Sports › Re: Peseiro To NFF: Pay Me, Don’t Teach Me My Job by lagosrd: 5:06pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
[quote author=Winner444 post=127375882]A*fori |
Politics › Re: PDP, NNPP, Five Other Parties Form Coalition by lagosrd: 9:24am On Dec 08, 2023 |
Without which no man can defeat APC |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Dozens Of Hamas Nazi Terrorists SURRENDER To The Israel Army. by lagosrd: 9:23am On Dec 08, 2023 |
Morals of this is that Don't start what you cannot finish And Don't fight someone , you can't handle |
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Suspected Ritualist, Exhume Body Of OAU Student In Ogun by lagosrd: 6:29am On Dec 08, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Peseiro To NFF: Pay Me, Don’t Teach Me My Job by lagosrd: 6:25am On Dec 08, 2023 |
Winner444: Finally got your Airtel weekly free MB and felt the first thing you should do is come online to insult your maker, right? Are you not tired of being exposed. So you suddenly arrogate to yourself my maker? Haaaa see what and how truth can expose lies. See yourself now , pls go ahead with your business Amy God forgive you if he wishes. However, you are less than a pinch of sand in the eyes of my maker. Desperado sales man. |
Politics › Re: First Shipment Of Crude Arrives Dangote Refinery with 950,000 barrel by lagosrd: 8:42pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
Story don do .. refund the thing sms sell it cheaper.. and stop telling us cock and bull story |
Politics › Re: Nobody Will Even Bomb IPOB – Sheikh Gumi Reacts To Kaduna 'Accidental' Airstrike by lagosrd: 8:41pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Re: UPDATE Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by lagosrd: 8:36pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
Obolor123454: PREVIOUS THREAD https://www.nairaland.com/7931278/wife-travelling-without-consent/4#127349507 Hello, I am writing to provide some clarifications following our earlier discussion under the mentioned headings. It has become necessary to address certain points for better understanding.
I've noticed some surprising comments, and I believe it might be attributed to cultural differences. I want to emphasize that I opened this account upon the request of a Nigerian friend who encouraged me to share my story.
My primary concern is the timing of the information about the occasion for which my spouse has been making preparations. The issue is not about mistrusting my brother; rather, it's about my spouse not sharing this information earlier.
The wedding she is attending is that of her old classmate's younger sister, a man whose name has been rarely mentioned in the ten years of our marriage. My surprise stems from the sudden revelation of her involvement in this event just a few days before the ceremony, despite the extensive preparations leading up to it. Like I said, I think she only mention the guy’s name just once when the guy had an accident. She just mentioned the accident and that was all.
Moreover, when she was even telling me of embarking on the journey, she just only said that she was attending a friend’s wedding without further details or explanation. She was merely informing me about it, because she already made all the arrangement to attend the wedding and has been discussing the issue with this same class mates for over 4 months without ever mentioning it to me, just only to inform me days to the occasion.
I hope these clarifications shed light on the specific points of concern. I appreciate your time. Am just reading this your piece and I feel I need to chop in something for you. Please and please just keep calm and get yourself together , prepare your mind and pray and watch. Keep mute about it and watch her attitude when she comes back. Am sorry to tell you that there is more to it , your wife has been hiding from you a lot unknown to you, however you're a lucky man cos it's been revealed to you when you can still adjust to one of the many challenges life can throw at a man. Avoid sleeping with her immediately she comes back if you guys are still in the business of making babies. Watch and notice her attitude towards you and ignore so many of them as if they don't exist cos she will want to play smart on you if you make a big deal out of it . Don't border asking her questions when she returns and wat h the kind of friends she keeps gather enough evidence to confront her . Don't be tempted to tell any family member or any clergy for now.. ha dle this yourself cos it's a rare opportunity to bring her under submission and husband control. Continue with daily houses activities and normals doings . Dint get bordered so that you won't die for nothing. Lastly start preparing your mind not to be moved , suprised or thrown off balance if you get to know more than what the third ears could here. Be strategic, proactive , descrete and investigative.. and if you're able to subdue her. Pls forgive her and move on. Cos things dey happen ooo. If others still you what they are facing , you will take your own inside and manage it yourself. |
Sports › Re: Peseiro To NFF: Pay Me, Don’t Teach Me My Job by lagosrd: 7:04pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
Winner444: Your mind no go touch ground, ozuor 🤪😝😜 Rougue casted |
Politics › Re: Cost Of Living In Nigeria Is Cheaper Than UK Or US by lagosrd: 8:49am On Dec 04, 2023 |
Difrent: Even though Migration is as old as humanity Nigerians are making it look like the next Gold rush. In the past 2 years UK has made over 50billion pounds from Nigerians alone to shore up it's ailing economy and to keep the economy running they make sure they are stuck in jobs their own citizens refused to do while paying heavy taxes at the end of the day....Nigeria and Nigerian economy loses
Those I'm mad at are those doctors that got subsidized medical education and ran to UK to practice....why didn't you go to study medicine in UK?....just game our system. If you want to practice in UK.....study medicine in the UK too.....abi does it make sense to want to be treating whites but use blacks to train Ungrateful lot Ungrateful to who? Was it your brain they used to study in the university? And moreso, who subsidized what . Until you stop seeing your right as privileges, Dem you're in your own. So you no get mouth when some people that earn almost 6000% more thsm you annually are buying #110million worth or cars for over 400 of them ? From an importer when your won country is producing cars , even assembling cars. You need to see me, let me explain how thing dey happen in Nigeria now pls top staying abroad in your mind |
Politics › Re: Cost Of Living In Nigeria Is Cheaper Than UK Or US by lagosrd: 8:42am On Dec 04, 2023 |
From all indications this writeup will not work for most salary earners. If you calculate that perday them you should be earning around #300k per month. How many people are earning that In a month .
Pls go ahead and divide what you earn monthly with 30days and see how worthless those calculations are and moreso, you cost of rent, transport etc |
Sports › Re: Peseiro To NFF: Pay Me, Don’t Teach Me My Job by lagosrd: 8:31am On Dec 04, 2023 |
Winner444: what is this one saying sef? Where did mention gwagwalada in my Ad copy? Are you blind or can't you read? I repeat, get lọst. Buyers are already buying. I no send you 🤪 Keep consoling yourself.... Which buyer 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Utterly mannerless human being. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: UK Ship Hit By 'rocket Fire' Off Yemen's Coast As Casualties Remain Unknown. by lagosrd: 7:16pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
SpatialKing: See how they have started looking for trouble, Muslims won't call Yemen 🇾🇪 to order...
When attacking starts raining on them now
You guys will come online and be crying like babies They are born hypocrites. It's in their DNA. Their blind UN is also silent now but when bombardments starts now the will be shouting humanitarian this and that. |
Sports › Re: Peseiro To NFF: Pay Me, Don’t Teach Me My Job by lagosrd: 7:12pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Winner444: Exactly what a lúnatic would write. You know what? Get lòst.  Pained to the marrow , you discuss without cursing people. Never, he can't do that . And this attitude clearly show that whoever falls prey of your tricks here will find themselves to blame. Simple question, you grew into anger and insults . And Yu think this attitude will encourage people to buy from you. The company that gave you those land are merely wasting their time. You need some lessons in anger management. Stop deceiving people that Gwagwalada is not abuja |
Sports › Re: Peseiro To NFF: Pay Me, Don’t Teach Me My Job by lagosrd: 3:00pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Winner444: "We"? You and who is "We"? Son, you are alone on this street. Google map is your friend. I don't know what cheap drug you are on, but you should really get some help fast. In my personal capacity, there is little or nothing I can do to save you. I don cast this one today horrible and hopeless being . If this how you market your lies who will buy from you. Someone that doesn't know what he is doing , telling people to come and join the band wagon on a journey to nowhere. |
Sports › Re: Peseiro To NFF: Pay Me, Don’t Teach Me My Job by lagosrd: 1:09pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Winner444: A convenient excuse to give to your kids in future when they ask you what you were doing when your mates were buying up Abuja. We won't allow you describe a 10km distance to people as a 15 minute drive to airport , 5min drive to CBN headquarters again. Hopeless marketer so it's within your mouth to put in my children because of your deceitful trades. If you don't have anything to hide , why are you suddenly agressive. |
Crime › Re: Kwara Monarch, Two Others Bag Life Imprisonment For Kidnapping by lagosrd: 1:03pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Kudos to the judge for the landmark judgement. You can be a pseudo kidnapper and br living large .. Sunday Igboho said the same thing but the dunes said it was a lie. |
Sports › Re: Peseiro To NFF: Pay Me, Don’t Teach Me My Job by lagosrd: 12:56pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Winner444: Guts
Every Nigerian ought to own a portion of the Federal Capital Territory. Abuja is our common heritage as Nigerian citizens.
The good thing is, Land no cost for Abuja, Na you wan buy am for Maitama. Even sef, Land no even cost for Maitama, Na you no buy am on time.
For as low as 800k, 1M, 2M, 3M etc, you can become a Landlord in Abuja. Don't take my word for it, you can click this LINK to see for yourself. So people should live their village only to go and settle down in another village all in the name of living in Abuja. Abeggiii near wall |
Politics › Re: Pope John Paul II Visited Abacha And His Family In Abuja In 1998 - Photos by lagosrd: 12:51pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
PrinceOfLagos: Nigeria Stories
I think it's about time that out religious leaders do a background check of Nigerian politicians before paying them visits because the Late head of state, general sanni abacha is the biggest thief in Nigeria political history. Biggest post humus donor |
Politics › Re: Demolished Buildings Not Approved By Government – Lagos by lagosrd: 10:30pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Jogs1900: I understand you but the question is did the property owners get the right approval from the state government? If they did, they would be fully compensated. Bro why then demolish before they are sure people don't have the documents. I want to believe at least one will have approved documents . It's really pathetic to loose one's sweat just like that . If you know Lagos , you will know that if those planning people doesn't see the right papers, they won't allow you proceed with any work on site let alone Omo onile wahala |
Politics › Re: Uzoka-Anite Explains Why Government Prefers Imported Vehicles by lagosrd: 6:59pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Very very lame excuse from unpatriotic people . But they want us to eat Nigerian made foods and products. |
Politics › Re: What Took America 185yrs, Nigeria Achieved It Within 24yrs – Akpabio by lagosrd: 6:53pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Og course now. It took the whole world 185 years to be fantastically corrupt. And it took Nigeria only 24 yrs where everything keeps moving backwards A dollar now is #1200 pound almost #1500 |
Politics › Re: Demolished Buildings Not Approved By Government – Lagos by lagosrd: 6:50pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Jogs1900: Don't be emotional..It must start from somewhere.You can't tell the state government what to do in their territory. Btw, Kara bridge is in Ogun state.mercci It's not possible to build in Lagos without the town planning and approval guys coming around. It's not possible. This is vindictive and totally out of order |
Politics › Re: Exchange Between Ilemona Onoja And Tokunbo Wahab by lagosrd: 6:47pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
They are just doing bojuboju politics. Lagos state officials in charge of approval are corrupt to the heavens |
Christianity Etc › Re: Celestial Church Invites Pasuma, Portable To Praise Night (Photo) by lagosrd: 6:43pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
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Family › Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by lagosrd: 4:05pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Do not be afraid. Get married and start firing immediately with alacrity. Wetin be infertility.... |
Politics › Re: 2022 Internally Generated Revenue, Top 3 Per Zone by lagosrd: 4:02pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
What have they done with all these huge funds.. what? |
Properties › Re: See This Fine Mansion Lagos Is Demolishing With "2 Days" Notice by lagosrd: 8:38pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
There is practically nothing anyone can do. When next they want to build they should learn to engage the services of a professional. From land chatting with the ministry of land to consulting an architect to an engineer and pay them their property dues.
You bought a land and built something of his magnitude and didn't do proper research and documentations. Stop giving your jobs to quacks.
By now , you should be asking a staff of the ministry of land that gave you the go ahead questions, you can sue him, and you can also ask the architect some questions if you had paid him well to do you independent research on the land.
Anyway, accept my sympathy. |
Politics › Re: Babajide Owodunni: Appeal Court Sacks Ogun PDP Lawmaker by lagosrd: 8:40pm On Nov 23, 2023 |
Appeal court of......... |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Amad: Former Mayor of Johannesburg Pictured Wielding Rifle In Support Of Hamas by lagosrd: 9:24pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
Dunes as usual |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel-hamas War: Ceasefire To Be Announced In Coming Hours – Hamas Official by lagosrd: 9:23pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
dappydozzy: Stop deceiving yourself, you cannot annihilate terrorists, terrorism is not resolved by brute force. What you view as terrorism is emancipation and resistance to occupation by Isreal. Isreal should return to the 1967 delineations and move out of Palestinian territories. Start the negotiations for a two state solution. In terms of negotiation, Hamas has nothing to lose, they are negotiating from a position of power. Isreal and the Western imperialists have a lot to lose, their hostages are with Hamas, but there is a lot of pressure on the Isreali Prime minister, His career is on the line, if a deal is not struck, Isreal has a lot to lose than Hamas. Isreal needs to release all detainees in Isreali prisons without trial for years in exchange for their hostages.The language that Isreal understands is terrorism,so that is how they should communicated with. The day i discovered that Isreal is a useless country is when the Isreali UN ambassador said on the floor of the Security Council meeting that UN humanitarian workers delivering aid to Gaza that were killed by airstrikes are also member of Hamas, A country that claims to know everything. An overrated barbaric country. You talk like on of the disgruntled journalist from aljazera.. don't let another man's matter fruadstrate you.. what is happening in gaze can't be more important than the senseless killings in southern Kaduna and Benue. Charity begins at home. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel-hamas War: Ceasefire To Be Announced In Coming Hours – Hamas Official by lagosrd: 9:19pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
You want to determine what conditions a cease fore will look like . Never.
There is not case of ceasefire in the first place as Israel is just running a military exercise like that or Russia inside Gaza and no single nation can allow that level of impunity and recklessness from a neighbor. Hamas must be wiped. |