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u didnt hiss back as a reply?

Abekeade08:
kpolli, I am most definitely not heartless, If i were your girl and i cheated on you, be honest would you want to be with me after that?? Where there is no trust there can be no relationship. When trust is lost, a relationship is doomed to fail.

I personally can't be with a man knowing that he has cheated on me.
Look at amyg's response above, unfortunately a lot of my girlfriends in naija think this way. They take all kinds of ish from naija men. Their men will cheat on them and they think its not a big deal. I always wonder why this is, is it because women are generally more dependant on men in naija and they feel they don't have a choice but to keep getting disrespected on a daily basis??.

Well I have my own house and very comfortable job, I pay my own bills, do everything for myself without asking any man or woman for a dime. Also where i live, we have a lot of choices and varities of men from everywhere on planet earth. If a man made the misake of cheating on me, I would kick his backside to the curb, so fast, his head won't even have time to spin, and i would expect the same treatment if i did the same to him.

But to each their own. Naijagirl, goodluck with your decision.

to God who made me, if u were my gf n u told me, i wont dump u, will continue with u but just note the likelyhood of me marrying u is slim, it will be all those cases of ur friend coming to tell u, she just attended my wedding, y werent u the bride,
but seriously i can forgive but for me to trust her again, chai,it wud be really hard, but i certainly wud not dump her

women r heartless, abekeade08 take note,
he confessed on his own, not u finding out,

wat u should do is forgive n not forget i.e. continue but be cautious

tell ur gf this story

do u love her cos she is a virgin?

then he is not quiet,
real quiet ppl dont talk no matter wat

ur fingers r longer than ur koko

cos we know the truth n u dont

haiti don blacklist naija tooo, so visa still hard

do u buy him beer,
starting being interested in guy things (like beer n sports) n he will worship u

do u want the two quiet ppl to just be looking at each other thru out the relationship?

my dog is in heat, n needs a guy this val's, r u interested?

there is nothing wrong,

he has a gf

it depends on the caterers doing the food n if booze is gonna be surplus

chai, igbo girls have done it again

blackship, sorry blacksnip, i understand u, i see lil girls on the streets looking for it everyday, if u wanted to do the 16yr old then ur wrong but if she wants to do u, run

u know a guy is not hard to understand and please, our feelings are always plain but some girls dont know how to read it,
am not a shrink but a simply guy with sense

thats great!!!!!!!

so u still dont get me, he is not shy infront of others, he is shy in front of U,
he is afraid of rejection,
next time start a conversation towards the line of going personal on how u feel abt each other,

guy sleep wit her sister or bffs,
it works

sooooo romantic i kissed myself

is ur bro an extremist muslim?
or is he mutallab?
ahn ahn his own is too much n too old skool,