That sound people make when they're trying to draw out Phlegm from their throat and spittng it out. That thing makes me lose appetite.


My sister hates the sound of shoes being rubbed together. Especially those smooth black ones that can produce squeaky sounds. I do it to piss her off

His hair, his clothes, if possible his nails. I find long nails very unattractive in a guy

EdricBond:
Cost



Ladies' handbag - 7k

Men's wallet - N700



Ladies' fixing of hair - 5k

Men's haircut - N200



Ladies' fixing of nails - 1k

Men's Blade - N10



Ladies' Bra - 1.5k

Men's singlet - N300



Set of G-string - 1.5k

Men's boxers - N300



Ladies' make-over kit - 10k

Men's handkerchief - N50



Time



Men's spent time to dress up - 20mins

Ladies' spent time to dress up - 1:30mins



Men's time to get haircut - 30mins

Ladies' time to get hair fixed - 2days



Bonus



How many barbers needed 2 cut Men's hair - 1

How many hairstylists needed 2 make ladies hair - 3

Stop underestimating the cost of male utilities jare. You nairaland boys are so full of bull.shit. Because you wear cheap crap doesn't mean all other guys wear cheap crap

Akinbahm:


For women cause you are at the receiving end..

Lol as if old Nigerian men are sexy to begin with. If a young lady marries an old man, its just for money. So men are also at the receiving end. How many men even outlive their wives this days? Quite few

Hmm. The whole thing is just a hypothesis that isn't backed up or supported by facts tho.

Men above 60 are not sexually attractive anyway. Can't imagine bedding one. Unless he does exercise and eats healthy and looks like Vin Diesel. He's in his 50s but is still so attractive

RedPanthar:
SIMP. Why it's okay to be lovey Dovey in the dating phase, that's not the standpoint from which a man must run a home, family and manage a marriage.


A man must take the lead, hold the reims, take charge and make decisions albeit inspiring cooperation from his partner. Your comment indicates that you're weak, too weak to assume control over your affairs and can't manage yourself let alone a human being



Let's look at it from a myriad of ways...


... Where did you learn your fatherhood skills from. Did you grow up in a broken home and raised by just a woman? You need to first sink into your psyche, speak with people to help you identify your obvious weakness which you seem to be unaware about and beginning the fixing in your mind. You are too weak to be qualified as an adult man



.... Tell me of what use is a daughter you don't truly inspire her as father, daughter and her source of everything... While the daughter maybe yours, the close bond that has kept you out of her life is deliberately schemed to ensure everything she knows is purely from what her snake mother tells her. Making her of little to no use beyond emotional attachment, this you don't know or choose to ignore the complications. Even if that girl grows under you with the way she's under the mothers tight grip, you have little to nothing to benefit from fathering her. The fatherhood and family structure is defective and destructive. You have no advantage fathering that child... And if you want to be in her life as a father, you need to assume the role and stop acting like a sperm donor. If you won't stop begging as it shows in your comments that even your day to day activities is begging to be the child's father, get out of their life and go fix yourself




Go and get yourself some redpill and develop mentally and psychologically. You're too weak.



She only used you when she ran into tight corner and you SIMPed for her antics




Grow some balls, be the man and stop whining. If you want her out, when she goes whoring, ensure she comes back to meet her thrash outside the door. And begin to act like you don't care about the child even if you do. Hide the love, withold all show of affection that's being used to control you. And steal back the remote control being used to control you from her hand



You're pathetically weak.

Leave the child for now, work on yourself first. You're too weak for a man

Whatever you do, make sure you get " Redpilled "

Lord have mercy. I have never been more horrified by a nairalander's comment than I feel now after reading yours. A father should deprive his own child of love so that he won't be perceived as weak. Wow. I wonder the kind of emotionally damaged children a person like you will raise. A child needs love in order to grow. What a toxic human you are

CalliDora1:
Innocently beautiful.

May God arrest her in time. This innocence must not be thrown to the dogs.
Amen.

What makes you think she's not a christian?

Nigerian men and their toxic nature. If this were a woman they would all assume she's a slut. But since its a guy, no one will assume he's into yahoo or fraud and using music as secondary occupation. Stupid people everywhere

Maybe he was drunk or high and fell in...poor guy. May his soul rest in peace

Girls only give famous and rich guys their attention hoping to get things from them...they don't chase broke guys tho

Number 7

Finally, someone with sense. The men and boys here are so blinded by their hatred for women that they don't realize they are just like Nigerian feminists. Its quite repulsive.

She's probably tired of giving it away for free. Nigerians have a way of making women feel cheap when they have sex without demanding money in return. For 2 years you've been with her. Do the needful and stop trying to claim rights to someone else's body

Nwaotu10:


Ever heard of redpills? Majority of niggaz are on it now.

I'm sure giving girls money, attention and validation would equally stop.



I ain't gonna give you attention again.

Hahahahaha dude its impossible for even a quarter of Nigerian men to become red pillers. Y'all are a minority and will always be. Ask U.bun.ja
There are men who just enjoy spending money on their women. I have come across guys like that. Generosity is in their blood

Nwaotu10:


We know, but with time, it wouldn't be like that again. Men would soon realize that marriage is exclusively benefitial to the female folks.

"Show me a married man that's happy, and I will show you a man from another planet."

Until then, keep enjoying while it lasts.

Even if they stop getting married, they will always continue to spend money on women. That's the main reason women are marrying them in the first place

Op your number 17 implies that most men are stupid tho

I know of two different weddings happening as we speak
No matter how much you and the pathetic nairaland boys here hate women, men go still dey rush us till kingdom come. Women are not the cause of your frustrations in life. Lol

Modified: wedding number 3 is happening in the next 2 streets from mine. My landlady just went there

tyup:


Thanks for ur concern but Major progress in my life has been attributed to God, family, my Northern princesses
[/b ]n particularly Guys both known n unknown so cut it [b]I'm not gonna need ladies help ever rather they'll always be at our mercy (Guy's mercy)

Lol see how you're contradicting yourself. The northern princesses are males abi. The gender is not important. Its called karma. You ignored people you could have helped, therefore people will ignore you in situations where they can be of help. Amen

Op I hope that a time will come when someone will be in a position to move your career forward, but will refuse to do it simply because the male gender can be unpredictable at times. I hope the process keeps getting repeated so that you can remain stagnant for a long time afterall no one is obligated to do good deeds.

Lol see how triggered the boys here are hahaha

Prodigee:
Abeg wetin be the correlation between condom and pad?

They both go over our privates

Marry the financially stable one and learn to love him

On a serious note tho, people's financial situations change. Rich can become poor, poor can become rich...but love and loyalty aren't easy to come by

Litmus:
As someone born abroad and whose formative years were in Nigeria, I would advice Nigerians to let their children grow up in Nigeria. Characters formed in Nigeria are unbeatable. Beyond the ages of 12 it is safe to send them abroad to school if you wish. If I could influence the black world, I would have them send their children to their nations of “genetic” origin during the formative years. I would have African Americans send their children to grow up in Nigeria or other African nations or the Caribbean, between the ages of I to 13 year old. After this, return them to America, Europe or wherever in the world you choose. It is absolutely vital that you let your black child form their character in Africa before moving them abroad if you wish. In Africa, Nigeria is the best place.

Yea, where they can be exposed to as much insecurity as possible right? Haven't you been seeing the news lately? Finances apart, the country is not safe

Lol this brother dey vex. Op if you had the power to become a girl, would you do it?

But come oh. All of these guys who complain about girls from morning till night. If you hate girls so much, why not just leave us alone? Y'all are still asking us out, buying us stuff, begging us to be with you. The funny thing is that if we now say we don't want any of you around us, y'all start getting upset. Biko what do men really want?

Meedon:
Like seriously. Are you for real. Human eating human flesh. Mehn shit is so getting dammmmmmnnnn

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Humans been eating humans for years mehn...now they're just getting more ballsy. I don't even know if its cos of poverty or foolishness that they're doing it so openly. Truly appalling

Dude both men and women are trying to obtain money under false pretenses nowadays. Yesterday I lost count of how many young men I saw pushing wheel chairs with little normal children sitting in them pretending to be disabled and begging drivers on the road for money. The country hard, no be small.

In my area now, when an angry mob lynches a criminal, they eat the charred flesh...I'm not joking two happened last week

I honestly don't know what the future of Nigeria holds for any of us

Because they hate women they can't control

Why is it that every Nigerian man thinks he is good at sex? Lol
If you want to know whether you're actually good and your lady isn't faking, talk to her girlfriends...they're the ones who know the real story

But some men can be so foolish sha o. You come here and say men who pay for sex are foolish. Same you will come and slut shame a woman who willingly has sex with a man without collecting money and call her cheap. So who's really the fool confused gender