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Mrs, Chima:
Fainted.

"And you will get back up again . .get back up again . .get back up again"

Can dating his / her boss be called a revenge?

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Mrs, Chima:
That's Koyoke and MBJ.

Very wrong answer.

I'm bald.

Coogar, I bet you can find a video with strong black females.

All na fun and play.

Goodnight to you. . . noon here

Natasha,,:
please its Male for me any day any time women wahala too much

So you agree to what most of us have been saying all along. 

BABE!:
Nawa. Berra quit lying. You're 36. And pls post your pictures again. [/color]

Oluwa o!   

follow me on twitter : #busted

^^^

I know right?

Not you though.

Thanks to reinedamse. I appreciate you.

And that is coming from a responsible father and husband.

All will be well.

Dis coogar.

You're just a pest

reinedamse:
wen its time for me to av kids, i'll go for IVF.i'm not a lesbo though,i was just kidding but seriously,men appall me.

I wonder what that sperm will come from. No be man??

reinedamse:
babe, i'm very sure u've never invested in a long term relationship b4(8 yrs to be precise). if u av, and u ended up being lied to,cheated, used and dumped,then u will understand better. maybe u r d happy-go-lucky kind of girl dat believes r/tionships are all about chocolates and teddy bears alone.wa to kogbon!!

Not everybody has to go thru what you went thru sweetie.

So if I may ask, how have recent relationship(s) been?

Some guy slapped me back in college because he was drunk. He was a young dumb and silly freshman. I thought of beating him up but the mere look of him made me pity him - he was spreach out on the floor . .throwing up and all. I did nothing.

This was several years ago.

Till today, he still wonders why I never slapped him back. He's always trying to please and impress me.

Real strength is being able to hold back. At times.

For a lady, real strenght is being able to massage your man's ego. At times.  

reinedamse:
So u see nothing wrong with a guy dat abandons his fiancee on their wedding day??. i see, there's no point telling my story then.i don't av esteem issues, i'm a successful young woman(not bragging) and i didn't deal with my ex because i felt my life was over wen he left me. i did it(and will do it again) for my fellow ladies out there. i did it cos i felt dat men should be taught lessons dat women should be respected. i returned his certificate and we are close friends now(he even wants me back) but i'm sure he has learnt his lesson and d next time he is thinking of breaking a woman's heart,he'll think twice.

I seen it happen . . several times. But the ladies did not go brandishing weapons like John or Shina Rambo. They moved on.

So you returned his certificates and became good friends. good for you. I bet he respects and still feels sorry for doing what he did.

What if you had burned those documents . .how do you think he would feel about you . . and would you have been truly satisified. I think not.

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When we are angry, we need to just take a step back and think of the consequences of the actions we are about to take. Never turns out well.

Never.

reinedamse:
@kokoye and babe,Thanks for d insults.i let it pass.My prayer for you is dat GOD should allow u or your sisters to experience wat i experienced then u will understand the real meaning of the saying "all hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".For now, its easy for u to keep blabbing.

Clam down. No one insulted you.

Check this out.

My dad crashed his car and nearly lost his eye-sight due to high blood pressure. He had just finished sending out wedding invites after my sister's introduction when the guy's dad called to postpone the wedding indefinately - because he did not think his son was ready. My elderly father was driving when this call came in - he said all went blank and he lost his senses. This happened a day after the wedding introduction.

Imagine the feeling. we all boiled but we agreed maybe it was for the better . .good riddance. The same family came begging a few weeks later - the man said he just wanted to make sure his son was financially ready before getting married. Sounded like a lame excuse (especially after the introduction) but we let it go . .since the two people involved were truly in love.

Now they are very happily married with lovely grandkids for my dad. Imagine if I had 'hit' the guy for all what my dad went thru.

Vengeance is mine, says the Lord.  

I aint telling you to believe it.

Mrs, Chima:
That's why you fell when you were playing soccer during Labor Day weekend.  Hmmph.  

You be witch . . .how you take know?

Slipping is not the same as falling

Mrs, Chima:
Logically you would think so however if the breakups aren't mutual most times someone is still in love with their ex.

How many breakups are really mutual?

Very few in my opinion . . .like the long distance ones. Easier to move on.

Mrs, Chima:
Koyoke! I know damn well you seen my post about women are at fault of their choices not men BUT NOOOOOOO.

I chose not to see that post.
_{The right to choose}

I knew ladies would come out here with the daggers pretty soon

I just knew!

Hell sure hath no fury than a woman scorned!

@ reinedamse

why would you 'deal' with a guy who breaks up with you . . .did you sign a contract??

deep inside you, watever you do to him will NEVER make you happy.

Na wah o.

Low self-esteem all over.

Mrs, Chima:
No one is worth your freedom.

Preach it.

I 'like' your location. Classy people indeed 

NaJa HaJe:
I wanted to write something else then I read the story of the woman with no womb, ( hold on let me breathe)

I will kill him and ask questions later. Simple.

I am generally not into this 'ex' bizznezz but mehnnnnn I go kill person! Leave story!

Here we go . . . .

coogar:
some vengeance are justified. . . . .if a Arrow goes after my daughter and violates her, he's getting it.

I agree. TOTALLY

Mrs, Chima:
Koyoke

I know this sound cold but it is the truth, people need to have better judgment of what type of people they are getting into a relationship with and if you are careless about the things that you do such as taking Unclad pictures, giving a girlfriend or boyfriend access to your pin codes, sharing identifiable information with a mate (not spouse), and other things that can be damaging however knowing what type of person you are dealing with and making that conscious decision to deal with consequences for being with the person.

Nine out of ten times you are given red flags about that person and MANY will ignore it.

They made the choice be with the person and they should accept it. Revenge is a double edge sword. It can kill both ways.

I agree . . but that's not always the case. And you know how s[i]om[/i]e women fall in love: blindly. Refer to the story I told earlier.

I once dated some girl who always wanted to get back at me if she saw me talking to some girl she was not friends with. I told her she had serious self-esteem issues but she was too young to admit it.

Of course I left her. People like that can only drag you down. . .but they call it love.

Funny thing is she went around saying I quit on her cos I couldnt handle her.

Listening to the programme, you kinda feel for some of the ladies who spoke.

The lady who tried to ran her ex down said she got pregrant after 4yrs of marriage. She lost both the pregnancy and her womb. While she ws in the hospital, the husband was cheating on her and actually sent her a text msg that the marriage was over. She said she eventually got over it and moved on . . with no womb. Imagine the pain.

A few years later, the guy caller her and said he just had a baby with his new wife.

Wow, now why would he do that knowing she'd lost her womb while pregnant with his baby??

So yea, you kind of feel for some.  not saying it makes it right . . but they are human.

coogar:
only losers take revenge on an ex.
people meet to part every time. . . . .deal with it and move on!

That may be right, but a lot of people here have done it . .and more will do.

People get scorned everytime.

This is an awareness thread.

Mrs, Chima:
Koyoke!

I see you are awaken from your hibernation.

still busy sweetie . .just heard this on the radio and had to share

D-sense,

where have you been?, welcome back

On the radio this morning, a woman who just went thru a bitter divorce sent n[i]ud[/i]e photos of her ex-husband not only to the wife, but also to the neighbours and all over his workplace.

Another lady said she literarily ran down her ex and his new babe over with her car and they almost died.

The funny thing is these two ladies have no regrets about it and would do it all over again. Why? check out the link below

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-790954.0.html#msg9429362

I'm sure this is not one-sided: some men too do this.

Just crazy to me.

So . .would you, or have you gone taken revenge on an ex . . . an why?

Or, UNILAG is a breeding ground for runs girls

Call it an ashi joint

^^^

True. But also means the school may actually matter.

My point in this case is you may not know anyone personally. The school alone may provide the connection.

It could matter.

If you have schoolmates on the interview panel (and coursemates for that matter), they ought to naturally have a soft spot for you and that's a leg up. You may end up talking about life in the school or department instead of the actual interview . .and that's always a good thing.

The reason why ivy league schools are powerful is because they have their ex-students as the high and mighty in the big corporations.  These big men of course send such companies to their alma maters for recruitment.  That is really why people strive to get into such schools, apaprt from bragging rights, of course.