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Onegai: Here's the situation: you'll leave, but go back, beg, he'll refuse you or take you back and make it all your fault. You'll be hurt, pained, cry, get angry, begin to heal, then move on. Then, he'll show up. Wanting you again and demanding your love.
Your bf knows you're a good girl, and he knows you love him. He's taking you for granted (by flirting openly) but doesn't want to let you go (by seizing your phone n getting pissed at u doing less than half of what he did). He's not ready for commitment. So leave him. He'll prolly run out and chase those girls like mad, while you cry. The minute he suspects you're moving away from him, he'll try and keep your emotions on him. He won't try and come back, but he'll check up on you and play with ur emotions till he's satisfied ur still his and run off again. He'll keep doing so till you vex and leave him. The truth is that you're the right girl at the wrong time in his life. And you cannot move him forward, so let him go. I've been in his situation, and everytime I think of the guy(s) I had, I wonder what demon possessed me to say no to them. If God has plans for both of you, he'll grow up and find you.

fav1: yea sure. gime urs and we'l kick it off from der.
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Onegai: Human beings! I don't know why we exist. This is a sad case of right woman, wrong man. I had the same problem, my salary was even smaller than my ex's, but I was more generous and invested in his future. He would hala over lack of anything, and kept worrying I would blame him if the rel ended. Then he pulled away and when I tried to remove him off my bb or I don't reply his msg, he loses his shi.t. When I try to fix things, he doesn't want to talk.
This man is taking advantage of a good woman. And he's not calling her. Let her stop, don't beg. Pray. Ask God for help. Pastors are not infallible, so they could have misunderstood God's intentions to her. She's proved herself, and it's still not enough for him. Some people cannot accept love when it comes because they're used to rubbish. So let him find her. She's been his blessing, and let her remember, Jacob wrestled an angel for his blessing. I've seen good women end up marrying fellows like this and the man cheats, because he has from Day 1 never been able to appreciate his blessing.[i][/i][size=18pt][/size] Yes, they will cry when you want to leave, the lady I know in this situation, her hubby calls her mum when she wants to leave after 13 years of marriage. But he doesn't want to stop cheating. Let her be careful.

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BolaBankole: @Poster permit me to ask how old you are and what is the age of this guy? It seems yhe is your first guy and you have little or no knowledge of an ideal relationship.you don't need to be told that this is not love but abuse at its peak, I don't want to retorate what other has said but just sit down and think for how long will you continue to live under fear of someone you claim to love, from every indication the same thing this guy is telling you is what his telling others thereby playing on your intelligence. I will advice you to quit the relationship, stay away from the other guy and focus on building your career...when the times comes the right guy will come just like a thief at night and will be the one that will respect your feelings and opinion.

ITbomb: what r they called again?
Fishbrain
Femine stock who cant use their brain

apache77: So, u looked at the other guy's pictures and he wasnt up to u? so u r wondering why she should chose him over you. You are very foolish..dat you've got a better paying job than her boyfriend wont make her love you more. What if you are spending time and money on her? go sidon..you be her mayee naa. You think its all girls that worry about money? maybe you simply dont connect with her core, she sees you aint soul mates, she doesnt necessarrily enjoy being with you with all your 'money'. Maybe you re too boring.

maybe her shabby looking boyfriend makes her laugh more than you do, makes her happier with his personality, even though he is an applicant. So you can imagine how happy she will be with him if he had your money. You do not excite her enough. look for another girl with your personality fit.. Its not always about money, dude

omega25red: you do know that english is not Nigeria's first language right? besides you know what she meant to write.


poster leave that no good bast-ard as soon as possible and i hope your sister is loyal to you