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osesology:
Isn't this a bit too early? I wish him success tho

sweetboiy:
I wouldn't wanna bore you guys with a long story.
I get to know this lady recently in my class & we've being getting along quite alright, I like her & I think she likes me too because I'm getting the message from her but I'm a bit skeptical on how it will look like if we start dating, I'm very confident of the fact that she won't turn me down.
Now my question is;
Will it work out well considering the fact that we are in the same department/class?
What are the consequences if the school management gets to know about it?

Please no hating but constructive criticism will be welcome.
Thanks!

poshestmina:
Can't the Army just let them do their peaceful protest?

Gelengelen:
bros is it both the traditional and white wedding you spend 500k?

Pls explain. I need ur input my brother. Am making plans for my own too.

Thank u

blaise00700:
Good-day Nairalanders,

Please i need your kind advice, I am from Ihiala (Anambra) and my fiancee is from Udaba Ekperi in Edo state.

We are looking to have our wedding on the 26th of March 2016 and I have not started making plans yet.

My questions are

1) Can we have good wedding with N500k in Edo state?

2) I will also appreciate if you share a list of what we need so we can compare it with ours.

Thank you for your kind Advise.

Cc lalasticlala , please help me promote the thread please!!!

Yhinkss:
IPOB youths shey u don hear. Na only mouth you go dey make on public forum. Please just go Enugu make any trouble, you go know say Jesus no get tribal mark..
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Good riddance to rubbish

purest21:
I met this girl on badoo and we got talking. Barely two weeks we knew she offered to come to my place at awka from asaba. Which straight guy would turn down such offer? I was amazed as she did not even request for t-fare and I wondered if really such type of girls still existed in Nigeria.
She got to awka the next day and I've already arrange some cash that would buy us some nice time not knowing that what I called 'cash' wouldn't be able to settle up to 20% of the liability that was impending.

As this girl stepped into my house, the next morning she got heavily sick! Oblivious of the gravity of the sickness, we went to the medicine store on my street and the guy mixed drugs for her. After three days, this girl started showing symptoms that she's about to die, the same symptoms I saw on my grandmom before she died. With that fear I rushed her to the hospital and the doctor prescribed a list of heavy heavy drugs that I must buy in their hospital. Due to inadequacy of cash because the so called cash I reserved for flexings has almost exhausted, I had to buy only one out of the four listed drugs.
And that was when this dying girl started making me to feel she planned the whole thing. That maybe she knew she was going to fall sick and then needed a medical maga. She would not appreciate my kindness so far, instead she would be busy utilizing any given opportunity to complain, diss or attack me.

To cut it all short, I've already spent close to 10k on this ungrateful sickler and still spending. And sure thing is either this girl dies in my house or I'll be going bankrupt if she doesn't go back to asaba soonest.
As I'm typing this, she's here lying next to me and not even thinking of going back to her place. Please I need advice on how to send her back because I've reasoned it will actually take some balls to just wake her up and eject her indiscriminately, I don't even know if she can travel back on her own. I dont think this kind of ill-luck should be starting somebody's year!! Advice please

temitemi1:
What happens to the seized cars

SSpeter:
I know this might not be totally right but at least it will make me feel great. Egbon wants to get married in march and automatically I will become the best Man. But I don't want him to get married to her. It is not because of her but the dad.

It all started back in 1998 my dad was having a court case with our supposed in-law over our house. The house was sold to my dad by the late late brother of our supposed in-law. That was even before my dad got married. We have lived in that house for more than 10yrs. My siblings and I were born there. After the death of the brother in 1998 he dragged my dad to court saying his brother was only a benefactor and does not have the legal right to sell the building and their late father made him the executor of His properties according to the late father's will. My parents were partners in business and their office was located at the ground floor of the building where we lived. Their goods were also stored there (plumbing equipment).

Prior to joining the plumbing business, my dad was into commercial inter-state transport services after suffering heavy losses he auctioned what was left and joined my mum in the plumbing business. A year later he was in court with our supposed in-law. The legal battle started in December. Egbon travelled with an aunt of mine who had won a visa lottery the previous year. My sisters were older than the guys. they were already in boarding school. I was the king of the house. My dad suffered many embarrassment at the hands of our supposed in-law. He dragged the case for some years money meant for business ended up in legal battles. My dad had to borrow to pay suppliers. He couldn't not order for new materials anymore and the business eventually collapsed. Extended families gave their support until 2003 when a lagos high court handed our supposed in-law victory

My dad wanted to appeal the judgement but his lawyer told him to get an apartment with whatever he has left. Although my parents thought they hid everything from us. Perhaps my sisters didn't notice because they were not always home but I saw my mum cry severally. I saw the fears in my dad eyes. I listened to their whispering at night I knew we were doomed. Our supposed In-law sold the house to a bank. The bank gave two weeks to evacuate. But before the notice expired they brought sledge hammer and started destroying the building with our properties in it. My dad tried to protest but he was beaten and arrested. For the first time I saw our "Supposed In-law" that day ordering the boys to destroy everything. My dad was later released days after. I went to live with my cousins. My sisters also went to live with my other cousins.

In 2006 I wrote a mail to Egbon I narrated all that happened to him and he vowed he was going to ensure that they payed for it dearly. Few years later, I got admission into the university my parents embraced christ; But I still feel bitter. How time flies, my sisters are both married and it's just me preparing for the life of a bachelor; Until recently my brother told me his plans of getting married, I noticed it because he has visited us more than usual last year and had extensive discussions with my parents. But whenever He came back He still promised my dad that he will never forget all that happened. My dad told him that was in the past but I know what my brother was capable of doing as regards family.

He brought his supposed girl friend (I believe that is all she will ever be) to the house last christmas everyone welcomed her but immediately I set my eyes on her, she looked like the man that was giving orders to tear down our house. I asked her for her surname, when she said ****US, I knew she was the daughter of our long time enemy. When they left, my mum and dad begged me that I shouldn't say anything. That they have forgiven him. She invited my parents and I during the new year but I declined. I have also told my brother I can't be his best man. He thought am joking cos it was via mail. My brother had assured me severally whenever I told him what became of us after then that incident and he told me "I will give up anything to deal with the Man that messed with my family". I guess I will have to tell him the whole truth. But my parents keep calling me every single day to beg. "Saying I should not bring him misery. That they were happy he decided to bring home a cool headed lady".....But I just can't let it go. Unless my brother and I will decide not to be brothers anymore because I will never go to his house if he marries her. I will never associate myself with him or anything that has to do with him.

I have finished typing the truth I want to send the mail to him...I don't know why I am hesitating (I guess my parents will forgive me sooner or later) but he has to know the truth!!!!....i can't dine with my enemy!.....I don't want to see her dad face again....never...I hope am doing the right thing....i think I am.....perhaps I am...

Nossa:
FG never see anything yet

missyadorable:
How many shoes are there sef? They ain't many compared to what many ladies have.

Those shoes all together may not even be able to buy 5 pairs of standard male shoes

I remember having 17 pairs of shoes for lectures alone some 3 years ago which I acquired over 1 year and the most expensive was 2000 naira.Anyone who entered my room and saw my shoe rack thought I was mega rich!Lol(if only they knew)

3 male shoes can buy 10 female shoes.
All those sandals n slippers fit be 500 naira sef.Lol! Besides,women need more shoes (to match) than men!

Op,if "ordinary" ladies shoes can intimidate you,i wonder what real expensive possessions like cars,electronics,house will do to you.

mallamsk:
I just met this girl not long ago and we are going well along. We are about to finalize things and start dating officially. Surprisingly today, I just saw this on her dp and she confirm that it belongs to her. Please fellow nairalander, do you think I should run for my life or I should still carry on?

Princessderaa:
dix days matured men prefer single mothers to single lades.

madenigga:
wud u prefer if he acted the way his predecessors did?

fighal:
yea it those, but not really cos most people(I guess) don't really know about it. And even if they do they most likely can't meet the requirement

petkruz:
Some friends or would I say acquaintances are quite shameless. I threw a birthday party @sailors lekki and had prominent friends in attendance including my best friend who didn't hesitate to spend lavishly as he kept ordering drinks and food. I noticed this friend of mine was exceptionally quiet all through, probably observing the whole thing.Next thing I knew she was glued to my buddy,dancing,laughing and all that.I was totally ok with it because everybody was having fun,they exchanged numbers and everybody left happily.I warned her to be careful as he wasn't single!

2 weeks later this lady started insulting the guy,saying all sorts about him,if we are hanging out and he shows up she leaves angrily,this continued for about 4months. I got to find out she went to his mansion several times,they went to all the expensive restaurants in lekki and in 2weeks the guy hit the cookie

The annoying thing now is she wants me to stop being friends with him,someone i'v known since Adam,his fiancee is my friend,he has helped me in so many ways, I can't stop talking to him because of some careless act.

My so-called friend has stopped talking to me,she doesn't hang out anymore,she doesn't call and all but biko is it my fault? Is it a crime I refused to support either of them? We all are adults and solely responsible for our decisions. Should I call both for a hangout to settle the issue? Or ignore completely

modath:
13b & he gave only 360m to his community

Abeg mathematicians in da house, wetin be dat sharing formula?.... Ratio what to what??

Jonathan is more generous than even papa Gode , the main G... Just dashing billions like small change for lil kids offering money!!

erinalex:
who are you to advise PMB on where to start his probe? Gej had his time,he acted d way he pleases him. So let PMB do d same,as long as it is within d confine of d law. Keep ur advice to urself.

Pascal181:
I PITY UR LITTLE BRAIN. IS JONATHAN TOMPOLO?

SmartMugu:
I hope EFCC operatives make it out of the creeks alive.

bamite:
But this is sending a very wrong signal to foreign investors. How much did mtn gain from the unregistered sims compared to the outrageous fine being slammed on them?

lumideed:
The dashboard of my Toyota Camry 2008 looks disgusting, I need the address of any technician that can sow leather on it on Lagos Mainland. Contact me on 08065085468. Thank you

VeeBabs:
Nope. Bid has already exceeded that amount.

TooNoisy:
They are humans just like us. The earlier we all recognise that the better. However it all depends on the person.

I was on a flight with Kemi Adeosun and she was on 1A. Was also on a flight to Dubai with Ibe Kachukwu and he was in First Class.

I once saw Omobolade Johnson flying Economy too. Some people are okay mixing with ordinary Nigerians while others want to have all the luxuries attached to the office. I don't think it has anything to do with the administration but the person.

However, what we need from all of them is performance

Abdomox:
Hello NL,

Please any dealer with registered and clean Toyota Corolla sport 05/06 should please drop the picture or link for the car. Your contact details too will be appreciated. Thanks.

VeeBabs:
Sorry, won't go for that amount. This is a buy-and-drive!

Abdomox:
Hello NL,

Please any dealer with registered and clean Toyota Corolla sport 05/06 should please drop the picture or link for the car. Your contact details too will be appreciated. Thanks.

JaredNomak:
Mumu APC fans will come here to say this clears Buhari corruption war of all witch hunting allegations... But I can't see any concrete reason why his house should be besieged in the manner of not letting anyone in or out. Is any money missing in the Nigeria Custom? If yes, was it traces to him? Nonsense! Deceitful act to deceive the gullible Sai Rehobuhari chanters.

signature2012:
You are a disgrace nigga.

Ecoterrorism:
Passingshot is one of the problem we have in Nigeria. This is a big back hand slap on the face of buhari after he went on national TV to proclaim that non of his minister is corrupt

adeobaagoro1:
There is this lady I met when I was in d university. We started as friends and later became sex partners. After some time I kept distance from her cos I felt she was making me lose concentration n she always give it to me, she would call me crying dat no man as ever satisfy her sexually like I do and can't afford to lose me. I left her for about 4years and found her again after I graduated n started working, and now am ready to marry her as my wife but she keeps saying she can't be my wife but will keep having sex with me even when she marry someone else. she just love my dick or what? And she still showers me with gift without collecting from me. Am confused o!

crestedaguiyi:
another fool on rampage.

You should be thankful to Nnamdi Kanu who asked Igbo youths no to go out and vote and that clearly manifested in the number of accredited voters in the whole of south east.

if the south east had voted in their numbers like they used to do, would you be here today talking trash.

the vote cast in the whole of the south east was not up to those of some boko haram ravaged states in the north yet you say they rigged the election, did they rig the election for Jonathan in the north or west.

was there snatching of ballot boxes or violence in the south east during the presidential elections, Just thank Nnamdi Kanu and enjoy the benfit of his instructions while it last.

stupid parasite