Crazyblue:


We should call a spade a spade. No Matter of pride in race.

No one is saying a polygamy is wrong, as long as polyamory and Polyandry are all welcome.

Feminist won't be complaining about your obsession to dominate, if you acknowledge that a female could assume same domineering role. Have 2 husband and let then care for the kids and she is the boss of the house.

If you want to be fair be fair

If it can record success like polygamous marriage, it's a welcome development.

Sandra8:


And give birth to those children you posted that are not properly taken care of dear.... No no

If the children can be properly taken care, you mean you will allow your husband to marry more than one wife as long as he has capacity to take care of them. For instance, Mc Oluomo marries more than one but all his kids are studying in USA.
Since taking care of the children is one of the main that scares you in polygamous marriage, pray for your future husband to be stinkingly rich so that he can take care of his wives and his children.

PrimadonnaO:
@Hotzone, first of all how old are y'all?

I might be wrong, but I suspect you're trying to hook a girl who's outta your league. I don't think she loves you. This relationship is very convenient for her... she's not f*cking you, she barely spends time with you, you're paying all of the bills.
You've probably been sucking things up and paying the bills because you wanna prove you're a man. You want to send a message that it doesn't matter if she earns more than you do.



You're a good guy, but I think you're being played man.

But I still don't get it, how do people not know when they aren't loved??
Hahahahahaha. I gotta be the easiest person to read, 'cause if I don't like you, you'll know as bright as day.

Especially when he's paying your bills.

Sandra8:


Dear you are obviously drunk ,who takes a drunk man seriously

It has been proved and tested.
If you think it's bad, ask Alaafin Oyo and all the kings you know and the people you know that marry more than one wife. The wives will be check mating each other and there won't be any stunt like I have been the one taking care of the children can't have sex because I'm tired, no sex. If you are tired, hot wives are warming up to help you out. I think everyone woman should be happy about this because whenever they are having hormonal imbalance, they will be helping each other out. Or you promise me money last week and you haven't given me so no sex for you. I'm tired because I've been working all day long so I can't cook.

Help your husband to live long by letting him marry second wife or more.

Sandra8:


Dear your logic has nothing to do with the number of ladies but how bad the standard of living is in Nigeria dear. Don't get it twisted

If you are talking about Nigeria economy, you are right. But some people have the ability to do it and they are doing it in Nigeria.

The biggest recipe for men to live long is to marry more than one wife.

Sandra8:


You can't control one single woman and you want two ...quickly sign your last will. This is funny dear

But kings live longer than any man. Our fore father and ancestors marry more that one wife but they live longer than today's men that marry one wife and later die of heart attack, stroke at the age of 55, 60.

bukatyne:


Is she a traditional wife material?

i.e. believes a woman should handle all the domestics while the husband provides solely?

If yes, decide if that is the model you want and run with it.

If no, look for someone else.

There is a spec for everyone.

Traditionalist wife material when they are not yet married?
Did Op mention that she's helping him to do his house chores. If you have a son and he says that his girlfriend is milking him because he's the one footing her bills: house rent, school fees, feeding allowance etc. Although, she's earning more than him. Will you say he should continue footing her bills because his girlfriend is a traditionalist wife?

Blackivy29:
straight, gay, bi, either way, i rape him.

Straight guy won't allow that. Gay is the best cos he will enjoy it.

Blackivy29:
i like freaky sex. Like im wearing a strapon and im anal raping this tied up dude.

Nice. Your husband will be enjoying, especially if you marry gay. Your honeymoon will be lit.

Government that loves terrorism.

Blackivy29:
And in this community that we have built for ourselves, raw strenght now has little impact. With development we have bore witness to changes that has influenced of way of life. Farming once done manually, can now be extensively conducted with heavy machinary. Fishing now can be done with out the fisherman's presence, from lifting of tons of loads to delicate procedures, technology has take off the strain of tedious working.

And the more we advance, the more use our brains we will discover, and the less important using our muscles will be. Men attempting to keep the reign as the dominant sex shouldnt do so claiming toughness. Our society needs to be governed by intellectually capable individuals. And in that aspect, theres a tie between men and women.

At bolded, who are the one behind the technology? Male or female.
You can go to YouTube and watch the newest technology in fishing and count the number of female you see there. With the level of advancement in technology, how many women are working in oil rig or as a sewage cleaner or as a gold miner?
The number of men that die in factory jobs all over the world compare to women the percentage is still 99/1.
Man do not only have physical abilities more than women but their willingness to risk or lay down his life for his family to live, feed, and have shelter, and for the society to thrive is what will ever makes men above women.

The pictures below show sewage cleaners cleaning sewage. The sewage cleaning does not need any physical abilities, all you have to do is clean dirt in the sewage. I hope you can do it.

Sandra8:


I never said any of the above quoted texts dear. Any man who provides only money without being fully involved in the training of his kid, will only have himself to blame when he isn't recognized fully for the role he played. We are our biggest promoters and not someone else. If you are absentee dad, just know your kid already sees her mom as his/her all and all,helping them to cope through the daily challenges of growing up dear

This is what said;
A man who willfully keeps baby mama's is shooting himself in the foot, in later years those children become the legacies of their mothers mostly, excluding their fathers entirely love.
This is the opposite of the above.
So, a man, who marries, won't shoot himself in the foot. In later years, those children become legacies of their mothers including their fathers' love because they marry the mother of their children. This is logical enough now.
In the context of your write up and the guy you qouted, what do you think should be the opposite of baby mama?

Sandra8:


Your figures are self manufactured dear

Since you mean marriage guarantees children to love their fathers, what can you say about children loving their mothers despite the fact their fathers married their mothers to the extent of hating their fathers?

Sandra8:


You tried to sound smart but your logic is faulty. What makes a man truly great is not because according to you "he has all the time to raise a family" love, no it's not. If you check out our African culture and even ancient cultures across the world, what made great men, truly great love was their offspring, male and female heirs of theirs. That is the purpose of child bearing to continue a man's legacy and lineage (that's from a man's point of view) love . A man who willfully keeps baby mama's is shooting himself in the foot, in later years those children become the legacies of their mothers mostly, excluding their fathers entirely love.

This should never be confused with sex. Men and women have all the time in the world to have sex. Love you

You mean Davido's kids won't love him because he doesn't marry their mothers.
In marriage, 60-70 percent still live their mothers more than their fathers. So, what's your point?

Chai see how dem de use person head de play ping pong.

Sandra8:
A man as a being is built physically powerful. You can tell by the mass of muscles he has in his body. This muscles makes his claim to power flirting in his eyes and through the eyes of men, women have come to believe that true power lies with being physically strong...how far off from the truth!

True power lies where you least expect it. I'll explain.
Going by body muscles alone man is amongst the weakest in the kingdom of the beast ( yes beast!) many other beast out number man in terms of body muscle mass, from buffalo, rhino, hippopotamus, elephant, blue whale etc. Yet all this are beneath man in terms of where true power lies. I guess you now know what I mean?

Men and women have equal (if not more for women) brain matter and mass with which to out smart the biggest muscle mass on earth!
And here is where true power lies.

Men have made women believe that being physically stronger than them means they are superior or better than we are but that is bad logic for we are far smarter than men are!

Ladies do not doubt me when I say this. Men's brains are naturally faulty, unlike women's brain. Men have a hormone called testosterone that naturally blocks the proper functioning of their brains. For the most part starting from 10-70 years of their lives, it blocks the natural function of their brains and their d*cks takes over. This is one major flaw in their brains that women have been exploiting and should continue to exploit.

Another weakness in men's brain is the need for them to experience thrills on a regular basis, this causes adrenalin rush and a surge in dopamime( a neurotransmitter associated with euphoria and pleasure). This causes men to pursue sports like watching football, falling in love, cheating, going into drugs etc just to feel a momentary high.
And guess what ladies, when all of this happens mens frontal lobe ( the seat of reason stops working) and he is on autopilot, basically acting only on stimuli.

So here is how we take take power from men.
We get them to underuse their brains and not the other way round.
Ladies always remember, when your man is sad he uses his brain capacity more but when he is happy he does the exact opposite. Lol.
As feminists we need to know this. Making your man reason everything out with you, will only give him an advantage when you can get all you want with your wit without saying even a word!

If you are in a relationship, ensure your man gets his regular dose of adrenaline and dopamine from sports (and not from you p*ssy lol) by encouraging him to watch more sports and by joining him (it's boring most times but just pretend and not by forcing him to watch zeeworld like you do.) he will love it and love you more. That's the point when you get to exploit him, cause he cannot refuse you - he won't want to ruin the moment!

If you aren't in a relationship, get men's testosterone to work for you. Look your best, smell nice, have good charisma and speak well. Always ensure whenever you interact with a man he is never in total control of his brain, that way you always get favours thrown at you due to his testosterone working up his d*ck.


Any man who doesn't take your bait is not worth wasting your precious time on. Move on many other men are waiting to be exploited. Always remember that men within your age range are easier to manipulate this way, than men much older, unless you are a pro.

Stay tuned for more!

Currently, don't try this with man u fans.

glink2015:


Are you a virgin?.
If you are with proof, I will give 20k....
Seun, take. Note...

How will she do that? Take the picture of her hymen and send it to you?

Shey you wan...

1stKing:
work hard bro... May life favour you enough to have more than two women. You Will grow up to appreciate you did
Infact those women keep snitching on each other to the husband. They keep each other in checks and balance.

That's it. That's one of the major reasons why our grandfathers and great grandfathers live longer than us because they were mini kings in their homes.

1stKing:
you feel at peace .. Especially if you have more than three.
Our fathers in the olden days live long with more than 4 wives... Men nowadays marry a single woman and she starts think the world revolves around her. She starts thinking she is the sun to the world. She troubles you so much you end up with a short life span...

That's why a king have longer life span than an average man. You can hardly hear that a king die of stroke or heart attack at the younger age. It's not jazz or juju but this is reason they live longer. If alaafin oyo had married one wife, he'd probably had died long time ago. Any of his wives that try to pull stupid stunts like some wives do to their husbands will be abandoned and none of them will want that, which means they will sit up.

All these men wey de train women for school the result has been the same from 500AD, which is use and dump.
I'll advice you not to force her into marriage because you will regret it for the rest of your life, which means you still have numerous thread to open on nairaland. At this point, I'll advice you to leave her alone let her suffer because women love to make wrong choice. The bad guy that she thinks he loves her after he finished dealing with her, then she will come on social media and start ranting how men are scum or create a topic " A message to men that break women hearts" after she leaves a nice guy that loves her and dates bad guy or a player.

You mean Osinbajo (VP) is more powerful than his excellency, Abba Kyari (president).

How is that possible?

Buhari, Cabal and Co right now...

jayfolarin:


HIV is better than Ebola on the immune system. It doesn't make getting it attractive

You de mind them? As if Nigeria was El Dorado during GEJ term.

olabrinks:
Sex can be painful for those who are not virgins and having sex not to talk of a virgin having sex for the first time.

Wow, you mean p*ssy is nothing but fresh wound.