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Women have been gold digging men for hundreds of years so why can't men gold dig women?
Or were men placed on earth to only suffer for women ni?

pansophist:
Of course, very common in Germany, with German women and Muslim refugee. After they have emasculated their men with bullshit feminism, they crave for true masculine patriarchal men to put their chaotic feminine energy in check. And trust this men, they surely do the job wella

Its called shit testing.Similar to what greyback gorillas do when they see an intruder.They rush at them beating their chests and screaming but if the intruder doesnt flinch ,the gorillas back down.
Many western men flinched with their women while the Moslem men didn't

MNDY:
Why is the title focused on men when you also highlighted women mata inside too?

No reason am. There are men like me who don't take b.ullshit from females whether online or offline especially as women are known for their foul-mouth.

The weak ones you are talking about later get transformed by their Alpha male friends subsequently. When your friends yab you finish, you go begin assert your manhood and be in charge sharply.

The Feminists sha, I recently discovered that one became Feminist because she was impregnated (she now has the child). The other one I know, like most of them, just waste time experimenting it to see if it will work. Women can never be equated with men.

Leave them.A female boss of mine wanted to try rubbish with me a few years ago.My reaction was so over the top,even other bosses started begging me to forgive her because they realised she was wrong.The same lady also later apologized to me.
Women will always test men.Dont ever kowtow to their demands.If you fold,you lose

pansophist:
I know one oyinbo radical feminist like that, she big and tall, if you see am sef, fear go catch you. But after all her noise making about toxic masculinity, na one yoruba guy wey slim like tu face de handle am, and control her mumu button. Wetin prick de do women ehn, chai

This tale isn't new.There are numerous instances of western women who called themselves hardcore feminists turning into submissive wives of dominant Moslem men from Syria to somalia.

Very silly reaction from C.Ronaldo.If he wants to play for the full 90minutes,he should either play the way the coach wants or buy his own club and do whatever the hell he wants there

KoiceReloaded:
Fair enough, but endeavor to be a bigger person about it. Envy doesn't look good on anybody.

I have also been an object of jealousy so I try not to create situations where that feeling can be stirred up in others.I understand why all the zuckerbergs and gates in the world try to downplay themselves

Kaycee7:
Anybody that is bothered by the amount of data someone else uses in downloading movies/tv shows really needs to really needs to reevaluate themselves. Data! Data! Of all things! I cannot even pretend to can.

It is the human condition.People are bothered by others eating better food than them,driving better cars than them even wearing better shoes and clothes.Let's not even go into people hating others for having more attractive romantic partners than them

KoiceReloaded:
If it irks you, then you're jealous, and if you're jealous, it could only mean you're intimidated by his antics.

Data is quite pricey in Nigeria and displaying your download of a single episode of a program worth 2.2gb every single day will lead to resentment towards you.That nani guy is a showoff.His antics may not bother you but it bothers others.I am empathetic towards their views

KoiceReloaded:
Dude, the last time I checked, people still reserve the proprietary right to spend the resources available to them anyway they see fit.

Blah..blah..blah..The guy you quoted has a point.We both know that nani guy is a showoff.His actions may not irk you but it does bother others.They should be considered

henrydadon:
But he is not watching these series using a 4k device.. He is going to watch it on a smartphone.. Laptop at best which isn't 4k.. So I still consider this excessive.. I don't know if he is trying to see the pores on the actors skins.. If you don't think 4.2 GB per episode on a mobile phone is too excessive then I don't know what to tell you.

Ignore the guy.He loves seeing folks speaking about the amount of data he uses.Whether they are impressed by it or saddened doesnt matter to him.He just loves the attention it garners.That's why he keeps displaying it

yeyeosoronga:
It's all in your mind, I swear.
Black women don't care about seeing black men with non black women. They have too much on their own plate to give a hoot about who you sleep with.

Your words are different from the reality on ground.It sickens blackwomen seeing blackmen with non blackwomen and may even cause some of them to become resentful towards blackmen

yeyeosoronga:
Vitriol is directed at blackmen marrying their ancestors on NL. We all know those marriages are only out to use the white grandma. Nobody should support such nonsense pls.
I'm waiting for you to bring up any thread where the female NL members have trolled any Nigerian marrying his white or Asian girlfriend. Most are usually positive.
If anything at all, it is the male NLs that start talking rubbish on such threads.
You really have issues, and you don't even have any insight. It's funny you say blackmen are attractive to non-black women, and not blackmen are attracted to non -black women.
I say it again, black women don't care if black men are swirling. We've been swirling since time immemorial but have never made any big deal out of it. Learn to do same, and don't bring black women into your narrative. This whole discussion started when I tried to call out the BS by your fellow man telling us black women are disrespecting their bodies becasue this happy couple are getting married and the man happens to be white.
You're still yet to condemn that nonsense, meaning you actually support it. Still same you have brought up threads upon threads that white men are killing their Nigerian wives. Are you against black women swirling?
Let us know your stand.
I'm not against black men swirling, and don't give a rat's behind. I simply don't care. So what's your take on it?

I reaĺly dont care if black women want to "swirl" with non blackmen.It is their lives and their business and let's not lie to ourselves here.They may not show it but blackwomen do hate seeing blackmen in romantic liaisions with non blackwomen

CoolJulian:
Guy, what that person is saying is the absolute truth... Those races of men you mentioned, how often do they do that?

I do not feel comfortable seeing a black woman with a white man though

Personally,I don't care.

CoolJulian:
Guy, what that person is saying is the absolute truth... Those races of men you mentioned, how often do they do that?

Blackmen do not treat black women worse or better than how men from other races treat their women.
I can beat my chest and even declare that blackmen even respect black women more than how men of other races respect their own women.
I am speaking from real world experiences not hearsay

yeyeosoronga:
You've been jumping around all day, and losing coherence at this point. Save your energy for your fellow comrades.
Black women don't care if you decide to lie with any race. All they just want is for you to take your eyes and bad energy away from them when they decide to do same.
Those who speak against black men who date interacially speak against black men who have belittled their own women in their words and actions and at the same time uplifting another race of women. If you don't say nonsense about your mothers and sisters, they would support you with your Becky. But if foolishness comes out of your mouth because you think you have achieved what nobody has ever done by sleeping with another race, you will receive enough well deserved clap backs.
I'm still waiting for you to call out the chap I first quoted who said black women disrespect their bodies by sleeping with white men, or do you agree with him?

The first person you quoted said black women disrespect their bodies by sleeping with non blackman.Black women also say thesame thing to blackman who sleep with non black women.
I quoted your post because you were trying to tow the "blackmen are just the worst" mantra.I won't stand for it.
There are numerous threads on nairaland about black Nigerian men marrying white women (both young and old) and the vitriol from black nigerian women directed at those men is saddening.You and your ilk should quit trying to make blackmen feel guilty for being attractive to non black women

yeyeosoronga:
You dont know what you're talking about.
Like I said earlier, you're going everywhere and not addressing anything.
Let's go back to the beginning of this conversation where I quoted the man who said black queens are disrespecting themselves by laying with white men.
Save your energy for him.
Hardly will you see any black woman come on a thread where a young interracial couple are announcing their nuptials, to speak of the black man disrespecting his body. Why didn't you call the person I quoted out?
Black women dont really care who you chose to lie with, but it becomes a problem when they decide to lie with their own choice.
Like I said earlier, save your energy for him. Stop with the hypocrisy. It's very glaring

I have seen this situation occur many times.Whenever a blackman is in a romantic relationship with a non black woman, he is always accused of being "self-hating" especially by black women and some inexperienced blackmen but when a black woman is in a relationship with a non black man,all we hear is the "you go gurl" mantra and when she is accused of also being "self-hating" her defenders (mainly black women)start whinging about how "unfair" everything is.
As for me being a "hypocrite",quit projecting your insecurities on me because you and your ilk are the dictionary definition of the term

yeyeosoronga:
For every foreign husband killing their Nigerian wives, there are 10 - 20 more Nigerian men killing their Nigerian wives, so I really do not get your point.
You keep bringing different things from worldwide domestic violence to cultural/religious practices to feminism into our discussion.
[b]You are all over the place, and clutching at straws now. You still haven't addressed the elephant in the room- self hate exhibited by the black man, why many think its a special achievement dating/marrying a foreigner[/b]and how weak and disrespected the black race is.

You seem to be projecting your insecurities on others.Why is it that these questions are always brought up whenever a blackman is in a relationship with a non black woman?A blackman is under no responsibility to only have relationships with black women.Men of other races also engage in romantic liasions with women who they don't share thesame race with.So why is the focus always on blackmen?How can blackmen be blamed for viewing other races of women as options for having romantic relationships with?How can blackman be blamed for being viewed as attractive and suitable for relationships by other races of women?Free us abeg

yeyeosoronga:
I could post 10 of similar stories of Nigerian men murdering their women both home and abroad

I could post more about foreign men murdering their wives with thesame nationalities and others (including Nigerian women)
https://www.nairaland.com/4440351/shocking-denmark-man-killed-nigerian

yeyeosoronga:
I'm sure I've lived more years abroad longer than half your age.
I've worked with all races for too long too believe your BS narrative
Arab women drive when abroad, and both men and women smoke and drink alcohol abroad too
You have brought in religious and cultural beliefs and the importance of feminism into our discourse, and this has nothing to do with this.
Why do NL male tell us how useless their Nigerian mothers and sisters are while praising the sisters of the white man? Nobody is upset about telling us the imaginary virtues of your imaginary team foreign, but what is absolutely disgusting is telling us lies about how terrible your sisters are
No oyibo man will publicly tell you an Asian woman is better than his oyibo woman and be supported by fellow oyibo men. It's not seen as an achievement to marry from other races, except when you see a blackman. It is seen as an achievement by many of your brotherz.
Not, this has nothing to do with the inequality amongst the sexes.

Many of the Nigerian males who post comments like that are usually ignorant and have no real experiences with foreign women.The internet is not representative of Nigeria/Nigerians and I have never seen or heard a Nigerian man publicly putdown Nigerian women while praising their foreign female counterparts NEVER
Below is a link to a story on the homepage.Aren't foreign men wonderful?
https://www.nairaland.com/5506301/american-man-murders-fabiola-thomas

Geminita1:
False comparison. You black men derive so much joy putting black women down, and you make your voice so loud that the whole world knows this. I am very sure you are one of those that worship every other woman but black.

I love white men but i would not put black men down but the same cannot be said of you black guys, always showing your insecurities every where you go. Shame!

You are clearly a lady who suffers from deep seated self-loathing due to various insecurities.I will provide a link to a discussion called "Do Arab men hate women?" NOT black/African men below this post for you to learn more but I know you will not watch it because you don't care about reality or fantasy.All you really care about is garnering attention.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTvuPYKBtks

yeyeosoronga:
No they don't. If there's any stupid enough to do so, they are usually called to order by others. They know the importance of giving the illusion of perfection in their own race.
Thats why I said the black man is the main person that does. I'm sure you read where I put the word MAIN.
Definitely not the only one, but the black man's own is with so much vitriol and hate. While at it, they will at the same time be praising the women of other races. Isn't that foolishness?
Other races elevate their women and protect them publicly. Infact, compare the various forums everywhere, and you don't see them putting down their women and elevating other women. If they did, other men will call them to order. They know how to protect their own. Hardly will you find a white man shouting #teamforeigngirls upandan on any forum, and he won't be called to order unless of course it's a Nigerian forum.
The truth may be bitter, but until you face it you cant move forward and be respected as a race

Like I said in my previous post,you are a pseudo-intellectual who thrives on fantasy tales and lacks real world experiences.With my very own eyes,I have seen white men talk poo about white women and praise Asian women as the best women,I have also seen Arab men treat their women like poo while worshipping white women,what about Asian men who view their women as less than poo and dream of having a blond white woman on their arms.
Many of you foreigner-worshippers in nigeria don't know anything about the outside world thats why you keep talking poo.Wasnt it in 2018 saudi arabia began letting women drive cars since their invention?Wasnt it this year iran started letting women watch football matches in stadia after over a 20year ban?Wasnt it till the early 1970s Switzerland began letting women vote?Wasn't it in 2017 passengers on an airplane in argentina refused to travel because their pilot was a woman?Where were the blackmen in all the examples I gave you?
Na small pikin dey worry you

yeyeosoronga:
It's no disrespect to lay with a man who gives you respect. Infact, you honor your body taking it to where it is honoured and cherished as the pure gold it is.
The black man is the main one of all races who puts down his 'queen' publicly and shows her no respect. Majority of black men have elevated other races of women above their mothers, sisters and girlfriends.
They see it as an achievement to get with other races of women and publicly put down their own black queens at the same time

Arab men don't put down their women?White men don't putdown their women?What of Asian men?Latin men?According to you and your pseudo-intellectualism they don't only the Black man.Oga go sleep

Truthwords:
DO YOU REALISE THAT SOUTH AFRICA IS THE MOST GAY AND EFFEMINATE COUNTRY IN AFRICA ?. IF YOU HAVE NOT BEEN THERE DONT EVEN SUPPORT THEM

Calm down.You have nothing to worry about.This lgbt movement will never be accepted in Nigeria as long as the men don't accept it because men always create social,economic and political changes in communities/societies.So far so good,Nigerian men are absolutely hostile towards it

Olodo24:
Ejiofor had the performance but very little hype. Even his BAFTA win couldn't change a thing. Oscar isn't just about the performance...especially in this age. It has a lot to do with narrative, campaign and race too

@Bolded Correct

Olodo24:
Ok. It's fine then. Do you know if Once Upon a time in Hollywood is out for free download?

Till November

Olodo24:
why? He was better than the eventual winner that year, Matthew. Chiwetel didn't go in with much hype. Bruce Dern and Christian Bale were filler nominees who weren't competitive for the win. Dicaprio was obviously a runner up that year and I liked his performance.

The Great Gatsby was disastrous though

Chiwetel Ejiofor should have won it.He gave a restrained and dignified performance but Matthew won it because of his hoo-hah performance in Dallas Buyers Club.I found Leo's performance embarassing and beneath him.The wolf of wall street is an overly long mess with many improvised lines especially in scenes with Leo and Jonah Hill.

Beorn:
The only record of his that'd be dented for winning an Oscar playing a comic role is the imaginary one we don't know about, the one everyone knows about will be elevated the more if he grabs an Oscar for his Joker role.


You're the only human I've seen saying winning an Oscar legitimately dents an actor's record. SMH.

Al Pacino winning an Oscar for Scent of a Woman was viewed by many as a step down for him.Same happened to Jack Nicholson for As Good as it Gets and Russell Crowe for Gladiator

KoiceReloaded:
He's trolling you I can see it a while away.

@Bolded Kaycee7 also says that alot.Are you Kaycee7?

Olodo24:
this. The Wolf of Wall Street should have easily been Dicaprio's moment Phoenix should win. He has waited long enough. Even Rami Malek has an Oscar already and Adam Driver is said to be Phoenix's biggest competition at the moment. Phoenix needs to win the damn thing already

@Bolded NO!!

Beorn:
LOL @getting done with him. It wont dent his record if you get done with him, as if that matters anyway. I can wager you'd still watch future JP movies if he cops an Oscar for Joker role.

I am serious.The Gods will not let such a calamity to occur