According to Zombies, "They are doing revolution instead of protesting and that's why police is arresting them".

jesmond3945:
fine life no balance but what guarantee that if joeboy invest on his brother, the brother go blow. You see guys don't knowwhat people pass through to blow. Lack of sleep, eating less, stress, collecting insults, even near death experience and when you have made it. One person in the name of brother will wake up and claim your wealth. When Joe boy what's sleeping in the studio where was his brother?

Just imagine every one has this kind of mentality, obviously, you yourself won't see favour from people that in position to help you because they will be saying that "I've passed through a lot to get to this position".
I no say someone don do you favour before. Now, imagine they have this kind of mentality, where will you be? Ask yourself this question, will joeyboy himself will be in this position if no one helped him?
The likes of Cristiano Ronaldo, Bill Gate etc, have been through a lot before they get to the top, but that doesn't stop them from helping family and people around them.

The ladder that you will step on before you get to the top are people you see around you. They are not God or angels that are going to come down from heaven to help you. Hardly can you see someone that'll be successful on his own without the help of human beings.

If your can't help your closest family when you get rich, it'll do a lot of good to your family and the soceity for you to remain poor.
Sometimes money will finish, but the closest people to you: your brothers, sisters, parents will still be around.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Oh yes.
Your own dey come claim am?

Sorry, that's public property. It's going to be crowded because it's cheap, so I'm not going to near the coochie.

Sorry, count me out.

Ladyhippolyta88:

7

Awwwn. This is so nice. From different fathers?

Ladyhippolyta88:

Na you be the bastard.

E concern you?Is it your table

Since you see nothing wrong in what the lady did, then yours is about "how many": So, how many bastard kids are you bringing to the table?

Ladyhippolyta88:

You are not my husband so e nor concern you.
I nor even fit marry man like that self because I am.also bringing to the table and my name must dey.
Mr & Mrs or Ms.
I only pity the mumu that will agree to that with you.Well that is definitely not me

You mean you are bringing bastard child to the table too like the lady you are supporting.

SPDAZZY:
Wow! Just Wow!!

Has anyone ever considered why one of the ladies returned with a changed attire? What if she was stained or something caused her to go home and change?

How would you feel if you return and someone has taken your seat in a place with few seats and lots of people were outside. Did it not occur to the guys that haven seen lots of people outside, that it wasn't a miracle to find empty chairs?

OP, you too didn't try. Why didn't you avert the plenty talk and subsequent fight by informing the guys that the ladies were there earlier? But you could intervene when the matter was already out of control.

That said, the ladies could have resolved it better and not fight despite their frustration. I believe that the guys would have given up the seats if they originally belonged to someone they know was stronger than them. They obviously felt the ladies were not strong enough to challenge them.

I understand you better. Even if the ladies left the sits and returned home permanently, no one should sit on it because those girls are world presidents.
As you know yourself, it's an event. So the moment you left your sit without leaving anyone to guard it for you, just know your sit might be taken or changed to another place before you came back since it's not a reserved sit for a special guest.

It's common sense.

According to your logic, a guy that has not deflowered a girl deserves a virgin because he's not reducing their number.

CaveAdullam:
I can't believe my eyes......ubunja is back....lol

They don't understand women's dual mating strategy. So, let the simps keep on wailing.

Simps giving advices........o my goodness

A woman can be church girl or no sex relationship with one guy, whereas na p0rnstar to one bad guy. The mumu first guy go think say he don get wife material.

It's very common. Women hehn, Fear them.

Joshkouture:


What are you saying please?

The person I quoted understand it.

LadySarah:


I'm amazed.
We were in our 4th yr in the Uni when my roomies bro abroad started pressuring her to help him find a wife, particularly one from the health field.

Yrs later I would understand.

The thing just de funny to me. How many village girl de do SSCE talk more of passing it?
No be the same village girls come cities de do housemaid? How many of them can even construct two sentences together in English?

Most girls going to USA from Nigeria to study nursing are well learned and experienced person. Some people that have in the system find it hard to pass the nursing, na one village girl that can't speak anything aside her dialect will pass it.

Why would someone gamble with more than $20,000 to $30,000 to sponsor a village girl that has no experience in health field, whereas there are more than hundred of thousands of girls in health field that have higher percentage of passing the course in Nigeria.

The man will leave the girls in the health field that are expericed in health care and spend thousands of dollars on girl that cannot even spell chloroquine. Abeg, what kind of stupidity is that?
Nursing in USA has become a joke to this people.

It seems like their own "village girl" has different meaning.

kizyalex10:
thats the curse of staying abroad,once u relocate eh,it will be like ur facebook has entered friend request default,girls will flood ur facebook especially nurses advertising themselves,u will mistake that for love, but they re only looking for escape route to poverty ,u will see a local nurse eliza that u will manage to bring out from obscurity use ur hard savings to train her to a qualified nurse amd when she is done then she will remember that she is earning more than u or u re a cab driver or security etc nd overnight d same quiet innocent girl turna a tiger trying to devour you,calling d shots here nd there all in an attempt to fustrate ur life for divorce,and once u divorce her,she moves on with another man and with ur little peanut u still pay child support nd she enjoy free dicks while u pay nd with ur meager money,u cant afford to have another relationship or marriage.if u leave them in Nigeria out of d fear i stated above,most will still use ur hard earned money,nd d fleet of cars nd house u left for them behind to flirt with fuckboys ,and if they re brainwashed very well, they might even kill u on arrival nd elope with their lover.such is d curse of people living abroad,it takes only a God fearing woman which is very scarce in our country to get such a woman dat will be humble nd reciprocate all d sacrifice u sacrificed for her

The problem is that woman hardly reciprocate sacrifice a man made for her. If you like cut your flesh and start selling it to pay for her school fees, apartment, feeding, that won't stop her from leaving you.
Is it not the same Nigeria a guy will see a girl through a university and after she graduates, na dumping things.

I read a story of a guy that sponsored her girlfriend that has no ambition of going to tertiary institution because her parents are very poor. He started sponsoring her through SSCE till she graduated. She even gained admission to the same university the guy went to. But after the girl graduated, the girl japa with one rich man for her town and marry him.

The guy go wan run mad sha.

If you like make you de sell your blood to feed a girl thinking that she sees your sacrifice, she no see anything, na only you de see your own sacrifice.
Na your family go be the only one to see the sacrifice you make for them.

This is what most men don't understand.

EgunMogaji2:


Folks it’s possible and I’ve seen it happen.

Nigeria holds people back. That dunce village girl will most certainly thrive in the USA academically.

Informal nursing schools liter the USA and they churn out nursing assistants regularly. If a nurse gets into my ex company like that then in six months they’ll start paying for her schooling.

Don’t underestimate the opportunity that living in a sanish society provides.

Like I’ve said I’ve seen it first hand, personally.

Even every lady that's doing nurse in USA is a village girl, especially if a man brings her to USA.

They drink zobo.

RTSC:

This foolishness is not restricted to village women.

Someone that can come to America and become a Nurse in a short time is not a village woman.

You de mind them. Dem think say nursing course na social study that one village girl with just SSCE will come do and pass am like that.

ImaIma1:


You can go to sambisa yourself to deliver that message.

I went to Command and naturally, the friends I grew up with were children of soldiers/officers. It didn't stop some of them from being close to their children. In fact one of them who lost her dad in the plane crash en route Obudu was exceptional. That man was so close to his children. It was pleasant to watch.

So please use another analysis. It has nothing to do with the profession. Even when soldiers goes on peace keeping missions to Sudan or elsewhere, they still come back home.

Choosing to spend time with family/children is a personal thing.

Don't worry...I won't hiss

I quote you because you are comparing men's job and women's job as if they are the same thing and belittling men's job in the society.
Let me ask you again, the jobs I listed earlier, which job can you confidently do for a day?

ImaIma1:


What of in the case where the mother also brings in money for the house, has busy working hours also like the man and still finds time to spend with the children?

The issue is not time. When something matters to you, you will make time for it.

Does your work take up ALL your time? No time at all to hang out with friends, watch soccer, press phone. Or you are working Monday till Sunday from dusk till dawn?

How come mums don't give these excuses. My relative that has been a banker for over 20 years is closer to the children than her husband that has flexible work hours. Time is not the issue.

It's not about time at all. It's personal. It is interest. As long as it is important to you, you will make out time. It is not rocket science.

You can tell that to soldiers in sambisa that have been there for more than three years and may end up getting killed without seeing their family.
I'm pretty sure if you happened to be the kid of a soldier that's has been fighting in borno for years, you will hate him for not bonding with you while spending his money.
They are some pictures of soldiers being slaughter, packed like sardine that has been circulating the internet. You know that they are human too, but you are here stylishly belittling their work. Their kids can hate them for not bonding with them. Their father put their lives on the line so that they can live a good life. I'm pretty sure you will hate your father in this situation.

The tissue paper and a piece of paper you use daily, I don't think you know how it's made. Some men sleep in the forest for months dragging out log of woods and they do this to feed their families.

Abeg come do Jackman for sawmill make you dey roll timbers weigh 200kg and above from morning till night or make you offload timbers from a truck; if you can do any of this jobs for 1 minute without ending in hospital or die, you should be given national award. But you are here on the internet belittling men's work in the society.

Mtchew.

Corruption everywhere

ursullalinda:



The painful thing is that some people might not even have asked the girl in question out.......we are handling a case now........a girl of 8yrs sent an innocent man to prison.......the man is question never had anything to do with the girl.......they are neighbours and the mum wanted to get to the man for not noticing her advances and used her daughter to lie.......her brother who is a top police officer took it up and got justice for the niece not knowing the whole thing was a set up.......After 5yrs in prison........the girl who is 13 now told her uncle the truth because her mum is late and she said she is feeling guilty.......this whole rape thing is confusing.

You can read the full story on Twitter. It was the girl that asked him out and he turned her down, then she accused him of non-physical assault. Before you know, Twitter people, especially Twitter feminist don add petrol to the fire.

RuddyFusion:


God The Father

Jesus is God, but he's crying to God the father, which is a separate entity. So, God the father is more powerful than God the son that means we are having two Gods or are you referring to Jesus as God the father.

In Mathew chapter 6:9, he teaches his disciples how to pray: "He said unto them, Our father in heaven". If Jesus came down from heaven, then who is his father that's still in heaven?

Another example that Jesus is far from being God.

Luke chapter 18:18-19. A certain ruler asked him, " Good teacher , what must I do to inherit eternal life?"
Why do you call me good?" Jesus answered. "No one is good--except God alone.

If Jesus is God, who is he referring to as the only entity that's is good, even he himself, Jesus, shouldn't be called good.

Jochabed

Jochabed:
For our SAKE GOD became flesh, so it's expected. And yea, he slept while he was on earth.

God left heaven and came to earth because there was too much heat in heaven. Abi?

But Mathew 27:46 says; About three in the afternoon Jesus cried out in a loud voice, "Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?" (which means "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?".
A whole God crying to another God.
Abeg, which God was Jesus crying to?

tehilah92:

My dear, u don't judge, u were not in her past.
OP if u love her, go ahead, she is sincere, u didn't discover from anyone, she opened up, she is a good woman

Because the guy will still discover. There's no way she would be able conceal that for life. 2 kids and 2 fathers, any of them can show up at the guy's house at anytime. It's not abortion that doesn't involve anyone.

She'd have been a good woman if she had opened up before they start dating, not after the guy is almost hooked up. Do you know what she might reveal to him again after their marriage?

DIVINEEVIDENCE:


Pesin wen you done kpsnsh finish?

And you yourself didn't discover that worth enough to marry her?

Simps allover the place!

I swear. Just imagine someone choosing friendship over marriage, a male friend over her husband. She de threaten the guy say she go cancel the wedding because of friendship.

That guy should be given medal of honor for being a weakling.

Chai.

Toluobaeko11:
You see those Wild dogs, I fear them die. They're thugs, and they operate in unison and they're hard to defeat. They always chases Tigers, Lions, and Cheetahs away and collect their foods.
Chai! I love NAT GEO WILD��

Hardly can you see them being killed or chased unlike the hyenas and Lion because they don't hunt in pack, they hunt in community. You can see like 20 to 30 of them at once.

Queenslander:
N7 million? Wow, isn't that excessive?

The money was used to take care of her emotional, spiritual, and attentional needs, but not for her material needs like some people would say.

Lucrativress:

See what you just said "barely know"
I think the answer is right in these word's
This would surely make me know how to answer
Never forget even wise men have their stupid time's it doesn't still stop them from being wise

I understand you jare. You'll even give him the name of the guys you have slept with self.

The guy will be like...

Lucrativress:

If I wish to answer him,I'll answer him,if I wish to ignore,I'll simply ignore,ko faja
Edit:
If I wish to lie,I'll lie
Ko letoyen

Hmmm. And the question does not sound stupid to you and won't annoy you for someone you barely know to ask that.

Again; social media>>> reality.

Lucrativress:

Which social media
We should have had a physical rapport or at least a friendly dealing before you just come out to say "I like you"
Kini
Is it like that guys behave,like just like that, you know a lady now now,next thing is,I like you,then really why are you now complaining?

Yeah, I understand you. You can even answer him if he asked, "If you are not a virgin, then how many guys have you fvcked?"

Lucrativress:

Simple
I'd know the kind of guy I'm willing to share my status with on the first date,if it's one that is unserious or I might be in danger with a simple question for question or ignoring, if it's one I'm comfortably okay with his morales and attributes a direct answer will come out,kinide ,
Being blunt is not a crime,the intention of the question is what you should try to know

Social media>>> reality.

Lucrativress:

So when a "well-to-do girl" decides to ask that same question, what should now happen?

Unless she's handicap and she needs someone to carry her arround, take her to toilet, spoonfeed her, wash her clothes, then that question has another mean.
Assuming on your first date with a guy, how would you feel if the guy ask you, "Are you a virgin?" Or you go on a job interview and you asked, "Can you afford me?" How does that sound to you?
As I said before, no well-to-do girl will ask that question because the question is one of the FAQs of olosho.

Lucrativress:

The guy that went to meet a Slay Mama would surely know who he is going for before asking that question
A guy that went to meet a serious minded successful Lady or at least progressive Lady would also know before he goes to ask
So tell me,already knowing these two qualities and the same question comes from these two Ladies, se he'll just jump all at once and say ah no o,fine the question doesn't denote care or thoughtfulness of the man's feelings but it can still be asked.

Serious minded lady won't ask this question. This question is one of the FAQ of olosho or undercover prostitute, or a girl that see relationship as poverty alleviation program or job opportunities. Na them de collect monthly allowance from there boyfriend. Any girl that ask that question, the next day na billing go follow, like 5000 registration dating fee. The question is 100% undertone with money because 99.9% of girls that ask thus kind of question always see relationship as poverty alleviation program. There's no two ways to that question, "Can you take care of me?" It's all about money.

No well-to-do girl will ever ask that question.