ProudtobeaMUMUM:
I have been out of action for sometimes now, My question is why are non virgins always angry with virgins, Is it our fault that you have lost your virginity or your glory,

I disagree with your insinuation. No body is pained. The problem is virgins esp female virgins tend to use it as advantage and start feeling like princess. Some even use it to blackmail their partners. Virgins or non-vorgins makes no difference.

Personnal opinion though

Nice piece... I love it

Ok

commyluv:
he has stand is ground that I will go back to school

So marry him. Most girls makes this mistake then they end up begging a man to marry them after their university or join MFM prayer group asking God for life partner.

babywhite:
I don't know why I find this funny

It's funny because Op is high and doesnt know what being single is.

commyluv:
Hi guys, Good morning



Am writing this to seek advice because am very confuse now.

Have been dating this guy I love him and I think he loves me too...He said he want to marry me that is coming to see my parent before the ending of next month and before next year we will marry.


Now my problem is am still young am 19years next year April will make me 20years while he is 28. I told him to wait for like 2years time but he refuse , I told him late me go to university first but he still refuse.

He even called my friend to plead for me for him.

pls my fellow brothers and sisters what will I do. because I think am too young for marriage

pls I need advice thanks.

You better marry him ooo. Do'nt let the chance to waste. He is 28. He wll definately not wait for you to finish university. After the marriage you can continue your school. But you have to be determined and stand your ground otherwise say bye bye to university. Marriage comes with a lot of resposibilities i.e pregnancy, child care etc. You have to be strong to cope.

Lawlahdey:
Honestly, we have all gone crazy in this fvcking century.

As in ehh. People no longer see the need for decency in the society. Copy copy has clouded the brains.

[quote author=stiffmeister post=60736182]why does the app direct me to opera mini??
Does it mean her didn't download the original nairaland app

help me please![/quote


Nairaland app na rubbi.sh. i downloaded mine from 9app.. It's same with normal website

Tompeters:
I still don't understand this..... A guy loves you and treats you right, they'll say he's too nice.... Another guy treats them like trash, they say all guys are the same...
This lady for me is not matured enough to handle a relationship

Dont be too nice to girls, it is bad. Girl dont value guys that are too nice... Sometimes you have to act like a devil. Exercise your authority in soft way. And they will start licking your feet

stupidity:
I'm an Edo man. But not the Benin part. Have heard a lot of stories about how Benin girls treat their men. Never believed any of this till I experienced it first hand.

If you know you don't have future plans for a Benin girl, never you gonk her in the first place talk more of dumping her. Na sorry be your name. If the girl on her own bow out of the relationship, thank your stars. But say you dump her, brother, she go use juju tie you down. Till death.

Met this Benin babe a while back, kept her because this girl can fvck good. Infact she dey act porn for bed. The worst part of it is that this babe knows I ain't got shlt for Her. no love. She caught me cheating severally. She will just laugh it off, she came to my crib one day and met another girl with my towel on her waist. Yet this girl jejely went home and came back the next day, para for me small then gonk me like say na she do wrong for catching me red handed.

Till today I still dey use all body language tell this babe say make she find way, she nor gree. My fear be say, if she decide to go extra mile for my head. I sorry for myself. I'm covered though.

So I'm using this medium to inform non Edo guys, don't mess with a Benin girl, when I say Benin girl, home base Benin girls. They are not to be toyed with. If I hear Benin girl again, I go tear race, even if the pvssy be like Genevieve own. Also you dare not tell her your no longer interested, na da one worse pass. Lol. I don tell her tire. She go just smile

Benin girls are good. Do'nt generalise. I live in Warri and there are many of them here. Using juju depends on individual. Some

girls use juju to hold their man. It's everywhere irrespective they come from.


The only thing i will agree with is that Benin girls are good in bed.

Bro, can you deal it those thoughts? Believe me, i have been in your situation and the thoughts are killing. And you might not trust her becos of that. And there are potentials you might cheat on her.


And if a girl tells you her cheated with a guy (esp when you didnt ask her to tell you). Bro know that she has been doing it with other guys.


My adivce. If you love her that much, work on those thought. Try to forget it. To do this, you have to play with her often.


But the truth is it might not work.

So what makes you think the baby you are carrying is a boy?

By the way i hate this kind of story. How can you be single and strafing a married man. Do you plan to present 10cm diameter virgina to your future hunband?

No remedy for your situation.

What a waste of resources. It"s like searching for water in a desert.

It might be true but Okorocha does not represent the interest of the igbos. He is more selfish the other eastern politicians

thepussyhunter:
just curious to know cos most no-sex-relationships i know of and have seen dont usually last

does not having sex in a relationship affect the whole shiii and create a 65% chance of an early break up ?

Is it healthy in a realtionship at all?

Take it from me. It doesnt work at all. It always end up in fiasco. I was in one some years ago. She said no sex and a gladly accepted. But she kept on demanding money and recharge card from me. As a matter of fact, she said she is my responsibility. I felt cheated. Then i had to punch the relationship

In conclusion relationship should be symbiotic.

Op you try but you still have a lot to learn. Next time when you are in such a situation, allow her to bring her freinds to the restaurant. After eating you declare 'operation answer your papa name' i.e pay for your own food and leave them there.


Any of them who didnt have money to pay will wash plate in the restaurant.


One girl tried it with me and she recieved the embarrassment of her life.

In conclusion Op. Love unconditionally i.e love without having material expectations in mind then you will npt have cause to complain. In other words, date/marry your friend.

If i hear... Military women? When there are thousands of normal people looking for husband.


My advice... Let them marry themselves. If military marry military dem go born betta.

Mr Lie. I wish you know this. The social media no longer take you serious

I dont know what to called you. A bad Nigerian i guess. You words are full of hate.

I support the Nigerian constitution, but probably you have not read it.

Let them agitate' it's allowed.

Purge yourself of hate for a better Nigeria

Virus777:




Like seriously?!

One question though, is that your picture in your profile?

Yes of course.

So you want to bleep her for free....
Just work on your skills and she is yours even without bride price.

Lie lie 21 years. Is that your football age?

The great researcher of our time... Well done.

Do nothing and prepare for extra year

Don't even think of doing so. I am speaking from experience.

Sorry oo. Welcome to the world

Desperados...

It's true oo... I never thought of it.

Wrong action....

mhisbliss:
lol not an excuse joor

i want to avoid story that touch.

I"m afraid to have a girlfrd. Heartbreak stories are on the high side