result.


It would be insane if a nation that once sang the song of ‘Go On With One Nigeria’ should be seen to be singing a new and absurd song of ‘Go On Without Some Nigerians’.


What that would mean is that the sacrifices of the millions of men, women, and children who died in the process of keeping Nigeria one would have been a sacrifice made in vain.



This would negate the lines in our National Anthem which read:

The labour of our heroes past

Shall never be in vain


It will be an even greater shame that if after we are all united to condemn the xenophobic attacks in South Africa, we hypocritically turn around and treat our own kith and kin even worse.


We have six geopolitical zones in Nigeria and I was one of those that participated in bringing this about at the 1995 Constitutional Conference. The reasoning behind this is the awareness that none of us is as great as all of us.


Our six zones each have six strengths, but our one Nigeria together has six hundred strengths.


If you do not believe me, look at the Nigerian football teams that have won the Olympic Gold Medal, The Africa Cup of Nations, the team that won the maiden edition of FIFA U-17 World Cup in 1985 and the team that qualified for our very first FIFA World Cup in 1994.

It took a combination of Nigerians from all zones to pull these feats. The struggle of Nigeria in 2017 is not a struggle between North and South, rather, it is a struggle between good and evil.


It would not be possible for Nigeria to exist as one corporate entity comprising the six geopolitical zones if this were not the plan of God. If this is the plan of The Almighty, and it evidently is, then whose plan would it be to cause division in what God has united?


What did Nabi Isa (Jesus Christ say) say in Matthew 19:6?


“What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder.”


Let us think long and deep on this.


A while ago Emanuel Cleaver said there is more power in unity than in division. Some very clever people may have discovered ways in which they can divide Nigeria, but I am convinced that there are intelligent geniuses and patriots amongst our people who can discover ways to unite Nigeria and defeat their evil plans.


One of such people is Immaculata Onuigbo, a young Nigerian from Enugu, who was recruited by the Shehu Musa Yar’Adua Foundation at the very young age 10 and given a scholarship which eventually saw her emerge as the best graduating student of the American University of Nigeria, Yola with the highest Cumulative Grade Point Average score in the school’s history.

Immaculata Onuigbo best graduating student of AUN Yola


People like Miss Onuigbo, are the future of Nigeria and the world. A product of pan-Nigerian collaboration. Incidentally, she was discovered in Enugu, that great metropolis that in 1956 elected a Northerner, Umaru Altine, as its first elected mayor.


It is our history encapsulated in Umaru Altine and our future in Immaculata Onuigbo that Nigeria needs. What Nigeria does not need is negative voices who are trying to uproot the shade-giving trees that people like Felix Okonkwo and Aminu Kano planted to provide cover for generations yet unborn.



One of the most inspiring stories I have read in recent times are those of Sariki Yaro Danladi, Chairman Northern Traditional Rulers Council South-east and South-south and Ichie Uche Megwalu published in The Nation of last Saturday.



Danladi, who also doubles as leader of the Hausa community in Abia State was born, bred and married in the state while Megwalu, 77-year-old Igbo leader has made Kano home for over 60 years. The stories of both men dot our landscape and bear eloquent testimony of the spirit of the Nigeria that beckons.


As I write this, I am certain that Nigeria will not be overcome by evil people, rather, the good people of Nigeria will overcome evil and Nigeria will be better for it.

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HerPov:
I don't know what's wrong with me, everytime I feel insecure in the relationship or he does something to piss me off, I end the relationship. At that moment I'm overwhelmed with anger and he has a way of blanking me when we argue and because I can't release the anger, I quit the relationship.
I really do love him. He is my dream man, I approached him and introduced myself and we just fit. Except my "It's over" drama every month.
I finish with him every month (when I come on my period, I can't control my emotions). He said he can't take me seriously and if I broke up with him again he won't take me back and I broke up with him last week for the 5th time

What's wrong with me? Do other women feel like this? Men what would you do in his situation?

WOW, its good to know that I am not alone in this kind of debacle. my ex-fiancée now friend, was in the same habit of breakup with me. she was so used to it that she would threaten me at slightest provocation. I think on record she did it well over 50 times and I was always patient with her, thinking I could help change her...for where? Her last break up with me seemed like the usual thing she used to say, but alas! it was real.....she broke up with me Kpataakpata and hooked up with abj big bo., I literally became bipolar and hated the fact that I could forgive her and give the chance to change, yet she would stab me in cold blood. I hated the idea of relationship. we were apart for about 2yr. Just last year December after being jilted by a guy who proposed and actually begun marriage plans with, she came begging for forgiveness that she now realizes that I am the only guy who really understand her, that my kinds are rare. Sister, stop playing with that poor guys emotion
stop making excuses and growup! if hin dump you now, you go run come nairaland come open thread on how devilish men are mtcheww....some pipo need deliverance sha

Hello house,
Sitting down in my room and putting all the political happenings today in our dear country.
I make bold to say that: If its today chinua Achebe wrote and titled his book, ' there was a country'.
He probably would've been hounded, bundled and thrown into jail by EFCC+Army+DSSC for inciteful and treasonable statements

Hello house,
Sitting down in my room and putting all the political happenings today in our dear country.
I make bold to say that: If its today chinua Achebe wrote and titled his book, ' there was a country'.
He probably would've been hounded, bundled and thrown into jail by EFCC+Army+DSSC for inciteful and treasonable statements

Dogs that bark don't bite.....hmmm. It all change the day my friend was almost shreded by our neighbour's dog after it bark for a long time and he claimed that dogs that bark don't bite

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Okay, this lady actually saw my comment on her friends friend contact, a guy whom I share with her friend as mutual friend. She sent me a friends request which I accepted and this was came when I lost my 3yrs+ relationship.
She was very supportive and would call me for hours just to console me, I began to see her as having a good heart (sister zoned her). So, when I returned to kd to get my cert from NDA she asked that we see and I granted her wish, she also narrated her own ordeal with guys and I gave my candid advise. Ever since we met, I've known almost all her boy friends and each time she has issues she come asking for my advise. I started noticing that each time I missed her call or wouldn't reply her she would take it personal, and in one occasion she told me my wife would be lucky. I still didn't get the drift until she opened up and told me she is in love with me. when I asked her why..she said she likes kind of man, that am God fearing, intelligent, humble...blabla bla.
To be candid, I've never felt anything emoz for her, so I didn't want to make her feel bad so I kept dodging every conversation that would take us talk about the possibilities of us dating.
I was surprised, one day I saw the screen grabbed whatsapp message and felt really bad that maybe, just maybe I would have broken her heart. She probably thought I didn't find her attractive enough...which is why she asked me to rate her beauty and I was careful with my answer.
Pls I really need your candid advise, coz I've been hurt so many times and I know exactly what it means to love someone and not being loved back or even being noticed

Okay, this lady actually saw my comment on her friends friend contact, a guy whom I share with her friend as mutual friend. She sent me a friends request which I accepted and this was came when I lost my 3yrs+ relationship.
She was very supportive and would call me for hours just to console me, I began to see her as having a good heart (sister zoned her). So, when I returned to kd to get my cert from NDA she asked that we see and I granted her wish, she also narrated her own ordeal with guys and I gave my candid advise. Ever since we met, I've known almost all her boy friends and each time she has issues she come asking for my advise. I started noticing that each time I missed her call or wouldn't reply her she would take it personal, and in one occasion she told me my wife would be lucky. I still didn't get the drift until she opened up and told me she is in love with me. when I asked her why..she said she likes kind of man, that am God fearing, intelligent, humble...blabla bla.
To be candid, I've never felt anything emoz for her, so I didn't want to make her feel bad so I kept dodging every conversation that would take us talk about the possibilities of us dating.
I was surprised, one day I saw the screen grabbed whatsapp message and felt really bad that maybe, just maybe I would have broken her heart. She probably thought I didn't find her attractive enough...which is why she asked me to rate her beautify and I was careful with my answer.
Pls I really need your candid advise, coz I've been hurt so many times and I know exactly what it means to love someone and not being loved back or even being noticed

The last time I checked, you posted this https://www.nairaland.com/3183944/urgent-relationship-stake-need-ur#46851681

..your write up in the link could be the reason. You punished the nigga damn too long. He probably has found another who is giving him what he wants. EOD!

Fairly used plane for sale?

I am a south southerner...my love for this man keeps growing!

I find this offensively annoying....either you're a zombie or a wailer in Nairaland parliament. These politicians don't give a hoot about us!

TrapQueen77:



Hahahaahaha.. I dunno... I have no male friends before who wanna settle down with me

Aunty pls chose me.....biko onu

...2019 permutations underway!