Kennedyiheme02:



Do you have proof he forced them other than their word?

why would anyone have sex with an underage girl.. how does that make any sense to you... the women Weinstein had sex with, are they underage?

XhosaNostra:


But your country has more men than women, so there's no need for anyone to be fighting over a man, when each woman could easily have two & more men in her rotation

RisenPhoenix:


All that one na fake theory my broda. The only responsible woman is the woman whose husband commands her respect.

Nn3muka:


If a man is responsible, a responsible woman will locate him.

Do you understand?

Nn3muka:

Oga read my comment again, this time slowly.
Read to understand, dont read to reply

Nn3muka:

Oga read my comment again, this time slowly.
Read to understand, dont read to reply

Nn3muka:
If you are a brolosho, you will end up with an olosho.
If you patronize prostitutes, you will end up with kajad akuna aka hoe.
If you are a responsible man, a responsible woman will locate.
What you give is what you get.

HolyTrinity:


Smiles. You tried to deviate from the theme of our discourse which is on FEMINISM. Are we talking outside the subject matter? How come you successfully draw in misogynists and religious leaders into this despite your being right about what you said? What gives you the impression that I can say the same about these group of people you mentioned. And what 'same' are you even talking about. Supporting male superiority? Do you feel I'm advocating male superiority? I understand your attempt to go off the point. But be coherent and intelligible with your replies and avoid unnecessary comparisons and verbose statements. Let's stick to the issue and thrash things out logically and realistically.

I gave a simple analogy showing how actions/acts determines the intent of the actor, but you interpreted it in a way to suit your narratives. Shocking you had to use that statement and relate it to things outside what we're saying. Hope you know your talking outside the facts changes nothing! At least, you agree that people have this natural tendency to twist things to suit themselves.

At the second bolded, who is disputing that fact with you? You wanna enjoy privileges? Be worth it and go ahead! It's a free world you know.

At the third bold, No, that's not what I'm saying. Okay?! Thank you.

At the fourth bold, No need apologising! Suit yourself. You're good, so feel good.

At bolded no.5, What conclusions do you think I have drawn? I appreciate your advice though. Thanks.

I want to ask you. Are men complaining about being hurt by traditional gender roles? And what sense is in it to have left it to females to help them champion. See the broader picture mister and stop trying to base reality on theory. Whose benefit is the greater good of feminism. I think the best way to have courted men into buying such feministic ideal (male feminist) would have been to feign inclusiveness with a subtle claim to masculine welfarism.

Lemme quote again that statement you gave from Wikipedia. It says;
''...some Feminists...argue for the inclusion of men's liberation within its aims, because they believe that men are also harmed by traditional gender roles''.
I just want to understand. Why fight for men when they can more than enough fight for themselves? I smell a subtle way of disguising the real intent of feminism. Or could it be that they realize the importance of male support in fighting for their erroneous cause? Should all men blatantly kick against feminism will the ideology stay this long? After all, it is from men they demand equal rights. Try and be logical and reason things quantitatively. The ideal lost it's credence and value the moment it sought gender equality in public and private life without taking into consideration the variation in inputs by both gender.

I need not say anything again. My friend, here's a little research for you. Go anywhere to anything relating to feminism and read comprehensively about their real agendas and aims. Don't just come selecting a few as it best help your arguments. Go find out entirely about the feminist ideology and tell me what you find. Pay particular attention to statements/quotes made by disguised feminists such as Mary Sanger, Hillary Clinton and cos. Then I'll show you a statement by Florence Nightingale (a Christian WWII nurse).

It seems the whites, the diehard campaigners of feminism, is where most Africans draw out rigid inspirations from. A truth is not truth when it's 99.99% right and 0.001% false.

At the last bold, I'm not referring only to the name, I'm also speaking with respect to the ideology. From a contextual perspective. The ideal is WRONG. Take it or leave it. When you successfully figure out what fuels feminism, you'll understand why it's inappropriate and something to kick against.

Moreover, names, tags are identities and somehow they influences destiny. Anyone can choose whatever name he feels like. That's their choice.

As a hint of note, You mentioned Jesus. Great of you to. But do you know Jesus had 12 disciples and there was no woman? I hope you won't allude that to His misperception of females. After all, He created them. Think critically about this before pulling out an argument out of this folks. I feel someone might find it controversial too.

Omar09:


I was such proof. Tbh the right way to put this should have been THE MAN WHO REMAINS SEXUAL DISCIPLINED AVOIDS A LOT OF DISEASES IN ONE'S LIFE. not some having a faithful wife or girlfriend cause that is far fetched in the generation.

Shugavee:
please u all stop it ,,, that’s if u are sure u will hv one partiner forever !! The only person u are sure of is ur husband n with the high rate of divorce Nowadays, u are not sure .

Shugavee:
see if someone has a male friend, u may never know him or met him.. they won’t even interrupt nothing.. she just knows she got a shoulder to cry on n someone to talk to when in distress!! If u both hv issues , she must talk to someone. U all stop thinking besties hv sex. Not everyone do !! N males give the best advice

anochuko01:


How many women are commercial bus driver?
How many women are conductors?
How many women run after criminals at night?
How many women are motorcycle riders?
How many women are at the fore front of warfare in sambisa?

How many women do you see offloading and loading up cement in cement depot?
How many women do you see carrying a bag of cocoa on their head in a coca depot?
How many women do you see offloading timber from a truck in a sawmill?
How many women do you see in a refinery?

Those who do these jobs most times take drugs just to keep up with the task. E easy??


I stay in Kano, once it's about 7pm, you don't their women outside again. Whereas the guys are outside inhaling smoke in the name of hustling.

You don't expect all these people to have the same immune system.

chewwie:
Why don't you just build schools where those kids will get proper education like we do here down south, but they will also get to study the Qur'an (Islamic Religious Studies) as part of their curriculum?
I'm not a fan of Islam, but I don't think this Almajiri system is an Islamic culture, I don't see this in the Middle East. It's a northern plague!

Magnoliaa:


five

funmisticqueen2:
It's really simple ladies.

Hygiene!! Hygiene!! Hygiene!!

Na play I dey play o.

Waiting for the fustrated misogynists to come!!

Let's count them together.

I dey my house. Come and beat me.

Igbosmoker:
this is what happens when you play in a farmers league. he left la liga to a european retirement league but his fans and him were shouting new challenge

madeinnigeria:
There's no where in the story that says the girl is using him as maga or whatever. He's an adult ig he feels like an outsider he shouldn't have gone to marriage stage the start complaining later

madeinnigeria:
I am guessing you see those who adopt kids even after having their own as crazy. Life is not that complicated its not until you father a child biologically you can show love.

madeinnigeria:
after reading his story he definitely has only one problem "the child" and i wonder, when he has his own 4yr old throwing tantrums will he send him or her away? Because after finding out she had a kid he still wanted to marry her. If you love someone be it single or not you have to be ready to work together thats why marriage is for better for worse not for better for cherry picking.

selemempe:
Are you okay? You lost the argument and you want to take it to another direction....I refuse to join you. Good bye...it is good to give up...so you don't sound like a broken record

samuelson06:


Your thoughts about taking care of another man's child maybe synonymous to your age. Grow up bro. What's wrong with taking care or raising another man's child? Every child needs love. Every child is your child. Why can't you love unconditionally as we are admonished to do in the Holy Book? Why so selfish at your age?

What guarantee do you have that your biological child would grow up to become what you want in a child? Stop this please. Repent of your thoughts about that child and accept him into your life wholeheartedly. That may be your opportunity but if you choose to reject him then be rest assured that you have a case with God. This very wrongdoing would rub off on you sooner or later.

You talk as if you can control the outcome of life but you are only but a man. And if you want to make sense of this life, the best you can do is go God's way else you mess up your life with your selfishness. If you like, send both the mother and the child away or you keep them but remember, whatever choice you make, you'll reap the reward here on earth. A word is enough for the wise.

Tunagee:
Bro, u dey complain,you have not even fanthom the fact that the child's dad will soon start coming to your home to check his son, giving him access to your wife and old feelings can still come back.
Secondly, have u thought of the fact that when u start having your own kids, and you don't treat them equally, it can also spark another violence? Have u thought of the fact that your wife may never like you correcting the child too harshly. Have u thought of the fact that that child's welfare is what she is interested in, and not you?
Have u thought of the fact that she can never love you deeply as that child cos she is with so u can take care of her child. I won't advise anyone I know to marry a single mother, am sorry!

Martinez39s:
Exactly. All the niceness and love bombing were part of her plan. She needed to play nice and smart to incentivise and rope the OP into marrying another man's left over and take care of another man's seed with his hard earned cash when he could get a fresh product and raise his seed.

She, just like all women, has no love to give and she just need the op as a disposable ATM to take care of her and her kids. She is disguising her mission as love/sex. If you know the legendary trojan horse story, you should understand this meme.

Martinez39s:
What the OP's single-mom girlfriend did is the classic manipulation technique called bait and switch. Ubunja can shed more light on this. After she had entangled him in the web of the illusion called love, gotten him emotionally invested in her for a long time, and giving him sweet sex, she decided to break the news because at the time of hearing the news, the OP would have been too lost in his love for her to get angry and call off the relationship.

WilliamsTheGrea:



I even asked her that question just now. She said it's a foolish question. She and her pikin don enter room go sleep.

Bankowner:
Oga see, I have someone who married a single mother with a three year old son, today the boy is 16 and you can never tell that the man isn’t his father. So quit whining and do the needful if truly you love the girl or kindly get out of her life so doors can be opened for the right person to fill the gap.

You sound awfully selfish to me though!

lefulefu:
una don make Ubunja a nigerian by force
Gbanega Akinwole..classic ..a yoruba zimbabwean

ImaIma1:


All that overwhelming anger will melt after the deed has been done. And he will still face the law right? That's my point.

Not every man would have beaten their wives upon finding out that he had been training strange children. Is beating the only way to show anger?

ImaIma1:


Ok then. He should kill her. Maybe then he will be fulfilled in jail.

First she gives him another man's children. She has not done enough. Then she causes him to kill her and spend the rest if his life behind bars

ImaIma1:


From my comment, isn't it obvious that I am for the man not doing something foolish and losing more. When a deed has been done, is it better to worsen it by adding a jail sentence?

Even a slow person knows what the woman did is damning and enough to destroy the man. But if he kills her,what do you think will happen?

Is there any lady commending what the woman did? If there are, well...maybe it's the same way you guys always support and validate guys' actions on this forum too