₦airaland Forum

Think4Myself:
Nigga tf?? What does handshake have to do with redpill

how does the going to the gym makes you be a red pill ,see bro I really don't know how old are u ,like someone said ,most of you claiming to be red pill are really not,,you just come here discussing women all day long ,like someone again pointed out nobody talks about business ideas here and someone refered him to business page ,what a shame and you come here talking about a lady no picking your calls man ....

have you book a hotel room and a lady didn't show up .
have u stayed out late waiting for a lady ,man u haven't seen anything yet you are just playing around here with words .....if you have then u wouldn't be talking how does a firm handshake connect to been a red pill ,,,,,most of you picking quotes from various quote of already established individuals are still going to simps in front of women

Richvibes1997:
what so special about this cele church and yahoo boys I have been hearing lately

most materials given to them to bath with are from human parts ,like skin of human ,grounded teeth of human ,grounded private part of a male organ or new born male baby ,let's of stuffs goes on around there ,in the next coming years to come I see many of our ladies becoming widoers , because out of greed they will not do their full assignment of knowing the source of their husbands or boyfriend's wealth ,,,,

Kingpin1000:
Girls will never listen.
How will you date an armed robber and not expect bad things to happen to you.
Yahoo boys are combination of armed robbers and serial killers put together.
You can imagine ripping someone most times an elderly person old enough to be your grandmother of her life time savings, collecting loans with her Identity hereby plunging this person into huge debts that may send this unsuspecting individuals to Jail. Sometimes if this person is suspicious, these boys goes diabolical to control the person. Which kind wickedness pass that one.
Some days I just imagine as I dey struggle to build my business after years of toiling one nonsense yahoo boy come rip me, even if na 1k I will put Christianity aside and go the traditional way, That Yahoo boy must run mad.

I swear ,many white foreigners let then get away ,but on my last blood I will make sure I track that bastard down and cut you bit by bit till u can't breathe no more because police station no go reach settle me and the yahoo boy o

Skyfornia:
See as all the men cover up but ladies exposing their bodies.

Ladies please have some kind of decency... especially in public.. even if you don't want to respect yourself, atleast respect the family you come from

even the child that grew up on orphanage home still have some decency than most ladies sorry to say this

BadRadio:
even a hooker will still slap your face if you don't approach her the right way. Believe it or not, sex workers deserves some measure of regard and respect.

bro ,now I know you have not visited a hooker before ,have you had a hooker telling you go straight to the point ,my guy to be hook no need formal education or degree o or office manner o,,,how old are u self

Iyaebe:
A well deserved slap,she should claim damages afterwards. Most of these young men are very disrespectful

what do you mean by disrespectful ,like they say dress the way you want to be addressed ,if you dress seductively ,no vex I will do the say way the guy acted ,and if u raise your hands ,they no born you well sha

Iyaebe:
You all should come for your marriage counseling

another female creature

our forefather where the true red pills ,we are just picking up the secret our fathers throway ..

the handshake of most guys today is as weak as that of a lady bumbum or like the tip of her fingers to shake you ,and every century the grip of the male hand shake reduces gradually ..and we must change the narrative

fellows most of our forefathers spent most of their time occupied with hardwork activities such as farm work , working in the mins , working in plantation farm to stay active ,their brain had less time to think of the trash most women want to attack them with after the daily hustle and guess what the women love it that way ....


But here's today's reality,there isn't any hardwork to day again ,that's y most men have their brain clogged with dews of social medias ,you seek validation from a female creatures ,fellows go to the gym and raise some bars and trust me I say trust me within 5 months your way of talking, thinking communication ,visual expression will change ,if nothing happens to you quote me back......

luscioustrish:
I agree, not against him collecting the car back, just the manner in which he replied that comment

oooh I feel your vibes now ,,yeah , sometimes some people will make points just to prove you wrong , probably Tonto must have dared him ,but I doubt if most Nigeria females are enlightened about documentation and court system

CSTRR:
That is the cause of the disrespect.

Over familiarity is not good.
We are too familiar with these people and we don't even share borders.

exactly,we have over 2 African countries that separates us ,I don't know how we became close like this

Dsalvo:
Bitter rant. He makes some valid point because Nigerians can be dismissively arrogant. We even do it to each other with tribalism and ethnic jingoism.

Still Shatta Wale is personally pained and beefing. Never good because it usually means others have got under your skin enough to affect your wellbeing and essence.

we have Boko Haram crisis ,so most other african artist avoid anything called Nigeria rout ,even when we tell them not all part of Nigeria have Boko Haram issue,it's more like turning us to laughing stocks,so what do u expect when the UN even black listed Nigeria ref flag as place to travel to ...

brandsoncharlie:
You can't work hard and get your own money. You will keep crying, una never see anything.

bro chill ,u came too hard in her ,our ladies don't like hard ,any thing hard ,say soft word's to encourage her pls

luscioustrish:
Such a petty man-child

really,come on if relationship comes to an end atleast take back everything physical you gave that's how it works ,even if he gave u a golden engagement ring,give it back ,else that's stealing

Belawy:
U're supposed to be arrested,jailed

I will still keep advocating,let our social media be censored ,and chat should be traceable

MERCHANDISER:
You are wise bro

check all the thumbs up ,likes ,love emojis given to women who are naked on social media ,na men they give them ,
by the time men stop that ,then women will know men see and need more than sex in a relationship,that's y men of today are advocating fellow men to wise up ,wise up in the sense not to hate women but to hold them accountable too for a better relationship

Zizizi:
Merry Christmas ��� my people. Please it's very lengthy but I will make it brief .

So my brother happen to join one guy in the neighborhood who's into yahoo. I mean in less down 8 months he bought two cars a day , buying landed properties in PH , lag and Delta . I mean all there men buy cars in two once . Almost all have hotels or are building hotels or one house or the other , they go to club they spend like politicians, go to area they are known they dash like Anini . But ,what I don't understand is they all attend white garment church , they travel from pH to oweri to attend the church not that they were born into the church oh , the new found yahoo made them to start going to the church, they no longer call God , God or Jesus' ,Jesus but rather Yahweh .

Sometimes they sacrifices rams and other stuff that's what they show us oh we don't know if there's anything beyond that .I happen to hear one say he will have to stay in the church for a month to be able to have the blessings. I am not exaggerating anything I have said . What I have said about the spending is more . If they want to go worship,they use two Hilux of police to and fro to avoid harassment that's how they hv gone wide with it ...I mean all small boys none is up to 36years .

Well, I am just concerned about the possible consequences as I have brother in it . Fear no de allow me go close to am one bit cause I hate anything spiritual season I am not too deep in prayers make person no go rob me with evil . ...


I forget to add, sometimes de travel to ABJ or lag only them know waiting them de go do der .. sometimes spend 1 week or two in each of these state no be say na flexing oh....I personally don't know what de do der .


I am just curious! What's the possible consequences? Is it normal that white garment blesses people that way ? ...their priest they call him Kohem the king maker ..as young boy too ...base Owerri and the owner of the white garment church.


Please forget my typo and say one or two u know about this .


Mynd44
Seun

any association that you can't revel one or two things about them in public call it a secret society even Christianity is a free and open religion

dhiqson:
The poster above me
Calm down bruhh
Enough with the what!
What's the use making your millions only to simp at the hands of a light skinned virgin babe
Once those other threads have been created
We'd move in our numbers to Garner knowledge
But to halt whatever is going on here... Very lol
These ladies are getting smart every day

if your center of life revolves around women,bro you are on a bomb shell,face your hustle,develop your selfs and give your kids a bright future

Adeja:
Good morning. I really wish any of y'all here can choose to have a communication with me (maybe WhatsApp DM) before I make a lifelong decision of investing my commitment in this woman. A lot of redflags but my brain is telling me otherwise. Thing is she wants the commitment now now. I stay abroad for now and she's staying back home


This account is new but I used to silently read your stuffs here with my old account

@caveadullam, @everyone else

it's okay just list the good and bad red flag so we can judge wisely

Midgut:
I don't support violence against women. I don't hate any human, but some guys are the cause of their own downfall.

Some guys are too clingy and sex dependent. The reason why they are always been played by women.

There is this guy that we're staying together, paired together in a hostel of two persons per room, for a year job. He borrowed my phone one early morning saying he want to make call with it. I gave it to him. I could overhear him telling, in a defeated tone, the lady, his girlfriend, why are you not picking up my calls, replying my messages, why did you block me on Whatsapp...

He was saying all this with my phone, wasting my airtime on her. Someone that doesn't regard him. A lady that doesn't love him. They resolved the issue and now back together, I think.

The issue I now have is that the guy has left the room we were given to look for vacant one within the hostel, so that he can be inviting the said girlfriend to his room. The guy is already planning how to waste his salaries on things that will, in the long run, not benefit him. He earlier said he wanted to save money, but he will waste his money on sex -- his girlfriend.

All this for someone almost 30!

It's not women, stupid guys that are the cause of their own downfall!

we need more stories like this,many men are going to have similar experience

Susily:
My secondary school mate committed suicide by hanging just cos his girlfriend he invested a lot in cheated on him and broke up with him

I'm in shock and angry at him for tolling that path

I just don't understand the kind of men this generation is raising

because most father's didn't do their full jobs raising a kids ,for the mother's they aren't been trained how i be a wife ,that's the reason most people date without intention of settling , because the topic or discussion about marriage looks strange to them

PrimadonnaO:
I don't think I've ever loved someone, then stopped loving them.

I think for me, after a while the consciousness of the feeling just becomes numb...

And after you've moved on, there's a rolling back that just may never happen again.

because u aren't dating with the intention of settling down, probably for other benefits but not marriage

proxillin:
Please please...this is very serious to me...I need serious minded and experienced people here.

I have been dating this babe for few months now.

She never indicated any sign of abstinent from sex. We do erotic chat now and then. She even told me how she had sex with her ex. Although she said she never wanted to, but her ex started giving her attitudes, infact he wanted to breakup, thats why she gave in and had se.x with him (disvirgined).

So fast forward last week, she agreed to come visit me at my town (yeah long distance relationship). So she told me she wouldnt want to have se.x with me when she comes. Ofcourse she is the definition of a decent woman i would love to marry, therefore, se.x is not an issue for me.

But out of curiousity, I asked why she does not want se.x with me. Its not because she is a virgin because she had se.x with her ex. She then told me its a spiritual issue.

She belongs in a white garment church (cele stuff). She enter spirit realm and see vision. Therefore, they told her not to have sex until she get married. When she mistakenly had sex with her sex, she fell sick for months, that it was cele people who came to do deliverance for her before she could walk again. They warned her she is holy spirit vesel, no man must have se.x with her until she get married.

In all our discussions, she said we can only romance, infact i can suck her bouubs, but i must not penetrate her. Then I told her my mind, thats the confusing part. If she was truely afflicted by holy spirit, how come holy spirit allows fingering and sucking of boooobs. She got angry and threathened to call it quit.

Because she has relationship with my mom, i confided in mom. Mama told me she is not seeing vision throught holy spirit, its cele-white garment work. That has nothing to do with holy spirit..thats cele witch craft work or marine girls things (omo omi).

I got confused the more.

Questions in my mind are:
1. I can confirm she see vision, but is it from holy spirit?
2. Am I sure the whole shiiiit will not happen to her when we get married and we have se.x
3. Whoever is using her in spiritual relm will not harm me for taking their vessel away from them.
4. Is she playing upon my intelligence?

when a relationship comes with condition that kicks sexual attractiveness out of the equation ,I always run because the condition wouldn't stop there

when you read this then you will know women are way smarter than most Nigeria guys


This is why men simp because money is the only real value men can give to women.

The same way pussy is the only real value a woman can give to a man.

Unfortunately, men want a woman's pussy more than women want a man's money... That's why men spend so much to own a single woman and make her happy while the woman gives so little sex and doesn't care

fitinwell:
Are they responsible..??

if money makes you responsible ,then you have a wrong misconception about money ,I can list successful people who have money but aren't responsible in holding a family together ,,your ability to co ordinate your home your family,makes you a responsible man not the money you have ,....

men please stop embarrassing your selfs ,there is no tree that money falls from

I will say it and I will keep saying it , Nigeria men turned Nigeria women the way they behave today ,take it or leave it ,you create a thread that doubt if you can hold a female.

MJBOLT:

but you have to be smart about this
Many girls carry kolomental for head when things go sideways.

true let's balance the equation ,she didn't spend on you ,only you did the spending ,una still break up

she spent on you una still break up ,which do you prefer

see bro why do you think men cry ,feel angry when relationship ends with the lady taking the first move of breakup ,

time was invested
money was invested
body was invested

take out time and money from a relationship ,only body involved (, friend's with benefits) see how the man will not give a fuvk after breakup

SOZINN:
What a lovely comment, this guy has made my day. I support this 1000000%, if it was her support that pushed you to greatness then there is something about her. She's special. Now imagine if all the women like her were busy supporting broke men. A lot of men would have been rich by now.

This is my advice, if your girlfriend had your back when you were broke and now you have made it. Don't marry her! Please give her to any of your friends that is broke so that he too can climb the ladder of riches and end up like you. Don't be stingy.

Is there any of you here that had a supportive unicorn when you were broke. Please give her to me, I promise to do the same when I make it. I'm still broke.

and more damaged ladies will be increasing

DieRich5:
beautiful nonsense......girl go Dy with u when u nor get money ND Dem no give any help or anything but only sex ND Dem be feeling like Dem give u the wrld

man ,let me give you a tip of solution learn to ask girls for money , no be everything man day bring out chest for ,if she aren't spending on you ,there is someone or something else she spending on

when they say men have lost their respect,this is one of the reason ,you want to sleep with a lady,your peeps on your social media account must know first ,whch kin generation we day self

chatinent:
Marriage is not a life requirement, tho. Perhaps, there are many men in her life who'd want to count scores than there are those who would want to stay with her forever. There are more stupid men in our century than ever before.

when u mean stupid what do you mean

jayied:
The relationship was more like a child's play...Dated this girl since last year and i can count how many times i have seen her... Visiting to her is like a hell of work, the funny part is that we stay in the same State, same LGA and just N70 TP to my place... Dear kings avoid girls in their early 20s

e be like say u just wake up o,and that lady is still having a good time ,let her be bro

ESANMEA:
Nothing to explain jare.. A sweet and loving relationship just ended in a strange way..
Shit happens..

hmmm,take heart dear,,like most latest quote in town which I find it weird (not all relationship leads to marriage) that's why heartbreaking is the breakfast of today's relationship with having a second thought