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Jokes Etc / Re: Things You Wouldn't Know Without Movies by LadyTi1(f): 8:28pm On Nov 15, 2007 |
VERY TRUE! The last one about news bulletin really ticks me off!!! Nice to know someone else has observed it. |
Culture / Re: A Woman Combining Her Maiden With Her Husbands Name by LadyTi1(f): 4:18pm On Oct 31, 2007 |
It's all well and good to say it's ok for a woman to retain her maiden name after marriage but if you are a Christian then you need to go and do some studies before jumping on the "bandwagon" of modernism. I used to think it was "cool" to retain or hyphenate until I got the revelation from a teaching. I don’t have the exact scriptural references to hand now but consider these: the man being the woman’s head and covering. (2 Corinthians) the man leaves his mother and father to cleave… (Genesis) the woman came from the man (Genesis) All these scriptures have a SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE. When a woman marries a man, whether she likes it or not she takes on the man's “destiny” and “identity” - This is a spiritual law of marriage and it applies to all human beings regardless of faith or culture!!! That’s why you have to make sure he’s going somewhere and/or where you yourself are headed. Back to the Bible – the woman was created from the man, which suggests that the man is always supposed to be her “source” that is, be responsible for her. Notice that it is the MAN who leaves father and mother to cleave and NOT the woman, suggesting that the woman is always supposed to be under a father’s covering, spiritually, figuratively…etc So in essence when a woman marries, she “switches” FATHERS. Her husband becomes her “new father” because she is meant to always have a[b] “a father”, [/b] that is, “covering”. Hence the need to drop her maiden name and take on her husband’s name to seal the marriage covenant. YES! Famous surname or not!! You may think it's just a name but keeping the name of a father who is no longer your covering or hyphenating the names of "two fathers" DISTORTS God's order. So be careful!! I suppose not everyone will agree with this theory, but if you are a Christian, you need to give this some thought. |
Culture / Re: Nigerian Proverbs (in English) by LadyTi1(f): 2:44pm On Oct 31, 2007 |
1. You cannot stop a child from growing big teeth; however he should have lips equally big enough to cover them. 2. Proverbs are the palmoil with which words are eaten (from "Things Fall Apart). 3. [When you are at the stream] the water you are going to scoop in your hand to drink will not pass you by. 4. I called you to wash your hands and eat and you ended up taking a bath. |
Jokes Etc / Re: Stroking Arena by LadyTi1(f): 2:16pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
@ Chuxy: You fall from bicycle, you say you nor lock the door well |
Romance / Re: Marriage By Introduction by LadyTi1(f): 12:52pm On Oct 26, 2007 |
@ doncaster: There is nothing wrong with introduction. Of course it has its challenges - For one, there is more PRESSURE to transform the relationship into marriage. My advice: One of the first quetions you should ask yourself is: If I'd met this person randomly, would I have been attracted to or considered him or her? If the answer is yes, then you may proceed cautiously. You should not rely soley on the report of the person who introduced you, although it helps, especially if they are people you trust and respect. But you MUST also do your own "homework" and get to know this person as you would have done had you met them randomly. As for proposing marriage: Of course you still need to "officially" ask her. Even if the intention was there from the on set, you must not enter marriage based on assumption. So it's proper to ask her and get a clear yes or no. Besides, like another poster said, a girl wants to remember the day she was proposed to, so it'd be unfair to deny her that All the best! |
Romance / Re: 12 Types Of Black Men Ladies You Be The Judge by LadyTi1(f): 12:18pm On Oct 26, 2007 |
habibi777: @ Poster: Mm-hm. . . You can say that again!!! |
TV/Movies / Re: What's Your Best Sitcom Ever? by LadyTi1(f): 5:54pm On Oct 16, 2007 |
Two and a Half Men . . . I love Charlie Sheen!! Then, Family Matters - as per old time favourites. |
Romance / Re: What Has Nairaland Done 4 U by LadyTi1(f): 5:37pm On Oct 16, 2007 |
My favourite sections are Romance and Jokes. . . Oooh those witty comments keep me in stitches all day. . . I laugh so hard that my colleagues at work often think I've gone "kolomental" It helps me keep in touch with the latest gists from Naija and I've also made a new friend recently. . . Thanks Seun! |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 11:45am On Oct 15, 2007 |
jeanbro: @ jeanbro: Errr. . . . . like. . . . what |
Romance / Re: I Need your Advice by LadyTi1(f): 9:10pm On Oct 11, 2007 |
@ poster: Like most people have said, you need to find out the circumstances of the child's birth and why your man broke up wth the mother, that is if they're really split up. Whether you stay with or leave this man, you need to make an informed decision, NOT a rational one based on emotions or old wives' tales, like your friends are suggesting. Assuming, you decide to stay, you will need to come to a mutual agreement a.s.a.p as to what role he expects you to play in the life of this child, especially if you intend to get married to him. You did not tell us how old the child is. That will have some bearing on the matter, because the older the more challenging to win over. Challenging, yes, but not impossible. Also, you must be sure that your man and the child's mother are no longer emotionally involved - then, set clearly defined boundaries, as to the level of access she has in your lives. By that I mean, she cannot "use" the child as an excuse to barge into your lives whenever she so pleases. There MUST be ground rules from the onset! At the same time, you must also regard her role as the child's mother and give her the respect due her. And don't assume the stereotypical "wicked step-mother" role by resenting the child because s/he is innocent in all of these. Above all, PRAY for God to lead you. All the best and keep us posted! |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 2:04pm On Oct 11, 2007 |
uf4oma: @ uf4oma: My sista, nor mind the yeye boy!! Woman wrapper!! As for the babe wey we be wan arrange for am . . . odiodi for am!! |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 9:25pm On Oct 09, 2007 |
@ uf4oma: You talk am well. . . make we just hope say that hair nor go fear the babe Oya jeanbro, begin arrange yourself! |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 3:07pm On Oct 09, 2007 |
jeanbro: @jeanbro: Na wa o! So you don't want to give up, abi? So tey. . . you're even claiming Waffi by force . Ok, let's negotiate. . . Maybe uf40ma and I should find you a nice Waffi babe. . . @ uf4oma: Abi how you see am my sista? |
Romance / Re: Men: What Do Ya'll Want Us Women To Know! by LadyTi1(f): 7:49pm On Oct 08, 2007 |
@ the guys: Some of your points are noted. . . For example: @tomX: @ tomX: Got to admit - you got us there. It happens sometimes and I guess it's annoying. Can't explain it - may be we just love attention - But point taken. . . So, is there a similar thread for us ladies? And if not, would one you care to start one coz I'm sure the ladies also have a thing or two to say to you lot. . . It's only fair! |
Romance / Re: Is Your Girlfriend Cheatiing On You? How To Find Out: by LadyTi1(f): 7:20pm On Oct 08, 2007 |
@ poster: PARANOIA I say!!!! As for the topic of your thread - I read it! What're you going to do about it??!! |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 4:24pm On Oct 08, 2007 |
jeanbro: Shuo! See as dis bobo just dey upgrade e levels o! jeanbro: @ jeanbro: No such thing! So get real |
Romance / Re: Guys, Can You Wash Your Girlrfiend's/wife's Under Wears (pants,bra,)? by LadyTi1(f): 2:57pm On Oct 08, 2007 |
Hmmm, as a girlfriend NO! I wouldn't allow it! As a wife, I wouldn't mind, say if I was ill. . . |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 2:29pm On Oct 08, 2007 |
@ uf4oma: Uunnn. . . that's so sweet. Hope it goes well. . . My sista, I just ba for some of them o. . . Them think say na every girl for Nairaland them fit toast. Them nor know say na "monkey by grade" Anyway, I'll holla you some time via email! jeanbro: @ jeanbro: Nor be only!!! Say who dash monkey banana? |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 1:48pm On Oct 08, 2007 |
jeanbro: @ jeanbro: Ha Ha - Very funny!!! [/quote] uf4oma: jeanbro: @ jeanbro: You can say that again!!! @ uf4oma: As you can see, this bobo dey gree your own o --- What do you say? Judging from your name, I take it you're Urhobo?? Well, so am I! How u dey? |
Forum Games / Re: D Very Special Day U R Anticipating To See In Ur Life by LadyTi1(f): 9:10pm On Oct 06, 2007 |
The day I say "I do" and the day I give birth OH JOY!!! - Sorry, couldn't choose one above the other |
Romance / Re: Attracting Mr Right And Avoiding Mr Wrong Part 1 by LadyTi1(f): 8:49pm On Oct 06, 2007 |
@ hitsales: Great advice. Only just stumbled on it today. Nice to know there are people out there who believe in building positive relationships. I'm surprised people have not responded Anyway, I look forward to seeing the remaining parts. Nice one! |
Romance / Re: Ladies: Would You Marry a Younger Man? by LadyTi1(f): 6:15pm On Oct 05, 2007 |
I've always maintained that I could never date/marry a man younger than me. I prefer an older man - ideally 5 - 10 years older - because women mature faster than men. This is an ideal situation BUT there are exceptions to every rule. So to avoid missing out on my blessing, I have reached a compromise ahead of time, that if I met a younger man, I would consider it if: - he's just a few months younger [or at most a year] - I only found out his age after I've gotten to know/like him - it's not obvious in terms of physical appearance, that he is younger. Don't want to be looking like no man's mama (Well, shouldn't be a problem because people always think I'm 10 years younger than my actual age - blessed or what? ) - most importantly - if it doesn't bother him one bit that I'm older and he is as mature [or even better, more mature] spiritually, emotionally, mentally, financially --- etc |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 5:28pm On Oct 05, 2007 |
jeanbro: @ jeanbro: This una "quarrel" never finish? I don tire to shook my mouth put o Fellow Nairalanders, you guys should help me beg them now |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 5:11pm On Oct 05, 2007 |
debosky: @ debosky: NO! We're 2 different people - just similar names. Why do you ask |
Romance / Re: Would You Date/Marry A Man Who Used To Be Gay? by LadyTi1(f): 4:55pm On Oct 05, 2007 |
Siena: @ Siena: I feel exactly thesame way---- but I also can't help feeling that it's a "double standard". Because on the one hand, I would be pleased to see that a brova has changed his ways, but then again, I will find it hard to completely ignore his past---- Well, I suppose there are women out there who wouldn't mind, so he just has to find one---- Come on ladies, let's hear your views! |
Romance / Would You Date/Marry A Man Who Used To Be Gay? by LadyTi1(f): 10:33pm On Oct 04, 2007 |
This is directed mainly at the ladies on the forum, but hey guys are welcomed to contribute: You meet a man who tells you he was involved in homosexual relationship(s) in the past, but he no longer subscribes to that lifestyle. Whether we accept it or not, there are many people out there hoping and praying for their son, brother, friend --- etc to turn around, but how does society view/receive such people afterwards? Would you have any reservations about dating or marrying such a man? And if so, why? P.S: This thread is not intended to bash gay people. I believe everyone is entitled to their views on homosexuality. My stand is that I disagree with the practice but I don't hate the "person", so spare me the "homophobic lecture"!!! This is a reality of life which some people may have to deal with one day, so let's be mature in our responses. Thank you. 1 Like |
Fashion / Re: Is It True Some Waist Beads Have Diabolical Powers Of Attraction? by LadyTi1(f): 7:36pm On Oct 04, 2007 |
rossy4life: @ rossy4life: I agree with you. It is true that people may have perveted the fashion of wearing beads but that goes for everything else. People can decide to put their charms in other fashion items like necklace, bracelets---etc Beads are more of a cultural thing - I grew up in Delta State and it was very fashionable for young girls in my village to wear them and I've been meaning to start wearing them again. I just haven't found the right type. Like one poster said, it's best to have a few so they don't look tacky. I absolutely love them!!! Of course, if my husband is not keen on them when I get married I will let them go but for now, I think they are SEXY!! |
Religion / Re: Nigeria Prays by LadyTi1(f): 7:07pm On Oct 04, 2007 |
@ toshmann: This is a wonderful thraed and I just thot to drop a word of encouragement. I hope other Nairalanders plug in to this very soon: "Father we thank You for our great nation, Nigeria. The government of Nigeria is upon Your shoulders. We thank you for where You have brought us us from and where you are taking us. We know that Your thoughts towards us are of good and not of evil. We pray that You give wisdom to our leaders to establish Your will in the land. Thank You for the good changes we have seen so far and many more to come---- in Jesus' name!!! AMEN!! " |
Romance / Re: Can A Girl Walk Up To A Guy Asking Him Out On A Date? by LadyTi1(f): 6:37pm On Oct 04, 2007 |
Ladies, Ladies, Ladies ------ Listen up! Men are HUNTERS by nature. So forget all these feminism/21st century nonsense!!! We are not designed to chase [especially not in the first instance]. Men always get a sense of achievement and satisfaction in knowing that they worked hard to get you. Any man who says otherwise is just a "vulture" or a "weakling" looking for an easy lay. You need a man who is like an "eagle" - with the ability to select and hunt down his choice meat! Ladies, please keep your dignity and don't do it!!! |
Romance / Re: Which of These Is Your Love Language(s) ? by LadyTi1(f): 6:08pm On Oct 04, 2007 |
efuah: @ efuah: jeanbro: @ iice: the guy has said he is sorry ----- my sista, make you 4give am, enh? |
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