tnerro1:
How about showing her ur bank balance, it will turn her on and hot sharp sharp

Lol I'm telling you

This op is a liar. These are fake stories he has created for ulterior motives. He's just building a fan base first before he will enrich himself with his fans.

luchishawn:
we have been dating for almost two years now.
I used to think he was the right one not until he sent me a text saying ' it is over'
I called him but he refused to pick up.
Maybe I offended him, so i sent him an apology text.
The next day, he sent me a message on my WhatsApp that i was not a good wife material.
Tried finding out his reason for the statement.. it took a while before he sent 'WHY DID YOU NOT USE THE OLD STEW TO MAKE JELLOF RICE?!'.
so that was why , he was annoyed..
first of all, there wasn't enough rice and I couldn't boil only half a cup.
when he read my message, he blocked me.
He even went further to inform his friends that i was no longer his gf�.
worst part, he paid me a visit unexpectedly and demanded that I should return all his money , he spent in our relationship.
I know it sounds awkward.
yeah, Christmas is almost here but I have been battling with heartbreaks.
should I go back and beg him?
or ignore him and move on?

help a sister abeg!

Learn to recognize toxicity when you see it. Have some self respect too. There are men who try to guilt trip women and manipulate them into doing things in the name of "looking for wife material". A man who loves you wouldn't treat you in such a manner. He even asked you to return all the money he has spent...doesn't that show you how childish he is?

Powerfly:



Yes i did. At a crusade in my neighbourhood i was invited to attend..and also in my room immediately i got back. I can't explain these joy and peace of mind i feel. I'll say it all in my diary later.

You're no longer a lesbian?

I didn't even know brothers can receive from their sister's bride price. You sound so entitled, person go think say na you train the girl

EmekaBlue:
OK...condition my afro and comb it backwards after training it for 6months will grow better than most black girls hair

If you say so

EmekaBlue:
Ahhhhhh...dont go down this line except u don't rub cream or bath daily

Maintenance can't be tagged hypocritical

Maintaining your hair is washing it with shampoo and conditioner and oiling it oga...not changing the texture with chemicals

EmekaBlue:
naah...u got it all wrong sis, no hypocrisy here

Even d whites apply lotion and relax their natural hair

Hypocrisy would have been when i say fix wig on my head. Nothing wrong in taking care of ur follow come hair

Nope, once you've relaxed your hair, you have tampered with its natural texture in order to achieve artificial straightness. So yea, you're a hypocrite

Pruwa:
order from credible people (family and friends) no they will rather order from strangers
I sell nice and quality human hair
What you order is what you get

If we all order from our family and friends, who will patronize you?

EmekaBlue:
Black girls too like all these fake wig hair. White girls and chinese girls get hair natural and don't disturb with wig things

Our ladies are bald headed...even me if i leave my afro 6months i go get long hair pass our ladies after i relax am

Your post clearly shows that you're a hypocrite. Advocating for black women to make use of their natural hair, yet saying you'd relax yours after 6 months. See your life.

majamajic:


East African women are very neat , apart from Ethiopia or Eritrea women (bath once a week mostly )

Tanzania , Rwanda, Kenya and Uganda are very neat down there , 95% of them do squirt during sex
(95% of west African women especially Nigeria finds it difficult to squirt during sex )

Lol see community preeq wey don sex all the girls for naija just to find statistics. Bros I hail o

Bornsinner7:
With her money and sexy body plus a baby.. still her baby Papa no marry her..
It takes more than the body or money to keep a man..

This is another proof that something is wrong somewhere with Nigerian ladies

Yea and there's absolutely nothing wrong with Nigerian men na

Theboy21:
May You marry a man with the heart of stone, say amen

Lol

ZIINI:

You're right but that shit only happen here
In the US the guy will pay his own food bills while the girl will pay her own too
So if you travel out some day and you're call out for a date and you don't bring your own cash thinking the guy will pay your food bills. Well I don't know if they also hold people down to wash plates over there.but if they do tianna you gon wash some fuçking plates

Lol fvck you mehn. I always carry extra cash when I go on dates in case the guy messes up

Nuel4:
how many food can you eat, honestly? If you try to play such games with me you will just be disgracing yourself. What's food?
How come people have lost every atom shame? I will never even feel comfortable opening my mouth to eat in front of someone I just met not to talk of devouring food like an escaped convict who hasn't seen real food in 20 years
This mindset is what makes people disgrace themselves dragging food in weddings and burial ceremonies. No shame, no self esteem all they see is free food. What's food?

Doesn't still change the fact that the guy is a M0R0N though

Everybody is different mehn...I wouldn't eat like an escaped convict when I'm on a date either

Theboy21:
You don't get it, i meant if your husband catch you doing sugar mummy, then you will pack your things

Lol I'll be such a sweet wife that he'll let it go

Theboy21:
You want to pack your things back to your parents house right

I don't live with my parents

Cos people change

Lol its not embarrassing jor. Personally I can't eat chicken in a restaurant, I usually package it and carry home. Its your food that you paid for with your money

It is o...dyu know what its like to not have to worry about rent?

Theboy21:
Don't worry, the girls that will use your future husbands do sugar daddy are in primary 5 now

Lol we will get ourselves sugar boys :p

Fahdiga:
Why don't you go and make money yourself. why relying on guys to feed your bottomless stomach

I'm not relying on anyone to feed me oga. The thread is about someone who took a lady on a date. If you don't want to spend money, don't take women out simple.

Petoski7:
Clearly from a cut-away on Family Guy�

It is...found it funny

Liposure:
how much is moderate to you

Depends on the place. 2k seems reasonable to me for an eatery

Nwaotu10:


What about her paying for the food she ate?

But you're the one who asked her to go on a date with you. Therefore it should be your treat. If I take you out, its my treat

James4bright:


We expect them to order moderately and not like thieves.

I usually order moderately when I'm on a date

hashtagged:


Nuuu, we expect you guys to smell the food not order it

Lol

Oturatetuala:


Must she eat rice and chicken? She can just order for something else like meat pie, burger or ice cream and story ends but anyways I still blame the both of them.

In that case, the guy should let her know his budget or order for her

OcVoice:


Where else would have been convenient and less money spending? Movies?
There's nothing wrong in drinking water in an eatery. We are there to talk and get to know each other, not for you to come and order food like you don't eat at home!

Then tell her before hand. Going on a date in an eatery kinda implies there'll be food

Fahdiga:
Na them them. always hungry

Na them them. Always broke and lamenting

OcVoice:


You no dey chop for house?

You order food while he's drinking bottle water? You girls should be considerate!

Lmao. If you want her to drink water only, why in the world would you take her to an eatery? Does it even make sense? Taking a girl out on a date and expecting her to order water...lol

BadRadio:
We dont necessarily have to meet, let's just have an intelligent video call conversation, if I am impressed, u get $200, no stories.

Quote me if interested.


Beautiful ladies only.

Can it be a voice call instead? Video calls make me uncomfortable