₦airaland Forum

paul100:
No reason am,i just dey say the truth

I understand,na Tru

omooba969:
She needs to follow her heart.

sometimes when u follow your heart , always use your brain too ,and who told u ,the op will not follow a better dude than this her admirer when the time is again ripe to hunt for new meat ?

paul100:
You are a confused lady.There will always be a better guy.
The new guy is very wise.If you want to know why this new guy does not want to have anything with you is because he knows you act like a baby.
You see a better guy than your first boyfriend,you want him and if you see another guy with more potentials than this new guy,you want him too.Learn to be focused.
The guy have sense.He does not want to be a backup guy,a plan B or a side guy.He is a gentleman that why he does not want to be the cause of your break up with your boyfriend that have not offended or done anything wrong to you.
I pity another man you may marry in the future because when you meet someone better than your husband,you start comparing and maybe sleeping with the other man outside and that what HOES do.
Always remember,there is always a better guy.

see as u harsh for the babe ,

donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!

hmmmm ,u nailed it all

mrkings84:
Unfortunately they can't effect any change. Or can u suggest how they can end the suffer?

there are people been paid millions of naira to make suggestions for the govt,so don't bother yourself making suggestions for the government

mrkings84:
Time for different association of youth bodies to be form just for the hustling. Time for every Edolite to cash out from this out corrupt politicians.....

and suffer for the next 4 years

suffer no day tire you ?

what I don't understand,if we don't buy innoso cars who will buy it then ?

setobaba:
How do I make her walk beside me with leach? I ended up always kicking her each time we go out

and don't forget, anytime the dog is going faster than you in a leach ,stop moving at that extend ,with time daily ,d dog will adjust to your moving pattern , my dog is a mix bread (local and long mouth rott)but I was able to tame her ,to the extend people ask me if it's a police dog ,u no fit not knock on our entrance door if the dog is sleeping there and not chained ,I made the entrance door so comfortable for her with a sofa for her to sleep on when even it's sunny or raining outside ,..
when it's morning dog is already scratching on the door to say high to every one ,na bed she day jump out before we serve am food

Focusmind:
So sad, see the trauma on the faces of the villagers. Nigeria is a very poor country. You know a very poor country by the living standard of its people. The kind of houses they live, clothes the wear, general well being. Anytime they showed street Nigerians, you see faces of abject poverty and struggle. See how these innocent people lost their lives all in a bid to eke out a living

9ja govt travel to foreign countries like uk,us, France,and even dubia still yet they can't implement things and make amendment to their own community ,

9ja is the most unsafe place to move at night because we lack infrastructure, ordinary shop in dubia ,Even if na sweet you day sell ,u must get CCTV camera ,it's part of the requirements to set up a shop in dubia ,.....

we have a long way to go o

when I tell people it's best govt regulate the movement of heavy duty vehicles ,it's either they move at night and stop moving at 7am or 8am
and they must use the extreme end of the road ...

so people will say wat do I know,....9ja is just backward in all aspects abeg

JamOSneh:
people are just too wicked and heartless, I posted a phone here on nairaland yesterday, today a guy called me Nd we had agreement to meet at ikeja, I call the fool twice before f I start going there, I even call the wherey wen am in the bus he said no problem I should be coming, I spent almost 1,500 from Sango ota to Ikeja, guess what Wen I get to Ikeja, the fool started decline my calls I call him several times he continued declined it Nd he didn't show up, I even told him I don't have money for transport he z no problem I should be coming, getting to Ikeja the wherey no show up, if not for God today I go still dey on d road trecking back to Sango ota by now, I don't know why people are like that on nairaland,

next time when they say an average 9ja person isn't transparent with his dealing be it business, relationship , you better believe that statement

Rhectz:
The guy is trying to follow his passion

sometimes your passion can give you joy but will not put food on your table or even take care of your family ,
in a world like these you just have to follow wat brings money to the hux steady

Bhadmus77:
This guy no well o... U attached a wrong picture at first.. Now u changed it and u are feeling unapologetic

you see most of these unqualified bloggers ,that is how American will post a negative news about nigeria ,and these 9ja bloggers will not confirm ,they start helping American spread the news ,,,..

infact we are the ones helping American spread bad news about 9ja ,we are our own enemy's

Braintrain:
I bought my beng second class upper 400k in a federal university of technology

shut up,,
na so una take they mumu una self ,
person help your destiny due to your long cry for help ,u still wan caste am
..they for just leave you make u carry your certificate of attendance go hux jeje jeje

chatinent:
If I were the lady, I would just come in, open the door, smile and leave without uttering a word. The suspicion of what I'll do alone will witchhunt them.

u sure ?
most lady long term investment na relationship o

Rossikk:
We do not need a 'common colour for painting buildings'. Your ''yellow and green'' imagery is an exaggeration of the sharpness of contrasts we see in the colours of the buildings..

that's y we have poor town planning ,with the night club display color

flyingpig:
This na ghetto for Germany

lot of things are wrong in the pictures ,to have a more organized landscape ..
first ,street halking should be stop
secondly ,who uses a traffic warder these days when u can make use of traffic light for crossing and stoping vehicles ,

last and not least , Nigeria have to have a common color for painting buildings
all these Mr a paint his office yellow ,while the next sky skyscrapper is green makes the place look like a ghetto ,
I some times imagine wat our politicians go abroad to do sometimes ,great innovation to bring back home but they don't implement ,,,


all country might have same technology development but wat differentiate them is the weather climate ,and Africa have a great weather climate ,and it will attract foreigners when we have a proper environment setting

some time ,it just take the grace of God to stay alife in 9ja ,when u enter the public eyes ,that lady was living her life jeje day go untill all eyes on her .
I thank God for life's like Anthony Joshua ,who are not based in 9ja , Else we for day hear story like ,9ja boxer suffering so so so illness ,,

in 9ja we lack

medical facility

✓Electricity (where/when there is light ,there is hope,I just pray some Nigerians experience life in other developed country,then you will know you are still back ward completely )

✓good transportation system (even to implement zebra crossing is a problem)

✓good education system

✓good housing system (every where is clustered ,just recently a 3 stroy building collapse in Lagos )

if you are the most richest man and successful individual in 9ja ND you still lack these things you are FUVKED

UnimkeAk:
Blocks aren't structural members and are hardly ever load bearing...

What's ur point

so a builder using more of sand than cement in block molding is a good structure set up
wat exactly is your point brother
explain better

life for 9ja hard abeg ,
all 9ja sectors are been compromised ,
the other day the first female combat pilot of just 24 years died for nothing ,this grown up man is also crying because of hunger ,

where are we heading to in this country ,where exactly ...there are 1001 reasons to justify Yahoo Yahoo as the right way of living in Nigeria or Africa at large ,we have all the resources to make sure every human born in 9ja is feed atleast 3 times a day ,even country that lack most of the natural aminites still make sure their citizens are doing well ...but 9ja case is different ..fela really saw how 9ja will turn up ,that was y he was warning us ahead of time ,and most people kicked against his songs ,

it's high time a youth forum is raised up to kick against this suffering ,else in the next 10 years to come you will hear of people like davido coming to run as senator then
THE SUFFERING CONTINUES same recycled leaders with their kids having same mentality of Embezzle all their money

Slymonster:
Cheap doesn't have to do with quality but the quantity

only in Nigeria we use both dangote cement for both concreteing and molding block ,dis country na wa ,we Don use our hand send innocent soul go grave

if it takes you 4 years to build a hux of good quality even if not giant or not a might hux ,just take your time do am ,to build hux no be competition

SmartProf:
Terrible...possible cause may include but not limited to; cheap labour, cheap & fake building materials, poor monitoring of site workers, terrible soil indices of the construction site, greed to build tower of Babel to gain more apartments without technical advise, non consultation of qualified hands but rather a foreman, no architectural plan nor resident architect & civil engineer on site. The government that should regulate all these, only end up having agents who will go and mark 'X' and inscribe 'stop work' on buildings being constructed....once they have been settled, you just go ahead with your construction cos I have never seen them return back to inscribe 'resume work' on such buildings. Nigeria has not gotten it right in anything so far.

wat I don't understand na by force to use parafet build hux ,the load of this parafet is times 2 of the hux .. mostly when socked with water

futurerex:
Ranting online will take us no where.

even the youth president in Nigeria is also corrupt ,wat do you expect ,
sug that are supposed to come to gether in every state in Nigeria and fight back are also corrupt also fighting for their daily bread, forgetting it's better you fight today's battle and let you grandkids have a better life than you had

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sizer07:
Nigerian Police are at it again. Benin police to be precise. I came down from lagos yesterday with a car I cleared from port, from lagos to Ore 8 checking points, demanding 500 flat or you pack, 5 army check point also collecting 500 naira by there road boys or you park.from Ore to BENIN 14 checking points of SARs,high way polices also 500 naira. The lock down has opened there eyes that what ever they charge, Nigerian are desperate and most pay. I was giving the money and swearing before giving out may Ogun,thunder, Amaduoha finished who ever rip me off my hard earn money.I saw a man who chanted incantations before giving out. I forgot to mention the heavy tax collectors Custom. There's is 1k flat or you pack even with a complete custom papers, full duty payments infact there is a stickers giving by port and cargo once all payments are met. Customs on the high ways on sighting the stickers, they new there is no show and the next thing is there 1k by fire by force.Nigerians who plight high ways are going through hell becuz of those thiefs in uniforms.I spend close to 15k from Lagos to Benin just to pay my ways and avoid delays due to high robberies and kidnappings going on on the highways which are no longer save to travel during the day times not to talk of night. We are suffering and dying in silent in this country. God saves us all

nobody wan talk na ,
we prefer to line up in cafe in large numbers to apply for N-jobs

Oizee:
Lives lost just bcuz of ordinary 100 naira, and these people still collect salary. When they die like flies I don't pity them at all, not that d bus driver was suspected to be carrying dead people, or a kidnapper before u involve urself in that kind of struggle with him, but for 100 naira only.

100naira that isnt up to 1 $
it's just a pity

emmanuelewumi:
Slow and steady wins the race, what was the foundation of the N80 million Networth you had before you got married which evaporated 2 years after your wedding?

Was the hustle, a legitimate one ?

Diversification is key, some Investment of the N80 million should be in your business, FG bonds, real estate, Treasury Bills, if you have the knowledge of the stock market you can also invest some in it.

But what some of do is that because we want hot and fast money, we will invest all the N80 million in a new venture that offered extremely juicy returns, which is akin to gambling at the end of the day we will lose all and start all over from square one.


Risk management and having our personal prudential guidelines are very important.


We should pray for the best, plan for the worst and prepare for surprises and disappointments

nice one ,I was also thinking if I got 80million ,I kw go go buy estate house for different location ,at least I don secure half of my wealth

decatalyst:
1. Thank you for lending help to that frustrated man and for at least alleviating his misery for a few days with the 10k.

2. Someone can be a victim of circumstance and choose to remain a victim of the circumstance or jakpa from it! Like the common saying 'how does a poor man manage to have erection...even sustained enough to donate a baby'?

3. Clearly, the man is not living a purposeful life, neither does he have any plan to change his fortune. How can you go ahead and marry/cohabit with a lady that will largely depend on you, in that present state? Why should they choose to add or compound their misery by having a baby in that state? Gosh! No iota of reasoning!

4. As for yielding to some hogwash acceptable societal teachings of "there is blessing in marriage" is utter nonsense! Lemme use the word of this dude on Nairaland "a real niggerr" takes charge of his life and decides which way/path he want to follow.


He is simply not a man! The child should demand for "accountability" when he/she is grown!

and the painful truth is most parent are still forcing their children who are over 26 years to make such mistake ,
with the claim of it's good you marry and give birth on time

poshestmina:
Are you sure she's dating you?

Or using you as a mobile ATM ?

parasitic relationship ,to love no hard ,man and women just made it difficulty ,