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Afam:No mind dem, jare. Has history not vindicated you? |
[quote author=I-man link=topic=57217.msg1166041#msg1166041 date=1180891374]I thought you said that the Yorubas don't do self criticism? [/quote]docokwy:Oh, so 'its a first', abi? [/i]Guess you must have been living on the moon! When Kolawole Animashaun and Dele Sobowale the eminent columnists of Vanguard, started running their critique on OBJ, every Sunday more than three years ago, where were you? When Eni-B (a.k.a Eniola Bello) the respected Managing Editor/Director of ThisDay Newspaper, wrote his trenchant article [i](Dem Swear for Dis President) last year, where were you? When Wole Soyinka opposed the candidacy of OBJ in 1993, when he was being considered for an international post with the United Nations, where were you? When the same Soyinka also opposed OBJ's anti-people activities during his regime, where were you? When several other writers from the South-West, in their letters to the Editors of various newspapers came out openly to condemn the antics of the president, where were you? Anyway, I don't blame you. You always see only the evil, that you want to see. *Hiss* |
sukieboy:Hehehe, I agree with you jare, to a large extent! From the little I have seen, their food is delicious, they are ever so willing to serve, they are quite courteous, highly respectful, decent and they hardly ever throw their weight around. Most of the Calabar people I have met, have been wonderful!! ![]() |
BillGatesFan:When did all those people in Delta, Bayelsa & Rivers state, tell you that?? ![]() And when will your pounds or currency, become legal tender within Nigeria?. ![]() |
Would those posting the proverbs, kindly include an English translation along with their proverbs? Thank you! |
adconline:Next time, don't assume. Ask. And please try not to jump to the wrong conclusions, like your friend Donzman often does. Just because I defended one ethnic group, (and if you check my posts, I have defended other groups, too!) or because I highlighted some facts concerning a particular area, does not mean I have my roots in that area. And if your reference to 'coming from 250 ethnic groups', was meant to be sarcastic, or was written in order to cause some embarrassment, then sorry, your tactics didn't succeed. adconline:When investments are destroyed in times of tribal conflicts, it is often done by people who do not care what their brother owns in another part of the country. Rational thought rarely comes into play when such things happen. Usually, those carrying out such wanton destruction are motivated by hate, ignorance and anger. 'Who owns what,' is hardly ever the question in their minds. However, I agree with you on one point. i.e. we can co-habit and co-exist freely. And it will only happen, if people work towards achieving this goal, not just sit around and grumble about it. adconline:If everyone had this mind-set that everything ran along tribal lines, then nobody would strive to achieve anything. We shouldn't fold their arms & give up, just because some things are run along tribal lines. What we should ask is[b] "what can be done to change the status quo?"[/b] We shouldn't just sit & grumble about it. My views on the Presidency are long, but there isn't enough time to articulate it. When it comes to university admissions though, I still believe that excellence is the name of the game. If your scores are high (not borderline o!), please note: merit comes into play. It is usually when people have poor scores that issues like catchment area, quota etc. now arise. There was a year in a particular university my cousin attended up north, that the highest JAMB scorer was offered admission by all the three universities he had picked as 1st, 2nd and 3rd choice. No one remembered where he came from, everyone just wanted him in their school, because he was a star performer. It was much later, everyone realised he was a Kalabari guy! But it didn't matter to anyone, because he had already gotten his admission. adconline:Feel free to believe El-rufai's figures. Stick with it, afterall the disparity isn't that wide. But there is a little correction I must make here. Nigeria had 19 states in 1976, by the time a new capital was being created. If the results of the 1973 census which was used as the basis for planning were to be believed, then 'according to the returns submitted, the north contained 64 percent of the total population, compared with 53.7 percent in 1963 census.' If you follow the pattern of state creation in Nigeria closely, from 1967 when a 12 state structure was in place, to 1976 when 7 more states were added to make the total number of states 19, you will see that this population size has been replicated for the North. In 1989, the 19 states were increased to 21, before finally becoming 30 states in 1991. By 1996, they had become 36 states. Most of the land in Abuja was shared out in this proportion, among all the states. |
Donzman: Donzman:Donzman, this obsession you have for Laudate is beginning to get sickening! I'm now positive that the person who named you 'Dunce-man' was absoo-oo-luutely right! Are you often so starved of attention, that you must behave like an slowpoke to get noticed? Please buzz off. When sane people are having an intelligent conversation, morons like you should not stick their nose where it doesn't belong. Now, go off and play with your tribalistic cartel. |
Donzman:Donzman, what have you achieved except to show the world that you are afflicted with an unhealthy putrid, tribalistic mentality and a flair for myopic insults? You ooze tribalism Donzman, that's why no one takes you seriously anymore. And that silly threat of yours' is ridiculous, pathetic and asinine. Who died and made you sheriff? *Hiss* You need to check into a clinic to cure this unhealthy obsession you have for Laudate. Stop hanging to my coat tails like a puppy. Donzman:Post the evidence & the links, and stop relying on hearsay. The days of rabid propaganda are over. You obviously didn't own one single piece of property in the South-west before the war, so stop trying to puff as if you had anything on the ground that was taken from you. Rubbish! |
debosky:I agree!! Totally!! ![]() MamaJama should be stuck in a gulag somewhere, prefferably Ita-Oko detention camp which OBJ midwifed as a military ruler, while Xtycod should be taken to the mad house, and given tranquilizers to make him forget his hatred of the Yoruba folks. The hate he has for them, has made him senile! ![]() |
[quote author=I-man link=topic=56077.msg1154845#msg1154845 date=1180473379]@xytcod For a split second,I wondered whether Afam was right about you.He did not express his point properly but the essence of his remark is true[/quote]Oh, you are still wondering if Afam was right? Have you now seen the light? ![]() |
xtycod:And you still want everyone to believe that you don't hate Yorubas as human beings? Kai!Gosh, all that bile must be choking you. If someone else were to drag up all the names of crooked businessmen and politicians from your own side of the Niger, and do a little comparison, in terms of criminal behaviour and bad performance, don't you think things would deteriorate very rapidly on this board?? ![]() You keep bringing the Igbo into disrepute, with this kind of behaviour. It is so sad, that you can't even think straight! ![]() |
fekuti:"Am" or "I'm," isn't the issue at stake here, unless you want to split hairs. Anyway, thanks for the grammar lesson. The woman is stingy, because she is trying to hoard the fuel she bought into the car, even though it is[i] his [/i] car. And the fact that your friend allowed her to get away with it, (especially since it is his own car), proves that he is emotionally immature. Period. No one is "excusing" the act. Kindly read my previous post again. And there is no need to resort to name-calling. Using words like 'daft', 'fool' etc. merely reveals the low-grade mentality of the speaker or writer, if you prefer. fekuti:Why are you so hung up on this[b] age [/b] thing? Exploitation and manipulation are character traits, that occur in people irrespective of their age or gender. You claim "older women are more likely to exploit younger guys than older men with younger girls." That is not strictly true. Only gullible and/or greedy people are exploited. Being gullible, is a mind-set. Exploitation also has to do with who holds power over the other. If a man is a good provider for the family who doesn't depend on the wife for residency or daily bread, he holds the power, irrespective of wether his wife is older or not! fekuti:Again you feel the need to delve into the realm of insults to make a point. How sad. Your choice of words like 'numskull, simpleton, idiot etc.' says a lot about the kind of person you are and the quality of thoughts you have stored up in your mind, if this is all that can come out of it. Shame! If there was nothing tangible about my vocabulary, you wouldn't have borrowed it. I'm not complaining, so stop sweating! ![]() fekuti:Why don't you direct your questions to the person who made the original post? Why should I respond to a double-standard on dating or love, when I wasn't the one who made it an issue? There are different strokes for different folks. What may matter to one person, may not matter to the next. Simple. That was why I pasted the story of my tall neighbour, and her shorter husband. fekuti:Why should I condemn them? Is it my business who Mr. A chooses to fall in love with, or who Mrs. B chooses to marry? Don't they have eyes & brains? Am I the one going to live with them? fekuti:Point of correction, I'm not 25. I don't know what gave you the idea. So kindly stick to the facts. Who I choose to marry, will be my business and mine alone. And as for manipulation, go and conduct some more research into this area. It has very little to do with age, and more to do with attitude, power play and frame of mind. Go figure! |
MAMAJAMA:Please kindly do so! And I will also post my evidence about all the Niger-Delta communities, that he asked his soldiers to raze to the ground! |
adconline: I hope that this post will elicit condemnation and attack from you guys the way you have bombarded xtycod and coThose who attacked xtycod, should have directed their comments at just him and not his tribe, or the Igbo. Kindly warn him to stop fanning ethnic flames on this board, too. But xtycod should stop his habit bringing the Igbo into disrepute, through his shallow evil attacks on other tribes. He started this crap! ![]() |
MAMAJAMA:MamaJama, your remarks are so puerile, shallow, ill-bred, uncouth, disgusting and yes, tribalistic, that I can't even believe that such stuff would come from a human being with a sane mind! Crime exists in all ethnic groups. Period!! Do a study on crime, criminals and their antecedents and you will find it cuts across all parts of Nigeria. Why single out the Igbo?? To achieve what?? ![]() Secondly, which dialogue did OBJ engage in, with the militants? Even though I do not support the militants, there is no record of dialogue between OBJ & the militants. He has often met force with force. |
sdavis768:Kai! Why are some women so dumb?? What did he forget in your body that he is now coming back to take? Were you not single 17 years ago, when he played fast & loose with some other chic and got her pregnant? Why didn't he marry you before he met her, if he loved you so much at that time? Why don't you ask God to deliver you from this temptation, instead of entertaining silly thoughts of how much you like him? I weak o! ![]() |
@ckc, How far? Has she returned the certificates yet? Give us an update, o! |
Nite Angel:The guy hasn't shown commitment. And you haven't said anything tangible or given her new directions. Neither have you shown her the way to take! |
iice: Moriki:Abeg, help me ask am. Exposed to just what exactly______? |
fekuti:Yeah, the word is 'stingy.' Am sure you know what it means. And you are right I don't know your friend. But a clear look at the story you shared, shows that the lady did not deny him the keys to the car, because she was older than him, (at least you didn't say those were her initial remarks!), she did so, because she was stingy. And I didn't need to conduct any research, or plot any results into any chart. A simple observation of human behaviour, would make you arrive at the same conclusion. Its' funny though, to see you quoting my words back at me, because it shows you do not have such a large vocabulary, so you feel the need to borrow some of mine. Feel free, if it makes you happy. Would you like me to loan you my dictionary, so you can get more words & meanings? ![]() fekuti:Yeah, you can only share what you see in your own little world. It doesn't mean it does not happen elsewhere. A woman dating a younger man may be non-conventional in your eyes, but it doesn't mean it is wrong, bad or that such a relationship cannot work. And for your information, conventions DO change. In every society. So don't continue living in the past. fekuti:If vulnerable is the way you choose to see it, then that's your own call. I see it as a lack of emotional maturity, and last time I checked, I had the right to my own views. If a man has a strong sense of self-worth, a legit income, he fends for himself & his family, has a strong sense of self-esteem,doesn't depend on his wife for daily bread, treats all around him with respect and sincerity, I find it hard to see how a woman he married with his own money, would stand up to disrespect him simply because she is 'older'. Older, my foot. Why can't she take her old age back to her father's house? Why did she marry him in the first place & how come he did not see the signs that she would disrespect him on account of the age difference, before he married her? I have met several couples with older & younger wives. Age has very little to do with how a woman treats a man. I have seen younger women treat their husbands like trash, and vice versa, while I have also seen older women treat their husbands with respect, maturity, love & understanding. fekuti:Ask those who gave answers as to why they wouldn't marry a shorter guy. I have seen tall women marrying shorter guys & vice versa. An example is a neighbour of mine. The wife is about 6ft 2, while the husband is a mere 5ft 9. To cap it all, the woman looks like a beauty queen. Their marriage is a study in commitment, sincerity & affection. I once asked her why she chose him, when she could have had her pick of any man she wanted. Her reply was instructive. "When am with him, he makes me feel like am the only woman in the world, that exists. Till today no other man has made me feel this way." They have been married for 11 years with three kids. I rest my case. |
debosky:No, ke? Then why didn't he prosecute IBB for his acts of corruption & misrule, while he was in power? ![]() debosky:Well, we all sincerely hope so. Its' still too early to tell, sha. ![]() |
Akolawole:So am I. But I will not agree that because of this, the Yorubas are more educated than other ethnic groups. A lot has changed now. Tuition was free in those days, and a few essential text books were also given to pupils free of charge, too. It didn't matter where you came from. As long as you were in a public school funded by the state govt. in a South-western state, you were entitled to it. In fact, that programme should have been continued in all states as well as at the federal level, and shouldn't have been limited to the South-west UPN states alone. During the sixties, when the regional governments held sway, and the old Mid-western region was still a part of the former Western region, even the area populated by the Delta-Igbo in the former Mid-West benefited from the free education programme of the late Chief Awolowo, in those days. |
Larufa:Most educated, enlightened and developed tribe?? What kind of ethnic superiority mantra are you propagating? Are you trying to say other tribes are less educated, less enlightened and l[i]ess [/i] developed? Be careful. No tribe is superior to the other!! Excellence is not a tribal trait, neither does it have a tribal gene. So what the heck are you talking about?? ![]() |
JosBoy4Lif:What Nigeria needs is proper law enforcement. Period. The fuel smuggled across the border is not a hidden invisible transaction, it is visible. And like Oshiomole asked once, what has been done to combat it? |
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Has history not vindicated you?
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You always see only the evil, that you want to see. *Hiss*


