Family › Re: Man Laments After His Wife Refused Him To Bring His Sick Mother To Their Home by kudinkarfe: 12:45pm On Aug 19, 2025 |
Kobojunkie: It is one thing to have your mother visit as a guest for a day or two, but having her over on a longstay or worse, because she is sick, then you need to be upfront and better negotiate her stay and care with your marriage partner. 
Does the man and his wife have space for her during her stay? Will the man be responsible for his mother's care throughout her stay, or is this a ploy to bring in another human burden for his wife to have to deal with? Conversely, the man can easily send his mother to a care home or something where she would be better cared for.  some girls in nairaland can support nonsense. If her husband refuses to care for her other when she is sick, how would she feel? Tomorrow, she too will grow old and might need care. The way she treats her mother-in-law in not good and unethical. |
Politics › Re: Lere Olayinka Reacts After Sule Lamido Said Jonathan Is PDP’s Best Bet For 2027 by kudinkarfe: 12:28pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
flokii: GEJ should not take the bait.. he should remain as elder statesman that he is. 2027 is not same as 2015, a lot has changed. Alot has changed in our political, social, and economic landscape. Yet, GEJ remains a 21st-century leader with the vision, adaptability, and experience to align with these changes. |
Celebrities › Re: Rahama Sadau Weds Ibrahim Garba by kudinkarfe: 12:14pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
Sirleo05: Dis northerners don't believe in one Nigeria. Forget d " we are one" dey say, na for politics and resource sharing hold us 2geda. Which one is "Kannywood"? A country with 2 interest, one 4 d north, d oda 4 d south. Eg, 1, north/ south governors forum 2, northern elders forum and southern elders forum 3, kannywoods and nollywood. Etc Na why regional system go good 4 us, not to harm any region, but expose our weakness and make us stronger, beta and appreciate ourselves more. Bro, your Nollywood productions contain elements such as nudity, sexually suggestive scenes, glamorisation of indecency, and narratives that promote individualistic or feminist ideologies which are at odds with our moral, religious, and traditional values in the Northern. |
Politics › Re: 20 Nigerians On Death Row In Indonesia Are From One South East State – Dabiri by kudinkarfe: 8:57am On Aug 05, 2025 |
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Food › Re: No Matter How Rich You Are, Mention That One Food You Will Always Eat. by kudinkarfe: 10:56am On May 31, 2025 |
Danwake da Mai da yaji |
Education › Re: CAN Threatens Legal Action Over Ramadan School Closures In Northern States by kudinkarfe: 7:27pm On Mar 03, 2025*. Modified: 8:49pm On Mar 03, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Akwa Ibom Who Is Who Visits President Bola Tinubu. by kudinkarfe: 3:36pm On Mar 02, 2025 |
GOFRONT: See Akpabs...........He is not serious........He has gone to Aso villa to beg Tinubu to absolve him from the grip of Natasha Akpoti........He even dash Tinubu a chieftancy title Otuekong1 so Tinubu can call Natasha to order??
Akpabio must resign........He don cast!!!
Preeq be causing the downfall of the greatest of men from time immemorial.... Stop disrespecting an elderly man. Natasha try to drag a honourable man in the mud and you are supporting it. |
Politics › Re: Treat My Wife With Respect, Natasha’s Husband Tells Akpabio by kudinkarfe: 3:24pm On Mar 02, 2025 |
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NYSC › Re: Issue With NYSC Dashboard by kudinkarfe: 1:59pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
Hello, I'm a new corper. I want to register for NHIS but it doesn't appear on my dashboard. |
Politics › Re: Tax Reform Bills Nearing Passage As Senate Committee Finalises Discussions by kudinkarfe: 9:41am On Jan 14, 2025*. Modified: 10:01am On Jan 14, 2025 |
Southerners are supporting tax reform policy based on regional assumptions, however, they will soon realize that the impact will affect everyone, not just the northerners. The same way the northerners voted Tinubu ticket because of advantages for one religion which lead to shege promax consequences that we're filling more broadly. Let's change our attitudes towards each other. One love. |
Politics › Re: 2027 Presidency: Not About Zones But Credible Candidate – Shekarau by kudinkarfe: 12:49pm On Dec 16, 2024 |
I'm frustrated with the behavior of certain users on this forum. Some users speak in ways that violate community guidelines or make the environment uncomfortable. I wonder why admin didn't ban some of you. |
Celebrities › Re: Chris Brown Fills Up Soccer City Stadium In South Africa - PICTURES by kudinkarfe: 6:36pm On Dec 15, 2024 |
Where are the Women's rights activists that petitioned for Chris Brown to be denied a visa for the concert. |
Politics › Re: Tax Bills: Chaos In Reps, Gumi, Kukah Back Proposal As Pantami, Other Kick by kudinkarfe: 4:40pm On Dec 04, 2024 |
Tax reform will increase poverty among Nigerians more than the subsidy removal. This is a complex and multifaceted bill, requiring a closer examination of the policy potential impacts on the economy and the population. |
Politics › Re: In Support Of The Tax Reform Bills - Punch Editorial by kudinkarfe: 6:48am On Dec 04, 2024*. Modified: 7:21am On Dec 04, 2024 |
Some southerners are in support of the bill. My concerned is that while the southern elite may benefit from the reform, the common man in the southern region may not see any tangible improvement. The reforms may benefit the wealthy or powerful, while the average citizen, particularly in less economically developed northern regions, struggles to see direct benefits. Often, tax reforms are seen as mechanisms to redistribute wealth, but in practice, the outcomes can sometimes reinforce existing power structures rather than alleviate poverty or create opportunities for the most disadvantaged. May God save us. |
Crime › Re: Teacher Causes Damage To A Pupil's Right Eye With A Cane She Was Holding by kudinkarfe: 6:35am On Dec 04, 2024 |
Some teachers may be teaching despite not having the necessary qualifications, experience, or passion for the role. This is a challenging issue, both for the teachers and the students. In many places, a lack of job opportunities in other fields or financial pressures is what is leading people to pursue teaching as a last option. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Must Recruit Selfless, Transformational Leaders – Obasanjo by kudinkarfe: 8:15am On Mar 06, 2024 |
adikings22: Says a man who only acquired Nigeria for himself. People like you are the reason why we are in this shit. |
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Politics › Re: Catholic Church Writes Tinubu, Sani Over El-Rufai’s Islamisation Comment by kudinkarfe: 5:57pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
yarimo: Mteeeew after Christian association of Nigeria CAN engage in collecting bribe from OBI for endorsement you expect any serious person to take you guys serious When they stated reacting you will said they don't want your brother to rule. Don't worry when the chips are down northern military will have to take over the country from Tinubu. Watch out. |
Christianity Etc › Re: CAN Accuses Peak Milk Company Of Offensive Advert, Demands Apology by kudinkarfe: 5:06pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
yarimo: The same Christian association of Nigeria CAN that is good in collecting bribe from OBI yarimo again |
Politics › Re: INEC To Appeal Court's Decision On Temporary Voters Card by kudinkarfe: 10:29am On Mar 10, 2023 |
adioolayi: Ofcourse...it contravenes Electoral Act that mandates accreditation of Voters card by BVAS.
How will BVAS read a temporary voters card Why did they refused to use the BVAS during presidential election? |
Politics › Re: Video Of President-Elect Bola Tinubu At The National Mosque Yesterday by kudinkarfe: 9:30am On Mar 04, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Esther Nwachukwu: Married Men Are Sweeter Than Single Men by kudinkarfe: 9:46am On Jan 21, 2023 |
What tribe is she? Some tribes love sex to level that they lack control. While we are ashamed to talk about sex freely, it's normal to some tribes in Nigeria. They walk naked even to church and call it westernization, I call them uncultured people. |
Politics › Re: Sowore: Hostage Takers! Tinubu Slept Throughout A Meeting We Attended by kudinkarfe: 9:37am On Jan 21, 2023 |
Tinubu will definitely win 2023 but Nigerians will see shege. Many will Japa to even countries like Niger, Somalia, Togo and Cameron. Ghana and South Africa will ban illegal immigrants. |
Politics › Re: Jos Residents Turn Labour Party Presidential Rally Into Street Carnival by kudinkarfe: 5:59pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Sai Fita Obi wallahi, Za best candidate for 2023. I'm Obidient!! |
Politics › Re: Videos From APC Rally In Adamawa by kudinkarfe: 4:01pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Ttalk: Even Atiku will thumbprint for Tinubu with the way this election is going You are talking because you don't know Adamawa State. Nobody knows the mind of Adamawa people and nobody decide for them. They easily unseat a seating Governor. In fact Adamawa, Ekiti and Anambra are the only state that knows politics in Nigeria. |
Romance › Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by kudinkarfe: 3:56pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Evolutionlove: Lol the 80s and Early 90s standard & Ideology when Nigeria was still working at least.
Many of you are still hallucinating and stuck in industrial age.
A lot of Men are in extreme poverty today because they still wanted to ply the route their BOOMER PARENTs towed and yet their parents weren't even successful but they managed to be okay because Nigeria was Working at least then. Make Una continue
I'do rather be the Hottest Bachelor living good in town than be a poor miserable married man living from hand to mouth in Trenches My uncle said the same thing and he is still poor and unmarried old man. What will be will be whether married or unmarried. |
Romance › Re: Is This A Trap? (Picture attached) by kudinkarfe: 9:16am On Jan 07, 2023 |
When you marry early you will struggle at first but with time you will be stable, but when you wants to have everything before settling down, my brother you will become hottest bachelor in town. |
Politics › Re: Dogara’s Kinsmen Dump Ex-Speaker, Back Muslim-Muslim Ticket by kudinkarfe: 5:42am On Dec 30, 2022 |
Who are the kinsmen and what is their name? Reason why they are using Dogara's name instead of their name is because they are irrelevant. How about Using their names like:Musa Bogoro, Sani Basayi, Joseph Tafawa Balewa.  |
Politics › Re: It’s Shameful For Buhari To Hand Over Power To Opposition – Adamu by kudinkarfe: 9:22am On Dec 29, 2022 |
slimfit1: You will find out that they are mugu soon. Believe it or not Muslims are filling the heat more than Christians. Continue with religion game and the heat will increase more than you expected. I stand to be corrected, time shall come that Nigerians will beg Christians to lead this sheet hole. |
Politics › Re: Weakening Naira, Rising Food Prices Affecting Nigerians – UN by kudinkarfe: 2:19pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: My Biological Father Told Me That He Is Sexually Attracted To Me by kudinkarfe: 1:54pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
This is what happened when a man developed sex as hobby he will make love to even his daughters. |
Politics › Re: It’s Shameful For Buhari To Hand Over Power To Opposition – Adamu by kudinkarfe: 1:45pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
slimfit1: Buhari will not hand over power not to an Igbo man or a Christian anyway write it down. Childish mentality. Are Christians not Nigerians? |