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Op u are very correct, started mine while I was 25, had worked for two years then, my job gave me time though, cos I work for the Govt. Many feel business is for those who have no job, not knowing is virtually for all, for those in well paid jobs as a backup incase the job is gone, for others, as a support to the present job

caracas:
Chai,the most stewpid question yet on naira land .So who developed Lagos .the population of igbos in lag alone is more than 20million.80% of buisnesses in Lagos are owned by igbos .more than 50% of the lands n houses in Lagos are owned by igbos .igbos dominate lekki banana island ,eko atlantic,amuwo odofin festac,surulere badagry ,ikotun igando iyanapaja ojo ,okota even ajegunle n the rest If them .have u bin to trade fair , satellite town to see What igbos did there.go to amuwo,okota,banana island n see the igbo wonders.
N let me advice u cos i know u dont stay in lag .u probably stay in one hole in osun state n type poo about Where u vê never bin to.
Am sure uve never bin to Lagos.

Your stated points not outrightly doubting u, but back it up with sources of facts and when u say igbo are u counting delta and the south south guys? Cos they also hold a chunck of investments in houses, businesses and the likes in lagos tooo

Nice one, people will not longer fear pick pockets and the likes at that axis, achieving the Maga city status, hope the pick pockets there dnt move down to cele express, that's another area along that axis notorious with night robbers, pick pockets and the likes, asides the link bridge cele needs a organized bus park, same for ketu, ojota, iyana ipaja,

Many are quick to quick to crucify the husband, the alleged man friend should also be questioned and interrogated to establish the fact he also dated the lady,because he h somewhat contributed to the death, the husband being violent isn't the best option he could have opted to divorce, than beating the wife, will never support a man being violent, ladies too should try not provoke their husbands to anger. Let's see where this will end

Hmm I guess its diamond and some few, GTB increased my spending limit internationally some weeks ago, I still paid with my Stanbic Yesterday, it's not all banks, sure of that

Hmm, she should suit up to get attention and also probably provide a service, rather than just doing a self protest....she could sell key holders , R.cards, or something very small

Bawsse:
Abeg Hu else de go Zamfara

opena trend , i have a friend also posted so i refer her to the trend

Realberry:
Of course they wont say anything... Some ladies can really be mean at the same time, naive and sentimental... Just because you are a female and once you cry out, people will come to your rescue doesn't give you the right to slander people..
Feminist kor Feminist ni... Mtchew

Nice this is coming from lady too, those with evidences should come up and talk if not, they should wait till judgment day....all dis side talks is annoying,

Realberry:
If you are sure Seni ever molested you.. Why not say it?!... Abanilorukoje!!!

Abi ooo, they should talk or remain silent, I dnt know seni, but if u have anything to say, say it, than just hiding under cover

Hmmm discharged, many have come to say he might b guilty because the accused refused showing up, whose fault, it would have been nice if the accused shows up and the case is followed to the later, but since that didn't happen,evidence is all that matters ere, those who claim to know him and can't come up to talk, better they keep silence and let God judge, many come up to say he can't do such though he plays with his students, many that say he can and are not ready to talk are as good as them not saying anything at all, but students can be funny to, can't forget an experience a fellow corper went thru in cross river, anyways the great judge that sees all will judge.

The Autopsy will give a clear insight into the cause of her death, irrespective of the pushing or not, we are always too quick in judging people on social media, even before the court does...let's all wait for the autopsy then we know what next, it's quite sad, the kayode man having an affair with another person's wife( if true) it's also sad,

It's sad of all the general Hospitals and private hospital in lagos a traditionalist is where she sorted to get a solution, people need to be enlightened, how did she know it was ulcer, sure she must have ran a scan, y not got back to the hospital that referred her...anyways...once bitten twice shy, if she hears traditional next time she would run

Op, had to go thru ur previous post about the guy who u once dated for 4years and u didn't end up marrying him, cos of the ishh of him insisting u both stay @mowe, u stormed his wedding, made him cry, dissed his wife of being a village gal,no matter what he is happily married and u are still single, and with the tune of ur post, u are not in any relationship, this might b another opportunity, dnt end up going for this man's wedding and thinking u will also make him cry, u already like somethings in him, and not mentioned any dislikes from your post, let God guide u

nlfan:
Our company recently employed this guy, we worked in the same company before, then he was a manager and i was a junior staff.

I left the company years ago and joined another, so few months ago he got employed in my new office as a Director.

When he resumed, being that i knew him before, i started playing around with him, like when he was introduced to us, i was like oo, common, i hug him tightly and people were surprise at our closeness before i informed them that we have worked together before.

I am a jovial person, so each time i go around his office, i will call him boyfriend, my love, hope no girl is trespassing cos i will fight o and his subordinates will laugh and say you are not serious.

On the job, we get to work together at times cos i am a Manager now, we go for meetings etc, then some of his job includes doing some short production, even though i am not employed as a video producer, i told him i can do those for him personally, cos i recently learn those, he was surprise before but he decided to give me a try, i did it for him and he liked it, he became close and said i was helping him solve alot of problems.

Recently when he comes to my office, he will ask my PA where is my woman and that one will laugh knowing i started it but i just thought that was it though.

So last month when we went to the Palms Mall, to seek for permission to film their facilities in the short production work we had, we were together then he decided to do some shopping, i helped him carry the things he bought and just had fun, he took me to shoprite and ask me to shop, i just pick two things, drink and rice and he said is that all i said yes, he started showing me things, take this, take that i said i was okay, that it wasnt appropriate to come here and start shopping like its month end. So we left, in the car he said, you do have some very good attribute girl, i said like what, he said never mind and we drove off.

After that he started asking if we can have lunch but most time our lunch time dont sync, so i told him not to worry, then he asked for a dinner, i close late, im a workaholic, so most times i will agree but i will work till 9pm and he would have waited and get tired and left.

Finally i get to have a dinner date with him and he ask if we could do this more often, i said why not boyfriend jokingly, the next time we were having dinner, I said boyfriend let me greet that guy there, i really needed to meet him, he has a contact i need for work, he held me and said you call me boyfriend jokingly, i want you to mean it lol.

After i met with the guy, he started telling me how he loved me and how he will really love us to be in a relationship, he doesnt expect a yes and he knows its so wrong on all level because we work in the same place, but i can think about it and give him a response later that he will respect any decision i make.

I said thank you o, but since then, dude is so soft and nervous when he sees me, i can see the butterflies even when we are in a client meeting.

Even though he tries not to make it obvious at work, after work he is all over me

Last night we were together, i told him i am scared as he is almost 40 and not married, that i believe any guy who gets to that age, with enough money but has not married is a play boy lol. He couldn't say a word for like some minutes then he said, yes i am old enough to have been married and i had relationships, beautiful relationships with wonderful women, some didn't work because of my mistakes and because of things i neglected and some didn't work because it was not meant to work, but above all have learnt alot to be at least a better man and i am ready to make it work this time i promise, i have no doubt if you are the right girl because have known you for long and have never had a second thought about my woman, so forgive me for not making it work all these while, i want to make it right this time - MEHN THOSE WORDS RINGS IN MY HEAD LIKE KILODE, i loved the fact that he didnt put the blame on the ladies he's dated.

Now on my own side, I do not feel anything for him but i like him alot, i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that. What do you guys advise.

"i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that" . nlfan Quoting ur words, u like him you hang out, go out, do dinner, talk from morning to night and u feel nothing more, if I may ask what else to u feel in a dream man if not all this qualities u already like in this man, u work in the same place, having a relationship or getting married to him is also a thing one of u must likely quit the job, u made reference to him being 40 and not married, I should have a good guess u almost 30 if not slightly above too and u seem not to be married too, so it's almost same,and u being a workaholic as u admitted I dnt think u have a relationship at the moment, ur career is probably your relationship, one thing is, never leave the substance and start chasing shadows, u like being around this person, he might b your dream guy, "just saying" if u feel u dnt like him as a future husband, b open to him now, and let him know, so he knows he has to look forward, one thing that will b painful is if u loose this opportunity and u look back and wished u had accepted him, think twice, let God guide u. All d best

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Rather sad, I have always known that Govt. Hardly have a plan for common Nigerians "I share in the pains of Nigerians" is all we hear every now and then, do they really do They live in affluence, move in convoys, have access to the best medical services and the likes, they never suffer what the ordinary man on the street suffers, yet they quote this statement, I remember a present Minister now say back then as a Governor that fuel price should reduce because the international price of crude has dropped, what will he say now I remember watching and seeing people Occupy the MKO Abiola park at Ojota Lagos all for this same purpose, should we have endured it then and gotten used to it, than now when everything seems hard and difficult...fx rate poor, food prices high, no power, unemployment on the high side, no wage increase, fuel increase is all we got....God help us, but we ultimately need to help ourselves too

Back then, the management no soo nice, they frown at students in anything, if I may ask for what purpose is this on fb, the student has bitten more than he can chew, others are writing exams, he is suffering this alone, the same way every citizen can claim threat to his life, is the same way the lecturer has did, they should have just allowed him finish his exams

Jadekitana:
I wonder o take cover because they would soon come out to call you jade's asslicker I get plenty helmet to shield you though! Bunch of strange beings

Lolz@ "asslicker" am maximally covered. Abi...seems they much in ere...dats y d post hurts them hard

Very happy this is coming from a lady, anyone who takes this personal is likely one...all anyone need do is either agree or disagree with any of the listed reasons, not getting personal abt d whole thing. Nice one op, u have indeed touched a lot of reasons and I also stand to give reasons why all ur points are very true, though might not apply to all gals, but a very large majority.

A former Lagos State Sports Commissioner, Ademola Adeniji-Adele, has died, family sources told PREMIUM TIMES early Thursday.

Mr. Adeniji-Adele passed away in India where he had gone for a medical check-up after developing some complications, sources said. He was 60.

An official of Lagos State government confirmed the development to PREMIUM TIMES and said the state governor, Akinwunmi Ambode, was preparing to announce it to the people of the state.

Mr. Adeniji-Adele served as commissioner between 2007 and 2011 during the first tenure of former Governor Tunde Fashola.

A pro-democracy campaigner, Mr. Adeniji-Adele’s struggle during the military regime of late dictator, Sani Abacha, saw Mr. Adeniji-Adele’s incarceration for months.
source: http://www.premiumtimesng.com/regional/ssouth-west/202922-former-lagos-commissioner-adeniji-adele-dies-60.html
cc: lalasticlala

Tbells91:
I'll add you up on BBM.. Fareedah is my display name!

Seen....i see some say you go to the bank etc, the bank would never give u any info abt d person, cos u chose to pay, it's only the relevant fraud agencies like the sfu, Efcc, that can instruct banks to give detailed info, address and the likes of a fraudulent account, provided they get a complain from victims, with a simple method we gonna adopt, you are going to get ur funds back, as well as other friends you introduced to her. Got d add we will start up from there

SamOgasco:
Ok. I have some of this and some other relevant exhibits to back up my claims as well.

So how do we go about it now Sir?

Owk it's no biggie, you could carry out your full complain here http://specialfraudunit.org.ng/contact.html
Trust me they work, never doubt them, you also must b ready to tender evidences in court, if it gets to a legal stage...also Efcc can also help out, if you dnt know how to compose the mails, send a detailed report of how the scam took place to my mail on signature will compose one and send back to you

SamOgasco:
Please can you help me out as well? I was also scammed like that. With this securing of a job like that as well. So I would be so glad if you can be of help to me as well Sir. Cos its like the people are becoming too much nowadays.

Thanks.

It's not me directly....but will help, will give u relevant authorities links, provided u have all proofs intact, proofs of conversations till when account details was sent, also conversations after payment was made an it acknowledged, details of bank payment, teller or Internet transfer advice that tallys with the account details proof sent via chats. Phone no of the said scammer, location , available. With all this info, the special frauds unit of Nigerian police and Efcc will track them down.

Tbells91:
I know I'm gonna get lots of insults for this but please don't forget to add your constructive advice to the insults. Thanks in advance..

I'm a Graduate seeking employment and have bills to pay.. I joined some channels on BBM where I get lots of information, some time ago, someone posted a BBM pin of a person who offers ushering/weekend jobs. Being broke and needing to get some legal and fast money, I added the pin and it happened to be a woman.

She sends BC's of jobs she has and most times she'll tell me I can't do jobs like that cz I'm a Muslim and I wear hijab. She said if I can pay agency fee to her friend, I could get ushering jobs from him.

She has been on my list since February and we talk once in a while, last week she said there was a 3day job in ikeja and I could participate if I paid 7k as agency fee. Without thinking, I transferred 7k to the account number she gave me and even invited 3 of my friends who also paid. I asked her for the address of the venue but she said I should wait till she finished compiling the names of the girls that had paid, so that she could send it to the agent and then get the address. This was Wednesday night.

On Thursday morning, we got ready and set out to beat the traffic from Alagbado to ikeja hoping she would send the address since she said the event was to start by 11am. We got to ikeja some minutes to 11 and then she said we couldn't work last week, we should bear with her and she would fix us for this week. I started pinging her and sent her a whole lot of messages but she didn't reply.. I asked for her number but she said she doesn't give her number to clients.

On Friday, she later replied and said I shouldn't worry, that we would work on Tuesday and Wednesday this week. And that she couldn't refund the money cz she has added our names to the list already and if we don't work on Tuesday and Wednesday, she will give us our money.

Yesterday was Tuesday, she hasn't replied any of my messages since Sunday but she has been reading them. But she still hasn't deleted me and the other people I gave her pin to.

What do you guys think? I'll post the information I have if needed.. Thanks in advance and please go easy on me!

Pls mod in charge! Help do the needful.. Thank you!

Op its very sad you went through all this I this hard times, one thing I want to assure you off is you can recover your money in full, b4 she attempts to delete you, munch all chats that lead to your conclusion sending money, those are your proofs,also the bank details you paid to with your transfer advice, kindly send me her pin, my mail is on signature, we need show people like this scamming people isn't an option to hardship, the only thing left is if u want to forget about it, if not, I can assist and make sure you get u funds and she gets arrested.

Adinije:
AVB

Still available..

It's equally a prayer, but it doesn't represent a particular religion.. it's nice...I also second the concept.

May God console those he left behind... it is well...

Believe we shouldn't just focus on what we all like, we could also see what we don't like.
As for me, I don't like the fact that I am mostly not allowed to use my annual leave complete each year, also I have a lot of women in my office, which when they start their issues u almost feel like not working where u have a lot of women, ration of men to women is 1 :4, I also do not like when some work are felt to be handled by some people, believing some can't deliver while you are both in the same office.
Cc: lalasticlala

1. The mere fact I do what I studied in the University
2. The work environment.
3. The opportunity to interact with fellow clients in the same industry.
4. The constant pay
5. The flexibility to do other things(Business) , when no much to do.
6. My family @work, colleagues, never a dull moment.

nicerichard05:
[size=15pt]ABEG WERE BE SANYA BUS STOP?[/size]

its after ijesha, along apapashodi expressway b4 second rainbow

MzJoan3:
Am new here...show some love

Welcome joan... Wassup all being a while

Hmmm...dats nice, but Lagos State does better, 21st to 23rd we get paid