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He likes you. . . Let me make it easier

Would you "sweetlemon" be {Insert the guy's name here} girlfriend?
He likes you very much, after his family is you. . .

kindabigg: But I love this girl to death.. Why do you think she's going to hurt me?

Ogbeni, please stop só bé

You obviously don't know the meaning of what you just typed here. . . I know a guy like u n secretly wish u r the one, so I can know that God is watching. . . . You played up and down, wrecked other girls hearts (cos I can assume you have been banging girls up n down). . . You now want to settle with the one that took ur shitt the most. . . . Truth is that u probably deserve to marry her cos if she was dumb enough to take ur shittt for this long, then she is dumb enough to marry u. . . But truthfully, if you really have any feelings for her, let her go. . . She is not the one for you, cos from day one, ppl always know when they have met the one. . . . We both know, if she takes u back u wud still eventually cheat on her so save us a topic next year and let her move on

slimyem: you dont deserve her!
Let her go and find someone who does and lick your wounds thereafter!
Serves you right!
I hope she finally finds the will to walk away...for good!

The very truth

check ur other post, i answered u there jor

she is cheating on that guy with u. . .

domwas2: Thanks for always being there in time of decision making...lol now here i am again

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Firstly, Does dating a lady means you have to be in charge of paying for her feeding allowance?

Secondly, the lady in question visits his boyfriend/fiancee any day of her wish, hardly will she help her boyfriend/fiancee to do some washing, and when she was asked to, she will tell her boyfriend/fiancee .
At least just to be helpful in the house. Sometime, i found out even when the lady was around the guy is always in the kitchen fixing breakfast or lunch, I noticed the lady is kind of lazy ass.

But for me i thought when a lady visited her boyfriend/fiancee home she should be able to help in the house by washing the guy's clothes, cook and other while in this case giving the lady money or anything she asked for won't be a problem. i have no experience please help me on how it works

Now the guy was asking me last night that his girlfriend never contributed any thing in his life, she comes around on her wish, no washing even when there are lot of clothes to be washed, the only thing she gave him is sex and collection of feeding money (if marrying her won't be a problem) and she is not working...

Then i found out, the guy needs an advice from me on how to handle this situation pls help me...Thanks Room

She sees herself as a prostituute. . .

Well inform (note not ask) your parents, that you are going to marry who you want. That even if it takes time for them to agree, your prepared to wait. . . But never marry a man cos ur parents said so. . . No be them go dey the marriage with you. . . They have lived their lives, live yours. . . . Their excuse is flimsy, not on the same status, does collins plan on being stagnant? n pls tell steph, so he stops putting all his hopes on u. . . (by the way ur evil for what u've done to steph)

I always say a girl should inform her parents of her decision to marry someone and not ask for their permission to marry someone. .

Sweetlemon: If during an argument a guy tells a girl that she's the only one apart from his family that he can take bullshi.t from, what is he trying to tell her pls?

It means he can take bullshi.t from her n his family only. .

Alleinad: recently, as i talked with friends and acquaitances alike,i got scared by the number of ladies who have decided to stay off relationships for a while due to different heart rending stories of what they have suffered in the hands of guys...i thot my case was unique but i see that there are so many ladies going thru worse things than i am. Even lesbians have used this opportunity to lure innocent ladies into such awful act. Guys,wetin we do una? Why are you guys hurting us now at such an elevated rate?? Sleeping with our friends and sisters? Beating us black and blue? Demanding excessive sex and refusing to commit?? We deserve happiness too,our hearts are turning to stone o... Abeg,wetin we do??so that we go amend...

Dear poster, please read posts from February 7th to April 30th. . . You wud realise why men have gone wicked on u guys. . . Its called karma . . . . when u were chopping our money and fading, did u know? I don't think so

coded777: Gents & Ladies,
How do you classify a girl who never demands NOTHING from her boyfriend, say materials or money, not even recharge cards. Could this kind of girl be for real? I mean does this translate to real love or have i misconstrued her concept?

I just cant yet figure out what category she belongs.

She is probably collecting from someone else and doesn't need from u

[quote author=12 inches!]I av been dating her for a little ova a month. It seems so short but it seems like we dated for over a year. We had fun. We enjoyed it. We went out to parks. We ate together. She came to my house a lot. No sex by the way. But then she has a kid (she told me early enuff). I couldn't handle it though I had been trying to. So wen I eventually went to her house I lost it. So we broke up on the fone and I cried a lot that nite. I saw her today and we talked abt it. We smiled. We laffed. I cried. It was my last moment with her and I wanted to make the best of it so I kissed her finally and I had to let her go. Things were complicated enuff alredi. She said she is happy we dated. I'm thankful I met her too. She has changed my perspective abt girls. ***** I miss u. Thanks for making me happy. I wish u a good man and a great future. God bless you.[/quote]There is a function on mobile phones called text messaging. . . That should have been one to her not here

ur ex-gf or wife?

topsquino: I told a girl 3months ago dat i luv her ,and i asked her whether she luvs me too, on d contrary she said NO..BUT funnny enof we are still close as if nothing happen btw us..our friendship is now even stronger dan it were b4..GUYS, DO U FINK DIS GIRL STILL LUV ME....

More like DO U FINK SHE STILL DOESN'T LUV U

Dear poster, if u want all that. Move ur UK bank to naija cos no bank here meets ur spec

Am not a developer but am a tester

But mehn still on manual testing level

https://www.nairaland.com/823866/general-u.s.a-student-visa-enquiries-part2

Is the place to go

coming from a guy, this is a daft question

slimyem: o boy,berra leave your hat on top your head...
Nothing wey we wan take your duff do for hia...
Or betterstill,duff it for yourself!
@topic...
If you want to remain good,fine!
If you want to become a classical player,fine!
Everything has its reward!
Bottomline-na your choice!
End of story!

As slimyem said, become a player

cowgurl: This is indeed a sad tale Johnwell but am sorry to say your friend do not have a choice than to go back to his wife. This is why we all need to be careful when choosing our spouses cos once you are in, you are in.

Which wife Your joking rite??

nitrogen: Different perspectives to these two has may be been part of constituents to many fresh grad's problems (especially nigerian graduates).

A situation whereby when one is through with his/her first degree, the next necessary thing is to go get a job in order to increase one's experience in his or her field. After getting the necessary experience,then you can further your studies.

The other is depicted this way: 'Now, i have a degree(first), since the resources are available, am going for further studies, i dont need related experience to break into the job market because when am through with my studies( maybe to a MBA level), i will break in easily'.

These two stated above has been generating a lot of debates, where different opinions are put forward by different individuals. Please, elaborate on these because it has been a concern to many 'soon to be graduates' and graduates.

Big lie. . . Experience is way better

Dear poster, U strike me as a fooooool. . . . Why r u complaining? So did they tell u that everyone working has 2nd class upper n above? Show what u r made off and have faith in God, a good job will come. . . . See this one complaining of a 3.49

Daftest thread I have read in a while. . . .

Poster u were on point, no mind them

marry him

So one should remain unhappy and maybe killed all because she/he doesn't want a divorce. . . O ma se ooo

smh. . . .

Sanusi is daft

hotmoney: Which of our universities are currently admitting students for masters program?

No matter what, do not do ur masters in Unilag. . . . To be forewarned is to be forearmed. . . .

she is confused and wants to understand someone else. . . Didn't u hear "charity begins at home". . . First understand urself before trying to understand him

Sorry there is no quality that can make any of u Ms. Right. . . . Y'all are too confused to be right

Ozegbe: thats what am asking. HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT? how long will it take? or are there other faster way of getting there?

Well this thread is for student visas not immigrant visas. . . I personally dunno how u can except Visa lottery

Ozegbe: Hi all, am currently doing my NYSC and would like to go and recide in the USA permanently (immigrant visa) after my service. I have two uncles who are married with children there. PLEASE HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT? thanks in anticipation

How do u plan on getting the immigrant visa?

oluface: Hello Nairalander...
Please i need advice concerning my relationship with a girl i am dating...
I have been together with this girl for some time and i am thinking of getting marry to the girl...
Now this is the isssue..
This gurl is a nice gurl.. Good looking
i am a muslim (real muslim).
Everybody knows that both in islam and christainity it is against the will of God for a woman to open her hair to the sky or anywher.. Cox it scare Angel away (For real ). Apart from that.. Anywhere prayer is being offered and a lady hair is being open... No angel will come there to take the request (prayer) to almighty Allah...
Now i have tell this girl several time that i dont like seeing her hair open...
And this is the only thing that cause fight between me and her...
She is not willing to abide by what i told her that i want.. Please what can i do... Before i marry her as a wife

Wrong statement