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I thought love was supposed to be blind

So let us get this straight. You guys are not and were never married so he did not use you to get papers _{before some peers start making this an issue}

What country are you in . . can you file for child support? If so, pls do it quickly.

He obviously does not want you . . forget about the bible - a lot of people (both male and female) use it obviously dubious reasons.

But you did say that he loves his son . .hopes he takes care of him too.

You need to get a job so you can be independent of him and take care of your own. 

Dont forget about the child support!

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Unfortunately, He'll have to call her forver if he has a child with her

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She always is.

strangest:
IF NA FACEBOOK, I'LL JUST CLICK "LIKE"

I go put am for facebook then

very funny.

No, you started this, sorry . . I want to see how you write it.

You dont have to . . if you dont wanna.

Eve,

can you please write a male version of this thread? I need to see that version from you.

tpia1:
i have no idea why this is even a debate.


in nigeria, it would be considered insulting to ask the md to sit in front.

Did the poster put Nigeria in the post

orekelewa

aponbepore

dudu osun

adunmaradan

ibadi-aran

ileke-idi   

eyinfunjowo

ojun to nsoro  (oloju come and do) 

opelenge

A church ought to be a place where

you will be motivated or encouraged.

you praise and worship God and feel good about it.

you fellowship with brethen and study the bible together.

you get help when you need it



But now, unfortunately, the church is now a place where the pastor makes you feel you are a loser or sinner for not been able to drop something.

CyberG:
What if the MD is a woman??

Catch 22  

In this case, I would ask her (my MD) where she wanna seat.

my wife would gladly understand  

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kokoye:
Well, my wife would gladly take the back seat without my asking.

Dont know about other babes.

yaba left

wow! you will let your bade drive ur oga while you are chilling in the back?

what a world . .

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The system in Nigeria is totally different so you might not get the picture

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Yes, I guess ur still stuck in the 'owner's corner' thingy

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Well, my wife would gladly take the back seat without my asking.

Dont know about other babes.

My babe will actually choose (or prefer) to sit in the back.

ten bottles of Hennesey ke

sayo le leyi o!

yea. I 'm currently in the Texas while my mgr is in California.

Yoruba is a complex one. You need to get some yoruba friends along with him.

good luck . . .

My MD will sit with me in front while my babe sits at the back.

Is this a trick question

Cosmass:
But if she doesn't, does that make you think and feel she's not in love with you? Like what goes on in your head?

Honestly, No.

By the time I start thinking of marriage with a lady, it is because she has done all the right things in my book.

So I have never been in that istuation and will never be.  

Hope that makes sense.

Tolulop001:
seriously!

Yup. about 5 years ago. you are chatting with an old man here

livedit:
Right right! Lol, You are hilarious. Unfortunately, I sit across from my manager, can't be on the phone all day, but a computer,

My manager is like 5000 miles away from me. She does not care who I talk to or what I do . .as long as my projects are not late.

I only choose to stay off the phone outta courtesy for my neighbours at work, especially when I will be speaking yoruba on the phone

I acutally felt uncomforatable the first time she did it . . .cos it was unexpected.

So she later asked me if I would prefer her to call me 'friend' to her family. - I hated that option

So she sweetly set me straight and I sat up.

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I have never been in a relationship where I'd beg for a lady to introduce me to a family. We tend to run from such things.

livedit:
You know, I'm currently engaged to a Nigerian man.  And my fiancee is just like that too.  He already planning all the trips we are going to take in the future and family life together. I'm like what the? Slow down, can we get married first? Lol Anyway's, I wonder too if it's just our man or just his culture.  Either way I'm fine with it. But I do have to say sometimes, "honey, slow your roll". Lol

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When a responsbile man finds a good woman who has said Yes to him, it is perfectly normal to plan for your family.

I went to buy a house the minute my fiancee accepted the ring I hid from her 

me wey i don bald siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinnceeeeeeeeee

I look like papa ajasco without a shave

Yup, I cant pick up ur call at this time cos I'm busy with work . . but I can mess around on Nairaland _{doing that now}

The poster is a tease.

He created a profile with some jigolo name, posted and thread that y'all liked and took off.