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Mercielove:
I am surprised at u running online to seek how u will handle ur little kids. If u cannot handle them now that they are little I wonder what u will do when when they are older. Seriously, parenthood is not for everyone.

The fact that he's seeking help shows he's probably a better father than the mum you'll be.

Acidosis:
I think you have a lot of money to throw around. No single trip within Lagos state should cost that much on Uber (especially Taxify). Even Berger to Ajah, Epe or Ijanikin would not cost that much. The moment you heard N4800, you should have checked your app.

Btw, why should you embark on a trip without confirming the approximated cost? Like Google map, Uber and Taxify already provide an algorithm that calculates your estimated bill prior to your trip.

As regards your N1m, that one na small thing. You will get your money. If I were you though, I will also ensure he spends some days behind bars.

If you use Uber very often, you'll know trips cost much more than that sometimes.

I've taken at least, 15 trips that cost more than that.

It's even worse when there's a surge.
For a start, try booking a trip from Ikeja to Omu resort, Lakowe and see the estimate...or Ajah to Iyana Ipaja.

Dinho20:
SINCE AM AA, I WILL STILL MARRY AA TO MAINTAIN AA IN MY FAMILY.

Until you fall in love with a girl that's AS or SS.

Geesaintagape:
I don't believe in genotype blabla

Continue bro.

Gangster1ms:
Not entirely correct in terms of the arrangement.. i know two AS that got married and their first born was SS. So much suffering the poor guy is passing through

Arrangement doesn't matter, anyone can come first.

Simple answer, yes.
I want full disclosure though...I mean, the details.

Amakababe:
what lady (age 18-45) hasn't done an abortion before.
all na wash.
u suppose dey thank her for telling u sef lolz.
women don't usually say things like this, unless she really loves you, its to grave things. fool, go on your knees and thank her.

Omg!

What kinda girls do you associate yourself with?
You can do better babe, get the right company.

Rossikki:
Wrong. People throw their waste out on the streets because there is no efficient public trash collection system. In a sane society, every house will have a huge bin in front that is emptied every three or four days by a local govt trash disposal truck.



All the govt has to do is tar all the streets and include sidewalks and underground drainage. Then put a street sweeping system in place. Every where will be spotlessly clean....... See below....... It has NOTHING to do with ''the people''. Once you build the city well, you will have no problems.

https://nacto.org/wp-content/themes/sink_nacto/views/design-guides/retrofit/urban-street-design-guide/images/sidewalks/carousel//retail-sidewalk.jpg

As much as you made sense, the person you quoted is still very right. The people can do better. Someone dumps his garbage bin on the road because he doesn't want to pay for 'lawma,' someone eats gala in a bus and flings the wrap on the streets, the attitude of the people also matters.

Daeylar:
Same, I always search for a refuse bin, but if I don't see. Floor it goes.

Please, even if you don't see a bin, don't throw it on the floor again. I know you have good intentions. You can keep it in you bad/pockets till you get a bin, I do the same.

Tell your friends too.

CuteMadridista:
Explain why it is invalid

https://www.nairaland.com/4029569/created-god-invalid-question
Find your answer.

CuteMadridista:
And who created God?
atheists sleep and wake too

Invalid question.

Kayceenaz:
I don't just understand KPMG. I opted for TRPS, too. After documentation since August, no feedback whatsoever unless you call. The same reply "We would invite you for AC when appropriate" has turned to a cliché. What further perplexes me is their regular call for Graduate Trainee job applications, when they've not decisively sorted out previous applicants. Anyway, it is well.

Well, I'm sure you won't want to be the only one doing AC...of course, you can't be the only one.

They need volume, more people that chose TRPS to get to the assessment centre stage so you all can do it together. They will keep calling for tests till they have enough people who will scale through to the stage you're in.

Just be patient, you'll be invited for your AC.

CodeTemplar:
Glorified secondary schools dashing out first class... let them come to uniben...na third class them go carry waka... lol

Dashing first class? You really need to put this mindset behind you.

There are top schools abroad that have as much as 30% of graduands bagging a first class or its equivalent.

This is 103/12108...less than 1%.
If Uniben has a poorer percentage, then it is a worse school.

Onyejemechimere:
Its been long I did this roll over something, after I got 93k with 4-5k in February.

Will start it again, you can join me on Monday.

With what you have.... My own Money is 5k.. And odd Below 2 odds and not less than 1.50 and 1.70 odds.

The roll over will be by the side, while I also play normal game.

Will be posting it here, let me know if you want me to tag you..

I'm interested in your rollover.

Please tag me when you start.

Dickson25:
starting my Rollover tomorrow....
abeg who fit give me 5 big odds wey fit play tomorrow
Celtic fit loss tomorrow self

Kindly tag me when you post your games.
Thanks.

I'm impressed.
I hope he wins.

stemmez:
1.5days rollover anyone? Wuote me nd I add u to mailing list

Interested.

If there's no bond with the offer he has, he should resume there and continue with the recruitment process of the multinational company. If there's a bond with his current offer, he should renegotiate an extension to the resumption date with the company.

This shouldn't be hard.

Nice handwriting? Yes, no doubt about it.
Do I like it? Not really, it has too much space in between letters in a word.
Have I seen a better handwriting? Yes, I have.

That's barbaric on the police's part, he should be dealt with if this news is reported fairly.

...but truth be told, that guy no suppose pass that place, is he the only road user?

It is not also good for people to use filling stations to avoid bad roads and the likes....that filling station is somebody's property, built by an individual.... citizens should learn to hold their government accountable.

Alzirida:
A country where funding in Education is abysmal.
The little that goes in are swindled by University Dons.


Privatize all federal Universities
Let government have 20% stake.


While FG should concentrate more on technical schools and craft centers

If privatized, the fees will be unbearable for most people.

Have you thought about that?

Jarus:
I'm a Messi fan, but sentiments aside, Messi has no place in Top 3. Anyone can win league.

Forget league, it is basic. It doesnt count much.

The 2 most important competitions in the year were world cup and the UCL.

Modric stole the show in WC.

CR7 and Salah stole the show in UCL.

It is an unpardonable embarrassment of Messi to get booted out of UCL at QF.

He had WC as second chance but he ended up even awful in WC.

Guys, let us put sentiments aside, Messi has no place in Top 3 in the world in 2018.

Same Salah booted out Roma that booted out Messi from UCL.

Salah, half fit, scored 2 goals in 2 matches in WC.


Messi scored 1 in 4 matches.

Over 200 coaches and captains throughout the world cannot be wrong in their voting.

For the bold, there may be sentiment though.

I really do think Ronaldo better deserves the Uefa player award ahead of Modric. However, Modric deserves the FIFA best award.

I'll be very surprised to see Ronaldo win the FIFA best award, not that he hasn't done enough but because there's a more deserving winner.

dammy13:

The popular artiste again on Thursday caused a stir at the Iyana-Ipaja orientation camp as he drove his white Mercedes Benz GLE 450 marked POLICE PF 413SPY into the camp.


He also promised to adhere to camp rules and regulations.

By doing the bold, he broke one major rule already.

No Corper is allowed to come to camp with cars or motorcycles. It is expressly stated on the call up letter.

First thing, facial beauty.

Other things I look at before approaching; height, legs and dressing. Trashy dressing is a turnoff.

baldman:
The responses to the Poster's comment gives a clear indication as to why divorce rate has been on the increase and as rightly noted by the Poster, the comments so far comes from a place of immaturity and a bit of lack of attention to details. The poster advised that married men should not love their wives more than their mothers (not that they should hate their mothers) and supported it with a bible verse. If you are not a christian or one who is looking to run a christian home, this post is not applicable to you. If you are a christian and you do not agree with the biblical injunction for you to leave your father and mother and cleave to your wife, you case is clearly different, you will need to determine what your religion is.

The love for one's mother should ordinarily not compete with the love one is to have towards his wife, but where choices have to be made, it will be wise to make choices that will preserve your home. Your mother loved you, you should at least love your children too. There is no greater love you can show your children than to make sure that they grow up in the right atmosphere ( a peaceful home where their mum is valued and not considered a former stranger and inferior to grandma). When your wife was being courted, did you make it clear to her at that point that the best she can ever be in your life is a second fiddle and that your true love and loyalty will remain only with your mum?

If your mother truly love you, she will understand the need for you to have a happy home and she will be willing to concede a bit of your attention and affection to your wife. She will even be willing to accept a bit of 'insults' or ignorant disrespect just to make sure your marriage works.

I once heard a christian man tell me that his wife, which he sent out, will not return to his home unless his mother is pleased with her ( she was not respectful enough). So now, the man his without a wife because he chose to make his mother happy. His children are out of his home because he loves his mum and is wife being out of the home pleases her. He is happy now living alone with his happy mother catering for him, probably masturbating away at night and tracking his children on social media. What kind of mother will even allow his son choose her over his wife? You should ask your self, what is at stake, for your family ( your children, your personal fulfillment and speed in life) if you love your wife more than your mother? I can tell you that your future, your family life and the future of your children is at stake if you choose your mother's happiness over that of your wife.

These unusual love for mothers that makes men push their wives out stems from inherent problems in the homes. The mother was treated as a second fiddle by a man who loved his mother more, so she poured all her love and affection on her son who will treat his own wife the way his mother was treated and the wife too will shift her love and attention on her son.. and the cycle continues. I doubt if any man whose father truly loved his mother would ever think twice about whether or not he should love his wife more than his sufficiently loved mum. Check it, most of these 'I love my Mum' campaigners are from dysfunctional homes (raised by mum alone or in a loveless marriage).

Let the mothers reserve their love for husband, let their sons love their wives and protect them like their fathers did to their mothers. This is healthier, otherwise, your wife can never stand a chance when placed side by side your Mother, it is not fair to bring any woman into such situation, particularly as you got her into the marriage claiming that you love her.

Marry a woman that truly loves you and she will care about everything you love, including your Mum. Your home is hers, not your Mum's. Your heart is hers, not your Mum's and your future is definitely hers, not your Mum's. Both of you will care for your Mum until she is gone. She will cry more than you when your mum is gone, and at that critical time, you will find true solace in her bossom. She is your future Mum if you love her enough to win her love.

This is perhaps, the most sensible post on this thread.

Nice one bro!

bamasite:
Bed bugs connote dirtiness especially in this age.

Rats also connote dirtiness and over crowding/congestion.

Mosquitoes! This one weak me. Even sniper no dey kill them again

The bold is a very common misconception.

They aren't attracted to dirt. If you're unlucky to pick them from a hotel, bus or wherever, they'll breed in your house however clean it is.

pocohantas:
I don't see myself loving any man more than my father and family.

So, I understand men who 'love' their mum a whole lot. The bond is different, the love is different.

Just be diplomatic about it. That's what I plan to do, be diplomatic about it. My kids, my father, then my husband...in that order .

You really can't put an order to it. They're different kinds of love for each of them but trust me, your family will take priority.

You'll feed your kids first over your dad...just wait till you have them.

SOFP:
Saying companies in NG prefer ACCA to ACA is untrue. I strongly doubt you knowing anything about multinationals in NG. Keep yourself updated.

Please leave that one.
He clearly isn't up-to-date.

ICAN is relevant in all countries reporting using IFRS and is a member of IFAC, infact, a founding member of IFAC.

ACCA is also relevant in those countries reporting using IFRS. It is also a member of IFAC.

The only restrictions these bodies face is that most countries prefer their local professional body. Just like in Nigeria, as it stands, ICAN is preferred simply because ACCA isnt recognized by the FRC and cannot sign financial statements.

zicoraads:
Lawnreigh, from your post, I can deduce that the three of you live in the same town. So I'll advise that she puts her foot down and make it clear to him that it is over between the two of them.

Ignore Dominique's advice about her being there for him. Trust me, he's most likely trying to emotionally blackmail her. I repeat, he's trying to emotionally blackmail her. A guy that keeps his kind of lifestyle loves life too much to really take his own life.

Now your lady should call a meeting between her parents and his parents, and make sure he's also there. If he didn't get the memo then, make sure your lady makes it clear that she has moved on and she is now in a serious relationship. His parents should know that their actions and his are affecting your relationship negatively. She should also tell them that if their son does any harm to himself, it is no longer your responsibility.

If at the end they haven't gotten the memo, he should go ahead and kill himself.

But believe me, there is a 99 percent chance that he just wants her back at all cost. There is nothing you can do really. She is the one to end this if she really wants to. Except she just wants to string you and her ex along.

Cheers.

Lawnreigh, this up here is about the best advice you can get here.

Your lady has to put her feet on the ground. She should not "be there" for that ex bf cos it'll be a case of emotional blackmail, the ex won't move on if she's there for him, let her make that bold decision and do as advised in the post.

Goodluck.

hustla:
He should do ogijo too

Ogijo is not in Lagos.

This op just took part of the bro code and ruined it.
Bros before hoes, not girlfriend.

dominique:
If the snake was venomous, that's how she would have held it till she got to the hospital? I doubt if she would have made the trip to the hospital

Majority of venomous snakes' venoms will not kill a human in 3hrs.

Chances are that she'll make it to the hospital.