₦airaland Forum

hohafrank:
I am 'fortunate' to marry a nagging wife.We never agree on any issue.Any issue relating to my extended family does not concern her.She always wants to involve me in her own extended family-cousins,grandfather and grandmother affairs.Initially I was involving in all her affairs naturally.When I realized that my family affairs does not interest her,I decided to put a stop to participating in her family affairs financially.We are 8 years in marriage.She nag alots and does anything to run me down financially.I open a beautique shop for her when I LOST my job with the hope that the proceeds will be used to take care of domestic expenses.She hyjacked the business.She never spent a dial for her children upkeep let alone making a contribution for the children school fees.She spent money on her people.She does not play any specific role in the running of the home.I evatually buy everything up to salt and DPK.Iam considering divorcing her.NL please advise.

if ur story is true, please divorce her now before it's too late at or towards ur old age. women like her are the reason most married men die before their time.

hohafrank:
I am 'fortunate' to marry a nagging wife.We never agree on any issue.Any issue relating to my extended family does not concern her.She always wants to involve me in her own extended family-cousins,grandfather and grandmother affairs.Initially I was involving in all her affairs naturally.When I realized that my family affairs does not interest her,I decided to put a stop to participating in her family affairs financially.We are 8 years in marriage.She nag alots and does anything to run me down financially.I open a beautique shop for her when I LOST my job with the hope that the proceeds will be used to take care of domestic expenses.She hyjacked the business.She never spent a dial for her children upkeep let alone making a contribution for the children school fees.She spent money on her people.She does not play any specific role in the running of the home.I evatually buy everything up to salt and DPK.Iam considering divorcing her.NL please advise.

if ur story is true, please divorce her now before it's too late at or towards ur old age.

DeeMain:
So that's it? You don't want the idiot to pay? You want to unleash the animal to prey on other victims?

This story is making me angry.

It will be your choice if you choose to prosecute him or not though. There are Anti Rape advocacy groups that could help you fight this if you choose to thread this path. You can call them right away to direct you on what to do.

Secondly, do not blame yourself. You didn't rape yourself. Somebody did. He is responsible for the atrocity. Resist the urge to take up his guilt and responsibility as yours. Refuse to take the blame and shame. You were only naive and trusting, you didn't kill anybody. You didn't commit any crime. I repeat, refuse to accept responsibility for this rape. Place it squarely on the horrible animal you once called a boyfriend.

You are scarred physically now. You will likely be scarred emotionally and psychologically in the coming days and months and years. Pre-empt that. Get a therapist to help you break that cycle or go to those NGOs, they can provide professional help for free.

Lastly, get closer to God. Get more spiritual, you will need the support, strength and comfort therein in the coming days.

Don't leave this to chance. Take care of yourself. Then bounce back.

Life experiences are lessons. Learn your lessons. Let this make you stronger not weaker. Be the victor not the victim.

someone else's rape victim spotted

oga there won't be any explosion. but security seriously needs to start beating people without face mask really really seriously. this is a simple government order and they just don't want to keep it. I don't know why people always like behaving like goats in this country.

Randy100:
I choose to beleive the story because the question is why would the crew want to kill her?

for blood money ofcourse.
I have been saying it that those people are money ritualists but thank god my god has vindicated me.

Abeg sombori summarize the story for me.
For my village dem dey pay me money to read. na only for NL dem go wan force me to read long things like this.

Mrfeel:
There is nothing to listen to I know what am saying

wow nice office.
please assist me. I read law in Univ and I need corporate job in Abuja. please.

Lwkmd
a prophet is not known in his home place. Besides, Seyi Makinde was just observing social distance so nothing spoil

Mrfeel:
You are not different from someone living outside Kano I might have more connection than you living in kano

guy just pause and listen to yourself

oga there's nothing to add. go and sleep joor

what will government do in this country and people will not complain. abeg leave the government alone they re trying their best.
all of you condemning the government for this good decision of gradually easing out the lockdown should stop it! it's not by force. The government did not say everybody should come out. you all can remain at your houses enjoying your own compulsory holiday. stop criticising the government and stop trying to force others to join you in your compulsory holiday. if you feel that this good decision by the government will cut short ur holiday, it's easy, resign your job. nobody is forcing you to work.

bastards.

LordReed:
Just more nonsense fearmongering.



The contents of the bill will be scrutinized before it is passed and any objections can be raised.

I don't know why you people are even making all this noise, is this not supposed to be part of your god's plan? You want to stop your god's plan from taking place? Rubbish.

Hell ll be full of people who know the truth and yet kept deceiving themselves with the believe that they re wise and educated. these days people re afraid of accepting the truth and reality they already know. please Bible's prophesies coming into existence is no coincidence at alllllll. save your soul before it's too late. remember hell is not a place to repent or second chance.

as for me, my village people did very nice job in making me to be use to the extremest of unfortunate life. like it's normal things for me now. I have suffered hunger, poverty, lack, oppression, abuses, attacks of all kinds and more in my life. I have attempted severally to take my own life but God saved me in all. people have hated me passionately like I'm sth that ought not to exist. life makes no meaning to me at all. I have questioned God severally why I'm still alive, and why my existence at all in the first place, life is always most unfair to my family. my own siblings hate my and don't consider me as one of theirs. I'm still suffering these and worse more even till this adulthood. some people have sworn that they won't rest till I'm dead like they did to my parents. there's nothing anyone has suffered in life that I be not seen at least double.
so let the antichrist people do their worst and die anyway, me and my loved ones' answers can always be no to them in everything and me and my loved ones' answer will always be no to them in everything. we cannot receive the mark of the beast and we will not receive the mark of the beast. we can all make it to heaven and we will all make it to heaven.
Amen and Amen.

bia op (out of point). repent to God let him forgive you. it's not by force to get attention. remember the 7th law of Moses? 'do not use the Lord ur God in vain'. every God's laws you breach has consequence.
please find sth else to look for attention and leave God out of this for the good of ur own soul

magicminister:
The club asked, “how they can help Nigerians”.
A lot of people selfishly went in there to request for funds to be paid directly to their account rather than requesting for something that would benefit as many people as possible.

- food bank
- recruiting talents increasingly from Nigeria
- supply of medical equipment
- building an isolation centre
- youth empowerment program (e.g scholarships based on athletic abilities)


So many things thy could have said but the first thing they thought about was themselves and their bank accounts!

bro no vex they re right. if to say dem ask for any of those things you just listed, our criminal politicians and big men go embezzled them. who this country help sef?
your aboki president and his occultic APC gave parliative only to the fulanis and their core Muslims in the north. as far as they re concerned everyother person can go and burn to blazes. on top of this, dem drive everybody enter house by force, and they don't care how people can survive.
so eehen na people should look for means to survive even it means embarrassing the country internationally. no be everybody get personal business.

Organicist95:
Hungry never worry you

So without groundnut you cannot soak garri??

you mind am? him dey look for groundnut wen him mates dey use palm kernel.

Onyenna:
I gat like 2k to spare.....

abeg help me also ooooo before hunger use me shine finish. abeg help me too and you LL never hunger in ur life say amen.

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Zenith Bank

wawu!
it's normal. it's used for shifting some vaginas to the left. so congratulations

what it means to me?
it means the guy is a mmmeeeeeeeeeeeeeh ewu.

hmmmm bcs of that dirty nasty gutter and whatever useless juju demon they tied there. rubbbish

habibzyL:
I said "stranded" !
the Chinese you are talking about, are the stranded?

no


my dad works with the Nigerian immigration at Alausa Lagos. I know for much quite the numbers of stranded Chinese people in Lagos whose papers have long expired and those with fake papers hiding and doing illegal business and getting busted everyday by immigration. they don't want to return to China. yes they re stranded in Nigeria yet we have never treated them these ways.

kikero:
So from the story

1. The people were picked off the street due to having nowhere to stay

2.The Consul General was annoyed that they were treated as already infected...when they possibly weren't.

3.Somewhere between their version and our version is the truth.



What were they doing in China with no place to stay?

Don't you also have ur country men who are also homeless in their own country?
believe me every country does.
God bless ACG Razzaq Lawan Dayo. those saying Africa is blessed with bad leaders won't see that. after all, no African leader no matter how notorious has ever created any virus to kill people and non of them is interested in creating weapon of mass destruction.

habibzyL:
from the little I was able to read, had it been their parent country is functioning, do u think they will willingly be stranded in a foreign country rather than coming back home?

Africans are truly blessed with bad leaders.

what of the chinneese that are everywhere. Hope they re blessed with bad leaders too

Oga you get typhoid fever