₦airaland Forum

Raph82:
There's nothing like that, a man has no right to do that to a woman, men who do that are devil incarnates, yes.

But it has been happening,you and I know that ,so what's the fuss about this one,or is it because the woman didn't wait to be thrown out and left of her own Accord?

Raph82:
And she's supposed to divorce and become a single mother of three? Have u even thought about the trauma those children will go through for divorcing their father? This is Africa not America where divorce is a culture. The guy is a big fool no doubt, any man that loves his family will surely be careful of another woman creeping in. This one has been an idiot from the beginning.

But in Africa men have been throwing their wives and children out on the streets with nothing but their clothes on their back for things as mundane as putting too much salt in the soup na or am I missing something.

So it's African for a man to throw a woman out if he feels tired of her,but it is unafrican for a woman to willingly walk out of her marriage .

Raph82:
No matter what, a virtuous woman won't go this route. She's been looking for a way to rip him off before now, this opportunity just presented itself to carry on her plans. She knew what she was doing by getting those children out to the US. Rude boy is a mess and needs help.

virtuous woman . Who virtuous epp?


Why una be like this? A man sleeps around with IG slay queens and maids ,na virtuous matter una still dey talk.

So what is she supposed to do? Fast and pray?

Jos, used to be peaceful , Serene and calm then the demons showed up first with religious riot now with systemic enthic cleansing with the help of the government and army of the federal republic of Nigeria.

When will southerners Stop being naive? Being nice to a baby cobra does not invalidate the fact that it is venomous.

Southerners are not the problem,we did not start it, northerners made it clear that we are not one,and it will be foolishness on the part of any southerner to refuse to accept this glaring fact.

ubee:
My reply to your first paragraph - Stop trying to be 'slick'. Just own up that you overly exaggerated with the age. I acknowledged the point you were trying to make.

2nd paragraph - Your post has been reasonably rational, so no need to go the route of classless insults at folks that criticize the dress. We are all complaining about the realities of sick child predators in the world today, but are refusing to apply the adjustment into the lives of our children. They are little yes, but they are out there in the view of sick predators. Shield them! Protect their innocence!
Now look how high that skirt is. Can you allow your 16, 17 to mid twenties girl to wear that? If not then why are you okay with a 3 year old wearing it? Wearing that cloth is sexualising her in today's world. That is our sad reality.

3rd paragraph - your point about the depravity of contemporary men as opposed to our Father's is correct, but don't make it be like a "men back then vs men today" issue. If you switch places between our fathers and today's men, this depravity will still be there. It had been foretold in the scriptures. Its the inevitable.

Paragraph 4: If you can understand and appreciate my previous points on this post, you will understand what changed.
Have a nice day.

My aunt at that age used to bath in the rain, maybe not fully naked but she still did this I saw with my eyes,I wasn't trying to be "slick".



A 16 year old to mid twenties isn't the same as a 3 years old, some 16 years old have all the features of a matured women these days as they grow so fast,but finding anything sexualizing about a 3 years old,that's sick ,such men should not be even allowed to be present when changing the diapers of a baby girl .

In as much as I understand why the girl child has to be shielded, why should the girl child have to be the one to bear the consequences for the depravity of men?why are we ignoring the elephant in the room,"the sick men who find children attractive", What is even the guarantee that covering her from head to toe while protect her for predators? Aren't fully hijabed girls at risk also?

ubee:
15 years old?
Please sister i understand you are trying to make a point, but you do not need to exaggerate to this degree. (I hope you know that at 15 years a decent fraction of girls have started having tangible pubic hair growth and breast enlargement?)

So i don't know of what era you were growing up, but even as a kid growing up in the 80's, i am very sure girls at that age were already protecting their privacy.

Do not bother asking what changed. This is the world of sin we are living in. For those of us that believe in the words of the Holy Bible, it's clear that basically the whole craziness, terrorism, violence, sexual perversion, atrocities, conflicts and wars that we have suffered for the past couple decades had been foretold in scriptures. It's all in there.

So unfortunately that is the type of world we are in, and we must adjust. Parents not allowing their young daughters to go on errands today is just some of the forced and necessary adjustments we must make, and leave the rest to God.

So what is your stand on this issue?
Are you okay with this kid's appearance?

Na the 15 years old be your problem or the point? .


Anyone who has a problem seeing the thighs of a 3 years old needs to have their heads checked,that man is no doubt a pedophile. That is my stand.


And it's good that you agree that it's the world we find ourselves, and I hope you agree with me that this generation of men are no way better than their fathers,they are more depraved and monstrous as far as child molestation is concerned.


I need to ask what changed because now people like you have a problem seeing the thighs of a 3 years old while as you claimed having grown up in the 80's children her age where all over the place playing with just paints on their waist. ,you should be in the better position to tell me why you are now uncomfortable seeing the thighs of a 3 years old,I need to know.

ubee:
I'm genuinely stunned that a lot of adults on this thread see nothing wrong with the dress of this little child. And this is a real problem today, because most Nigerian adults have lost their sense of reasoning, and rationality so much so that the most obvious of things to spot is beyond their capacity.

I am as liberal as one could imagine. Amongst my colleagues and close friends i am always pro-women should be free to express their sexuality in their dressing if they so wish.
But this is a baby for crying out loud! It is only a shallow minded person that will think that this shouldn't be criticised because she's three years old.

It does not matter! Don't expose this kids skin! Don't be so idiotic trying to insult people that they are suspect if they find this dressing inappropriate.

This dressing is wrong for a child.

I am still stunned how adults on this thread see nothing wrong with it.
As for her father, - it's just evidence of the problem of a lot of adult Nigerians not having basic sense of reasoning. So Pato get mind use him eye test dis cloth on top him daughter for shop, comot money pay for am?
Chai!

You know when I was growing up, kids the age of 15 could even bath outside especially in the rain.

While I was growing up,kids in primary school wore just pants to play outside.

While i was growing up as a mother you could rest easy allowing a young man send you 9 year old daughter on an errand and she will go to his apartment and give it to him.

So what changed?

Between while I was growing up and now, the rate of child molestation cases have trippled, so I ask again what changed?


Can we even talk about this generation of men uncomfortable with mannequins .

No full length hijab in sight.

Angelfrost:
The very concept of this 'Housegirl' thing is all shades of wrong especially in this 3rd world nation!... It's nothing short of child abuse and human trafficking ! Facts!!!

Something needs to be done by the judiciary to stem this ugly tide... It should even be banned in its entirety!!!

A maid should be paid weekly or monthly for her services, and must be treated fairly well!

Exactly, calabar and benue people use it as business enterprise here in my area.

Person wey nor Sabi boil water na im wan cook? .

He can finish 12.5kg of gas to boil water to make tea.

AngelicDamsel:
Many of the children especially girls living in face me I face you get abused, from experience.

If you have a beautiful baby girl and you're living in face me I face you, draw her closer than ever, she is being targeted for abuse.

True .


Will never forget Sarah, she was just 8 at the time . The police didn't do jack and the rapist was let loose because he was a cultist and also the caretaker of the house, I heard he later died of an illness.

The op is nothing but a little hypocritical fella. what a jerk!
First what gave you the effontry to even call her a public toilet? This is just a case of pointing one finger and the remaining four pointing right back at you. Publit toilet bend your maggot infested mouth there.


It's not like she agreed to meet you in your hotel or house,she is neither engaged or married to you for crying out loud.


What kind of dolts do we even have on this forum sef? op shey you want make trailer wey nor get break scatter your senseless skull for ground?

PlayMaker14:
Big head, welcome back.

PlayMaker14:
Dear Ladycewhy,

Quite a long time, hope all is well?

kor kor kor
Who dey house?

wealthtrak:
Lol... "Our wife" to multiple
young women!

sounds familiar right?

obailala:
Boko Haram started with bombing of police stations. THat was the first ever violence attacks of boko haram, before they even made the news The first time bokoharam made the news as a violent group was in July 2009, and it was about an unknown Islamic sect attacking police formations.

Liar!

rottennaija:
I say carry gun, ogun no get power, I check road well well, trailer no reach me.

Lol, you nor know as e dey be. I be woman, all I need na to kiss who go send you go meet your maker.

rottennaija:
Carry gun. Ogun no get power.

You go know when trailer wey nor get brake go crush your bones.

rottennaija:
I still maintain. Let NK stay in UK, sheltered there and recks havoc in your region. By the time you turn your region to Somalia, you will become IDPs in South south.

That one concern you.

rottennaija:
My dear, you can curse all you want. But your brafia or IPOB is rejected in the south south. If you like, burn your South East, and then become IDP in the south south.

Obote, people like una na better slap una deserve for being genuinely stupid.

Next time there is a jihad be sure to write your state of origin on your forehead. That is if you have even stepped out of your dirty face me I face you room,yeye fowl.

rottennaija:
Which state of the south south are you from?

And what has that got to do with anything? You think jihadists go about asking your state of origin?

rottennaija:
Hey, get it. Don't involve the south in your fight. It's the south east not the south. You are not getting us involved in your fruitless fight. There is south south and there is south east.

And I am from the South south. Lost a relative to their jihad ,if it doesn't affect you ,it does affects me ,so shut up.

My people say "if woman nor marry two different men ,e nor dey know the one wey good pass".lol

madridguy:
I shake my head for people hailing those gunmen bringing down security architecture in their domain maybe you people should ask the people of the North East how market now.

May be you can remind us how boko haram started.So we can compare the both methods of operation.


Forget it let me just refresh your memory that boko haram started with the bombing of churches ,then to schools.Let me also remind you that your political elites and their muslim followers all saw it as "doing the work of allah".Lets just say karma is still too kind to the north east,una never see anything.


Don't come here and change the narrative next time. Whatever is happening in the north east is still being pampered as boko haram members are "deradicalised" and treated better than their victims in idp camps.




And lastly ,you and I know you have nothing but pure undiluted hate for the entire South ,left for you we infidels can all burn, so stop all this famzing ,it doesn't suite you. And I also know you won't reply me with this moniker as you have an alternate you use in spreading your hate so you would rather use that one instead of compromising this one. nonsense and ingredients.

larryjonze:
lets even assume all yorubas have let there lands to seek refuge in benin republic, my dear where is ur leader i.e Nnamdi kanu .... no be same benin republic he pass take follow ugwu container to europe abeggi go bath jare. boya ko ni nice day

Seems you yorubas are not only sophisticated idiots but daft aswell ,do I need to invoke oduwawa the fallen angel before you will understand that just because I am not hausa or Yoruba doesn't make me ibo, geez! such a foolish tribe. spits.This is how I also have to take my time to cure the ignorance of your foolish tribe people offline too, dem swear for una? na wah o.

larryjonze:
Shebi you"bin dey refuse to pick origin I don pick for you. dear uche asides lagos, ogun state remain the most industrial state in the south and oyo is 2nd to the highest GDP.
Its not out of place if a yoruba man from the six regions claim lagos because we are brothers our fore fathers are related hence the same traditions & gods. we blend its understandable.
The way igbos use lagos was capital to push there claims ehn one will expect there flag to be mounted all over abuja by now, they want to have king in lagos, be an honourable in lagos buh tell them to go do same in abuja dem go dey.
stammer ...shebi that is the current capital my dear just be grateful, we gat hospitality proud of my tribe.

Uche? ,why not chioma,lol.


Go find wetin you wan chop,this one na stale beef. Sophisticated ignoramus.Even offline this is how your ignorant tribes men and women go around displaying their ignorance all around. lol,

Hospitality that chased your people to Benin republic as refugees ,hahaha. have a nice day, o jare.

planetx:
Because there are no legitimate real jobs for an African immigrant in Italy, actually there are basically limited opportunities for Italians talkless of Africans legal or illegal. Italy is a glorified third world European country. That is why 95% of Africans there are into crime or prostitution or working like a slave on a farm.

The average Nigerian is criminal minded , na only Nigerians be the migrants wey dey there? that every single crime is now linked to them?. Same way it is difficult to find honest people with integrity to do business with here so also they will migrate to other countries to exhibit same behavior.

There is a difference between a man who goes into a plantain farm cuts a bunch because he is hungry and another man who hires a truck to go to another person's farm to harvest all the plantain because he is hungry.Evil seeks out evil,most of the guys that went through libya to italy were dreaded cultists with reputation before they left, so the job part is not an excuse.

These men will drag this country till there is no reputation left in the eyes of the international community that we will all have to walk with our heads bowed down.

TheLionofLasigi:
This woman abeg dey go your meeting....

Is this when your mother attends hers?