tooth4tooth: I don't even know whether to pity him or hate him.š¤· How can you manage to Japa out this country only to start sleeping some mumu sleep on duty
At the same time, it will not be nice for the guy to be deported back to Naija after all the Japa struggles. But that fellow Nigeria girl nor try at all.
JimmySwaggart: Cheap labor, they use illegal migrant to carry these jobs to specification. No American or European citizen will spends his/her quality time doing all that, even with the availability of the best tractors.
Nataliace: The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.
He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.
Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.
He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.
I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.
My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.
I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.
How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?
This is sincerely becoming unbearable.
make a recording when you want to warn or caution him again, when you husband return tell him and play him the video .
No fly zone in war time does not stop enemy fly-in, but stops commercial flights. Let's deploy a thousand drones in 5 minutes and exhaust their batteries and then get our jets to drop bombs on their tanks and inventories.
Tryagain77: I saw a post on this forum which looks similar to mine and that inspired me into writing this to share with people how my boss (former) was abusing me.
I graduated from one of the courses in social science in one of the federal universities and have been job hunting to land a good job but to no avail.
Bills were piling up while I was going down economically. Out of hunger, lack and frustration, I settled to work as a barman in a hotel.
A week after resuming that work, the man that the hotel is leased out to started showing me his true colours. Nobody is above mistake in life. Even minor things that could have been settled without raising eyebrows, he would shout at me and abuse me right in front of customers. He would use derogatory words to describe me and say all sort of inhumane things to me, all to show that he's the boss.
Despite all that, I couldn't leave because I had no other job option at hand. For the 9 months I have worked in the place, these are the things I went through.
1. I have been verbally and physically abused by the said man. There is no kind of derogatory and inhumane word that man has not used on me and most times, right in the presence of customers and also when in the presence of the girls he brings to sleep with.
Note: this is how he behaves with all the staff, not only me.
2. He kicked me, slapped me, knocked my head, spat on me, yelled at me. Calling me a fool, an idiot, useless something etc, was no longer anything worrisome to me again because I got used to it.
3. Because of all these abuses, his friends who use to come there took advantage and started abusing me too. One slapped me the other day because I presented a bill he thought I surcharged him, which we later found out I didnt. I don't blame him actually.
4. You would work 2 months plus before you receive 1 month salary. For example, you would receive January salary between 10-15th of March.
5. Salary was N25,000 but I have never received that amount complete. He always look for something accuse me of in order to deduct our so called salary and pay less. There was a month I received N7000 as my salary.
6. Any customer that breaks a glass pays N1000 for it. When he first mentioned this in a meeting, we thought he was joking, but he was being serious. When he started deducting my salary for broken glasses, then I realized he was serious. I have never heard anything of such anywhere before. That a customer who breaks glass should pay N1000 for it.
What happened on the 23rd of May. 23rd of May was his birthday. He invited friends and celebrated. Right in his presence, one of the guests broke a glass. I'm the only one serving both the bar and guests in the room including food. So it was a very busy time for me. Just because I didn't sweep the broken glass immediately because I was busy serving people, as I wanted to pass, he shouted angrily at me, aimed me with the broken glass and broke my head. I was bleeding and I left the place to a pharmacy to treat the wound. Guess what? He was not even remorseful about it at all.
The following day I tendered a resignation letter with immediate effect. Obviously if I don't leave the place, the man may kill me or make me do something I will later regret.
Now pay me off, he's telling me I need to work again at least another one month for him to find a replacement, if I'm serious about receiving my outstanding salary or I should forget about it. Even at that, I know too well that he will pay me anything he likes, claiming glasses were broken, I did this and I did that. Presently he's looking for job seekers but nobody wants to work with such a crude person anymore. Even someone he sacked as usual over two months ago, he's not been able to replace till today.
Now I'm jobless, hungry and penniless.
I need advice on how to go about to collect my money from this man. I don't have strength for any fight with him. I just need my hard earned money but let it not be until another blood is spilled.
Story of a struggling Nigerian.
start looking for another job, reach out to me, I will give u some money , if you are a female don't bother, my Nairaland users name at yahoo or Gmail,
Since October last year when I bleeped one my girl my dvck has never been the same
Blisters has now become part the of my dvck I was ashamed to visit the hospital and was rubbing funbact a on itā¦.. the funbact clears the blister but just temporarily
After then someone prescribed a drug for me which I used it, it cleared the blisters but after a while they resurface but not like the first timeā¦. the blister will grow then pus will on be coming out of the blisters on my scrotal sack and my penis
Mehn Iām so boxed up on what to do right now canāt even have s.x with my girl for some months now cuz Iām scared I minght infect her
So inconvenienced as the pus is afflicted with pains im experiencing pains on my divk and then canāt even relax properly most times
Is showing as its going but the pains Iām experiencing now is out of this earth I regret doing that shit
Those are the first assignments of Tinubu. Converting Federal property to personal ownership. The thing dey sweet am die...even though he has accumulated loot to actually buy any property...no way na to convert public property dey sweet am pass
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