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BBBmall25:
Should I Say Crazy Or Primitive?? Which Capture It Better? Like For Craze Share For Primitive

Primitively crazy.

This is entitlement mentality is something else and that's why most of them are ingrates. Any help you render to them, they see it as their right or they are doing you favour for allowing you to help them.

Guys should start dashing you money because you have Vagina

Michellekabod2:
I don't understand

I mean, feminism is biased towards male gender.

Michellekabod2:
The Ubunja you applaud has made derogatory statements about ladies severally and am yet to see a post of you condemning it! You celebrate a misogynist and your blood is boiling because of this post.
I myself have called out both males and females for disrespecting other genders but you I can say I have never seen a post of you speaking of an ill done against the female folks but you even open threads to speak up for men. Now you are over reacting for this.

Have you called out ubunja that said a man that is not a virgin is perfect but a lady that is not a virgin is a hoe? You didn't find that as inequality but you put all vigor in condemning the "a man should not hit back a lady"
Have you called out guys on romance section that call girls oloshos randomly, sham single mothers et Al...
At least I called Buda out when he said guys are pigs

You yourself that said a redpill from a female is for gullible people but you celebrate a male redpill,are you any different from the poster you clapback at?

Let's be fair here!
No Human despite his race,gender,sexuality,beliefs should be treated wrong. Don't close aneye to a particular gender suffering and cry foul with all vigor for another.

The "truth" you mention ain't fact. Your "truth" is equivalent to the thousands of religions in the world"truths" that make them belief that their own one religion is better than the rest.


My "fact" is that the world be better without gender bias people whether males or females


Check out the link ,I have never seen you call out the OP of links like this out https://www.nairaland.com/5427881/virginity-wahala

The most funniest part of it is that feminism you practice does the opposite.

Shugavee:
okay I am talking about sensible men not you dear

You're kidding, right?

Charleys:
The father is in no position to answer anything. I'm talking about the mother here, changing the child's surname. It's just a name. This will enable the man concentrate on other things rather than always having to remember it's not his son or daughter anymore.

By the time the biological father carry you go court for changing his child's name without his consent, your brain go reset.

Op de fear future.
I feel your pain bro. Sometimes you will just sit down and start thinking, "hmmm, no be say I de fetch water inside basket so?"

sexiestharam:
Ronaldo and Davido have something in common. They always want to be in the news for even the most little of things. . What an obsession.

You mouth just de smell slap.

sexiestharam:
Ronaldo and Davido have something in common. They always want to be in the news for even the most little of things. . What an obsession.

You get sense so?

Ronaldo, you have forgotten me. I was the one that gave you pure water to step it down.

Make l ask you this question wey most nairaland ladies de ask in this kind of situation. "Where are you guys meeting all these girls? You guys attract your type".

LillyVal:
You obviously read the post upside down

No, I read it side ways.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Don't mind them. Always playing the victim card.They don't reason logically,everything has to be all about emotions.

When I saw the headline, I thought she would point out both man and woman flaws in marriage but as usual, she painted men as devil and women as angel.

Savvywriteprene:
Oga, don't be too fast to label what she wrote as trash.
Yes, it was written from her emotions but then women are emotional.

Those things she wrote there are actually happening. They're the reality of many Nigerian wives.

Infact, some women are still with their husbands not because of love but because of either lack of financial empowerment, shame, what their families will say etc.

From the news we read everyday, you see that some women are damning the consequences and getting out of their marriages in hundreds and thousands.
I'm not talking about those who don't want to stay married, but those who sincerely want to stay married but their partners keep messing up.

That means something is wrong somewhere.

May God help us all.

Una don come, victim card player. As if na only woman de suffer for marriage. Abi na hermaphrodite stab her husband to death because of birthday.

Mcslize:
Bro don't waste your time cooking for a girl visiting you. Most times we do all these stuff cuz we want to impress her. But know this it won't change anything. Just serve her a cup of chilled water.

Girls really don't value all these niceness from guys. I am a good cook but I have stopped cooking for girls.

When you do all that, they take it for something else like you like them more making their heads to swell whereas you are just being a hospitable being. Ladies always mistake kind gestures and always think what they have to offer you in return is sex. Just sex. Quite bad. Meaning they don't see themselves more than sexual objects. Why? I asked.

You get the drill. They see niceness and kindness as weakness.

Premiumwriter:
This is nothing but a clear indicator that more women are sexually proactive than we men can ever imagine

You de mind them? Na pretence dem sabi.

Female between the age of 16 to 19 are sexually experienced and active more than male between the same age range. If you think say I de lie, think about this. It will be easier for you to find a guy that has never be in any relationship between the age of 18 to 25 than to find a girl in the same age range that has never been in a relationship. Shey I lie?

aprilwise:
It anything wrong marring a first son? My veto power as first son is wonderful.

Guy, you don't get it. First born sons are mostly the bread winner of their families. She doesn't want his family to chop their son's money.

donaldtruman:
Hmm...

A girl that has at least 3 to 5 admirers per day then you can calculate it per month. Definitely, she will meet guys that's 10 times better than you in every aspect. And you think that type of girl will be humble? Humble kor humblesmith ni.
Since you don de Waka how many beautiful girls you don meet wey no de arrogant? Oya judge yourself.
The only advice I can give to you is to help them participate in their hoeing phase they are passing through.

donaldtruman:
I ve been making efforts to get a girlfriend since I lost a toxic relationship but I seem to be indecisive that I can't even make a choice as beautiful babes are just too numerous.

No doubt, what a man or a woman shld be after in a relationship is d inner person,the heart,not just dwelling on the physical appearance which has made me so confused.

The problem I ve now is that I need a humble, decent and good mannered baby but at d same time I want her to be beautiful.

However,so far,my observations about the ones that ve beauty as a plus are either too proud,arrogant,lazy,dull and materialistic.

They don't believe in a life of contentment and can push u into crime with their demands and cost of maintenance.

Most of them don't interact intelligently.

All u hear them talk about is social media,latest iphones,like d one I just met yest and how to flex.
Nothing more.

Is it that one can't find a humble and responsible babe that is pretty?

As it seems that d humble and responsible ones are not physically attractive and ugly but d challenge is that I need a responsible one that is also pretty and even these pretty ones are too numerous that I am too confused on how to make a choice.

So,I don't really know if my attention on getting a beautiful babe is out of lust,natural for me as a man, just abnormal or not sure of what I want in a woman.

While I agree I ve to care for my woman,I just don't want to fall into wrong hands again especially into d trap of a materialistic babe,which is d core challenge in finding a babe in Nig now.

Just confused though.

Advice pls!

You are looking for a beautiful girl that will be humble and not materialistic to date. It will be much more easier for snow to fall in Sahara desert than to find these three attributes in one girl in Nigeria, especially between the age of 18-26.

happney65:
Yeah,but not that popular sha..not as popular as Toyin..

And her previous husband was not as popular as her too because currently, Toyin Abraham should be in top 2 most popular yoruba actress or even the most popular yoruba actress. So, there's no guy she will marry in yoruba movie industry that you won't have the same impression. Unless you want her to marry already married odunlade adekola or femi adebayo so that no one would be saying that they marry her for fame.

happney65:
Women have been doing that since way back and nobody kill them on top..Guy man decided to do wetin you women don dey do una wan kill am..

Hypocrites

LOL. The most funniest part of it is the guy is also a popular yoruba actor

Bolustical:
It is the same ineptitude that didn't allow her to know that a proper noun like Cambridge ought to start with capital letter.

PMB is educated than most of you and your parents.

Which PMB? The one that raised someone else hand as presidential candidate during campaign, the same PMB that wrote something by himself but couldn't read it. I can bet my two balls Buhari cannot recite A to Z.

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stanley000:
thanks boss, you are more appreciated very nice delivery. I have tried to ignore her but u Know some crazy girls might just leave u like that especially now that there's so much dicck they have to choose from lol. but let's assume i really like her, how would u advice me to win her heart back?

Don't try to win her heart back but let her win yours because the more you try to win her back the more you fall into her manipulation trap. All you have to do is stop the attention you've been given her. If she truly likes you, she will crave and fight for attention. If she doesn't, then move on. I think she's not the only girl in your area that you can relate with because if you have other options, you won't try to a win a girl's heart, who might not care about your feelings.

You are the trophy, bro, she's not. So, don't try to win heart over but let her win your heart. See yourself as champions league trophy that clubs try to win. If she wins your heart, she will cherish you. Just imagine champions league trophy is like honorary award that you can get in any occasion you go to as an invited guest. You will see the award as inferior compare to the one you fight to win. So, don't let her get your attention cheaply because she won't cherish it but let her crave and fight for it because that's when you will know if she's into you or not. If she doesn't try to get your attention back, please move on because she has never liked you or she has lost interest in you.

princfred:
This is phony truth laughable if it weren't bitter. It's like their brains are wired upside down. The phoniest part is seeing some of them with good sense being derailed by the mentally convulated ones.

Aswear

Ebonygirl1:
Nope. Any guy who constantly begs to be taken back or to be paid some attention is a sissy. I know guys who do it and I find it quite irritating.

If she finds it irritating, she would have broken up with him.

Imagine this scenario, if your brother tells you that he's really caring and loving towards his girlfriend that's why he's paying her girlfriend's school fees, he's saving money to buy iPhone 11 for her and she also knows pin to his ATM cards, I'm pretty sure you will call him mumu and even detest his girlfriend because you will be thinking she's using your brother's head. But if you were his girlfriend, would you break up with him because of that?

Ebonygirl1:
The bolded is simply a sissy, not a nice guy. Doing anything and everything to a ridiculous extent. You people like mixing things up

You are seeing him as sissy because you are not the one dating him but his girlfriend sees him as nice guy or real man.

GuyWise101:
Bro I really don't know how I changed overnight, even the girl was surprise because unlike me I would have started calling, texting and begging over what I don't know about, I would have asked her where I went wrong that made her to be giving me cold shoulder ,which she will tell me to forget about it that she has forgiven me ( but what was my sin?) she wouldn't say.



Fast forward to few weeks ago, I stumbled on one of ubunja thread then discovered that I have been played all these while (remember that she always ask me for a favour after each saga) then four days ago she started acting up again then I also applied my own cold shoulder, I started not to look on her face, I started ignoring and not acknowledging her presence.... bro to cut the long story short I can proudly tell you now that this girl bought me an expensive gift yesterday.

That's it, my brother. To be candid with you, naija girls don't like nice guy. If you show them that you really love them or you can't do without them, by the time they finish with you hehn, you go de see sniper as your savior.