₦airaland Forum

thorpido:
That's why he came online to seek for counsel. Abi no be somewhere person dey learn?

WritePal:
Many people underestimate the mental, psychological and spiritual skills involved in bringing up children. It's a parent's greatest task and failure on this part is largely responsible for societal problems today.

Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child, yes, but how well is it managed? Some kids are more disciplined, well behaved and cleanliness conscious than others courtesy of their parents who pay attention to small details with wisdom and subtlety.

Be the big example in morality, principles, resolving disputes, cleanliness, keeping to time and your words. They'll cower and fear at your screams and obey your instructions. But they'll more naturally follow in your practical footsteps. Plus you need to be available to watch, observe, correct and teach more.

chii8:
You started it and you should end it, I have kids with age range from 8-3,three boys and one girl,the girl is the first, the rule is that under no circumstances should the boys fight their big sister, we gave her some certain responsibility over her brothers,she is the one that shares goody goody among her siblings and she packs their snacks to school, the boys knows that when you are rude to her, she will give you small portions of whatever is being shared and at same time, whenever an item is damaged in the house (toy, TV remote,scratchings on the wall, etc),she alone will be held responsible, so it makes her to always on the lookout for culprits,as for fighting,at times under no circumstances should someone beat their siblings no matter the level of provocation(but boys naturally get wahalaa, guy live it, they will outgrow it I guess).

ippis:
Are you a parent? This has nothing to do with bad parenting. Wrong thing to say.

Philpham:
Your first house girl? You should have said you are an expert at impregnating house girls. Joker.

HaileSelassie:
exactly. Bad parenting. The action of the parents has indirectly instilled a competitive be spirit in the kids. They see each other as rivals rather than siblings

Philpham:
Stop calling me Sir am not your mate.

Philpham:
As you are quick in condemning others about bad parenting, tell us how old you are. Monkey

JaneYave:
Every man can be loving and caring, its just their ego that brings out their bad side. All wife beaters, its not too late to change!

justscorchone:
All men are caring na money just dey fall our hand.

confluence:
Chairman, I don't see you online again, whatassp

Oyindidi:
You mean she for leave her then bf date this guy or double date back then, kai! Guy advice the op on what to do

Oyindidi:
Which gender card oga?

Oyindidi:
Most of the guys above talk like kids. Someone seek your opinion, you start attacking her instead of telling her your opinion. Small boys don hijack nairaland

samysmoothfresh:
my brother i tire o.


After 5yrs of multiple sex with ex and maybe 2yrs of freelance sex and one night stands when she dey single, she still dey talk about using.

wetin dem wan use again?

IamD18:
You don't want to be used. How? Are you a virgin? Make una try dey get sense Abeg.

You have been having sex with your ex for five years without any thing to boast of from the relationship, and here you are, talking about being used.

Biko! Fire down with him, if he ends up as your husband, your luck. But if he fvcks, treat you like trash and dump you for refusing him then, you endure and vamoose.

Relationship na luck. No scripts for it.

Jettage:
If I can find a woman such as this anywhere in Nigeria, I will be on my the next flight to Nigeria within weeks to marry, The feminist made marriage distasteful, with their rebellion and bad manner, Marriage has become regurgitating. Lack of respect from a woman is reason why most of them are still single. Men are wiser

God bless Good women anywhere they are
Cursed be bad women the woes of men
Men Please learn to respect good women like this

WaleAburumaku:
Love Is Good, When Money Enter Love Is Gulder.

stuffs4me:
OP, you are a very foolish person to say the least. Just because your father beats up your mother does not mean all fathers beats up their wives.

Just because your demented mind makes you to turn your girlfriend into a punching bag does not mean all guys are sick like you.

Never generalize

ibkayee:
Aww how cute, if only most Nigerian men were worth this kind of admiration

confluence:
Chairman, I don't see you online again, whatassp

HopeLoveLife:
Please share with us what happened in details.
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Oh by the way guys, we finally had a family meeting.... My Dad, step mom and I.... It was the most embarrassing meeting of my life...but I was able to clear myself as per being a virgin because they concluded I'm not one, and I don't think they believe I'm one after talking so wild. Anyways it is all over, but the thought of my dad listening to my conversation keeps hunting me once in a while...



I'm 27years old by the way... Thanks you all...


@greatagain17 @DanDeeBoss @Kunleweb


Lots of love guys...

thebestprice:
OK you wan use ugwu seed buy jeep abi


criminal

ubunja:
women are choosy.
its called the 80/20 rule:
80% of men fvck 20% of women. (in other words many men are chasing a few women who arent choosy)
but,
80% of women fvck 20% of guys. (in other words, a few top men are sharing the majority of women)

patriarchy : 80% of men fvck 80% of women. roughly 1:1
feminism : 20% of men fvck 80% of women. AKA Law of the Jungle.

jidestroud:
Lol...so attached to cats, can't imagine staying in a house without them.

On the ugu, you've got that right. After clearing add manure to the land (Not fresh manure bikonu). Water and planting can be done in week or two.