Wittyglam: A lot of people experience rape in marriage but are too ashamed to talk about it. Have you ever heard about rape in marriage or have you ever experience it.
Sex is something we must talk about before going marriage.
The Prelate and Metropolitan Senior Pastor of the House on the Rock Churches, Pastor Paul Adefarasin, has invited the presidential candidate of the All Progressives Congress, Chief Bola Ahmed Tinubu, to his wife's 50th birthday celebration, which will take place on Friday, 16th of September at noon.
E don hard, you tolerated it from the beginning, even me. I used to be strict with my wife but sometimes she breaks the rules but you can't be fighting or beating her you have to let go of some, put your child or children in school and see if she will sleeping late, she is over enjoying. Apply wisdom.
Militant1: I will try to be brief and straight to the point.
My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.
We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.
We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.
She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.
When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.
I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.
Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.
I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.
I tried to create a schedule for her.
Wake up by 6am By 7 she suppose don clean finish By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids 9-10am bath herself and the kids 10-12 do any other stuff in the house 12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill 3-5pm... Do whatever she likes 5pm boil water and bath the kids 6pm she don bathe and bath kids 7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer 8pm we eat By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr
I throw the trash every day Na me dey go market buy foodstuff On weekends I clean the house I wash my all my clothes I provide all the finance in the house I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)
So what's the problem..
Mothers, are my demands too much? Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed? Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day. Am I crazy?
Please advice me.
I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.
Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful
Is she trustworthy, why don't you marry first, even if it is both of you and your family members.
ersonleads: Please can someone help me on how I can go about traveling with my soon to be wedded wife Abroad. One of us will be schooling & working. The other will be working. Presently working on the funds.
How can it be possible & what country will be easier to on my intentions. Please I need your help because dis country done tire me
By better phone, you can even sleep on it. [quote author=Fira09 post=116597112]An Indian Twitter user has narrated how his aunty died after her phone exploded while she was sleeping.
@Mdtalk16 said his Aunty kept her phone near her face before sleeping and it killed her after it exploded.
dailybuzzng: Imo Born Ex Beauty Queen Thelma Ukaegbu Launches Shoe Brand, Good Feet.
An Imo State born former beauty queen, Miss Thelma Ukaegbu has floated a shoe brand known as Good Feet.
Miss Ukaegbu, an Economics graduate of Micheal Okpara University of Agriculture, Umudike Abia State said her desire to venture into shoe manufacturing is borne out of her passion for creativity and arts.
In a chat with our correspondent at the weekend in Abuja, she said Nigeria has the creativity and technical expertise to be a global shoe supplier but decried the poor environment for start-ups.
The beautifully endowed entrepreneur said despite several challenges, she still produces beautiful and quality shoes that are of international standard.
Her products consist of handcrafted/exquisite quality unisex made in Nigeria footwear that can favourably compete both in design and quality.
She told our correspondent, "I have researched and done a comprehensive study that with the right materials I can deliver quality footwear within the shores of our country".
She therefore urged for government support of local industries to enable them generate employment for the teeming young population.
On what her customers should expect from her, she urged for their confidence, assuring that she is committed to delivering value for their money.
Her business is transacted through goodfeetsbytee_
You people will always say na drugs, na demons dey torment him. He has dine and wine with the devil for his success in music, so he is paying the price.
Pandalytics: “I always want to help my family, especially my sisters Sarah and Noura while returning from school,”
“The bags were not heavy, but I wanted to help them in the hot weather,” Mishaal said, adding that he only learnt about the photo taken by his father after it went viral on social media.
I thought you all said south east states are in d bag 🤣🤣🤣🤣… if no be madness… ur own ppl Dey reject u but u na Dey bring problem come SW states… pic.twitter.com/Z7mEoGk0ow
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We need to see photos... We Just Need To See Only The Pictures.!! .. NOT GIVING US LONG EPISTLES.!! (That is,,, Long Epistles about Peter Obi for that matter)
We need to see photos... We Just Need To See Only The Pictures.!! .. NOT GIVING US LONG EPISTLES.!! (That is,,, Long Epistles about Tinubu for that matter)
Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.
I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).
She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.
I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out
It's business, €100m + Ronaldo with begging and he will be paid peanuts, Osihmen is King.
paulolee: Just imagine.... oshimhen to cr7? Some clubs get crazy business plan sha.. Same cr7 dt couldnt reach last 4 with a better juve even wen he was younger, Napoli don finally fall for dis scammer wey all clubs don reject? Mk we dey see sha I jus happy to see oshimhen in EPL