₦airaland Forum

Futuristica:
My wife has been acting weird for some months now, like she doesn't apologize if she is wrong, doesnt try to seek avenues for us to reconcile if we have quarrels. Instead, I am the one that always put the foot forward. If I point out something, she shows no remorse. She often says things like 'this life na once' .

Just a background.

I stumbled on this message sent by her workplace close girl friend. This tiktok message talks about falling in love with a married man because the man makes her feel loved etc etc.

But the caption below by the friend says, we will miss you so much.

My mind has been wondering what it means.
I woke her from sleep to confront her to explain what the message means (it's a message sent this January) ..she looked scared or maybe anxious as I asked her if she had cheated on me with anyone recently.. offcourse ,'no' is the normal answer.

I showed her the message for her to explain what it was about . She said she can't remember what it was about and that she doesn't know. When I pressed further, she started gaslighting that if I feel she cheated, I should give her a divorce.

Dear house, what are you views on this matter? I am more concerned about what this message might mean.

Please be fair in your judgement. Thank you.

omonnakoda:
Every thing in life has two side Let me introduce a different perspective

Yes farmers are making money but does the country benefit?

Some may argue. It brings in dollars.

Why are dollars a good thing? What do you do with the dollars? Consume imported stuff that fuels jobs in other countries?


The problem is this

Land used to grow cocoa is not being used to grow stuff that we eat in Nigeria. That is a problem

Is that opportunity cost worth it for the country if you end up importin rice? using dollars?

African Nations are being used as farmlands for rich countries to grow cocoa, cashew nuts cassava, coffee, tea even flowers whilst African people go hungry. Most of these cash crops their people cannot afford to consume.

We are not even allowed to add value to the cocoa and the real money is made in places like the USA, Belgium, France, Switzerland
We need to forget about using our land to service Europe with things our people cannot afford to consume

The other thing is that they have the power to crash prices of cocoa and other commodities when you least expect it . We have seen it many times with crude oil


We should focus on trading with our African neighbours growing things that Nigerians eat or our neighbours eat

Rice , Yam, beans, vegetables, cassava potatoes. If we must grow cocoa. We must insist on making chocolates from it and aim to get our people to consume it
If not let us aim to train our youths to make electric cars, solar panels and so on

No matter how you dice it the labourers working on cocoa farms are close to slave labour. Our people deserve better

Now Chinese people are going into the bush and loading containers with cashew and cocoa and our people are celebrating because they see the kind of money they have never seen before but it is not in our best interest. We need to look at the bigger world picture. See what Trump is doing

Let our land serve us

Something similar is happening with Dangote. He is more intent on exporting fertilizer than mobilizing it to boost food production in Nigeria.

Here is a very interesting fact

Nigeria is number 8 in the list of countries with Arable land and number one in Africa.


Why are we hungry.

The cocoa story is nice but let us switch that to what we actually eat IN NIGERIA

NewDigitalWorld:
[b]• Cocoa prices surged on world markets in 2023-2024.

• In Nigeria, thousands switch careers to grow cocoa

• Official: big share of Nigerian beans smuggled out


Source: https://www.reuters.com/world/africa/cocoa-boys-flock-nigerian-farmlands-drawn-by-high-prices-2025-05-06/

KennethOkonkwo:
The way Igbo dey urge Atiku to deploy his structure of criminality to make OBI president is so hypocritical.

They don't care about the country as they picture themselves,they just want an Igbo president by any hook and crook

Gbajure:
Correct. But the Ọba and ruling house of Bini are Yorubas directly from Oranmiyan, a true son of Ogun, and step grandson of Odùduwà.

The Ijebus ruling house are also directly of Odùduwà blood but not all Ijebus

TimeManager:
A city set aglow with Grandeur and Culture;

Starting with the Governor himself, Dapo Abiodun, the Chief steeze, then followed by the King of steeze, Farooq Oreagba.

TimeManager:
A city set aglow with Grandeur and Culture;

Starting with the Governor himself, Dapo Abiodun, the Chief steeze, then followed by the King of steeze, Farooq Oreagba.

JuanDeDios:
You're totally correct.

I was just saying that the Ministry of Education was responsible for those school readers. If a headmaster or parent had taken a stand and rejected them, that would have been a rebellion against the federal military government of the time.

GhostOfNigeria:
There are no evidence to support this post all the people that bought slaves from warri wrote what they saw and they made it clear that itsekiri’s were never slaves there were freemen who doesn’t do any work their slaves work for them and their slaves are from urhobo, ijaws and others

Ariani:
Dr Ejiro Imuere from Urhobo land reacts to Reno Omokri's assertion on the Itsekiris and slave trade:

In response to Reno Omokri's Post this morning that Ancient Itsekiris used the Igbos of old as Slaves, I had to write this...

Fact: Itsekiris did not enslave any specific tribe...People from every tribe in the Niger Delta only sold slaves to the Itsekiri, being the people at the coast before the seashore where the Portuguese camped. You must pass through their lands before you can export your slaves. In fact if you will not sell to them as middlemen, but you want to sell your slaves directly, then you will have to pay them a rent called "comey".. Even the Portuguese paid them this "comey" to anchor their boats in shores of their lands.



But the Itsekiris ENSLAVED THEMSELVES, not others.

Ancient Itsekiri was a highly stratified and class-conscious society. When the Bini Party, led by Ginuwa, arrived and finally settled in Ode Itsekiri, his son Ijijen became Olu. Ginuwa died in Ijalla. The Bini party enslaved some of the aboriginal Itsekiris called "Orulukus."

In 1848, when Olu Akengbuwa died and his 2 possible heirs also died within a space of 8 days leaving him without a successor, these slaves called Orolukus, led by 7 of their leaders, waged a terrible war against the House of the Olu and the Nobles. They succeeded in chasing them out of Ode Itsekiri and the kingdom went into an interregnum.

Princess Dola or Iye fled to Bobi. Diare, Olomu, Eshalomi all fled to a new settlement called the Benin River.

It was the British that restored Ode Itsekiri later around 1888. Then when the British invaded Nana and defeated him in Ebrohimi in 1894, over 5,000 slaves were set free. They fled to Sapele led by Nana's head slave called OGUGBENE. They were warmly received by the head chief of the Okpe people then called Ofotokun who resettled them today in Sapele. While the Sagay family was resettled in Amuokpe by Odjegba.

Most of the 5,000 freed Nana slaves of Ebrohimi who were later settled in Sapele were Itsekiris.

7lives:
Where have you been all my life?.
This is very much necessary.
Thank you.

JuanDeDios:
Good points. I've made this argument to people myself.

But let's not have the illusion of control. When I went to primary school in the 1980's, Nigeria was ruled by the military. They controlled what I read. No amount of political consciousness or activism from me - or even my parents - could have changed a thing.

Biodun556:
Ojude Oba 2025.

Biodun556:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBe6l9jdQcA

Dear Lagosians,

I’m happy to share that we have taken delivery of three brand-new train sets of 12 coaches in total for the Lagos Blue Line Rail.

This means shorter wait times and more comfortable trips for everyone using the Blue Line. It’s a step forward in our efforts to make daily commute in Lagos less stressful and more reliable.

We’re not stopping here. Work is ongoing to extend the Blue Line all the way to Okokomaiko, and we’re aiming to finish that by 2026. I know it’s been a long time coming, but I truly believe we’re building something that will change how we move around this city for the better.

Thank you for being patient and hopeful. We’re getting there, together.
https://www.facebook.com/100044468168228/posts/pfbid024Ra7LL6CwMAykQ9TPaHrqn8ST2HMEwuYuygNjBFCcpmVSgXY3LVq12612MtZwKrYl/?app=fbl

Editorialtimes:
By Andrew Haruna
June 6, 2025 | Lagos, Nigeria

President Bola Ahmed Tinubu has commissioned the Lekki Deep Sea Port Access Road in Lagos State, constructed under Nigeria’s Tax Credit Scheme, as he reaffirmed his administration’s commitment to transformative infrastructure development across the country — including strategic road projects in Northern Nigeria.

Speaking during the inauguration ceremony, President Tinubu emphasized that transport infrastructure is the “lifeblood of economic development,” stating that roads constructed under the Renewed Hope Agenda are aimed at strengthening regional connectivity, facilitating trade, and boosting national productivity.

“From Lagos to Kano, Warri to Zaria, this administration is laying down a new architecture of growth,” President Tinubu declared. “Our roads must reflect the scale of our ambition.”

The Lekki Port Road: A Key Trade Artery

The newly inaugurated concrete road connects the Lekki Deep Sea Port, one of West Africa’s most modern maritime terminals, with the hinterland and existing logistics networks. It is designed to ensure seamless movement of goods, reduce traffic congestion, and lower transportation costs — particularly for agricultural exports and manufactured goods.


The road was delivered through a Public-Private Partnership (PPP) under the Federal Government’s Tax Credit Scheme, which allows corporate entities to invest in public infrastructure in exchange for tax rebates. Tinubu lauded the scheme as a model of “effective private-sector collaboration for national growth.”

Renewed Focus on Northern Nigeria

The President also announced the rollout of critical infrastructure projects in the North, signaling his government’s intention to bridge the infrastructure gap nationwide. Some of the key projects include:

Kano–Kongolam Road (Section II)

Kano–Kanwar–Danja–Hadejia Road

Yakasai–Zalli Road

Several rural access roads to link remote farming communities with urban markets

These projects, Tinubu noted, will improve farm-to-market access, support food security, and integrate rural economies into the national grid.

He further assured that ongoing federal infrastructure projects such as the Abuja–Kaduna–Kano Expressway, Benin–Warri Road, and multiple federal bridges will receive expedited attention in the coming months.

“Whether in the North, South, East, or West, we are building roads that connect not just communities but destinies,” Tinubu affirmed.

The President concluded by reiterating that infrastructure development under his leadership is national in scope, designed to drive inclusive growth, promote unity, and lay the foundation for a modern Nigerian economy.
Source: The Bureau Newspaper

DeLaRue:
Interesting.

Been observing this man for some months now: he is an expert in speaking from both sides of the mouth.

You see him on Channels TV, attacking Mr Tinubu's government vociferously.

The following week he returns to Channels, and attacks Mr Obi.

Next, he is on Trust TV saying Mr Obi is a very good candidate who should come back to the PDP and partner with Atiku.

Just wait another week, he is on Arise TV saying that Atiku cannot use PDP as his personal tool, and that the party is bigger than him.

Another week again, you'll see photos of him visiting and shaking hands with Mr Tinubu.

Talk of going round in circles.

SendoSendal:
Sanwo-Olu, governor of Lagos, was absent on Thursday when President Bola Tinubu flagged off the reconstruction of the deep seaport access road in Epe, Ijebu-Ode area of the state.

Several dignitaries, including Babagana Zulum, governor of Borno, and Femi Hamzat, deputy governor of Lagos, attended the event.

Sanwo-Olu’s seat was clearly labelled, but he was noticeably absent, with his deputy, Hamzat, seated behind it.

Speaking at the event, Tinubu directed his remarks at the deputy governor rather than Sanwo-Olu.

The president also cautioned governors against issuing planning approvals for unauthorised islands and developments that encroach on designated road setbacks and maritime zones.

“Please, our dear governors, let’s work together. Don’t give planning approvals without collaborating with the surveyor-general of the federation and the ministry of works on these roads,” the president said.

“I’m glad the deputy governor of Lagos state is here. Take it that we will revoke all those approvals given on setbacks, and please note that we are very serious about it. No more approvals for those unapproved islands being created illegally.”

While the Lagos government has not given an official reason for Sanwo-Olu’s absence from the event, it may be linked to the alleged rift between the two politicians.

On Saturday, Tinubu snubbed Sanwo-Olu during the inauguration of the completed phase 1, section 1 (30km by six lanes) of the Lagos-Calabar coastal highway.

The event was attended by personalities, including former Senate President Ahmed Lawan, Zulum, Douye Diri, governor of Bayelsa, and Bassey Otu, governor of Cross River.

Tinubu exchanged pleasantries by shaking hands with the dignitaries as he proceeded along the line of officials.

However, when Tinubu reached Sanwo-Olu, he ignored the Lagos governor and extended a handshake directly to greet Ahmed Ododo, the governor of Kogi, who was next in line.

There has been speculation that Sanwo-Olu and Tinubu are not on good terms following the impeachment of Mudashiru Obasa as Lagos assembly speaker.

Obasa was removed from office by a majority of lawmakers in February over allegations of financial misconduct but was later reinstated after 49 days following the alleged intervention of Tinubu.
https://www.thecable.ng/spotted-sanwo-olu-absent-as-tinubu-flags-off-reconstruction-of-lagos-deep-seaport-access-road/

Morbeta11:
https://www.channelstv.com/2025/06/05/dont-listen-to-people-give-us-more-money-for-projects-umahi-tells-tinubu/

Rilwayne001:
Once APC gets a 2/3 majority in the senate, they should immediately work on constitutional amendments.

The current constitution isn’t moving the country forward

Great100000:
[b]•APC courts four PDP govs, 10 A’Ibom NASS members to join Eno, two Edo, Nasarawa senators to quit SDP, LP


Source: https://punchng.com/defections-hurricane-tinubu-sweeps-12-more-senators-reps/

helinues:
I have told you to stop using your precarious situation to be judging others. That you are suffering don't mean others are suffering too

BadBradley:
he is speaking facts. Olikumi are a tiny group in Igbo area in Delta state, having no land or local government to themselves and share no direct border with Yoruba or itsekiri

Gbajure:
Olukumi is pristine Yoruba from Ilé-Ifè the Source. Friends are called Oluku in Ife till today. Olukumi means my friend. So they migrated directly from Ife

peterincredible:
thanks you jare my great grand mother is 4rm olukumi the funny thing is this people currently are more igbos than yoruba now although they are yoruba of ancestry or decent but have been fully acculturized to be igbo even the oloza wear akwa ocha 😂😂😂😂😂 all this wont stoo the creation of aniomas state and they should not be a stumbling block to the people who hosted them and welcome them

Gbajure:
Olukumi is pristine Yoruba from Ilé-Ifè the Source. Friends are called Oluku in Ife till today. Olukumi means my friend. So they migrated directly from Ife

Abagworo:
That's how people misbehave as a result of Igbo benevolence. They migrated from Owo and were accomodated by Aniocha people with full citizenship rights and autonomy of existence. Hopefully they will not now claim the autochthonous Aniocha people are migrants.

Slytiger:
Itsekiri and Olukumi Form Alliance, Share History, and Celebrate Cultural Exchange

Discover the two Yoruba groups in Delta State, uniting to strengthen bonds through shared heritage and cultural collaboration.

WriterNig:
https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/06/08/20/99159559-14792259-image-m-100_1749411679010.jpg



credit: Dailymail UK

angelfallz:
Dear Nonny,

Itsekiris and the Binis had Igbo slaves for centuries before British colonialism. After the British banned slavery, we were forced to set them free. Some of them returned to Igbo land, others remained with us and gradually formed a new language called ******* (an Itsekiri word which we used to call them while they were our slaves). There are about 200,000 ******* still with us.

(I will not reveal the name of this tribe called *******, because I do not want to offend them, but they are in Delta state)

If they speak, an Igbo person will understand some of what they say, while Itsekiris, Binis and even European Portuguese people will understand them too. Those of them who chose to return to Igbo land have Igbo names that sound like Itsekiri or Benin names, for example Iweka, and many names beginning with Oba or Iken.

That is how some of our names and also Benin names went into the Igbo lexicon.
We have century old carvings in Ode Itsekiri and Benin depicting Igbo slaves, which we sold to the Portuguese via our ancient pre colonial port called Ogidigben. The grandfather of the present Oba of Benin showed some of these carvings to the world famous British anthropologist, Sir David Attenborough in 1973. The video is on YouTube. When you see the carving, even you will have no doubt that the person is Igbo.

Because of the sheer number of Igbo slaves we sold at Ogidigben, the Portuguese named the town Escravos, which means slave in Portuguese. Till today, many people still call Ogidigben Escravos.

We also sold slaves in another town called Burutu, which the Portuguese renamed Forcados (meaning forced labourer, which is a nicer way of saying slaves).

Obviously, I am not too proud of this history. I wish it never happened. History is not always pleasant. I am only revealing it to you because you are getting the wrong idea of linkages between our two peoples.

https://www.facebook.com/111647580740689/posts/312326730672772/

Reno's explanation on how the Igbos came to be slaves of the Bini and Itsekiri
https://www.facebook.com/111647580740689/posts/312362820669163/

Creamypie:
y'all from east are ignorant folks.Ned nwoko or whatever are powerless on this.governor, all reps, senators, councilors and chairmen, kings, of which are working with oba of Benin, h. o.a members, then people will vote in referendum, and with 75% majority, of which ika ndokwa/ukwuani are 5 local government, isele uku, wey be Aniocha, their king no want, same as Ika.

In fact saying Ika, ndokwa and ukwuani are Igbo means trouble, b4 senators at senate will vote 2/3rd. Secondly, delta north has vast oil, ndokwa,ukwuani., especially where delta meets rivers, ndoni.thats the hope of. ipob to have access to High sea, which is dead on arrival. Lastly, olukumi, who speak like Yoruba, are also natives of delta north

zero8zero:
Anioma is made up of multi ethnic and multi cultural communities, if this sails through, it will be in the 7th state in the SS region.