₦airaland Forum

Fountainofyouth:
How can a human being be this slow, so class can only be what you were assigned in secondary school, smh!!!

Sirvingeo:
She is insane . What does that lady possess, she is even poor from her statement . Assuming she is financially buoyant it would have been a different case .pot calling kettle black

Fountainofyouth:
Some guys just don't know their class, always go for your class to avoid savagery like the one above.

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
very good move by ugwuanyi
at least those jobless Ipob miscreants will be employed now and stop following kanu.
unemployment and Ipob followers will reduced by 10%.
I commend the kerosene distributor to follow suit because it will help reduce the level of crime perpetrated by Ipob hooligans in Aba.
Since there are no IPOB graduates as majority of them have first school leaving certificate and few have waec. this job will perfectly fit them

SillyMods:
Unintelligent thing, we are far civilized to know how to deal with politicians who have failed to deliver on their promises. In a democracy, it is by voting them out and a typical example is what you saw with OTOGE treatment given to Saraki. Ambode was equally denied a 2nd term for failure to perform. We are not your mates when it comes to being tact and calculative. We are not vagabonds like the IPOB terrorists. We are poles apart.

Tinubu is indeed an enigma that Yorubas are proud of. If you like, choke yourself to death on his matter.

emmnprince:
Who told you? You sounded as if you've cohabited with him for some years. From the look of things, the guy is saving and investing his hard-earned money while he put modalities in place.

michoim:
The fact is that why do you steal at all? Before the question of fall out with them or not.

Michellekabod2:
Firstly,am just reading this, didn't run away.
Secondly, I was never aware that occurs over there,I am based in Nigeria and pansopist is based abroad.

That is really not cool I will say, I don't endorse that. Issuing of ID cards, driver's license should not be based on gender.

How many times have you fought for women that you are calling me now? How many injustice against ladies have you fought?
At least following my threads, you will realise I have addressed issues that affect men. But have you addressed issues that affects ladies?

No matter what you views are on feminism,it doesn't change it. Your opinion based on experiences with some wannabe feminists doesn't change the definition of feminism. Calling a goat a hyena doesn't make it a hyena

pansophist:

How is it fair that in some countries, men have to complete conscription before they can get a drivers license, state ID, vote while women just get it on the basis of being women ? Why do they only fight for top jobs and not the dirty ones? Why even though many earn more than men, will hardly marry men poorer than them?

JONNYSPUTE:
Ladies don't marry single fathers on social media but for real life,na ladies dey rush single fathers.lol.

FCBboy:
I love that, the earlier guys start treating them like trash the better.

Even God is tired of what Nigerian girls have become.

freethinker01:
Tbh, I don't take most female comments here seriously, they just collectively decide to be mendacious, live in self denial and intellectually lazy. They're not worthy to be taken seriously, what they say here is definitely not in tune with what's going on in reality.

freethinker01:
I don't know whether it's emotion that clouds the way most women reason or they have impaired cognitive. I know of at least five single fathers that and they're married personally. Don't know which planet all these ones come from.

oyatz:
The question is WRONG.


It should have been;

Why are Ladies scared of dating BROKE Single fathers.

MobilityExpress:
This is the most hypocritical question ever on Nairaland. Nigerian girls will date anybody that has money, or big abula, or both. And most Nigerian girls don't have much to offer besides sex, so they come to the dating negotiating table as handicaps and beggars. If Nigerian girls can date criminals, thieves, ritualists, armed robbers, cultists, yahoo boys etc, then why won't they date a single father? Nigerian girls that date married men, mtshewwwww, na single fathers go come hard dem to date ? You guys commenting here should continue deceiving yourselves. Go on social media, see Nigerian girls shouting "zaddy" with pride, some dey even date their ancestors, like Regina Daniels .

sofiscatedmoron:
This question is invalid, ladies date any man as a long as the man can deliver,
Ladies have no choice though , they even date married man, so this question doesn't count

Liftedhands:
Every man will become second, third, fourth, fifth place! depending on the number of kids he father's in his woman's life once kids are involved. No wife places her husband above her children! NONE.


The only time a man remains number one is during courtship and before children startcoming
So don't deceive yourself, every man will eventually become second place after his children whether biological or adopted

Offpoint:
oh my poor mom, she owns a provision shop then and human rats keeps eating her matches from November down to January


I was like a godfather to all the neighborhood kids cuz I supplied matches.
They looked up to me like some god, a Mafia head... They do my chores and pay dues and homepage. The guy with the highest matches controls the neighborhood, my backyard was the meeting grounds, filled up with all types of locally made "Knöckers" and I was the suppliers of "gunpowder", I even had a an illegal local company that produces the "Knockerout-pistol"

I controlled my entire neighborhood and have links with other heads/godfathers from distance and nearby villages.
No kids dare "Shoot" this knöcker in my compound, either in my presents or absence. I have soldiers watching 24/7 and there are consequences for whoever dare me.

I miss those days kids looked up to me like I was some god.

cooooooks:
There's nothing wrong in being a single mother and there's nothing wrong in dating or marrying one.

However, don't expect them to be more mature or experienced or understanding. Treat them like as though they were single and not yet mothers.

Furthermore, you have to consider their kid(s). You should be ready to take care of them as though they were yours.

SOFTENGR:
How old are you?
At your age you still believe propaganda?
I may not like Sowore, but the truth must be told - high handedness of our security agents need to stop.
Can't they investigate without detaining a "suspect"?

BlackSaints:
And once you are married to a virgin then what? what stops her from fvcking around or sending her nudes to different men or even engaging in gangbangs while she's in your house? in case you didn't notice, Nigeria women are the most promiscuous women in the world. They fvck around a lot, and 80 percent of these women are married women.

So marrying a virgin is not the solution. What the solution is, work hard make enough money then marry a foreigner

My two kobo.

bentwood85:
Sex is meant for women... They enjoy it more than men...
I am yet to see a man who can handle four (4) sexually active ladies in a day, but women can do that.

akinade28:
The lady deserves some accolades. I salute her courage and boldness
As a fellow lady, I can never ever try this.
What happen if guy rejects me or isn't interested
I will literally die of embarrassment

franchasng:
I do not expect any overzealous strange guy to go helping my sisters, if I ever catch you, I won't even take it lightly with you because you may end up being beaten or shot secretly, so be careful not all ladies you see need your pretentious help.

If you want to help, help people who are truly in need not just random ladies u are planning to bed in future.

If you want to help, start a business startup fund raising for small business startups targeting youths from poor or disadvantaged family backgrounds.

You can start a program to be paying widows in your Church monthly or annually.

You can visit hospitals, a lot of patients are dying because they cannot afford healthcare bills, help them pay their hospital bills.

Visit inmates in various prisons donate food and drugs to them.

Do same for motherless children homes.

We also have aged people homes that need your help.

Leave ladies alone. Stop pretending to be a good Samaritan when you alone know you have ulterior motive to achieve in future by helping ladies.

If you care to know, I run a foundation that does some of the aforementioned things, and I am working hard to expand my reach so more people in need can benefit from it but you see all these selfish wicked ladies expecting guys to splash money on them for free, I cannot give to them, never because they are selfish, and wicked.

My Reason:
If ladies were in guy's shoes, they won't help. I cited examples for you with our ladies living abroad and even those doing well financially in Nigeria, they don't help guys, so learn from them.

I use to be selfless to ladies but I realized ladies are cunning, selfish and wicked. They don't help guys as much as guys help them, it is bad, I can't condone it.


You can continue with your largesse Mr nice man

4ckz:
The lady in question came, bearing sex in mind. Doesn't that tell you that, there might be some other thing she can do to raise the money, but like most ladies do, she narrowed her life line down to prostitution.
Yes prostitution I say, bcoz she was willing to offer sex for money.

When guys find themselves in situations like this, they look for all other alternatives, or at least borrow.

Yes, since the lady is working, she could have come to the guy to lend her money, and she would pay in a later date.
Have you thought of that? Of course not, you are among the "most ladies" looking for the nearest mugu to defraud.

This guy is a serious fool and it's a pity he wants to be applauded for foolishness.