₦airaland Forum

RuudVanNisteroy:
Why are foreigners obsessed with Nigerian blogs and stories . How else can we speak the truth among themselves.

husband doesn't report his wife dirtiness outside ,
in UAE not every thing is going smoothly but you can't see their citizens go online complain never....all this building and structural design na artificial ,even the dubia hills that is over hyped na trip of sand they hip for different angle con plant carpet grass on top them ,,,

so brother ,if u wan insult your country avoid doing that on social media ,other Africa countries have a high exteem towards nigeria trust me ,
don't underate the name ,

RuudVanNisteroy:
Why are foreigners obessed with Nigerian blogs and stories

nigeria caste ,u will not understand ,don't underate the name bro ,am telling u

Africa country with the largest population no be beans

TheCork:
Huh?? In Nigeria? Keep dreaming
U homebase people leave I'm fantasy world.... it ain't happenin!(no oofense)

have faith young man ,just a little faith

EXOUSIAng:
And how old are those countries compared to Nigeria...
I know we can be better, but it is complete stupidity that makes you people compare Nigeria to France, Spain, UK, US etc this countries are more than 500years older than Nigeria with exception of US....
Is Nigeria Economy not better than that of Egypt and Ethiopia, countries that were already civilized more than 4000years ago?
Have you ever checked your history books to see what this countries went through to arrive where they are today...
There is nothing wrong with aiming high but it is common sense to be very rational in your comparison.....
YOU, WHAT HAVE YOU CONTRIBUTED TO THE DEVELOPMENT OF THIS COUNTRY APART FROM SITTING YOUR ASS DOWN AND COMPLAINING

exactly ,ask him bro

I keep on telling people , don't insult your country online mostly on social media , because it's an avenue for other countries to insult y back using your analysis even though they haven't been to Nigeria ,

i learnt it the hard way when I got to UAE,
every other Africa keep asking me ,why is there scam in your countries ,why do u ladies like prostitution,why is nigeria govt always looting ,and these people asking me these questions have not been to Nigeria before ,but they read the comments most of us say on our country face .

Rossikk:
Can't you do your research or you don't have Google? They've already shown you and you're still asking rubbish.

this is how they go online to rubbish nigeria,and expect other Africa and other nations to respect them

Olalan:
He's probably one of the dumbest scammers in this age. You know you're into fraud yet you show off on social .media

don't blame him ,that is the effect of proverty bro

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Imagine what she said



Burna Boy is tall and has the personality I want, so I will take him home. One night stand with Wizkid and be friends with Davido.

You see all these vagina people....they are always confused..... this is why they Keep on cheating...
Because they want to bang Kevin, marry Terry and be friends with Timothy


Why can't you bang WizKid, be friends with WizKid and also take WizKid home

this is the way some ladies bring problem to their marriage o
u marry John ,u want to be friends with Timothy,but u will like to bang James your gym instructor ,last last marriage go crash ,u end up going back to square one of relationship ,the good thing is Shiloh gate is always open and free

pretydiva:
Self acclaimed actress. Na which movie she don act

So your greatest achievement in life is to have a one night stand with wizkid such a pity.

E be like Na Fufu full some girls head

when u meet a lady without a future ambition ,this is an example ,,
sometimes we end up marrying certain type of lady hoping to make our life more define but end up adding more salt to our initial problem ...

am sorry to say this ,,I always advise guys to be self made before venturing into marriage or advance relationship that leads to marriage , because don't have the mind set of "my wife is coming to polish my life " na woe unto u be that ...

have your life polish before a lady comes into your life ,if she set for divorce ,na she loss,if she pack comot for hux na she still loss ,if she see u on top another woman ,she con go fight ,na she still loss ,,,just be self made that's all that matters

Cynthiacute25:
A woman offering you s*x has given you everything already. It's a goldmine


There's also an extra comfort you get when you are with a woman who loves you.
Absolute peace of mind

so a man can't love him self and have peace of mind ,
so rev father no get peace of mind abi ....

abeggggiiiiiiii ,,,

clems88:
Premium lager tears next time he go get sense.
But wait how will a gel who u have been with for years and she even sleeps at your house and do house chores reject a proposal

still I don't understand oo,,,
the truth is when a Yahoo Yahoo boy decide to get married this is what happens ....these guys aren't mature at all

Kemimarch16:
Stop proposing outside u will not listen

but we men thought u ladies love attention mostly notice me attention,,,
what happened to the attention of engagement ?

she might be right.
she might also be wrong .
all it takes in marriage is just for 2 mature individuals to come together and settle down

pocohantas:
Don’t mind them. Any small thing, they will say sidechick. Some of these men don’t even know if their sidechicks can boil water. Whenever they are going to visit her, they will buy Jevenik. The same horseband that told you he loves his shirts handwashed- he will open his big eyes and watch one small girl throw his shirt inside washing machine. Together with multicolored clothes o.

The minute he reaches home, the wife he married that left for work since 6am to beat traffic. Did school run, came back home to fix dinner, they will still expect her to find energy for knack. If he is the vagina, will he agree to be knacked?

Check out all the married women that are glowing, you will notice one thing. They all have the kinda husbands most Nigerian men will call SIMP! The way to know a man is treating his wife well is, people will call him MUMU.

some na mumu husband win the race ?

Bigflamie:
The way folks here talks about sex as if men only live for that overrated sh*t disgusts me a lot.

Kids are too many on this forum.

in as much u want to shy away from such a topic ,it will always hunt you back when u are married ,and I kw this is a female not a male

SegFault:
So we should lie?

lie if u want to ,but if u disrespect your country online ,others nationality will do more than that physically in your eyes

Princeofasia:
smuggled how? it is their money na. this is clear stealing. i wish they contacted me to teach them how to get the money out without even entering the airport. naijas are just thieves. someone suffered to make money and u stole the money then still jailed them for 2 years? wtf

always respect your country online ,the world /other Africa are also reading your comments , person no day show or wash e dirty linen outside

ValCon888:
Watch as the government will try to smuggle the same money out of the country.
Almost every Nigerian politician in office is guilty of this crime.

always respect your country online ,other countries are watching too ,person no day wash e dirty linen outside ,last last na u they go laugh ....it's better to just type it is well

jacoik:
I quite agreed with you bro. but I must still blame our government as well because they contributed 95% of it. if our children sees job after graduating from school I don't believe they will ever think of defrauding people to survive. just look at what is happening in ncdc, nnpc, efcc, icpc and ever other C's. don't you think those bastards in power is the more gee boys? for the fact that I detest geeboys but the bigger gee boys are our politicians

guy no blame our govt ,even for outside 9ja our boys still day cause problem ,shae na govt u go still blame for that one

Kobicove:
The urge to show off is always strong for people who are not used to seeing serious money especially those who experience windfall income such as fraudsters!

that's the problem with proverty ,when a poor man hit millions ,it normally intoxicate him or her for a couple of years till his orientation changes

Mutemenot:
Useless people. When you were busy publishing fake covid19, you were expecting them to open their borders to you ...

always respect your country online ,the whole world is watching you here ,and other Africa countries also ,u add mud to your countries ,other Africa countries also rubbish your country ,u might not understand this untill you travel outside 9ja ,

lefulefu:
can this one move in bed
she go just lie for one side like an overfed whale while u will be sweating and panting trying to penetrate
there was this episode i watched in this popular show called 1000 ways to die
there was this man just like u who was sexually obsessed with women who are morbidly obese
so one day he hooked up with one orobo and they went down in the bedroom
told the orobo to sit on his face and ride his face and the orobo obliged
orobo was riding his face and screaming and the poor dude was trying to push her off to get a breather but her very laps homonguous buttocks covered his whole face and the man suffocated to death
thats the end of my story
please dont be like that man

guy na all ur dick and scrotum go enter the lady pussy just to puvk her,,

Prechgold1180:
1m is just like 100,k

Small money

as in I tell u

Sunmars:
I am actually an old member so I will have to go incognito. If you think this is a made up story, that's your business.
Lest I forget, mods, pls don't take this story to frontpage.
I have been married for close to 7 years now. Its been one hell of a journey. In hindsight, I wondered how I got here.
I have supported this woman with the little I have. Life has been good to others but mine has been a struggle. I had to struggle to get anything I want.
To be fair to her, she was supportive during some rough patches in my life. Maybe I supposed it was because we were not married then, and she was playing the good girl.
If I had acted on my hunch then, I would have noticed her anger issue ( another topic) and moved on. She really tried in concealing it sha.
A year into our marriage, she became ill. Terribly ill. When test was conducted, she was HIV positive. I cried bitterly that night. My tears was not because I have become infected, I cried because I thought I was the one who infected her( I was sort of a G then and had numerous affairs).
We went to the hospital next day and a test was run on me and I came out negative. Did in 2 other places and was still negative even till date. The Doctors said we were discordant couple ( learnt that day that some few people on earth has natural immunity)
I was at a cross-road. Should I go or stay. Well, I decided to stay. The day I took her for counseling and first drugs, the counselor and doctors thought I was her brother. When they learnt i was her husband, they were shocked. They shook my hands and congratulated me for not bailing out. The counselor told me that several marriages and relationships has broken up in his office.

Well we moved on and even had a son whom I adore so much ( he is negative too)
I have been supportive to my family even though I wasn't so rich. I was the one who suggested
She buy a land when she got a loan from her office. Supported her in getting her MBA.
When I started my M.Sc, my father came down with stroke and I had to stop. His health gulped so much and I was even scammed by one fake traditional healer. Nine years later, I decided to try and get my M.Sc. unfortunately, my beloved dad left this earth and I had to stop again. tough luck.
Once again, the burial gulped much. Not because I wanted to be flamboyant but there were lots of roadblocks ahead to tackle.
I had to work on the house he couldn't complete due to his illness. Had to also pay several dues, levies and even fines.
My brother's wife and mine were find 190k because they didnt not come down to put their names in the women's record book in the village.
My brother's wife could be excused because she didn't know but my wife was told by my mum severally but she feigned busy cos of job.But the truth is she didn't want to go. I didn't take it serious too until my father died and the village insisted I must paid every lobo before my dad could be buried. I and my brother coughed out over 400k to settle all this before we started the burial proper.( not forgetting the house too).
Something happened during the burial. While I was busy running around ( looking like a mad man) thinking how to raise 190k to settle the wives fine, for a burial that was just less than a week away. My mother-in law called my wife and told her on phone that if we can't settle the issue, she should park her bags and leave next day for the city. I was shocked but couldn't respond because I was so engrossed with preparation.
Now to the latest development.
Immediately after the burial, the country entered into the lockdown phase. I was so financially drained but I was happy the burial has come and gone. But the downside was that my salary ( I earn commission,not fixed salary) was slashed into two. Since most of my clients were affected like most nigerians, my earning dropped dangerously. Then came the landlady.(most landladies are hell). All attempt to explain to her that I just returned from a burial that drained me coupled with the effect of the lockdown fell on deaf ears. I told her I was gonna give her 6 months rent and clear the rest later was met with stiff resistance. She bluntly told me if I can pay to the last kobo, I should leave her apartment.I shared the story with my wife and she claimed no money.
One day I was with a friend in his office and something just came to my mind. I asked her to help me check an account balance.[/b] Lo and behold, the account contained 1.8M. It was my wife account.[b] I was dazed but I didn't tell her.
She is currently building her house while I am having gray hairs thinking of how to raise money for a new rent. When I mentioned I wanted to move from this nice neighborhood to a place on the outskirts of town, she immediately told me she will go stay with her mother as the place will be too far from her place of work and my son's school. She initially accused me of trying to separate her from her family by planning to move to the outskirts of town while I was only trying to find a not so expensive area I can afford for now.
Well, its painful but I can't even raise the required funds. I am just feeling down cos I might have to settle for a single room. Thsts what i can conveniently afford.I feel terribly depressed about this turn of events.
I wonder how it's gonna be be. I don't look down on those in a room apartment, just that I have never experienced this before.
My major concern is my son. I love him dearly. I can't afford to stay a day without seeing him. He is going to miss me too. Every morning he wakes up, he always look around for me if he doesn't see me when he wakes up. Its going to crush me leaving away from him( he should stay with his mum for now)
Tears are rolling down my eyes right now as I watch him seating down engrossed in his Disney junior cartoon program, oblivious of what is coming in the coming weeks
.

Things will be better. I am hopeful next year will be better. This year brought much pain and hardship but I am trusting God he will help me on my feet by next year but I don't think this woman will be allowed back to my life. Maybe im wrong, maybe I am not, time shall tell.
I just need encouragement from people who have weathered storms before.
.once again, mods, don't take this to front page

this is one of the reasons I just get fed up about relationships ,how wife go day hide money from e husband even if person dash u ,still show am ,...

sometimes I just feel doing this baby mama things is just better ,when the man is 43 years of age just look for a woman who is mature and in her 40s and marry her be it a widow or a divorce woman abeg

Mkayfrenzy:
Doesn't work for me ooo. Na that time sef I dey quick cum

ur scrotum na upside down o

techmo:
Instead of going for Laycon she went for player like Kidd

Instead of Ozo to go for Dorathy he is following play girl Nengi


Why are humans always blind to reality?

who we love don't love us back
instead they chase who doesn't love them ..na as the life be ,what matters most is choose who gives u peace of mind

Kabir5643:
I really don't understand this show


What's the purpose of the show

Koyemi

if you ask me ,I don't kw wat to think ,a show is rated 18+ doesn't mean every scene or discussion should be all about nude ,,

technology wise we are backward this should be wat 9ja should be airing but na nude we day watch as program

athaboi:
He's a rapper?

rapper way no gree blow ,but other top artist uses most of his lyrics

Wizkid lyrics ,"2 seconds everything done burst o"
erriga was the actual owner of the slant ,,,

this dude is talented , though he controls south south

helinues:
@ op, how old are you self?

Always looking for anything to discredit Nigeria.

You need a real life

that was how I met one sa in uae ,for a job interview , instead of him to focus on the current thing that brought us to the place ,he was asking me why is 9ja people so frudulent ,I was like shoooooo,,,,,na me be the whole 9ja

I asked him back why is HIV so rampad in s.a ,he couldnot answer ,very foolish guy I have ever met ,

he was the first south Africa I have ever spoken to but he ruin everything concerning them , though he doesn't looked educated ,so I will not really blame him

Ugaboy:
I love this...atleast they now showing some interest towards the youth

they need to create more awareness ,to pull people off the street

bigfish3k:
But courtship mustn't end in marriage

The intelligence in the guy supposed to have noticed earlier that the girl doesn't want him for marriage

courtship must not end in marriage ,why waste so much of a precious time of an individual , atleast ur intuition should let you know this person isn't good enough ,u can't hide you caracter for long not up to a year ,

bigfish3k:
Is that a criteria for marriage?
Courtship is for you to study your compatibility.
The girl has spent 4 yrs and doesn't like him. Chikeena

He should move on

I kw love is a thing not value in Nigeria I wouldn't say in Africa ,but trust me love isn't something that should be toyed with ,if u aren't really serious why waste his time ,when she already has a substitute or replacement ,...

moving on isn't that easy man .I hope nobody waste your own time in the name of relationship then u will know how it feels

SweetCunt97:
No woman wants a mumu.

so that dude was mumu