₦airaland Forum

aanuoluwami14:
Both of you are idiots, she is jobless doing nothing expect she is olosho that you must give money to anytime you have sex with her, why not think straight? Iru ahun ni o ma n ri ahun he. She didn't have business or things to produce money expect sex

even olosho day give her boyfriend money

gift0123:
That ingrate is using you, she has seen that you love him a lot, maybe you are a good and calm lady, so he fit be doing any rubbish that comes to his mind...

Better dump that boy and move on with your life, I hate rubbish...

see am u don day vex like say na your relationship ,na advice she ask for ,not way to end her relationship ,she doesn't want a lonly life....like say u go help her fine another boyfriend for am

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

both of you are working?
next time tell him both of you will do it together,you wash ,he rinse .. peace is back home

MJBOLT:

even the ones who lost their husbands to death need a father figure for their kids,no difference.

atleast we know circumstances happened to them ,u feel me ,it's not their fault ,but u see the ones way guys go knack them belle ,the guy go japa or she go comot from the hux ,I don't even go close to them

sundaygray:
When you get older you go know. When your children are all married... only you go dey alone for house

most people saying marriage is useless ,I can beat my chest ,they have not stayed alone for 6 months ,some grew up in a wealth house ,or a busy surrounding with both parents been present ,na old age some will know the tru definition of Lonelyness ,I will tell you a true story ,my own mother conmot for hux ,few years back been a working class lady under govt payroll as a medical staff ,but retirement don day reach ,she day fine way come back �,,,area don mature , children don mature no body send again ,na force we day force ourselves to talk with her ,how will most old white ladies not fall victim of scammers when all they need is a company to occupy them ,keep them busy before you know ,they don send money give them , Loneness is really oo

na she and my mama generation destroy the institution called marriage in the name of westernization

Herbsworks:
Sometime ago I needed to sell some of my old stuff so I posted it on social media. I got a reply from this married woman that said her husband wanted something like that. So the husband came to my place to check the stuffs out but the price was too much for him so he left. But despite the husband not buying them the woman kept chatting me up and always replying my WhatsApp statuses.

For instance, she will reply my WhatsApp status picture with words like “You look like someone that can knack”, “ Tall guys are bad in bed” etc. At first I didn’t want to play along but it became unbearable. Then one morning she asked for my address and said she want to come and taste what I’ve been using to beat other girls.

I had to pull away from her even tho she kept pushing cos the husband looks cool and calm and secondly, she doesn’t have money How can she be a broke sugar mummy

She was different cos she never spoke bad about her husband unlike some others I have come across. But she was used to changing dicks while she was single so it became hard for her to stay with just one dick for life.

Recently she sent me her husband CV saying the husband needs a job and it’s telling on the marriage even though she works too. I sat one day and thought of the different men she probably would have asked for a job for her husband and not everyone helps without receiving sex in return.

Mind she is a hijab wearing woman talking naughty hiding under the guise of religion.

Few pages ago I saw where someone wrote that men shouldn’t check their girlfriends/wives phone cos it’s their private property
Any woman that hides her phone from you is probably hiding something from you; either she’s cheating or she’s flirting with different men. As a man you can have access to your woman’s phone without she having access to yours cos you’re not equal and you married her and not the other way.

bro I think I said that stuff of not giving your self panic looking for apps to check your woman's phone ,it's stressful ,it's easy they day she start preventing you from holding her phone ,then know something is fishy ,but going about looking for apps to clone her whatspp on your phone ,no need for that....

richkal:
This is so pathetic. I avoid single mother like plague, some of them have worst entitlement mentality.

most single mother don't really need a husband what they need is a father figure for their kids ,but that's the worst part a man can ever take ,the only single mother I consider are those who lost their husbands via death ,it's understandable but others pls run for your life

DieRich5:
most u marry b4 having a kids

in as much I advocate for guys not to act as simps ,I also advise ladies to marry before you carry because of guys like u

Ihuomanice1:
The breast no dey move any man for 9ja again...
And beside what is there to showcase again when Davido has dangle left right centre of the breast finished.

see how the female community in Nigeria has reduced their standard so much ,marry before you carry (marriage before belle ) now she is trying to gain the attention of the community but ,she typically irrelevant.

airminem:
Some of our fellow Girls have this sort of entitlement mentality for SIMP-HIM guys

am still trying to understand y most ladies have Temperament related issues ,yeah I know some guys do too but for a lady ,even buying her a gift is a problem ,there was one like that I took her out to eat ,and my plan was to go to the mall 2floor for her to pick what ever she likes from pads ,to perfume to deodorant,after giving her her presents for birthday,she was like who told you I want a night gown ,my dear I just felt what the hell ,no thank you ,I appreciate ,but I have a night gown already ,the moment we left the 3fllor I just saw her close to her apartment and that was the end of the relationship.,.till date I didn't call back ,she didn't also ,which is cool to me ,I want a lady who will pass moral and cultural upbringing to my kids not lack of appreciation to my kids brain

seguno2:
Atiku is also an APC man.

atiku is coming to finish what Obasanjo couldn't finish ,thats the truth stealing

ba7man:
Ehn, if you see the Devil on the ballot paper, feel free to thumbprint his name.

@Topic. Tinubu. The rest have little or no legacy in political leadership.

a man using walking stick to walk around ,who spend his medical vacation is better ,,we never learn reach buhari is just the beginning

Cholls:
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welcome to Africa the home of grsve yard where talents are buried

Lionnation:
it means they faught against out own protest because buhari belongs to them

yeah ,the video's are on Twitter and YouTube ,same way the did anti protest in UK few months back , something is wrong with Nigeria system ,we want a change ,,and the funny thing is we in the south are concern about the whole Nigeria but the north are not from their write up u can see all they are concern about is the north is bleeding

helinues:
Which southerners?

Are this people drunk?

Did you people join the southerns during the Endsars protest?

Abeg, carry your cross alone

bro they joined but they were anti endsars

tiswell:
Premium tears loading in future for the corper

female soldiers are most people guys avaiod in Nigeria when it comes to dating, because of the slight hate we have for military personnel....even though some which to loveand be loved also,so it might end up well

Opeyemiextra:
This argument is not valid because there are those whose virginity and innocence were stolen from them. Such people too deserve a chance at what is good.

A man who is not a virgin looking down on a non virgin lady is just pure nonsense because who are you leaving them for? Posterity!!!

is the virginity of a man recognized in the society,let's be real, nothing is broken

waiting

building it is not a problem can we maintain the structure ,if we can't the job of maintaining the building should be given to another contractor to handle

MufasaLion:
What's bad in a lady using it? There's nothing bad in it.

it's not bad ,man there are somethings that goes on within the bedroom ,that the next door isn't supposed to hear ,what concerns us with Love Machine and intimacy machines or oil

Beebah2000:
Na wa ooo.
What is this innocent world turning into?
Your husband gave you intimacy gadget and lubricant as Christmas gift?
What is going on here?
I don't understand

na only ladies fit fight over these non sense,we men are tired of how these world is going ,,,the level of immorality is becoming alarming ,and I am in full support of govt censoring the internet, because it's now been misused

Dynamiceagle:
Ok
If they don't use filters, how will they sell?

but it's wrong ,

Rugaria:
You got it all wrong.
Stealing is evil but this crime has a limited time you can serve in jail. It's the way it works.
A judge can not wake up and sentence you to life because he is upset. It doesn't work like that..

the limited time people serve ,let's be realistic has it reduce the crime rate or increase it,over the pass few years ,,

YoungLionken:
That's practically life imprisonment..

He should try to appeal it, he might get lucky...

na your type be that , politician steal and he is sentence ,u say make he appeal, Yahoo boy steal ,u are adviceing for appeals ,now I understand y the youth can't lead this nation because of people like you

Emmynator:
I should give her a free pass till i miraculously catch her?
I am asking what can be done to speed up the process of catching a guilty partner.

when relationship day sweet day come ,most partners don't restrict their mobile phone from themselves ,but when there is something fishy going on with the other partner like cheating trust me ,he or she ready use knife daggar you if u know hand over e phone back , because within them they know the little opportunity they have with you is gone ,it could be free sex ,free financial assistance ,free ETC ......this implies to both male and females... phone restrictions is what u should look out for ,, forget about looking for apps ,it's definitely a waste of time , except you will just run off to the next flat with her phone acting like u forgot it inside you pocket ,and remember her password also ,then u can also draw conclusion

Lightway:
What a stupid advise from a child

Until she gives you incurable gono, or HIV abi

then keep leaping around ,if a girl that was once free with her phone around you suddenly start dragging her phone with you ,then something is up ,don't stress yourself further bro looking for app to justify her actions ,me for example,I don't password my phone , Infact I am aways careless with my phone mostly at home , anything u see for the phone bear it ,so many don't bother checking except playing music

orchin:
Bro, understand that redpill is ammoral...
Just follow your own path.

now I can see why most females in nairaland don't take most of the guys here serious,If all some guys advocate for is sleep around and make babies with different ladies with a self of purpose in life ,in career ,in ambition ,,then many men here are heading towards a wrong path of no growth in dreams

Richdoh:
I'm a young hard work guy who's planning to settle down someday. I have a girlfriend whom I have gone to see her family with my own family , as in , we have done our introduction , what was remaining was for us to fix a date for our wedding . But this girl started showing some nasty attitude . There was a day she came to spend weekend with me and I gave her some money to buy some food stuffs to cook, that day i received the greatest shocke of my life , my fiancee warmed me never to send her message like that again that she is not my slave. As if that was not enough. Another day she came to spend some days with me but when she got to my house I was not at home that day. She went to the bathroom to get some shower but unfortunately the there was no water running in the bathroom because we didn't had light for 2days so we couldn't pump water . Normally when there's no water like that we usually fetch from the next compound . Though I live in a room and parlour self contain with water running in my kitchen and bathroom . To cut the long story short, my fiancee refused to fetch water for herself to take her shower . She had to call me on phone to come home and fetch water for her to take her shower. When I eventually got home at late hour , I took the bucket went to fetch water for her to bath just for peace to rain . I later asked her why she had to call me to come and fetch water for her to bath knowing fully well that I was not around . She said in her house , she does not fetch water that her dad usually call Aboki's and buy water from them . She told me that she can't leave a suffering life of having to fetch water , she can never do it.
Please nairalander is this a good sign or bad sign to watch out for .

bro think twice, introduction doesn't mean marriage o,,, before you come back with remix after marriage ,,, pause all activities for now ,if possible watch her over a spade of 6 months again,never reward bad behavior as a man ,that statement has helped me

Nigeria is hot ,let it be a no nonsense country for who chooses to rule be it local or Fed level

Winnerly:
You’re not a red piller. I wonder what your mission is here?

so a red Piller goes around spilling babies for different women,what are u really advocating for ,hold on a minute ,you think I will give my sister a go ahead to marry a man who spill his seeds around in various women in the name of I am a red Piller.. it disvalue you as a man ,and don't call davido or future a red Piller again

Susily:
Future is successful, has 8 kids from 8 different women but never married

He's successful and he has kids but he's not married

Davido has kids but not married so is Wizkid

You don't need to be married to have kids like he was saying

bro please if you regard yourself as a responsible man ,from all we talk about in this group trying to be a better man Daily,you wouldn't go around making babies around ,then what difference does it make creating babies who become another disfunctional in the society we are trying to change,,think about it