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Bidding happens from "MANY" to "ONE" where the one is scarce, not from one to many.

In terms of marriage, there is NO CASE of many men and few women. It's the reverse, women refusing to understand this in their prime is the reason why they go regretting in their late 30s and above. I genuinely wish all women well, but most of them need to be closer to reality.

See what Nairaland is showing me as advert below, are these the women that are being bid for in terms of marriage.... you gotta be kidding me!

For S*X and toy.... yes, which is sad, but for marriage.... NO

KobolanderSegun:
Bros you are very close to the kingdom. It's the greed of men that turns the whole thing to a bidding war. The babe is not interested so men bid and bid and bid. Throwing Money away on their lust.

The Post wasn't even about relationships it is about how men chose money over everything then begin to complain when women use the same mindset for them.

200 percent of men will look for a job that pays higher than their present job without batting an eyelid. But when women want to quit a relationship like how men quit jobs, men will be screaming she is a gold digger but when man are looking for more money in their jobs it is called " career advancement ".

Do you know what it feels like for the owner of the company to lose his star ? Take how angry PSG is because Mbappe walked away. Or Napoli and Victor Osimhen, one joker was even saying some nonsense about " work" is less important than marriage. When in real life marriage has become a joke of many sorts.

Brotherly, i saw marry in your post, and that was what informed my decision to write what i wrote, however, i agree with you there that men spend and spend to get a S*X mate. But this is mostly not true for Marriage. Women above 28 are the ones catching them and pinning them for marriage using all manner of tricks.

Ask any averagely stable man above 35, he has a couple of ladies that wants to marry him next week. If it is the same for women, Shiloh wont be Shiloh.

Kobojunkie:
I see now that I am trying to argue with a very unreasonable human with a tiny ego situation going on with him. Make I just waka pass so I can focus on tho

You did not have to insult, please let's be civil, PLEASE.
You can't call someone you dont know unreasonable.

Kobojunkie:
1. That much is obvious from the post. The men bid, and the woman decides to go with the highest bidder.

2. Studies have more than shown that a woman is much better off unmarried — she lives a healthier, longer, and more fulfilled life —than married. Yes, the numbers back this, and many of these are international studies. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Even married men continue to play around, so what in the world are you yapping among men that want to play around for?

4. Storyland! What is obvious is the fact that your tiny ego seems to have been bruised by OP admitting that relationships have always been transactional, and women, now more informed, are merely playing to get the best hand possible for themselves, too. 🥱🥱🥱

1) NO! you are refusing to get the point, men bid for S*X not marriage. Please Check Shilloh and other churches; you can see it there.

2) What studies, the one that is manipulated to project false strength for women so that the family can be destroyed, continue to deceive youself, again, go to Shiloh and see the numbers. Also ask the 43 years old unmarried single lady in your street how far.

3) Your point 3 doesn't address the fact that men who want to marry are NOT bidding, i dont know what you mean by "yapping." Be civil, not insulting.

4) There is no tiny ego anywhere; facts are facts. 23 to 30 years, ladies can afford to play around. How many 40+ single women do you see flaunting it, ask aunty Twa Savage, again go to Shiloh. There is not information anywhere; young women are just being deceived by large corporations who do not want the family together for their own selfish reasons. Older women in their 40s get it, and they mostly regret it.

Ask Aunty Tiwa Savage and her cohorts who are not l*sbians, if you dont have access to her, check the snapshot below. Men and women need each other, don't be misinformed, don't be decieved.

NB: I won't be one to go front and back with you on NL, so for now it's goodbye.

You forgot that the man is the one bidding, NOT the woman.

Men decide marriage; women decide s*x.

So in this case, men are the ones selecting the premium women, NOT women selecting.

Don't get carried away. How many men do you see in churches praying for a wife?

Stop twisting it; this kind of twist is what makes women go unmarried.

Men that want to play around are bidding; men that want to marry are NOT bidding. They are ready; they go quietly to their selected woman and lock it down. Often times what those women have is other men that are playing around, so it is always easy to go with the serious one even though she doesnt like/want/love him

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chibutek:
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Do you still have it?

patako:
5K

Still available?

These drinks are too strong and the dose is NOT measured, they are partly responsible for the increase in liver and kidney failure you see these days.

Few words should be enough for the wise.

Dizzyish:
Please I need advice, any advice.
I graduated with a 3rd class in Chemistry from three years ago (I only blame myself for that) and after I finished my NYSC a year ago I just plunged into a depressive state in regards to my mistake (my education) and my future (career) sometimes breaking down in tears when I think of things I've taken for granted in my life.

Go and learn AWS DevOps, if you don't buy a house in 3 years, come after me for refund for the wasted time.

You have e to be diligent and genuinely out effort into studying the concepts and knowing it. 6 months should be fine.

Below is a breakdown of what you need to learn:

AWS
Linux basic operations
Git and GitHub
Jenkins for CI/CD pipeline
Docker
Terraform
Prometheus/Grafana

If you can add Kubernetes to the stack, then reduce the time it will take you to buy your house from 3 years to 2.

All these things should NOT take you more than 6 months to learn, it has to do with IT and computer, but I tell you....if you can graduate with chemistry in Nigeria, (I don't care the class) learning all those butane, propane, tetrahydrocannabinol equation, then you can learn this stuffs.

The market is VERY hot for DevOps at the moment, after learning it, you should easily get a job of 5k USD per month, as a fresher....either you move to South Africa, UK,or US .....or you work remotely from Nigeria....the market is HOT!

Once you have 1 year hands on experience, expect to start earning 300 to 400usd every day....that's 150k naira, daily!

Yes! I mean this....if you earn 4million naira every month and you cannot buy a house in 2 years, then na you Sabi.

But hey....you have to study these things diligently for the first 6 months.

Anyone who doesn't understand what I am saying should search "AWS Devops jobs in UK or US". Put the job type to contract and see how much you can earn per day....

The question is, are you ready to study hard just for 6 month??

teepain:
My brother, apologies accepted. If you found my earlier post offensive, accept my apologies too.

I wish you more success in your endeavors. The more people who won from here, the happier I get.

Stay blessed.

No boss, I didn't find it offensive.... It was the initial guy who said I can't get job because of the way I write that pissed me off.

Then I saw his profile and noticed he signed up in 2017, guess it was transferred aggression...lol

Just woke up on Saturday Morin, I still dey bed and suddenly started seeing many mentions on nairaland....I weak na.

teepain:
Great and I am happy for you. By any stretch of imagination (a $700) fee for a reusable and resellable python module just for payment integration isn't bad in my personal opinion.

By the way, be careful how you use the word 'kids' for people you don't know. There are late 40s, 50s and 60s on this forum.

If you knew where I was eleven years ago, you would take back your statement.

I was very quick to remove the word kids even before i saw this post of yours, when i went back to check your profile.

Sincere apologies

Collinsanele:
How long have you been into web development

Lol Collin, you were the first to quote me.... and that gave rise to kids who did NOT have access to the internet when the thread was created and when my post was made to start telling me rubbish

Imagine someone trying to entice me with 350K naira for a project, wetin chioma no go see for saloon. Musa sef don try for gate.

Now i see why most older people blank outta Nairaland.

teepain:
Sometimes you are learning the wrong things. I laugh when people talk about getting paid 20k for developing websites.

Learn the tough stuffs and make some good money.

Recently, I developed a payment module for a Django Oscar project. And the fee was 350k. Just the payment module. You may not understand, but look for the stuffs that have steep learning curves and you will be amazed at what you can earn. Cheers.

Yikes, where did everyone get up from.

Sorry Papi, i dont get up from bed for 350K naira anymore.

That post was 11 years ago,!!

Yuck! now i wanna throw up

Asour:
If you're REALLY as good as you claim, your sights shouldn't just be set on Jobs in Nigeria alone.

Cheers.

Brother, go check the date.... that post was made 11 years ago when I was a student.

You can look at the post above.

Aurelius1:
How you wan take get jobs when you write like this?

You must be a very BIG IDIOT!!!!

Did you see the date of that post, 2010, that was 11 years ago.
I wonder were you were then, you didn't even have access to the internet 11 years ago, I can bet!!
Between then and now, I have moved to India, South Africa, Guinee and now United kingdom.
I have been involved in deploying and building 3G, 4G and 5G networks around the world

Website was just something for me to make money by the side while a student in 2010, when you did NOT have access to the internet.

Foolish kids jumping to insult people because all of us now have access to internet.

If not because of my tireless efforts deploying 3G networks allover Nigeria for MTN and Etisalat between 2012 and 2014 on which 4g was built, kids like you won't have access to the internet yet.


If me and you work in the same company, I will be 6 times your boss.... If you see me in real life, you can NOT talk to me anyhow.

That's how Jim Iyke beat the hell out of some of you!!!

BranddesignerH:
Sounds like a Joke. But Unfortunately it's not a movie script

Abeg joor I will Design a Professional Logo for your Product or Services for 1500 Only. Offer valid Today Only. Please see my signature.

Can I see some of your works...

What is an AD design

DigitalBrands01:
OK.

Please see my Profile for my info

I can see your info, but I can't see any work you have done there

Think this looks nice, I like the combination colour combination of that zik design...what are your toolset, how much do you design a logo...what about a Facebook banner.

Can I see other designs of yours....what's your delivery duration

DigitalBrands01:
When a whole Lagos got the sum of 10 Billion.

This is where he need to make use of the money we saw in his video clip during the Election. Our mumu don do!

Anyway, I will Design a company Logo for 2k Only or Website for your Product or Company. Info below

If I order 2 logos, how long will it take you to deliver...besides I can't see any of your work on nairaland here

Absent

Dude was absent for Maths and English.... and the rest result was that poor, yet all he got was slaps.

I think the daddy should be summoned for under beating the boy...Haibo!!

isthatso:
somebody wants to award contract for security equipment

If you know, you know