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1Sharon:Indeed... But in all these circumstances, these two should remember that an impressionable child is involved here. No matter how upset a man feels about his wife (who he is about to di orce) or baby mama, he should NEVER punish his child or starve that child of fatherly love because the child would definitely ignore his/her father's needs and wants when they become aged (over 70 years) and they even transfer that aggression to their own biological kid's as well when they get married. The whole story just reinforces the need in everyone that thoughts are things and also to live in near-absolute harmony with one another. By the way, I found the original link of Linda's expose on Sholaye on her blog. It's right below: =>https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2018/12/meet-my-son-jayceand-yes-sholaye-jeremi-is-his-dad.html Enjoy the rest of your day in London. |
raskymonojendor:Succinctly stated. You did very well to bring up that screenshot of the Eastern Region politicians I 1950 and 1953 who were referring to Lagos Island (NOT Lagos State) as a no-man's-land. But today, you'll see some of them who are very narcissistic taunting the entire Lagos State as a no-man's-land because they don't even know their history how much more the history of others.
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UncleAyo:Your response to that guy's highly irresponsible and overbearing comment is in order. He doesn't even know the history of how Lagos State came to be on May 27, 1967 and how more than 95 percent of today's Lagos State landmass was located in the Old Western Region. Even some younger Yorubas don't read functional books to know these facts of history but are usually glad though to hear or read them when told offline or online by those of us who know these facts. Things get said when they should be said. There's absolutely NO need to be politically correct about that. What the highly ignorant creep you replied to doesn't realize is that the Ikeja, Iganmu, Ikorodu, Epe, Ibeju-Lekki Badagry, Ojo, Mushin, Agege LGAs... practically more than 95 percent of the TOTAL landmass of today's Lagos State (which only came into existence on May 27, 1967, as an act of state creation by General Yakubu Gowon's military goverment) were all developed under the Western Region government of the Action Group Party led by the iconic London School of Economics and Political Science-trained lawyer, Chief Jeremiah Obafemi Awolowo, GCFR, SAN, and his party associates. Awolowo established several Industrial Estates in areas in the Western Region which served as major manufacturing and export hubs for that region through Apapa port. The Western House on Lagos Island and Cocoa House in Ibadan skyscrapers, the first of their kind in Nigeria were also built as part of the Old Western Region's real estates. This is why when Lagos State was created, there was a protest by the government of the new Western State (it was also carved out like Lagos State from the Old Western Region on May 27, 1967) that all the major industrial hubs and lands of the Old Western Region that brought in massive revenue for the Western Region in Ikeja, Apapa, Iganmu, Ilupeju, Mushin had been carved out into the newly created Lagos State. It was these 12 newly created states that the secessionist rebel leader rejected and he declared secession on May 30, 1967 without even conducting a referendum. This is why the minorities of the Old Eastern Region fiercely rejected the secession and many joined the Nigerian Army to resist the secessionist rebels because they were satisfied with the 2 newly created states for them which are now the 4 states of Rivers, Bayelsa, Akwa Ibom, and Cross River. Chief Harold Dappa-Biriye of Bonny Island and Dr. Ken Saro-Wiwa of Ogoniland in several of their books and interviews that I have read since the early 1990s said they were the ones who led the ethnic minorities to several meetings from 1966 to 1967 with General Yakubu Gowon urging the creation of states to assuage the marginalization of the minorities. Gowon's military goverment did just that on May 27, 1967, so they were happy. |
MightySparrow:You are largely correct here, but Governor Sanwo-Olu father's is from the Ijebu part of Ogun State but that shouldn't matter because Ijebus are ALSO indigenous to Lagos State with a little over half of Lagos State's landmass being Ijebuland (Ajah, Ibeju-Lekki, Ikorodu and Epe LGAs are Ijebuland extending to Ogun State as seen on maps) and Sanwo-Olu's maternal roots is originally from Lagos State. President Bola Tinubu was born on Lagos Island just like Alhaji Abdulaleef Jakande, so he being an adopted son of the international business woman and former Iya Oloja General of Lagos, Alhaja Abibatu Mogaji is overqualified to have been the Governor of Lagos State. Akinwunmi Ambode is paternally from Ilajeland in Ondo State but more on that later. Second, Alhaji Abdulaleef Jakande's parents are ORIGINALLY from the Yoruba town of Omu Aran in Kwara State but he was born on Lagos Island. The indigenous folks of Lagos Island loved him and the icing on the cake was when the London School of Economics and Political Science-trained lawyer, Chief Jeremiah Obafemi Awolowo, GCFR, SAN, and iconic national leader of the Unity Party of Nigeria lifted Jakande's hand to endorse him and Alhaji Jafojo a Lagos State indigene as the Lagos State Governor and Deputy-Governor candidates in the lead up to the 1979 elections which they both won with a landslide victory. Third, Former Governor Akinyanmi Ambode's career teacher/academic father is originally a Prince from a Royal family in Ilajeland of Ondo State but he was transferred in the days of the Old Western Region to Epe as a teacher. Epe was also part of the Old Western Region before May 27, 1967. It was in Epe that the brilliant Akinwunmi Ambode was born. He even wrote Ondo State as his state of origin on his JAMB form in 1981 and there are threads posted on NL showing this fact of history. When Akinwunmi Ambode's father passed on, his remains were returned to Ilajeland because he is an Omo Oba or Prince of his Yoruba kingdom in Ilajeland. I believe that henceforth, all political parties must field Ijebus, Aworis, and Ogus who are indigenes of Lagos State as Gubernatorial candidates although these 3 subgroups are also indigenous to Ogun State because it is MAJORLY the ancestral homelands of the Ijebus and Aworis that were carved out of the Western Region on May 27, 1967 to create the new Lagos State by General Yakubu Gowon's military goverment after due consultations with the traditional rulers and indigenes, although there were protests by the new Governor of the newly created Western State and other prominent folks that the major industrial areas and lands of the Old Western Region that brought in massive revenue for the Western Region such as Apapa, Iganmu, Ilupeju and Ikeja, etc, had being carved out to form the new Lagos State. Any Yoruba technocrat or politician from other Yoruba-speaking states (from Kogi, Kwara, Osun, Oyo, Ondo, Ekiti, Ogun, and Edo because Usen and Egbeta are indigenous Yoruba communities in Edo from Ile Ife which they proudly haven't denied) who was born in Lagos State and has lived there since childhood can then become a Deputy-Governor of Lagos State under any party. It's only fair that that is done to give the indigenes a sense of belonging. |
Mindlog:That's an insightful feedback. An Ejiofor... Is this practice a general one in all core Ibo states and communities? I ask you this question because I know right from several years back that even a girl getting pregnant outside marriage is vehemently frowned upon by Ibo families and elders, and a few Ibo and non-Ibo social commentators have said this is a major part of what is fueling the so-called "baby factory" menace leading to especially pregnant Ibo girls giving birth and then selling the babies for adoption or whatever the baby selling cartel wants to use them for. Genevieve was 16 years when she got pregnant and raised her girl though because she has enlightened parents who of course would have been dissapointed at her as of that period. Second, before David Adeleke (His paternal grandmother is incidentally from Akwete in Abia. I remember full well that she passed on in 2009 because I saw the Obituary publication in 2009 and Akwete was written as her ancestral home) got married to Chioma from Imo State, I'm aware that his first son was bearing the Adeleke surname. He was widely known as Ifeanyi Adeleke even though he has a Yoruba first name. I've seen a few other kid's of this kind of inter-ethnic relationships that did NOT lead to marriages who bear their fathers' family names on official documents and in real life. In any event, as long as a child isn't abondoned for being born out of wedlock, it's not a bad idea for a young woman and her family to raise a child if the alleged father is NOT financially able OR deliberately stays away (which is the MOST unkind thing to do). I've seen where with love and moral support from a young woman and her relatives, a child born out of marriage is able to grow up to make a significant impact out of meaning out of life. However, kid's without that group support from their parents and extended family move through life based on punishing trials and errors while running into major turning points that could turn out positive or negative. |
1Sharon:Sholaye Jeremi just lost his 74-year-old mother in the month of May 2024. He has a lot on his hands now with this family name drama from coming from Linda's end. I wonder if Sholaye's mother ever met the little boy before she passed on. Read more BELOW: =>https://guardian.ng/issue/oil-magnate-sholaye-jeremi-loses-mother/ I did read online from a mainstream media source where Sholaye through his media aide denied all the negative news and fake social media posts about his relationship with Linda and he stated that he has nothing to do with her while debunking the rumor that he owns an Instagram handle in the Weblink right below. =>https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2018/09/28/linda-ikejis-alleged-significant-other-speaks-out/ In any event, reading her sob story in te second of two Weblink I provided in my last post to you on this thread, I absolutely think she deliberately got pregnant, and now that things didn't pan out for her in terms of marriage to Sholaye, she's been taking subtle jabs at him with her son bearing her family name. But as things stand from what I have gathered before today, in Ibo culture, if you get one of their girls pregnant and you don't get married to her, then the child belongs to the girl's family until you pay the bride price and get married to her. That CULTURAL clash is on another level entirely tbh. Lol. |
Racoon:For those who are discerning readers in the midst of the attack on Reno... There are two folks other folks in that screenshot who actually alluded to the FACT that yams are cut in some places in Nigeria. The fact that some like to buy whole yams doesn't mean that some folks haven't been buying cut yams from time. I remember that I have a magazine in my archives from the late 1970s showing a popular London market where African food items were being soldvby a White man and a Nigerian lady living in London as a student in the picture was negotiating with the White Englishman on the purchase of African foods that included CUT YAMS. All the imported food items had fixed prices attached to them. If I can lay my hands on the physical hard copy of that magazine, I'll scan it and upload it online. So, Reno is actually right about yams being cut and sold in pieces in London and elsewhere. |
1Sharon:Gosh! That mug shot... Tbh, the INTERPOL and several global security agencies should have been fully alert about this creep but we can all see how their inactions have led to the death of two young girls and possibly more in that place called Aba. The dude's so-called company name "Black Sheep Group" with a tea cup as LOGO was a major RED FLAG for me when I first read this story on another NL thread. I've had a deep knowledge for decades now on how global "crime patterns" take place and any discerning person who is conversant of how these crimes take place would instantly reflect and decline any offer to come visiting in another far away town or city. The power of discernment is key in order to be able to survive situations at every turning point in life. The odd "Black Sheep Group" logo can be seen via this link: =>https://www.nairaland.com/8114394/dismembered-body-missing-girls-found |
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Mindlog:That's interesting but also an awkward and strange part of the Ibo culture at the same time. In multicultural settings where most global societies are patriarchal, a child born from a multiethnic parentage should logically bear the father's family name. We have a clash of cultures here where the young lady who is now aged 44 has given her now 6-year-old son her own family name while the real father is still alive living in the same vicinity with them right on Ikoyi Island, in Lagos. |
lightwind:*Smirk* |
Ogbuu101:I've just logged in and saw this mention but I originally didn't want to reply you before NOW because your unwise comments in the first two paragraphs of your post are insulting! Is it too difficult for young people like you to read and assimilate other people's views without being impulsive? Do I sound like a man who spins things out of "figments of his imagination" like you unwisely posted here? It's ONLY to prevent other NL readers from being misinformed by your post in the first two paragraphs that I'm making a reply to this. Second, I CLEARLY gave "2 Weblinks" in my FIRST post to 1Sharon on this thread which you also quoted above on this same thread page but it's very obvious YOU didn't click and read them properly otherwise you wouldn't have incorrectly made those irritating comments in the first two paragraphs of your post. The second Weblink has a full EXPOSE by the young lady (Linda) who said Sholaye Jeremi actually came to see her PARENTS and was cool with her father. It's all in the 8th paragraph of that 2nd Weblink I gave out. I'm gonna quote excerpts of it BELOW in bold and you can go back to that second Weblink again and READ the full sob story by Linda. "Around when I was about three months pregnant, he did come to see my parents and actually became very cool with my dad. They were literally exchanging Whatsapp messages every day. He later agreed to a traditional wedding which he didn’t follow through and then he switched. He began to treat me with so much hate and aggression that I and my family had to cut him off completely." |
1Sharon:@1Sharon, I'm doing great right here. He sure is... NOT a false rumor. Sholaye is the subject matter here... lol. Just a quick note: Typically the social media is filled with a lot of vile trolls and fake accounts created to fleece you of your money... Especially the elderly folks who not knowing the security implications of cyberspace just get carried away by pressing all kinds of Weblinks and visiting all kinds of secure and unsecure Websites on their mobile devices. Once you become a public figure, expect to have several fake or cloned social media accounts even if you don't use social media... it's really a bad situation. I remember full well that the 1986 Nobel laureate winner, Professor Wole Soyinka, the former President Obasanjo, and several prominent folks worldwide have had fake Facebook, Twitter (now X), IG accounts and more created for them and these FIRST two men I mentioned are NOT even on the X social media platform according to the public alerts they sent out few years back! Indeed, I typically refer to someone as a "deadbeat" for being LAZY because they try to avoid paying their debts. Deadbeat dads who don't pay child support because they are just LAZY to get a job or set up a business enterprise. So, yes you made a valid point there about a "deadbeat" being not necessarily about the absence of riches, but a "deliberate neglect" of a child. Aha! Sholaye initially accepted the boy in private and he visited Linda's parents which Linda also confirmed on her blog post, but his grouse was with Linda who allegedly was giving out some specifics to her followers in the public domain about their most intimate lives starting from when they first met in 2015 at a luxury hotel called Wheatbaker on Ikoyi Island in Lagos State. Linda also was aged 35 and Sholaye was 37 when they FIRST met. As of that time, she was getting worried that age wasn't on her side and I can say without a shadow of doubt that because of the maternal instinct, she deliberately got pregnant because time was ticking while she was headed for the "dreaded" 40 years of age and beyond. Some of those actions and inactions ticked Sholaye off and he began to distance himself emotionally from her. I absolutely AGREE with your summations in your last paragraph that Sholaye has to make amends and "publicity" identify more with his son who is now 6 years old as of 2024. If he doesn't do that, the boy will get set in his ways and thinking and begin to RESENT his father. Sholaye is actually an easygoing guy, BUT he felt that by getting pregnant, Linda was moving too fast down the marriage route without that emotional connection OR attraction between both of them. As it turns out, both he and Linda (who is now 44) were NOT meant to be married. Linda especially has to EMBRACE the situation and NOT seek to poison the son's mind towards the father further after she went ahead to give the boy her own family name, which is a "strange" thing to do in a multicultural world and a ridiculous attempt to spite Sholaye. I expect both of them to revert the little boy's surname to his father's surname ASAP. I wouldn't even mind if my woman keeps her maiden name (surname) after getting married for professional reasons OR uses a compound surname (her's and mine), but there's something MOST men won't negotiate away... and that is having their biological children bear their family surnames. You take care. Ciao. ![]() |
WannaHowzit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3eoQuaduDI4?si=8ZcnkURFy8IbA3cW The SA opposition political parties engaged ANC in a very fierce electoral contest. Shows that the mystique that ANC radiated back in the day has evaporated. |
nlfpmod:A child chess prodigy... That's impressive. |
obedience4:An international crime syndicate... China style. Criminal syndicates and gangs still operate below the radar from time to time on the Chinese Mainland and in Hong Kong despite the stiff punishments that are applied for these kinds of crimes in China. |
1Sharon:How's it going? So, a bro from Fresh n' Fit hit the bull's eye with an Escort?... *Smirk* Sholaye Jeremi (the biological father of her son) ain't NO deadbeat. Sholaye is a financially loaded dude who is a close friend and business associate of the Forbes-listed billionaire, Femi Otedola and more. =>https://www.gistlover.com/popular-blogger-linda-ikeji-confirms-sholaye-jeremi-is-her-baby-daddy/ =>https://www.gistlover.com/linda-ikeji-reveals-how-sholaye-jeremi-got-her-pregnant-then-dumped-her-within-3-months/ Sholaye is of Itsekiri descent in Delta State (Itsekiris are a subgroup of the Yoruba folks with some Bini royal family immigration in the ancestral mix from the year 1488). Itsekiris and most African and global cultures are patriarchal, therefore children are supposed to use their fathers' family names on birth, school, and travel documents. Linda has absolutely NO right to use her own family name for her son despite the FACT that the relationship did not lead to marriage. |
Francis8000:She's got no right to give her boy her maiden name even if the guy was upset that she got pregnant. The father of the boy is Itsekiri and Itsekiris are patriarchal. |
blamingthedevil: |
Ralph Tresvant - Sensitivity (1990) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jWMpoMgi9WI?si=mdV5Q3UGeQevRdE2 This track by the iconic Ralph Tresvant was a real blast for me when it came out in 1990. It brings back super awesome memories. Let's get into the rotation. |
ADSP116:Succinctly put, "Tell Me It's Real" and "All My Life" are two of my favorite K-Ci and JoJo tracks... Those songs are real blasts from the 1990s for me despite being majorly a lover of all genres of hit songs from the 1970s right through to the 1980s. |
Racoon:Indeed, "Water Runs Dry" is one my top 5 tracks from Boys II Men. |
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Almiron: |
bixton:The OP is Ibo and lives in Aba based on his past posts I have read. It's pretty obvious that these high prices are subjectively fixed based on the greed glands of wholesalers and retailers in the major urban areas. However, areas outside the major urban areas have cheaper prices of commodities and other items. The governments at all levels have to find ways of regulating these arbitrary prices and set up whistleblower phone lines to report any person that sells above standard retail prices while working in conjunction with market unions in each state of Nigeria. |
ytdivine:Insightful. |
CharleyBright:Interesting submissions. |
budaatum:I like your sawdust sarcasm... Succinctly stated. |
Zwooks: |
naptu2:Oh men! One soldier down. I still have their music tracks among several classics from back in the 1980s and early 1990s on rotation. Controversial and raunchy songs they had but that was what propelled them into global prominence and that was how I got to know of 2 Live Crew and their censored and uncensored songs in the late 1980s heading into the early 1990s. Color Me Badd was another music group that had a few controversies back in the very early 1990s in their music tracks but that was small compared to that of the 2 Live Crew. =>https://www.whosampled.com/2-Live-Crew/ =>https://www.oldies.com/artist-songs/2-Live-Crew.html 2 Live Crew - Banned In The USA (1990) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tzbl6n7Mqjo 2 Live Crew - Pop That Coochie(1991) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sKJV8xyy9Xg?si=QKd-EcF4qi9MHp5h "Break it down!" |
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