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Margfin:
Bro don't mind me jawe because the girl make sense dye

You are just 33.You haven't even reached your prime as a man yet.You will meet more ladies 20x better looking than her.Just stay calm and live your life

Margfin:
hmm you're right, she only call me whenever she needed something infact she doesn't know where I stay talk less of coming

CHAI!!

Margfin:
My thought was to settle down with her base on what the sister told me concerning her but this lady too smarter than I.

Brother,from the response she gave you in June that she can't date someone like you probably because of the money you earn as salary or your place of residence, you were supposed to realize she wasn't feeling you.Then about 2-3months,she contacts you and you sent money and gifts to her?What were you rewarding her for?I am very sure she hasnt contacted you since she received the gifts from you.Oga,borrow sense na

Margfin:
you are right bro, recently I met a lady at about 28years old, I got to know her through her elder sister hubby because they felt this lady was good and most good guys don't come near her dueling, to be sincere this lady is beautiful black beauty but very proud. We went on a date on 24/06/2018. The first question she asked me was that ? How old am I (33yrs), am I a graduate(yes), how long have you started your career job (1&half year). am I working (yes), where and how much is my salary(around Mushin salary 40k) and am I living in a flat or face me and slap you(not flat)... Next thing she said was that I can't date you........ After that day I called her sister and the husband that..... The very first day you introduced me to this lady I told you this lady is not good lady bcox she's your sister and she always cry to you whenever she had a heartbroken doesn't mean that she's good girl........ She called me on 9/9/2018 that I should send her 600 recharge card which I declined however I gave her 15,000k and other gift just to consider me but she only collected those gift and down me down....

How could you give a woman something without her giving you nothing in return?
Having no game as a man sucks

chineloSA:
It's not true. The West is trying by all means to control population of Africa, buy using the media and even controlling and rolling out vaccines that unknowingly sterilises African women without being aware.

I know my gender role, I have never interfered in any role that does not concern me hence I have never been told to shut up. The only time I was aware of gender inequality was when I lived in an Arab country. In Africa I have some of the times been invited to forward my input as a women. I have never been disrespected at home or outside my home.

By curriculum, I do not mean one or 100 people that schooled abroad coming back to Africa to teach. I mean America or any Western country sharing the content of their education like Technology, Science, Maths etc. To buy the curriculum from those countries becomes extremely expensive because they wanna make it unaffordable so that African countries remain unequal. That's racism.

Let's look at America only as an example. White people use Feminism to sow divisions between African American men and women. Yet African American of all genders are victims of their racism and discrimination.

While they push feminism agenda, African American women develop hatred for their African American men and label them as useless forgetting they are both victims of racism.

For any African American women thats joins Feminism movement, they will only be promoting White women's rights. The same White women discriminate against African American women before the rallies and immediately after those feminism rallies. Who is a fool there?

Your struggles as races are not the same therefore it is ignorant to join in a fight that never had you in mind from the beginning.

African men and women are victims of racism.

All we need is better education that will put us on the same level, not Feminism.

@bolded Why are you exposing all these eh?Since they don't want to watch and learn from the mistakes of our brothers and sisters abroad,I suggest you keep quiet and let these dumb continental Africans destroy themselves like the diasporans have

Fitbillionairep:
her coach bleeped her?

I swear you dey craze

timay:
Call what quit? it seems you don't know that Serena is a strong willed woman. And I'm sure that she would win one grand slam b4 d year runs out

Baba,the remaining grand slam tournament this year will be hosted in your village for Serena to win abi?

chukwutope:
It doesn't take much to not be a racist. That is not too much to ask.

Go and spread this your lily-livered message on a non-black website.An eye for an eye is all I'm for

gaby:
Are you sure you aren't Chinco going by your moniker?

He may be from Plateau state.They usually have chink sounding names over there

poseidon12:
Good one from Kenya. Let him go back to his country.

That chink ain't headed to no China bruv.In the next two weeks he'll be cooling off his heels in another African country

chukwutope:
Heh! Better an idealist than a lazy Nigerian youth.

No one dares to punch a rock but a pillow is easily punched.Your kumbaya mantra simply doesnt work in the real world bruv

AmazingELixir:


Don't be perturbed guys we will pray away any form of recolonization these folks got planned we weren't prepared before now we have bigger and mega worship centers with heavy weight MOGs to cast and bind them down.
Go to bed guys they've got us covered.

Sarcasm

chukwutope:
It is not helping. You don't like others being racist towards you, then stop being racist towards others. Like Gandhi said, be the change you wish to see in this world.

A muthafuccking idealist right here folks!!

nwanna89:
Use less water when boiling the meat and a lot of spice especially garlic and ginger. Then deep fry. Spicing the meat overnight will also help the taste enter well well

This is good.My method is to soak the meat overnight in water containing various spices,sieve out the excess water in the morning and fry the meat.Delicious!!

KoiceReloaded:
I don't think so. Your earlier posts beg to differ.








I have a good memory. I remember monikers, and I was fairly certain it was you. Now, I'm 100% certain.

I thought you were referring to another monicker years ago and not this specific one.I saw this video about him a few hours ago and thought you may be interested in it not because I necessarily agree with its content

KoiceReloaded:
This video backed up what I already know about him. The man's a genius when it comes to cringe satire. But, come oo, if my memory serves me well, someone that shared remarkable similarities with your moniker, once called SBC's brand of comedy, outdated, bland and biased. Are you the same person by any chance?

I have never discussed Sachs/his brand of comedy with anyone online or off.You are the first.I was even surprised when I saw another Nigerian who knew of his existence

Hello there.The 13minute long video below gives an analysis of the brand of comedy practiced by Sachs.I think you will enjoy it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIEmvRlPzCc

CakezbyMarie:
Bad reputation

That is their headache not ours.Afterall,Nigeria has never illegally occupied any country,subjugated her citizenry and exploited their resources for our gain

Why did he reproduce if he doesn't want to be around his children for long periods?The man is silly

theoldpretender:

Dami was banned because (I am not the mod, or part of them) he(my presumption) essentially blamed the woman for her rape, and insuinated that she was 'asking for it'.Same thing for the guy you quoted.

Dissent is one thing, justifying wrong doing is another

I have treated some women who have been raped. And a good number of them were raped in their own house at gunpoint. Some were attacked by people they know.

And we know the stories on Nairaland...some women are invited to a aprty by someone they know...or attacked in their own homes (happened to ayoung lady)....

And many women have issues as a reuslt of being hurt.

You cannot commit a crime, and justify it on the basis of 'she asked for it'.

I back conservative dressing. But based on my experience, I don't think I can agree with the presumption that women are raped because of their provocative dressing. Or go and ask the Kenyan writer Ngugi wa Thiong'o...whose wife...an elderly woman in her sixties..whose dressing was that of a woman her age (and who does not look that attractive even..apologies to the great writer) was raped by armed robbers in her home several years ago...infront of her husband.

Even if they both blamed the lady for the act,their posts should not have been deleted.That action was not only disrespectful to both of them but also disrespectful to those of us reading through the comments.The mods should have let us make up our minds about whether their comments justified rape or not.Some people will disagree with them others will agree.That is how a forum ought to be

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Donald95:
Racism will never die until Africans start building their country to compete with other higher countries

Afterall African parents will always discriminate a wheelbarrow pusher as a lower class when they come asking for their educated daughter hand in marriage but will smile when equivalent class comes

@bolded Bullshit!! Quit victim-blaming.We can become the most highly evolved people in the world and oyibos will still talk shit_ about us.They have been doing it for hundreds of years and it won't stop anytime soon.You all should forget about oyibos and do your own thing

KoiceReloaded:
I can't believe you're actually defending a racist white man? Slave mentality, perhaps. Listen, a racist has always been a racist, and only need an excuse to let rip. What SBC does is to provide that excuse and a conducive (facilitative) environment, then sit back and let to the drama unfold.

As for Trump, I meant right now that he's a president. It makes a whole lot of difference.

I understand the bi-partisan politics in the U.S.A.The liberals try to portray the conservatives as the bad guys and the conservatives try to portray the liberals as the bad guys and mock everything about them.In his past work,Sacha never took sides.He was always neutral.He mocked all sides equally but now that is clearly not the case.He is on the side of the liberals.He coerced Mr Spencer to use the N word pretending to be an Israeli security expert.Mr Spencer did not use the word on his own accord and he also made Mr Spencer drop his trouser to his knees.Sachs is a total disgrace

KoiceReloaded:
Bro, just because you hate the gentleman's brand of humor nowadays, doesn't mean others do. I for one still gets tickled hysterically by his deadpan satirical wit, and many of the western audience are right there with me, cuz the show is getting mad reviews right now.

The guy is doing good work joor. Stylishly exposing the bigotry nature of the american alt-righters. Just yesterday, Jason Spencer (remember him from episode 2?) resigned from his political appointment after SBC exposed his deplorable nature to the whole world. I just wish he did one on Trump too. Now, that would be quite an episode.

This is quite unfair.Sacha deceptively egged him on to use to use the N word.It's a damn shame what Sacha has become.It reminds me of all these so-called "investigative sports journalists" who aim to "expose corruption" in football circles and record football officials receiving cash and abruptly end the "investigation" there.Balderdash.As for a Trump interview, Sacha interviewed him as Ali G over a decade ago but it was more focused on a goofy business idea


https://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=PDu9CvbrnlM

KoiceReloaded:
Well, I do. SBC and Nathan Fielder are much needed breath of fresh air in a decaying genre.

Sachas work was amazing in the late 90s and early to mid 2000s.That is why I am usually disappointed by his subpar work today.Below is a 3 minute video of one of his characters Ali G interviewing a feminist.Just watch how he trolls the hell out of https://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=6XRDmVSGx6o

KoiceReloaded:
Also called "trolling", and he's a grandmaster at it. The genius lies in getting people to reveal their true colors by subtly egging them on. The really freaky part is that he doesn’t even hide the camera. These people know they’re being filmed, but they still say and do these things.

I absolutely love his "brand of comedy". It's very rare, cringe-worthy, and unconventionally hilarious. And as far as I'm aware, only two people in the western media are very adept at this particular talent: one is "Sacha Baron Cohen", and the other man is "Nathan Fielder" (go watch Nathan for You for context). Both men are co-writers of Who is America?, and Nathan serves as director/consultant.

Sacha was a good troll with his guests on "da Ali G show" as borat and Ali g.Back then,in the interview segment with his esteemed guests,he would troll them so hard as borat/Ali g he would leave one rolling on the floor in laughter but since his hit borat movie,nothing else except trying to force out controversial quips from his victims or being overly obnoxious with characters like Bruno.I have watched Nathan for you and I also don't like Nathan's deadpan brand of comedy

KoiceReloaded:
Who is America

Episode 2

Funny as f**k. Highlighting some sad realities. Today I learnt white conservative America is even more racist and ignorant than I presumed. Sacha Baron Cohen is a comedy genius and is easily one of the best social trolls out there.

I have never liked his "brand of comedy".He takes up false identities and relies heavily on "got ya!!" moments.He leads his victims towards their regrettable/deplorable actions without displaying the full context for that their specific behaviour/s

LeSudAfricaine:
I'm always taken aback at Nigerians seem to adore white people. Can someone please explain this to me, is it a form of self hate or? It's too much

This is a very good question.Generally speaking,Nigerians can best be described as xenophiles.I dont know if it is linked to our supposed self-hatred, but i think that our internal/external anger,frustration,bitterness and gnashing of teeth comes from our failure to reach the potential many expert analysts predicted we would reach and even surpass decades ago as a people and a country

Bidobado:
Like useless father, like daughter. Tell me one thing Obozo did for Africa, the idiotic sellout. More black people got murdered by police under Obama more than Clinton and Bush, yet the mongrel turned a blind eye. All they care about is attending Jay Z and Beyonce concert, and then chat shyte afterwards. Stupid 300 dollar bed wench..

LivingFree:
There's no point in explaining this to him because he just can't relate, in his mind if there's no certificate, it's a 'fake' relationship. He won't accept that people have had children and raised them together in a monogamous relationship without ever getting married. For his mind if it ain't marriage it ain't a relationship.

My sister,i have heard you & i'll try to stick to your advise

tintingz:
Oprah said if she and Stedman had married, thier marriage won't last.

In 2013, she laid her cards on the table after being encouraged by close friend Tina Turner to walk down the aisle. "Tina was like, 'Oprah, you need to do this. You need to do it,'" Oprah told Access Hollywood. "And I was just thinking, 'Well, OK, would things really be different?' And no, I don't think so."

By that point, Oprah and Stedman had been together 27 years, so it's safe to say they know what works for them. "If you ever interviewed him, he would tell you that had we married, we would not be together today," she told Access Hollywood. "Because he's a traditional man and this is a very untraditional relationship.
http://www.nickiswift.com/75049/strange-things-oprah-stedmans-relationship/

It seems you don't know Oprah's romantic history, go and read how Oprah dated numerous men and even dated a married man

Oprah Winfrey dated numerous men and even a married man BEFORE she met Stedman Graham.Since she has been in a monogamous relationship with him for over 30years,she has dated no one else.No one night stands,no hook ups,no travelling to exotic locales to get her groove back...no one except Stedman