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BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 3:14pm On Mar 27, 2016
shady16:
I plead to disagree with that(no sure 1.10). There sure is! I can tip that(1.10) 20 times and I bet you none would fail.

I mean, if a gambler wants to be fed with a mere 1.10 they shouldn't be gambling. C'mon! angry

cool
1.10 is not 'mere,' infact massive...provided it is 'sure.'

Every odd is liable to cast.

If you think otherwise, prove it.
You may as well drop the 20 games with 1.10 odds in a day or two. cheesy
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 3:10pm On Mar 27, 2016
16:00 UD Almeria vs RCD Mallorca
1 & Under 4.5 @ 2.34
HT/FT X/1 @ 4.85

Goodluck.
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 4:05pm On Mar 26, 2016
LaExpert:
14:00 Agrotikos Asteras 1932 vs Larissa
2&U3.5 @ 1.97, X/2 @ 3.85



Go inplay.
WON!
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 4:04pm On Mar 26, 2016
Kay17:
My point all along was they don't have, which apparently you agree to. Whether they can, I don't know.
My point is simply abstinence is better than abortion in all ways...which you also apparently agree to.

Regards. cheesy
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 3:51pm On Mar 26, 2016
Kay17:
So you acknowledge they don't but can, right?
Everyone can.
You disagree?
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 2:29pm On Mar 26, 2016
Kay17:
Don't burning desires becloud our judgments? In some people, they are able to maintain a firm control over these desires while others fail at it. Similarly addictions, most smokers know smoking is bad and injurious to their health yet they can't summon the will to control that addiction.

Our reason and self control conflict with our desires and emotions. We try to rein the desires to eat and have sex but not always successfully.

So your abstinence policy can only work for those with strong will.
Everyone can actually have a 'strong will.'

If there were a strict government legislation against pre-marital sex, you will be amazed at how 'weak willed' people magically become 'strong willed.'
...but we are humans, we don't want to the right thing until we see the legislation, punishment or consequences first before we do it.


Just like LGBT, many who have burning desires to marry the same gender have magically conformed to the law...they can only @ worst, feed their desires secretly.
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 2:09pm On Mar 26, 2016
14:00 Agrotikos Asteras 1932 vs Larissa 2&U3.5 @ 1.97, X/2 @ 3.85

Go inplay.
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 1:24pm On Mar 26, 2016
Kay17:
Just the same way cigarette smokers willingly struggle to quit. People don't make logical deductions to have sex, rather it is a biological response. Humans are not cold logical cases.

That's why people have burning desires, don't you think so?
Burning desires or not; it still boils down you making the choice.

Having sex is NOT a reflex action, it can be controlled.
No one dies from not having sex.

If that same 'chronic' cigarette smoker knows that next stick of cigarette will choke him to death, he likely won't lit it...despite his cravings.
If that gentleman knows he'll contract AIDS from that lady, he will restrain himself despite his 'burning desires.'


If the smoker truly suffers from addiction; Why do you think that same 'chronic smoker' will magically stop smoking when the doctor tells him further smoking will lead to dysfunctional lungs and death?


Must something wrong happen to people before they do the right things?
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 9:33am On Mar 26, 2016
Kay17:
An individual in the motions of abstinence who loses control of his/her sexual urges and gives in to sex, is often in an unplanned situation without contraceptives or other means. Abstinence is as strong as one's willpower. And once such willpower falters, there is no safety net cos most abstinence crowd believe they will never fail.
As reasonable as what you opined seems, it is still highly flawed.

Someone who is in the motion of abstinence will;
1. Most likely not get trapped in a situation that will make him lose control and;
2. Recognise and avoid situations that will make him 'lose control.'

Ones willpower isn't faltered, if anyone has consensual sex, then it is his/her choice.

Why do you think someone at the verge of a sexual encounter and learns the partner is HIV+, will (most certainly) restrain himself?

Or will you have sex with someone you know has an STD because you have a sexual urge?

It all boils down to choice.
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 8:50am On Mar 26, 2016
Kay17:
The abstinence crowd wouldn't talk about the failures of abstinence. When sexually active adults are battered by raging hormones, when Nature has appointed the age when we reproduce, who are We to deny such a natural process?
The abstinence crowd probably don't know its failures...because it has none, and if you think there are; you may go on to mention them.


Can you tell me of anyone that abstinence has killed or probably harmed in anyway.

Kay17:
Besides abortion helps keep the population stable, we can't recklessly bank on abstinence.
Abstinence does it better.

Learn to appreciate good things...and reject bad ones.
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 2:36am On Mar 26, 2016
I'll do you the honour of responding even though most of what you've written is baseless.

MRBrownJ:
to me (and many other men AND women), life with abstinence is a miserable life...
1.That a group of people believe something doesn't mean what they believe is right...e.g. Boko Haram, ISIS, Al Qaeda etc believe terrorism is good, but that does not make it good., The American Govt. believe that it is okay for Men to marry men...but I'm sure you wouldn't marry a man because you know it isn't proper.

2. To ask you further; what exactly makes a life of abstinence miserable?

MRBrownJ:
now here you are WRONGLY assuming that a woman who has unprotected sex automatically is a woman who has sex with different people (false!!!!!), who automatically expose herself to STDs (false again!!!!), that she automatically gives a damn about the social embarrassment (false false false!!!!), or that the sex is illegitimate (absolute nonsense!!!!)
That assumption is only in your thoughts.

A man or woman that engages in unprotected sex...and even 'protected' sex exposes herself to several risks, STDs are just a part of those.

You get an STD from just ONE partner...that partner could be the first.

As regards the social embarrassment, nothing changes if she doesn't care about it, an unwanted pregnancy is socially embarrassing.


MRBrownJ:
1) a woman can have unprotected sex as a virgin (or with the 1st man who ever has sex with her) and still get pregnant, and she would still have the right to want an abortion (if thats what she decides)
Yes, a virgin can get pregnant at her first attempt.

Abortion isn't still the best option, she can lose her life trying to abort...but if she abstains, she won't die neither will she carry an unwanted pregnancy.

When 'we' advice people not to abort, it is for their own good. Many orphanages are willing to accept the baby and take care of it.

MRBrownJ:
2) many couples have tests to make sure that they are STD free, before they decide to have unprotected sex.
I know many couples that do that.

How many unmarried partners do that?
Less than 5% I assume because I don't know of anyone.

Or have you ever gone for a test with anyone you've ever had sex with?

MRBrownJ:
3) again, just because someone doesnt want to have a kid, doesnt mean it is for social embarrassment. there are many women out there who just DONT want children (ask Oprah)
In Nigeria, (quote me anywhere), an unwanted pregnancy is socially embarrassing...it is frowned at.

Even the e-diots that have randy sex, castigate their peers that do the same and get pregnant doing it.

Oprah doesn't want kids? Now, ask Oprah if she gets pregnant and aborts it...then you'll get my point.

MRBrownJ:
4) a wife being pregnant by her husband, but not wanting any more children, could want an abortion, and the sex wouldnt be illegitimate, would it?!
How many married people have you seen taking their wives for an abortion because they don't want anymore children?

There are a thousand and one safe birth control methods for couples, abortion isn't part.


MRBrownJ:
as i have told you earlier, people having abortion know the consequences of their act, and STILL go ahead and abort. so why dont you care about your abstaining life, and let them worry about theirs?
btw driving a car face the risks of dying in deadly accident, yet i dont see you abstaining from driving. having a home face the risks of being attacked by armed robbers, does that stop you from having a home?! there are risks everywhere in life, and each and everyone of us are aware of this, but this certainly wont stop us from living the lives we desire for ourselves.
if she was a prostitute and wanted to abort her customer's child, she would still have that right... whether you like what she does or not.
Your examples don't relate to the topic.

I will keep driving cars because cars are GOOD and driving is also GOOD, I will own and live in houses because it is good...but I won't advise anyone to abort because it is BAD.


MRBrownJ:
sadly, you AND I believe that what this evil woman did is a crime by law, FACT!!!
while you believe that abortion is a crime, while the majority of the world DOESNT, FACT again!!!
Yes, what she did is morally wrong but it is still far better than aborting that lad.

She would have done better by handing the baby over to willing people that will take care of it.


MRBrownJ:
i am just giving you plausible reasons as to why people (even YOU) would selfishly accept abortion AND/OR plausible reason why this deranged women threw that baby in the dustbin... but hey, i am waiting for your answer.
In cases of rape, incest and the likes; the baby should be kept and the government should take custody of such child(ren) when born...while the offender should be prosecuted.


MRBrownJ:
i am sure abstinence will work for me or anyone else, but we DONT want it, and this is our decision.... accept it.
Now, frankly speaking.

This is the reason any country/community/individual will not make reasonable progress.

If you KNOW the bold...that abstinence is the best and will work for you and everyone else...and you don't want it, then I can only feel sorry for you.


The reason you complain of a bad Nigeria today is because of people like you in power; knowing the solution to the problems of the country yet, continuously refusing to do the solution, saying they don't want it...and expecting everyone to accept it as their decision.
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 9:53pm On Mar 25, 2016
MRBrownJ:
if abstinence works for you then so be it, you can indulge in it as much as you want, but dont expect everyone to live such miserable life, just because thats what you have chosen for yourself and people around you.
A miserable life is when you have sex with different people and expose yourself to the consequences without being ready for them (STDs, Pregnancy, social embarrassment etc)...not when you abstain.

Young man, abstinence WILL WORK for you...and will save you from ALL consequences of illegitimate sex.


MRBrownJ:
what you wrote above only matters to people who are "forced" into having an abortion. just as much as i am telling you that it is WRONG to force a woman to have a baby, it is equally wrong to force her to have an abortion. let HER look at all the options available to her, and decide what she wants for herself, her life and her body. but i repeat, if she does NOT want that pregnancy to go to term, she has all the rights to take whatever measures in order to terminate it.
Forced abortion or not, women who abort face the same risk!
They risk losing their lives and their fertility!


MRBrownJ:
you do know throwing a live baby in the trash is a CRIME, while having an abortion isnt (in the real world), right?!
So, which world is unreal? The one you're in?

For your information, legality doesn't translate to morality.
LGBT is a crime here in Nigeria...and it is completely Legal in some other countries.

MRBrownJ:
if a father rapes his teenage daughter, would you still want that demon child to be born?
if armed robbers raped your wife, would you still want that evil child to be born?!
Now it has moved from consensual sex to rape.

LOL cheesy
I'll actually air my opinion if you will listen.
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 9:06pm On Mar 25, 2016
MRBrownJ:
if abstinence is what works FOR YOU, then by all mean abstain from sex, and let others deal with this issue the best they see fit.
if you believe that aborting a foetus that aint got an active brain, nor a heartbeat or even breathing is worst than throwing a live newborn in the dustbin/gutter to let it die, then something is seriously wrong with you
I can ASSURE you that you won't die from abstinence.

Abstinence works for EVERYONE...or would you tell me of someone that was harmed for abstaining?


As regards the bold, before you attack me; do you really think a sane person will also think;
Taking the life of a baby and putting the mother at the risk of losing her life and all the post abortion dangers...and also leaving the mother in an physical, emotional and psychological trauma is better than safely delivering a baby (saving the mother's life) and putting the baby in public thereby giving him a 'little' chance at life.

Something is definitely with you if you believe the former is better...but like I said before, if abortion isn't worse, then they are the same.
CrimeRe: Mother Dumps Baby At The Roadside In Calabar -- (Graphic Photos ) by LaExpert: 7:51pm On Mar 25, 2016
MRBrownJ:
yet people are still against abortion...
Yes, people are against abortion.
Abstinence is better...it doesn't harm anyone.

Abortion is actually 'worse' than what the lady did...or maybe the same.
BusinessRe: Shoprite Opens In Owerri As Residents Storm Complex (Photos) by LaExpert: 11:19am On Mar 25, 2016
Sanchez01:
I wanted to plead with the OP that the word "invade" is a very strong word. But after opening the thread and seeing the pictures... I reserve my comment.
grin

The Op did not actually use 'invade,' the mods did.

The topic the op used is 'Shoprite Opens In Owerri As Residents Storm Complex (Photos)'
BusinessRe: Shoprite Opens In Owerri As Residents Storm Complex (Photos) by LaExpert:
new2020:
When you talk about looking local, no tribe looks more local than yoruba. Most of you even after living in abroad for 60 yrs, still look very local.
TheBiafran:
this shut me up instantaneously
i bin wan reply the dude but you not only did it for me, you killed him with a fatal knock out punch line blow
100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 likes for you
Endtime 'tribalistic' comment.

Na only una people dey Imo state?

Abi shey the guy mention your tribe?
Wetin carry 'Yoruba' enter your comment?
TV/MoviesRe: Photos: Most Terrifying Creatures/Characters/Villains In The History Of Movies. by LaExpert: 6:53pm On Mar 24, 2016
Silent104:
It's called thriller nt advert
*u welcome*
It's trailer, not thriller.

*You're welcome* cheesy
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 3:31pm On Mar 24, 2016
buchito1:

1550 International Friendly Games Malta - Moldova Under HT(1.5) 1.19

2901 World Cup Qualification, AFC United Arab Emirates - Palestine 1 & Over(1.5) 1.28

2904 World Cup Qualification, AFC Qatar - Hong Kong 1 & Over(1.5) 1.23

2049 U21 EURO, Qualification Hungary U21 - Israel U21 1X HT 1.20

2815 U21 EURO, Qualification Macedonia U21 - Iceland U21 1X HT 1.21

1471 U21 EURO, Qualification Ireland U21 - Italy U21 X2 HT
3 odds
Good luck to us!!! smiley
Nice one!
Kudos!
BusinessRe: Naira Exchange Rates Today by LaExpert: 5:05pm On Mar 23, 2016
solid3:
I wish this dollar will just drop to 220.
When it was at 216, APC called it a 'shame.'
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 12:57pm On Mar 23, 2016
SINGLES

20:00 Gibraltar vs Liechtenstein
Away Win and Under 4.5 @ 2.03

18:00 Silkeborg vs Vendsyssel
Highest Scoring Half: 2nd @ 2.09

18:00 Georgia vs San Marino
Over 3.5 @ 1.75



DOUBLE
20:45 Bradford vs Chorley
X2 @ 1.52
17:00 Moldova vs Belgium
Away and over 1.5 @ 1.34

Total Odds: 2.04
EducationRe: Lagos Probes Pupil’s Floggings By Principal, Teachers by LaExpert: 9:30am On Mar 23, 2016
kaykay010:
You are daft... On which constitution does a fellow student be it prefect or not or even teacher to ask a student to carry chairs... It's high time things start charging in this country.. What a nonsense.
So who should carry and arrange the chairs needed for the teachers' meeting?

The teachers should carry it?
EducationRe: Lagos Probes Pupil’s Floggings By Principal, Teachers by LaExpert:
Even though I'm against the punishment meted out by the authorities,
truth be told, the girl was too rude...and the punishment was taken to the extreme.


I'm sure many people who are clamouring the authorities should be prosecuted and the head girl expelled would not tolerate such rudeness from their juniors in secondary school especially when they're prefects...and wouldn't even try it with their seniors.
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 10:33pm On Mar 22, 2016
buchito1:
Kai! now 3-2 sad

Well, deed has been done!
Fingers crossed.
Well, it's now 4-2 undecided
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 9:39pm On Mar 22, 2016
Based on information reaching me my analysis grin;

Carrick Rangers vs Crusaders (In-play HT)
Full Time Correct Score: 3-2 @ 3.57


A trial won't hurt.
RomanceRe: Why I Didn't Marry Her. by LaExpert: 11:46am On Mar 22, 2016
enieme:
So what if they inherited it? And they arent even aware of its dangershuh
who would help them up?
I don't see this as a Good enough reason; it's valid though
Inherit what?

You don't 'inherit' such trait; you choose it.

It is just like saying being friendly can be inherited.

enieme:
people can't control what they are born with. If it's a no go area for all guys, who would then marry them?

Impatience is something fairly common in most humans women especially.
No one is born with an angry or impatient nature.
So many factors influences how an individual acts or what he turns out to be...environmental factors especially.


....if no one marries them, that nature will magically 'control' itself...since you suggest they can't control it.


Nice write-up dearpreye!
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 10:35pm On Mar 21, 2016
Simple winning in a tight day.

....but seriously, if you aren't on the channel in my signature, you've been missing a whole lot...and you're still missing.

It is a free service.
RomanceRe: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by LaExpert: 7:30pm On Mar 20, 2016
Diddyydiva:
I support you op smiley

I believe marriage is a limitation,It makes your chances of success slimmer. Its a distraction too.
Its easier to succeed without marriage


This applies to both genders tho. If financial responsibilities are not left to the husband alone, The family will have a better standard of living.
While I agree with the last part of your post, I strongly disagree with the bold.

Marriage isn't a 'limitation,' nor is it a distraction to success; it can only be when one party is totally dependent on the other.

When a couple work as a team, Marriage is the best partnership any pair can have. Two heads are better than one....but by the way, you are free to believe whatever you want to believe.
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 3:04pm On Mar 20, 2016
15:30 KS Lechia Gdansk vs Termalica Bruk-Bet Nieciecza
Tip: X/1 @ 4.07
Safe Punters: Home and under 4.5 @ 1.86

18:00 Viking vs Sarpsborg
Tip: X/1 @ 4.17
Safe Punters: Home and under 4.5 @ 1.81

18:00 Hapoel Akko vs Maccabi Netanya
Tip: X/1 @ 4.10
Safe Punters: Home and under 4.5 @ 1.90
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 10:35pm On Mar 19, 2016
jideprof:
2-2 HT, Bet Lost, 2won.. 1 Lost
Why I Hate Acca angry
Why not play singles...since they're even bets?
It is always better to win #100naira than to almost win #10000naira.
RomanceRe: The first 5 things guys look at withing the first 50 secs. Of Meeting a lady by LaExpert: 12:42pm On Mar 19, 2016
cruzita:
undecided if that's all u check ,your own don finish be that
Fabulocity:
Eyah. see how superficial y'all are. Just looking at physical attributes grin angry
Superficial?

Oya, what else should a man see in a woman within the first 50 seconds? cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Late Dr Giwa's Sister Reveals: Ibinabo Is Not Remorseful by LaExpert: 10:41am On Mar 18, 2016
She should serve her complete jail term in a maximum security prison and made to publicly apologise.


If any 'Northern Actor(s)' feel she should be pardoned, they should all serve one year jail term on her behalf; many don't understand the trauma she has made and still making someone's family go through.

Silly egotistic woman.
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 4:56pm On Mar 17, 2016
6012 19:00 Bayer Leverkusen - Villarreal
2 To Qualify @ 1.16
6013 19:00 Valencia - Ath. Bilbao
2 To Qualify @ 1.25
6015 21:05 Manchester Utd - Liverpool
2 To Qualify @ 1.10
6017 21:05 Anderlecht - Shakhtar Donetsk
2 To Qualify @ 1.10


Odds: 1.75
Booking Number: J6ZGJP

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