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What are you expecting us to say? Forgive her??

If you don't love yourself, we can not help you. . . .

Dump the harlott. . . . Don't forgive her

K

Run to the family section. . . . Romance is for the unserious

Mekozoral: @ BALDMAN OMG all dis 4me! I don't know what to say really really short of words, i thought i've rounded up my replies but i have no choice out of my busy schedule 2say thank u, u even went as far as singing 4me, may Almighty God put a smile on ur face just as u did 2me aftanoon, u made me feel like a queen. Nd 2all oda's dat hav taken their time 2read my post, May God visit u dis week specially in jesus name. Thanks.

He aint singing for u, he is singing so ur pants wud remove

190: Should i talk

Talk wise one

Scrutinize what Forget the bytch jor

I bliv in experiment and practicals. . . Pls stay wiv ur gf so we wud know if dreams come true

Women. . . . That's what they do best

Guapo: My girlfriend and I have been dating happily for about 6 months now, but all that is about to change with the appearance of her younger sister on the scene. For the purpose of clarity, I am going to use names (not our real names) for the three main xters- me, my girl and her younger sis. First let me introduce my girl(Lola). She is a very attractive personality with good sense of humour. She is goal-oriented, very spiritual, and respectful. She takes no nonsense from anyone though, and knows how to put people in their places.

As I said earlier on, we have bin dating for like half a year. All dis while, her younger sis(Yinka) was completing her studies in the UK. The family is wealthy, with the father working with a blue chip company on Victoria Island. Number of times I visited her at home in Lekki were I met her mom- a business woman and only couple of times I saw her dad cos of his busy schedule. I must say the family is very accomodating. They were happy to meet Lola's new friend. All d while, Lola had bin telling me a whole lot about her younger sis in d UK, and she always say that I would like her person.

A month back, Yinka came back home from England and Lola asked me to come over to meet her at home. I got there late in the afternoon as dinner was bin prepared. Lola rushed out to give me d usual hug n peck nd behold Yinka coming through d main door. I was lyk " is that your sis- Yinka?" She said yes, and introduced her to me- " hey Yinka come over and meet ma sweet hrt Bayo". We shook hands and I guess it was the longest handshake I have ever received. She appeared to be stunned as she kept looking at me. I dismissed any idea coming to my head as Lola ushered me in. I had dinner with the family excluding the busy Dad. I culd hardly eat as Yinka kept us busy wit stories while looking me in the eye, she is d animated type, full of life. It was time to leave and Yinka decided to come with Lola to see me off. Wen we got to d car, I recvd d usual hug n peck from Lola but d surprise package was that Yinka did d same thing. Lola simply chuckled and said "yeye girl". I drove off recounting the drama that just played out.

The next weekend, the Dad had time to take d family out. I was invited to join d family in d picnic. I culd not meet up with them at home cos of my engagements, so I missed the cinema, mall, and d visit to the eko atlantic showroom. But I was able to join them at the beach after several calls. I located d family and apologised for bin late, I remember the Dad's words- "hey Son! Wat took u so long?"I was shockd at d level of familiarity and was happy too. I mumbled some words in reply and they all smiled and d Mum welcomed me. We had a nice time together and took pics.mum n dad went close to d waters, Lola and her other siblings - two guys, went for a walk while Yinka dished ma food. Lola is d free type, not clingy.

The next 20 mins was like an eternity. Yinka and I were alone. She watched me eat and smiled. She is very attractive, average height, dimples, nice curves and sexy voice- enough features to lead a man astray. So she started "you know what Bayo, I have never felt lyk dis before" I listened carefully. she continued "the first time I set ma eyes on you, I felt ma heart skip a beat" I began d sweat ish. "I know u belong to my sis and she loves u very much, but my heart is longing for you". She drew closer, took ma plate of food and dropped it. I culd feel her bo.obs press against my upper arm. Her cleavage is very glaring too. I was becoming subdued until I gained control and acted. I moved her away frm me by her shoulders- very soft. I told her in a low voice "its not possible Yinka, I chose ur sister not you so get used to dat fact". She became sober, but wats ma biz wit dat. I took ma food and finished up while she look on powerless. D others returned, d day ended, I was in traffic on ma way home thinking. So all d thoughts in ma head have bin confirmed.

She got ma number and started a flood of messages professing love for me. It was her second week in Nigeria. I didn't reply any of her text, so I guess she was upset. All d while, I maintained regular calls wit ma love. She doesn't have any idea abt wats goin on. Yinka cald me late in d afternoon on her 3rd week in d country, and requested we meet at a place by d seaside. I honoured her by arriving there as she was waiting.

She was wearing sunglasses and culdnt see expression on her face. Her message was brief. "Watsup Bayo, its bin a while" "u didn't reply any of ma sms, why?" U are not asking me dat question or are u? I replied. She chuckled with a great degree of confidence and said "bayo, I will never live to see u in someone else's arms, not even my sister. I waited so long for someone as complete as u, my wait is over Bayo." I became annoyed and said "is it by force! I am not in love with you! Go find someone else" she then dropd d bombshell, "u av two choices Bayo, its either u are mine or u forget ever knowing my family. I love my sister, and I want the best for her but I can't stand seeing a man I love in her arms." She threw her braids back nd bid me a fearsome bye. I hate too much of confidence in girls, its a threat to me. She said I'll be hers in no time. Lola once said that if her sister wants sumfin, she knows how to get it. Am I about to see firsthand d truth in this statement?

I av bin thinking about this for a whole week now. Its like a dream I want to wake from. I thought some things only happen in movies. A girl as beautiful as Yinka is fighting shamelessly over me. Her sis and d parents knows nothing about this. My family knows nothing yet. What is the way out for me? I don't want to lose Lola or I'll break down. Help me! This is a current issue

Simple help Yinka find a man. . .

opcomm1: Hello,

I am Nigerian but I am now beginning to hate Nigerian girls. Maybe the ones here in Canada. They are so full of shit. They are all full of big shit and leave you heartbroken.

I am never, ever going to date a Nigerian girl anymore. All my ex-girlfriend's female friends are cheaters. Spreading their legs wide open to any dick that portrays any level of seduction.

Please, guys, before it's too late, stay away from these so called Nigerian girls. They are heart breakers and dont even know the meaning of love.

Happened three times now, time for me to become a player.

Feels so good to be single again even if my heart hurts. (*sobs*)

We both on the same level now

But me I dey Okokomaiko

Forget about her

obasijoy: Y r u still single, after playing games and enjoying yourself, you now need a good fearing christian for marriage, do you think you can have true love for your wife at this age? I think you need a single mum like me, though I will be 25yrs by next month. I am experienced and I need a matured guy to hook up with, if you are interested just mail me obasinora@yahoo.com

You would make a great marketer

So while ur mates were looking for husband, u were on study leave. . . .

michelin89: So you wouldn't mind dating a girl even though you dislike her friends with a passion?

I won't

Dipwater: Its just like the slut topic,broda dem no dey write am 4 face. My question is how many correct guys went thru the universities in this pissed off cuntry dat didn't involve in cultism. Answer very few. But the issue of killing and robbery is way too much my guy. My advice to those cultist still in skull ,dem no dey carri am 4 head o. Alway apply wisdom in evri thng u do ,don't over do thngs

Speak for urself, but majority of us didn't join

coolestboy: There is this babe in my hostel whom i never knew that she's been watching and stealing glances at me. She always want to help me in washing plates, clothes, sweep, even to grind pepper on several occassions, but i never allowed her because i always want to do things myself, why because, i will never feel pleased when u help me with all domestic works. In a nutshell, she came to me yesterday asking who was the babe who visited me some days back, and i told her that she's friend, then she started with 'a friend of her was interested in me and i asked her who that was, she went in to bring her pics. she asked many question on behalf of this friend of hers in picture and i was gobsmacked. I can't believe she's asking me out because (1) she,s older than me (2) within a compound(compound love) (3) i know her fiance.

PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO?[color=#000099][/color]

Run

Kslib: Well,i think majority of them like to be fuck3d....
Few like to be loved(u might not understand).......
Some like to be fuck3d and loved......
Some mistake f*uck for love........
conclusion: Many of them love to be f*ucked, even when they know there is no love.... It happens everywhere not only in naija

You should write a book

We plenty wey girls don show this period. . .

Bros, Lemme give u one advice. . . I schooled in unilag, I lived in the area for decades, those girls are promiscuous. . . She has started losing her way, let her be. . . Her eyes would open but probably in her final year

Cheda: Yahoo doesnt involve ur physical presence,419 does,
Yahoo involves tools like scampage,smtp,login etc.
Armed robery involves d use of destructiv weapons such as guns,knife,matchet,etc u get it now bro?

Experience

False

Until u bring another girl from the bar go house, her mindset go change

This OP is a chronic cheater

See why I always said BB isn't for everyone

190: we Nigerian Guys simply dont understand how EVIL our girls are

i wish we knew better

GBAM

Sugardiva: pls explain d explanation. Im curious.

You know how very big bouncers are called "Tiny". . . Same way a non-smoker like me is called "Kpolli"

Just a nickname from Uni days that has stuck to me

Another useless thread by a female. . . When would they learn

The level of infidelity and non-appreciation from chicks these days is alarming. . . . As I said to my friends "Girls do not deserve good guys"

Your boyfriend is a hypocrite scammer, who wants to eat outside but still have u at home. . . Dump him

mine has an explanation

From my recent experience I would agree but I won't let another bad egg spoil my taste buds. . . . So I don't agree