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edydamsel:
it is only mature men that do this and the are not easily found.I make friends with such people because they have something good to offer. not cos of the help u gave her o o but for that mind of helping without looking for sth in return. cheers!

If you need help why can't you ask for help from your fellow female since they are mature and generous.

All of you have female friends and family but you don't run to them for help financially but you run to male you think you can easily manipulate.

AstroG:
Your life,your decision,your choice and your headaches
Whatever rocks your boat,is up to you

You can't come and change someone's mindset pertaining these hoeoloshos parading theirselves as Naija girls.
The only Naija girl ah fit help without strings attached is my MOM and SIBLINGS shikena

Others can go to hell,if you won't agree to my conditions


NA MY MIND AH TALK SOOOO

MA Nigga!!!

The same girl will be calling you mugu or Maga behind your back.

How many girls de even de help guys or random guys financially?

The most funniest part of it that might be her last opportunity.

naturalwaves:
What a shame! The moment you refuse to have sex with those types , nothing to bargain with again and they will find a way to cut out. What a good riddance!

At that moment, they will feel useless to themselves because they think that's the only tool they can use to achieve what they want instead of using their brain and their hands. When that tool is taken from them, they become mentally handicapped because the tool (vagina) is where their brain reside.

Remove pussy from some ladies life in this part world, my brother, what you will have is nothingness.

naturalwaves:
That is why some people refer to them as "objects of mere satisfaction". Let me give you a practical example from one of the slowpokes that has been quoting me here so you can have an idea of how they reason. She said she doesn't like sex on first date and she is about to visit her new bf. What does that imply?That she can start having sex subsequently right from the 2nd date onwards ? . What a slowpoke! That was her first thinking in a new relationship . Nothing to bring to the table aside being an object of mere satisfaction. Sometimes, we need to look up people and check their antecedents before engaging them in a discussion. Had I done that, I would not have even replied at all. See all the mumu threads she opened and what her thinking faculty is like.

That's typical Nigerian ladies for you ooo. They will be building strength around sex (vagina) instead of building personality and intelligence. The pussy is their selling point and that's why they use it as a bargaining chip either as prostitutes or in relationship.

#Muscular crew.
please cum and chin chum chin.

#Muscular crew please cum and chin chum chin.

If your girlfriend keeps contacting her ex and you go ahead and marry her, I can bet with my two balls that you will father someone else children. Because of the soft spot she has for her ex, some days before your marriage she will check on him and before you know, ex don drop sperm for sperm depot and you will just be doing top up during honeymoon. There is something you don't know, which is every woman ex still has spare key to their p..sy.
The way you narrate your story it sounds like she will be easy to open legs for her ex. I hope she hasn't been visiting her ex. If yes,

Michellekabod2:
The Hallmark of feminism is gender equality;if understood both genders will smile happily.
Ignore the rants of some Nairaland gals who wanna eat their cake and have it! Don't mistaken a male-hater as a feminist!
Your second to the last paragraph wrote you off!

Abegi, there is nothing like feminism fights for both gender. Feminism is coined out the from the word female so how can it be fighting for both gender. It's founded to fight for female right. If there's an organization that wants fight for both gender, it should be called Gender Equality not feminism. It's just like saying Women empowerment program is to empower both man and woman. Physically completed athletes participate in Paralympics. Male students attend Queen's college. That's very very very very very stupid and nonsensical nonsense.
Abeg we're not fools.

This is one of your groups below. Read their motto.

LilMissFavvy:
You are very wrong. A woman hardly cheats if a man is good looking and rich.

So, you mean all the women that marry good looking and rich men are faithful.

VirginDiva:
Because a dozen slayqueens out there end their facebook and instagram post with #feminism, that doesnt make them one. Why does a strong, independent woman scare you?

You are shifting goal post when you have been hooked in tight corner let me come down your level. Why feminists hate participating in life threatening jobs. I have been expecting Nairaland feminists to go to aso rock and protest for female participation in combating boko haram so that they can prove men and women are equal. Or protest that federal government should order all the soldiers in borno to go back home and send female soldiers to the same war zone so that you guys can prove that what a man can do a woman can do better. If none of you can't do this, then chicken is more brave than you.
If you want equality, don't cherry pick. Fight for equality in all aspects of life. If you you are choosing where to be equal in the society, then you're still proving to us that you're a coward, a weaker sex, and a second class gender. It's obvious that you guys want to enjoy equality without facing disadvantages and disaster that come with it. Since you want equality, then you will have to dump privilege. If you are serious with you feminism, I will advise you to do and and accept what is listed below:
1. Write to UN to change international law that says that Women should not be killed during war to Women can also be killed along side with men since both men and women are equal. If you can achieve this, I will take feminism serious.
2. If war broke out, both adult male and female should be enlisted to go and defend their countries. There shouldn't be Women should stay behind and take care of children while men go to war and die. In this case, women has no reason to stay behind because their competitor (men) are fighting war and women should go with them and show their own fighting skills and techniques in the battle field too.
3. If a ship is sinking, there shouldn't be Women and children should be saved first and the remaining men can fight for survival but it should be Children should be saved first then men and women can fight for survival This should be applicable to any life threatening situations.
If you don't want this and you want equality, unfortunately, you don't deserve equality because equality comes with price, which is privilege. Please choose one and dump one.

VirginDiva:
Not all dont generalize. Most females here dont kn shit about feminism. It means equality dear. Short and simple. Not that its something i can turn off when i please, like my sisters here do. If ure black in a racist white community wont u shout out for equality?

Listen woman, there is nothing like equality. If you believe in equality, then why you and your folks don't protest for female participation in fighting boko haram in borno state because 100% of soldiers fighting boko haram are male. Like wise police force. You can't see female police in check point, female police going for operation, female apprehending suspects. We only see them on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter. "Curviest female police, most beautiful female police, check out this female soldier with curve. Is this the most beautiful female soldier? Check her Instagram page for more pictures".

You guys with your ass down with phone in the comfort of your home and start typing nonsense.

Aufa, simp. To be candid with you, if I were simp like you, I would marry her straight.
Whenever she's going to f..ck one of her yahoo boys, just buy condom and lube then put it in her bag and see her off. Please, make sure you cook for her before she comes back because she might be hungry when she comes back.

tfash96:
Thank God u said playmaker then.. Had it been he's like that of Man Utd Perez would've agreed to him.. But not anymore everybody knows that Ronaldo of Madrid is weaker than Ronaldo of man u so he put himself @ where he could be scoring.Not to dribble like that n so on.. Currently this is what Perez looked at and said it's difficult to be @ d same wage level with Messi


Guy both of them are incomparable how Messi performs on the pitch is not how Aguero does that you can be comparing him with Ronaldo that's an insult on football.. Still looking for who to compare with Messi bkos Ronaldo is far from Messi's world

Ronaldo in Madrid is weaker than Ronaldo of man u and he won 4 world best in real Madrid and He's Madrid all time highest assist. And you said
They shouldn't compare Ronaldo to who? They both win 5 balon d or, they both win champions league and league and they are both contemporary players. Ronaldo even won international trophy more than him. If they can't compare Messi with Ronaldo, then people should be comparing Messi with Rafeal Nadal now.
Mtchew.
Abeg go and sleep.

tfash96:
u are an unrepentant fool I wasn't talking about trophy here but individual performance u can't compare 1 who scores only to one who can do everything... Do you even know what is football

In one sentence tell us here ur own definition of football

Ronaldo has over 240 assists. Please, explain what you mean by he scores only and Messi does everything? You don't even know that Ronaldo played as a RM/LM for at least half of his career. That short video shows a little how he plays as play maker back then. He's the all time player with highest assist in champions league. In LA Liga all time assist, Ronaldo is second behind Messi. He has assist more than xavi and Iniesta combined. So, explain to me what you mean by he scores only.

ericsmith:
You are right my brother @ the same time money can only buy a woman's body i.e you will av are body full time but trust me her heart is somewhere ... from experience my friend stil i had some exes he still bangs even after they married rich dudes.
money is powerful but words do greater magic on women ....the butterflies ,the blushing are all effects of words ...even if everyman hustle we all can't be rich so men should also work on words.

Do you know that if any of your friend's exes married your friend, they would still cheat on your friend with the same rich dudes and with the same reason they left your friend and married the rich dudes if your friend failed to provide for them financially. Unless you want to pretend that rich dudes don't Bleep married women of poor men, which happens every time. Guy, it goes both ways. A woman that will cheat will cheat even if you have both fine face and money together. There are women that have sex with less attractive men and are very low in terms of financial status than their husbands because of their husbands travel a lot or busy with work. Those women have sex with gatemen or drivers. So, what are you going to say about that?
A woman that will cheat will cheat and all she has to do is to look for excuses or reasons to do it.

HealingHeart:
I want to comment again about this money issue because a lot of men and women seem hung up on it. These men(including me) have been lied to all their lives. They were told that women love the 'rich gentleman'. And all their lives, they struggle to improve their finances and personalities hoping that they'll find THE WOMAN.

Many of these men end up frustrated. Because it takes time to become rich. When they become rich, they end up attracting gold diggers. The gold diggers find the men unattractive or ugly but cannot reject them because of their wealth. So they enter into relationship with them.

The repercussion of this is a feeling of dissatisfaction, detachment & unfulfillment by the gold diggers. Any relationship where one partner feels dissatisfied will not prosper.

As a man, once a woman doesn't find you physically attractive, no amount of money can build a prosperous relationship with her.

Op. A girl once said that she will prefer crying in G wagon than laughing while flying Okada. 98% of women in Nigeria will choose oshomole that worth millions of dollars over your good look that worth 50 thousand naira because she knows that dating oshomole will secure the future of hers and children. She knows that she can tour to any country she wants, ride any cars she wants and poverty won't locate her children. Mind you, not every woman that marries a man because of his money that cheats.
Man sexual attraction is based on 50% of his look and 50% of his financial status. But in Nigeria the poverty capital of the world, man sexual attraction is based on 85% of his financial status. If a woman settles for your poor ass in this age, that means the guys hovering around her are in the same pocket range with you. If she's lucky to see a man that can use all your net worth to buy a perfume for her, she won't think twice before leaving you.
My brother, if you like fine pass handsome, you will just be scouting beautiful women for rich potbelly men to marry.
So, guy, go and make money and stop rubbing make up. Get fit not because you want get pu..sy, but you want to stay healthy.

That was Ronaldo when he was a midfielder. Back then his dribbling no be here.

HealingHeart:
This is not true. Can you solemnly swear that Oshomole or Ned Nwolo's wives are not gold diggers? If your babe is physically attracted to your looks, she won't leave you for a less attractive millionaire. Unless you are just terribly too broke and she needs to settle and start a family.

So, you mean all those girls that marry muscular guys don't cheat.
Na potbelly guys go de nack your wife for money in hotel if you are broke. Go work for hotel and see how those big men de nack people's wives steadily.
Just de dia make nicker de wear you.

HealingHeart:
When they meet you, they'll look at your face first, then your body. If they like what they see, they'll be attracted to you. Of course, if they are in a hurry to settle down, your financial status may hurt your chances with them.

Let's be frank, money is important in a relationship. But you need to have the looks that attract women, otherwise you're no different from a sugar daddy.

Look kor lukaku ni.
Tell that to osho baba and Ned Nwoko. If you like fine pass Ramsey Noah and Michael Majid combine, na person wey oshomole fine pass go colet your babe with sexy and handsome pocket.

ubunja:
AKA the Landing Gear.

My guy na captain save the Hoe. He's a hero.

She don chop life with different guys within the two years and those guys don move to another fresh and young chick. Now, she fall back on with that guy as a last resort.

She use my guy as generator when nepa take light.

If you like get rainbow color, as long as you get money, girls go they rush you. Last last, na money be fine Bobo.

Jozzy4:
Compare the above with your earlier comment below



So who are the jobless men and poor ones cheating with ? That's my question

If women doesn't follow men who don't have cash, How come a poor man cheat ?

Please stop it. You want to use logic to kill her.
All her arguments are just invalid because her deductive reasoning is very low. Obviously, there is no filter in her brain.

truthsayer009:
I think reduction in 25% is really beneficiary sha. More supply of women less than demand means good guys like us can now marry atleast 4 women.

Glory be to God.

Five keh abi 30 wives. Men population no reduce for najia men still de marry 4 to 5 wives. Just imagine if men population reduce to 25%, govt will have to make sure that each man maries 20 wives at least.

mtchew. The same govt released boko haram members that killed thousands of soldiers and civilians under the guise of repentance. The same govt gave fulani terrorist radio station and trying to give them land for killing thousands of people and raping women all over the country.

your mouth de smell slap.

You just received the award of "fool of the century".

bisisho:
Thank you very much. Na me do oversabi dey ask for dollar Africard. Didn't know that PayPal does the conversion already.

It seems like you're earning a lot using PayPal or from qa for requesting dollar card because you are going to be charged 20$ if you want to withdraw from atm or do any transactions.

plaindealer:
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you and your friend are free to start your own Boko Haram thread and discuss your love for Boko Haram till eternity.

Aridin

Your God, Buhari, is a terrorist.

plaindealer:
Your username and your post have the same thing in common, lame and thoughtless.

Abegi, answer him. Because the last time I checked, the federal government is releasing repentant boko haram that have killed thousands of innocent people, hundreds of soldiers, kidnapped and raped minors, and destroy properties worth billions of naira. The federal government still pardon them after committing loads of atrocities.

This is incest