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This idoma boy is really a useless lot, no wonder in my language Oche means useless and he is acting true to his name

thorpido:
Are you like the Op's hubby?

there is a lot to learn from what i said if you have enough experience to contemplate it. every human feeling has highs and lows and there is no feeling that remains CONTINUOUSLY HIGH ALL THE TIME! Please that is the message hollywood tries to sell and am telling you and any married person of over 10years here will tell you that. Some mornings you will wake up and wish you never even married - go and ask anyone that has a reputation for hard truths. Why the OP is thinking she has an issue is because of expectations which are not real. In terms of sex I have bee tired of my partner long long ago please, but i will not exchange her for the hottest kim kardashian BECAUSE OF OTHER VALUES SHE HAS THAT KIM CAN NEVER MEASURE UP TO IN MY OWN LITTLE WORLD! So I expect a matured partner to understand it that the area of sex is on a normal decline and IT IS NORMAL!!!!!!

But please there are exceptions to this sha, there are men and women with very high libido that must sleep with their partner everyday from what i heard, infact if the partner isnt around they will still sleep with something sha, but please if any television show is tellinh you that that is normal and is what all couples do then you are welcome to disneyland

duduade:
most of the doctors that are been churned out of the universities are blockheads... thats a fact we all know. Fidgeting people. No confidence and na so they go dey pose up and down..

thats how one young doctor nearly killed my mother last year until a consultant walked in at the nick of time, the consultant was so scared he flung his brand new Toyota car keys away through the window and which took more than 5 people to find. we were later told by a nurse that if that consultant had come even 10 minutes later there would have been nothing anyone could have done

christinie:
Start ignoring him too and he will turn around.
I don't mean you shouldn't talk to him.
Do everything a wife is supposed to do for her hubby but act as if you've forgotten about the word 'sex'.
Also act very happy. Act like life has never been sweeter than now.
He will begin to get scared.
He will quickly turn around.
Some guys get bored with seeing same face daily.
It's a disorder.
Give him some challenges and he will wake up.
NB be prayerful while at it.
Thanks.

this is the first matured advice on this thread, all the kids here are telling her to sit him down and beg or reason with him. that will turn him off finally

thorpido:
Have you really tried to sit him down to discuss this and let him know how you feel?
If a man stays away from sex for two months,he either has a medical issue that has made his libido drop or he is getting it elsewhere.
Some men get bored with sex with their wives especially if she makes it routine(missionary style alone e.t.c).It's no excuse to begin to stay away but the woman should get the initiative and a matured man should communicate it.

By the way,why is he coming back late of recent?Is he busier at work or just hanging out?
You guys need intimate talk.

don't sit anybody down it turns people off, please grow up and stop believing all those trash you watch on American channel. after 5 years and 2 kids no normal man or woman is hot about the partner anymore, I think you are naturally clingy and you are soon going to create a problem where there is none. if its possible travel or separate a while at least for 1 month and face your career if you have one. lastly we are not foolish like americans who wake up every morning and say i love you to their mother before she can believe they love her, here in Nigeria where people are more emotionally and socially mature you dont need to say that trash before your mother knows you will die for her anyday. youg lady your marriage has no problem o except immature expectation

Abagworo:
Once again the obvious basic problem of the Igbo race comes to fore. Internal rivalry.

hahahahaha, u nailed it joor, most interesting thing is that they have no idea how arrogant they are.

kaeforum:
TSA not realistic, this will seriously affect the economy of the country, if the banks go down so will other sectors that rely on them.

PMB should review his policy in the light of present economic reality, most of these banks have loaned out the funds and are yet to collect them from their debtors , recalling these funds in a hurry will lead to economic meltdown o.

His inexperienced advisers should be careful.

true

damiloladuke:
i hate this..its stupid...public show of affections ...not my thing...its childish


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completely silly bit trust black people to copy anything they see on American channel without questioning, its a completely stewpid thing to do

Ruuhh:
typical! Friday makama at work, those are some of the hungry people wada's government has created and they just want to eat. kogites should ask where those freed terrorists from DSS holding cell were taken, wada + Friday makama =win at all cost. Friday the thug ibro created is about to wreck havoc on the good people of kogi,kogites better rise up like Nigeria and fight that sad excuse for a human being called wada. a killer,a plague in the making, what a terrible human sorry animal. God forever reward wada with the consequences of his actions in this life and the next. Ameen.

you are telling the truth but unfortunately apc choose the worst imaginable person, audu is a complete crap and i will vote for a monkey before audu

AINATOLULOPE:
Who's got more swag?
LIKE For my Sister. SHARE For me,,

stop putting your family members online

AINATOLULOPE:
Who's got more swag?
LIKE For my Sister. SHARE For me,,

stop putting your family members online

xtycool:
no, she is just a normal beautiful lady.

thank you for reminding the slowpoke that wrote this article, yes she is ok but what is the hype about,? she is just an average beauty with popularity that's all, and most of these youths won't believe it that many made people shun popularity

redcliff:
rubbish , this is no big deal in developed countries. I wonder why we are making it so..

you are a foooool, a red fooooool

i have been For buhari since 1800 but apc cannot win my state kogi, audu abubakar is a complete bundle of disappointment and what pdp just said is true

Missali:
At 11pm last night, I was awoken from sleep when I heard footsteps at the window. There is a curfew at 7pm and at that late hour, it is expected that people are in their various houses. This is not the fist time robbers have attempted to break into my house but this was intense.

I quietly got up from the sitting room floor I was laying on and moved to the bedroom to join my grandmother and baby cousin on the bed.
Gradually, the footsteps heightened and from the room window I could see men standing. My heart sank and I suddenly, I had a hard time breathing. My grandma tried to calm me down and it seemed to worsen.

I wasn't wearing any cloths and I usually sleep and thought of getting something to put on. These robbers sometimes rape girls and it doesn't help to be naked in the first place. That would cause some noise so I decided to forego the thought.

They started to spread out. A number of them moved the front and some went far out to the background. The ones at our window kept talking in whispers. I really couldn't fathom what they were saying as my heart was racing faster than I could ever imagine and suddenly I heard these words 'pass me my gun.'

I think I died! Immediately I turned into a prayer warrior, mumbling incoherently in whatever tongues I could speak. I asked God to forgive my sins, I thought of hiding under the bed or inside my grandmother's wardrobe. But what about her and my cousin of 4years?
I tapped grandma to tell her what I just heard and she assured me to keep calm, my cousin on the other hand was very much asleep. I instantly wished I could turn into a child and be unaware of what was going on in my surrounding.

Taking a pillow I covered my head and put a fingerin each ear. Their voices grew louder and just then, a dog started to bark. I have always hated that dog (and all dogs generally), but I think it helped us.It barked violently from a distance and seized a bit. Then resumed, this time even more and came towards our window, running and barking. I could hear the footsteps of the thieves fading as the dog got near and soon after, there was a heavy downpour; the kind that shook the place.

They went to other people's Windows and probably other compounds.The rate of robbery in some parts of Rivers State is becoming alarming. Needless to say, I am not sleeping at home tonight. Should my heart keep skipping this way, I may have hypertension before 20.

wike is in charge so buckle up for more insecurity

don't always think you have enemies because you made one small money, most times you will even discover when its too late that you have been your own worst enemy

Ucheosefoh:
Only bow and go, why did we elect all these educated illiterates as senators

they don't fear to go to babalawo, and the educated cannot. have you not observed that democracy is for babalawos?

philips70:
I will not blame you for this insult. As a Niger Deltan am just really ashamed and angry the way my people think and how they allow these politicians to divert their minds from their itchy and greedy fingers and lay blames on some other regions that are grappling with their own problems. Anyone on this forum that lives in Warri and still blame the Fulanis, Yorubas etc for his or her woes should have the head examined. If you drive around Warri now you will feel the urge to get any government person and just put a hole in his head. For Christ sake the revenues that have accrued to Delta state like any other ND states in the past 16yrs can make the region compete with other developed countries in the world. What we find are leaders like Dickson who loot most of these monies and use surreptitious ways like this to divert the minds of the masses to other issues that will only create imaginary enemies for them.
We are talking about a man who was found with a £1000,000.00 of your state money cash in a room in London and you are here telling me some rubbish of how some people outside himself hound him to death. Does he know what it means to see just £10,000 cash with anyone in the UK? If this money and others he carted away belongs to the fg I would understand the sentiments of not only him has stolen so he should be left alone. This is YOUR MONEY which is meant to provide basic infrastructure, good hospitals, ironically the absence of which has led to his death, good roads etc. Alamieyeseigha did not steal monies belonging to Katsina or Gombe, he stole your own money and there's no man who loves his people who will do that. These politicians down south don't love us and so should not use some crafty tools of manipulation to further increase our gullibility.
If we are wise we will gather all the likes of Dickson and publicly execute them so others after them will learn never to deceive us after raping us and attempt to divert our minds to some imaginary enemies.

u said it all

menxer:
Be more specific, that's too broad a generalization.
Or are you afraid to say:

exactly! on a normal day they have logic standing on the head

obiak4:
alams was horded to death by the uk and nigerian govt. Fact
you are not in bayelsa state and you would never understand the bitterness, people of the ijaw nation have for buhari now.
Yesterday was the first morn day for alamco and the general feeling is this: he was killed by the fg whether you take it or not
yesterday would have been a bloodbath for forces stationed in bayelsa if not for the intervention of some ''people''
but that does not make alamco a saint, he did stole but he massively developed his state during his tenure as gov.
What about joshua dariya of plateau what happen to his case with efcc? Under the carpet i guess

when you gather 10 south south people, only half a person has sense

OtunbaJega:
Must you sound foolish all the time?

so you sound wise in your eyes? professorpeter is foolish in your eyes abi? you muslims are really a different species, so do you need another person to tell you what your so called religion is? do you?

prettysolid:
Do not tell her you want to conduct a test for her. It will make her assume many things. Just tell her you would like the relationship to go to the next level and you want the both of you to go and run medical tests as a couple.(i.e together).

best advice

Ozid:
U are foolish idiot from a stupid family . Quote me wen u are matured.

hahahahahaha, muslim terrorist!

Ozid:
Anoda fool identified read before u post a comment it will be of great benefit to u

nwao, nwa da hi? Hahaha, your a fooool

drss:
Apart from amina mohammed who is more credible, all d rest dem na**** ogbpakako materials.
infact liar mohammed was asked to bow n go cos dem senate know say d guy empty for head completely. Na only lies remain for him brain. Dem no wan make e disgrace dem with more lies.

You are a bloody pathetic liar! Barr Ocholi is well known to me and you and your father will be lucky if you score half his mark in any exam, bloody wailer!

ProfessorPeter:
The bombers are from Kogi. Hoped not Ebira?

Who else? Who are the muslim majority in Kogi?

face your studies with all your might, or your business, after a while things will change, at your tender age most young people your age are very self aware, as you near 30 and beyond you will begin to see yourself in the company of bigger minds who know that good looks is just half of it. Be careful and dont do anything stupid

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

Not ego, is an inexperienced man who has seen little of this world before marrying, its his type that shout virgin! virgin! virgin! What he dosent know is that he aint seen shit yet, even his daughter can still be raped in this world, is it not someone that was raped and even slaughtered a few days back at ibadan? See tell your sister to also grow up, she should stop calling people to talk to him and all that thrash, and dont waste your time talking to any pastors because most pastors have lived very secured predictive lives but they will try to give you advise authoritatively. Tell her to give him a while (she should travel to stay with a relative for some months or at least leave that house for now, she should not return until he asks for her and before she does she should ask them to pack out of that house to another place). Now if the baga dosent ask her to come back after 3 months she should divorce him and move on with her life - this is where it is good if a woman had focused on her career and has one otherwise she cant even think of this option.

Habakus:
what kind of question is that? So you actually expect Falae to come out publicly and state if those arrested by the police were his kidnappers?

so what is your point abeg? who else will identify them? Sambo?

naijaking1:
This is a good effort to say that Falae was not kidnapped by Fulani herdsmen.
A good effort to say that he was kidnapped by "common criminals allowed by the government to carry AK-47s all over the place"
A good effort to shift the discussion away from the real issue and talk about common criminals and not the muderous Fulanis.
Are we fooled yet

i think I agree with you but falae should be called upon to identify them. these boys don't look like regular fulanis and definitely they are not the ones that still went there to graze cattle after the kidnap, we must get to the end of this

that SAN Ocholi is a first class professional with spotless integrity, I have a cousin working in his chamber more than 10 years